The ex brass that are married & living in UK far more obvious than they are here.

I'm no expert but, an indicator might be ...

If the Lady speaks reasonable English ... but has little or no written English.

Plus has a reasonable grasp of slang or swearing words.

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I agree with u on this one

A friend of mine got in with a girl she could speak Russian English and a few otter languages . She was working in pattaya bit as far as he was concerned she was not a bar girl but after I meet her I sad she was for shue , she had a nice car motor bike etc

And later he did find out she was a bar girl

Yeah. In my country the massage parlour girls all work reception, So they say. OK. Not every Bar girl is "damaged goods" & an unsuitable mate, but if they have been in it long enough and the assets around the family home seem out of sync with the family vocational history then be suspicious. Also if you start catching her out on lies, that is a totally bad sign for various reasons. They live in a fantasy world & make up much of what they say as they go along, "telling him what he wants to hear." The old saying "you can take the girl out of the bar but you may never get the bar out of the girl" unfortunately applies. I know at least two close friends who have struck it lucky with real good catches, ex-bar. But I suspect they are more the exception that the rule, especially as the individual girl's period of time in the game increases. Good playmates don't necessarily make good life mates. Remember that & try to tell the difference

Do you think generally, it's relatively easy to 'spot' (identify) an ex-Bar girl when she's dressed, though not working.

The dead give away is the foreigner with them.

followed by English language bar talk (good heart talk etc), then ugly tattoos, exposed shoulders in public.

There's a million different giveaways.

The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry.

The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry.

How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles .

What does it matter if they worked the bars or not, it's what they are and do now that counts. If I found out now that my wife was a bargirl, it would not make any difference to me. What she did before she met me is none of my business, and vice versa.

In Thailand the description bar girl is a another form of the the term, prostitute. In 99.99% of cases, western guys are not referring to woman that just work in bars serving drinks, but meaning those who work in bars and go with men for money, women of ill repute and the term bar girl is just a means of making the reality, women of ill repute sound better. That`s my answer to the OP`s question.

What does it matter if they worked the bars or not, it's what they are and do now that counts. If I found out now that my wife was a bargirl, it would not make any difference to me. What she did before she met me is none of my business, and vice versa.

In Thailand the description bar girl is a another form of the the term, prostitute. In 99.99% of cases, western guys are not referring to woman that just work in bars serving drinks, but meaning those who work in bars and go with men for money, women of ill repute and the term bar girl is just a means of making the reality, women of ill repute sound better. That`s my answer to the OP`s question.

Correct, the word "prostitute" is too harsh for the slobbering PC crowd.

Correct, the word "prostitute" is too harsh for the slobbering PC crowd.

I think you have that the wrong way round. It seems to be those who're involved in that world who cloak it in euphemism - 'naughty nightlife', 'entertainment area', 'bar girls'.

You rarely hear anyone describe what they do using more blunt terms like prostitute.

Good playmates don't necessarily make good life mates.

Remember that & try to tell the difference

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Correct, the word "prostitute" is too harsh for the slobbering PC crowd.

I think you have that the wrong way round. It seems to be those who're involved in that world who cloak it in euphemism - 'naughty nightlife', 'entertainment area', 'bar girls'.

You rarely hear anyone describe what they do using more blunt terms like prostitute.

SoiBiker ... I'm trying to keep an open mind about you.

But start agreeing with Munger's^* comments will make my mind up quickly.

I'm comfortable with the term 'Bar Girls'.

Agreed, a cousin of what we refer, in the West as prostitution ... but not the same.

... and I'm not a PC man.

Diplomacy and tact, sure ... PC ... never.

^* Munger, a miss-spelling of the term Monger. A sex or whore Monger is often referred to as a sex tourist.

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How is it not the same as prostitution?

Incidentally, you might want to re-read those posts. I'm not agreeing with them.

Incidentally, you might want to re-read those posts. I'm not agreeing with them.

Fair enough ... I'm always happy to apologise if I <deleted> up.

I did misread your post ... warmest apologies.

How is it not the same as prostitution?

I would be happy to discuss the relative merits, but, on this Forum, we aren't allowed to (not going to write a huge post, only to have it deleted later by the Mods doing their job).

So, it's a mute point really.

Maybe over a beer one day.

It's all down to the person itself, everyone is different. I bet there are some not so nice girls who never worked in a bar & some lovely ones who did

How is it not the same as prostitution?

Only when it`s in Thailand, apparently.

What does it matter if they worked the bars or not, it's what they are and do now that counts. If I found out now that my wife was a bargirl, it would not make any difference to me. What she did before she met me is none of my business, and vice versa.

In Thailand the description bar girl is a another form of the the term, prostitute. In 99.99% of cases, western guys are not referring to woman that just work in bars serving drinks, but meaning those who work in bars and go with men for money, women of ill repute and the term bar girl is just a means of making the reality, women of ill repute sound better. That`s my answer to the OP`s question.

Correct, the word "prostitute" is too harsh for the slobbering PC crowd.

If you the word prostitute in thai , ii-dtuua and you called a bar girl who is a prostitute II-dtuua she would put a knife in your back you see thais who work the bars think it is all ok till you tell them they are prostitute , but some I know have to work selling they self because no work in thailand 3rd world country .

The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry.

How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles .

George, get a grip man. As english is obviously not your native lingo i will explain, the farang oriented lady bar scene is a very small part of the Thai pay for play industry, the number of women involved in the karaoke, escort, student sponsorship, barbershop, hairdressor, office worker freelance mia noi and brothel scene far exceeds the farang oriented beer bars. Because farangs often like the exotic look of a small brown lao babe, they can find employment and possibly marriage through the bar scene.... education and social graces not required as their customers are often of similar style. Often these farm girls are bright yet earthy and bring a nasty sweetness that is irresistable ... proceed with caution.

What does it matter if they worked the bars or not, it's what they are and do now that counts. If I found out now that my wife was a bargirl, it would not make any difference to me. What she did before she met me is none of my business, and vice versa.

In Thailand the description bar girl is a another form of the the term, prostitute. In 99.99% of cases, western guys are not referring to woman that just work in bars serving drinks, but meaning those who work in bars and go with men for money, women of ill repute and the term bar girl is just a means of making the reality, women of ill repute sound better. That`s my answer to the OP`s question.

Correct, the word "prostitute" is too harsh for the slobbering PC crowd.

If you the word prostitute in thai , ii-dtuua and you called a bar girl who is a prostitute II-dtuua she would put a knife in your back you see thais who work the bars think it is all ok till you tell them they are prostitute , but some I know have to work selling they self because no work in thailand 3rd world country .

Sorry , I mean if you know the word prostitute in thai , ii-dtuua .

The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry.

How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles .

George, get a grip man. As english is obviously not your native lingo i will explain, the farang oriented lady bar scene is a very small part of the Thai pay for play industry, the number of women involved in the karaoke, escort, student sponsorship, barbershop, hairdressor, office worker freelance mia noi and brothel scene far exceeds the farang oriented beer bars. Because farangs often like the exotic look of a small brown lao babe, they can find employment and possibly marriage through the bar scene.... education and social graces not required as their customers are often of similar style. Often these farm girls are bright yet earthy and bring a nasty sweetness that is irresistable ... proceed with caution.

What you think I don't know all of that I do , and your are the one that needs to have a look at your self you are the one that lives here full time not sure if you but if you do you could be one that sell all back home comes here been ripe off and can't go back home no MONEY.

The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry.

How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles .

George, get a grip man. As english is obviously not your native lingo i will explain, the farang oriented lady bar scene is a very small part of the Thai pay for play industry, the number of women involved in the karaoke, escort, student sponsorship, barbershop, hairdressor, office worker freelance mia noi and brothel scene far exceeds the farang oriented beer bars. Because farangs often like the exotic look of a small brown lao babe, they can find employment and possibly marriage through the bar scene.... education and social graces not required as their customers are often of similar style. Often these farm girls are bright yet earthy and bring a nasty sweetness that is irresistable ... proceed with caution.

What you think I don't know all of that I do , and your are the one that needs to have a look at your self you are the one that lives here full time not sure if you but if you do you could be one that sell all back home comes here been ripe off and can't go back home no MONEY.

Oh, Little Georgie, you are at it again. Winding up anyone that will read your troll posts.

Members, our Little Georgie gets his jollies from illiterate & nonsense posts.

Reply at your peril.

Cheers..... Mal.

I'm no expert but, an indicator might be ...

If the Lady speaks reasonable English ... but has little or no written English.

Plus has a reasonable grasp of slang or swearing words.

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And overly friendly and not shy away from the affection.

Adding: like to dress provocative and have beauty enhancement such as boobs job, nose jobs, and lips injection.

Right and cultured answer from a local.

I'm not certain I understand the question, but I think the term 'bar-girl' is used to hide, somewhat, what is going on. I have never understood the fascination some have with bragging about paying for sex. It's a pretty boring subject to me.

The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry.

How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles .

George, get a grip man. As english is obviously not your native lingo i will explain, the farang oriented lady bar scene is a very small part of the Thai pay for play industry, the number of women involved in the karaoke, escort, student sponsorship, barbershop, hairdressor, office worker freelance mia noi and brothel scene far exceeds the farang oriented beer bars. Because farangs often like the exotic look of a small brown lao babe, they can find employment and possibly marriage through the bar scene.... education and social graces not required as their customers are often of similar style. Often these farm girls are bright yet earthy and bring a nasty sweetness that is irresistable ... proceed with caution.

What you think I don't know all of that I do , and your are the one that needs to have a look at your self you are the one that lives here full time not sure if you but if you do you could be one that sell all back home comes here been ripe off and can't go back home no MONEY.

Oh, Little Georgie, you are at it again. Winding up anyone that will read your troll posts.

Members, our Little Georgie gets his jollies from illiterate & nonsense posts.

Reply at your peril.

Cheers..... Mal.

You would have to be a little Pom with no money lives here because you have know one back home who care about your smart ass ways

What's a Thai mole?

The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry.

How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles .

George, get a grip man. As english is obviously not your native lingo i will explain, the farang oriented lady bar scene is a very small part of the Thai pay for play industry, the number of women involved in the karaoke, escort, student sponsorship, barbershop, hairdressor, office worker freelance mia noi and brothel scene far exceeds the farang oriented beer bars. Because farangs often like the exotic look of a small brown lao babe, they can find employment and possibly marriage through the bar scene.... education and social graces not required as their customers are often of similar style. Often these farm girls are bright yet earthy and bring a nasty sweetness that is irresistable ... proceed with caution.

What you think I don't know all of that I do , and your are the one that needs to have a look at your self you are the one that lives here full time not sure if you but if you do you could be one that sell all back home comes here been ripe off and can't go back home no MONEY.

Oh, Little Georgie, you are at it again. Winding up anyone that will read your troll posts.

Members, our Little Georgie gets his jollies from illiterate & nonsense posts.

Reply at your peril.

Cheers..... Mal.

You would have to be a little Pom with no money lives here because you have know one back home who care about your smart ass ways

And one more thing you like to read my post and a lot more do here and you not like it I can get on here and talk the truth little man

Georgie did you get out the wrong side of bed today?

I'm not certain I understand the question, but I think the term 'bar-girl' is used to hide, somewhat, what is going on. I have never understood the fascination some have with bragging about paying for sex. It's a pretty boring subject to me.

You should try it.

Not much chance of doing it in the UK, and the girls selling it in the UK ..... yuck.

What's a Thai mole?

I have no idea either....

Georgie did you get out the wrong side of bed today?

Not at all I can go back home and have a home to live in not one but 4 so I am going great but love coming and seeing how stupid some western man are here when it comes to thai moles