chiang mai Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 I wouldn't say it was exclusive to Chiang Mai (even though 'expats' there do seem to think they are the best in Thailand), however you do fit a model which can be found in expat communities the world over. Bloke from modest humble background Suddenly propelled to levels of society/respect/financial power he has never experienced before Shacks up with a lass 20/30 years his junior. The three above factors combine to bring delusions of self importance way above their station to make said bloke think he is the 'Lord Mayor of expatdom' in his local area who must dictate standards of dress/behaviour/lifestyle to others via an online forum. Some pillock who thought he was 'Lord Expat' of Hua Hin once told me 'I was 'letting the side down' for being a scruffy bugger until I pointed out a few home truths to him which made him scuttle off tail betwixt legs.... 'expats' there do seem to think they are the best in Thailand" - maybe not the absolute best but we are exceedingly good and very special. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NOC Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Joe,sometimes its best to say nowt. regards Worgeordie I didn't say anything to the hairy-armpitted one, but I may just possibly have given a disapproving sideways glance. I'm beginning to suspect that my parents may be at fault. I'm not sure if I ever saw my father's armpits even if he was fixing the car or digging the garden. Actually, he was the one supervising any manual labour around the house so that is probably why. I remember my mother and I , (a skinny 12 year old) creating a garden from scratch in our newly built council home. We had to remove some massive boulders and wheel heavy barrrow-loads of soil about the place. My Dad would be standing with a cigarette in one hand and a cup of tea in the other saying "If you need a hand there girl, let me know". Not much need to remove your shirt under those circumstances, I suppose. It's always the parents fault. That's why the psychological term, 'family of origin', was coined. Now you're supposed to beat your mother to death and blame it on your father, so you can reduce your prison sentence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangmai Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 A lot of people don't really plan on going to a hospital. However, this kind of dress is common with the Euro-Trash. The tank tops almost never look appropriate. There is a very small element of expats that would fit the description of "dirty people" or "gypsies" in the US, many are often heroin addicts and that is all they care about. Good western clothes are expensive here, however you can get some wearable stuff, that is a couple of steps above circus pants pretty cheap. I saw camouflage shorts for 79 THB near ICON, yesterday. Seems appropriate with a military government. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
northernjohn Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 A lot of people don't really plan on going to a hospital. However, this kind of dress is common with the Euro-Trash. The tank tops almost never look appropriate. There is a very small element of expats that would fit the description of "dirty people" or "gypsies" in the US, many are often heroin addicts and that is all they care about. Good western clothes are expensive here, however you can get some wearable stuff, that is a couple of steps above circus pants pretty cheap. I saw camouflage shorts for 79 THB near ICON, yesterday. Seems appropriate with a military government. Well Joe as you said you were not propelled to it. You just took a while to get to it. as you can see from the above post you are not alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank James Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Wearing the tacky clothes is one thing, but walking down the street with an open bottle of beer in your hand is the ultimate in classlessness. And is probably illegal here, although seemingly un-enforced. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uptheos Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 A lot of people don't really plan on going to a hospital. However, this kind of dress is common with the Euro-Trash. The tank tops almost never look appropriate. There is a very small element of expats that would fit the description of "dirty people" or "gypsies" in the US, many are often heroin addicts and that is all they care about. Good western clothes are expensive here, however you can get some wearable stuff, that is a couple of steps above circus pants pretty cheap. I saw camouflage shorts for 79 THB near ICON, yesterday. Seems appropriate with a military government. The camouflage couldn't have been much good if you saw them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chiengmaijoe Posted September 23, 2015 Author Share Posted September 23, 2015 A lot of people don't really plan on going to a hospital. However, this kind of dress is common with the Euro-Trash. The tank tops almost never look appropriate. There is a very small element of expats that would fit the description of "dirty people" or "gypsies" in the US, many are often heroin addicts and that is all they care about. Good western clothes are expensive here, however you can get some wearable stuff, that is a couple of steps above circus pants pretty cheap. I saw camouflage shorts for 79 THB near ICON, yesterday. Seems appropriate with a military government. Well Joe as you said you were not propelled to it. You just took a while to get to it. as you can see from the above post you are not alone. I'm not exactly proposing collar and tie, but I do think covering your smelly armpits in public is a minimum. Bare-knuckle fighting with itinerants, operating pneumatic drills and other road-digging equipment, as well as erecting circus tents and fair-ground attractions, are sometimes seen as an exception, but other than that, hairy armpits shouldn't be seen or, ideally, smelt in public. That includes women too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chiengmaijoe Posted September 23, 2015 Author Share Posted September 23, 2015 Wearing the tacky clothes is one thing, but walking down the street with an open bottle of beer in your hand is the ultimate in classlessness. And is probably illegal here, although seemingly un-enforced. Now that you mentioned it, I'm slightly surprised that the prohibitionists in the current regime haven't picked up on that one. If innocent schoolkids aren't supposed to even walk past a place selling alcohol, what must they think when they see it being consumed in public, 2pm-5pm or otherwise? I only drink alcohol at home or in a bar/restaurant and, for no particular reason, never feel like drinking while I'm walking the streets. So although I never do it myself I'm not particularly bothered that others do, it's just that I can't relate to it. It is banned in plenty of countries though, so I am, as I said, surprised that it hasn't been picked up on here. Along Ratchawithee after midnight I would say that most of the young people heading towards Spicey from Zoey are carrying a large open bottle of Chang or holding a small bucket (presumably to save being sick in the street, which is actually quite considerate). Some of them are wearing vests too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
northernjohn Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 A lot of people don't really plan on going to a hospital. However, this kind of dress is common with the Euro-Trash. The tank tops almost never look appropriate. There is a very small element of expats that would fit the description of "dirty people" or "gypsies" in the US, many are often heroin addicts and that is all they care about. Good western clothes are expensive here, however you can get some wearable stuff, that is a couple of steps above circus pants pretty cheap. I saw camouflage shorts for 79 THB near ICON, yesterday. Seems appropriate with a military government. Well Joe as you said you were not propelled to it. You just took a while to get to it. as you can see from the above post you are not alone. I'm not exactly proposing collar and tie, but I do think covering your smelly armpits in public is a minimum. Bare-knuckle fighting with itinerants, operating pneumatic drills and other road-digging equipment, as well as erecting circus tents and fair-ground attractions, are sometimes seen as an exception, but other than that, hairy armpits shouldn't be seen or, ideally, smelt in public. That includes women too. I agree with you on the hairy arm pits. I believe women shave them for the most part before wearing clothes that would expose them. But Thailand does attract people who have worked construction all their life and never had a problem with it. I am one of those however I wear short sleeved shirts lovingly stitched by my loving wife. Bottom line is I don't like it but I can not make a judgment on some one based on one point I don't like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foxy52 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 I don't know about delusions of self-importance; many of the CM expats I've met would seem to have delusions of adequacy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chiengmaijoe Posted September 23, 2015 Author Share Posted September 23, 2015 It's official, tank tops/singlets (what I call a vest) are okay. Could it be that I've been here too long? http://www.complex.com/style/2013/06/the-10-types-of-men-who-wear-tank-tops/ Case closed!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2020 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Most of the expats in Thailand are former corporate CEO's. They are accustomed to being chauffeured in a limo while wearing a top hat and tails. My own research indicates about half of the expats here are former CEO's and the other half are ex special forces or commando's (bit like myself really)! Chewed up, spat out and forced into hiding by their respective governments, they fled to Thailand so hence the chip on their shoulders. After chatting with punters at various expat bars around town/ Loy Kroh, I think the SAS is the worlds largest regiment!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vogie Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 No I don't think you're are snob joe, just trying to fly with birds and not crawl with the cockroaches. ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fang37 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 I very much wish to be a snob! But, I have very little $$$, no honey - no nuffin'. Even the soi dogs reject my advances. Very depressing! What shall I do, dear Dorothy (Dix)? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arunsakda Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Despite what one wears here is no reason a person cannot control themselves if they have a mind to do so, unless shell-suits and singlets can somehow animate a latent tendency for boorishness. A strict crackdown on "mankinis" however in Newquay has been linked to reductions in anti-social behaviours. https://www.rt.com/uk/262741-mankini-crime-newquay-report/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worgeordie Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Despite what one wears here is no reason a person cannot control themselves if they have a mind to do so, unless shell-suits and singlets can somehow animate a latent tendency for boorishness. A strict crackdown on "mankinis" however in Newquay has been linked to reductions in anti-social behaviours. https://www.rt.com/uk/262741-mankini-crime-newquay-report/ It must be quite cold there by the looks of things regards Worgeordie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangmai Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Wearing the tacky clothes is one thing, but walking down the street with an open bottle of beer in your hand is the ultimate in classlessness. And is probably illegal here, although seemingly un-enforced. I suppose driving with one is more classy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mapguy Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 (edited) Mankinis!! Gosh, what have I been missing !! What is generally missing too often in this and other TV conversations over the years about "appropriate dress" is a sense of place and the company you keep. If you want to strip to a jock strap in the VIP room of a karaoke joint, go for it. The girls will no doubt be thrilled. If you want to wear a singlet and scruffy shorts around the house, be comfortable. If you like hanging out with drunken teenagers late at night, join in (with your own bucket to puke in!) Don't wear a three-piece suit when going for a soapy massage! But if you are generally out and about on business in Thailand, guys, take a look around to see how grown-up men dress --- agricultural and construction workers, and males over school-uniform age excepted. Nobody wants to cramp your style, but when in Rome... Oh! And a shave and a shower DO mean something around here in polite company. Why is it that so many farang travel so far to get here to fly the bird at local custom ?! Edited September 23, 2015 by Mapguy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chingmai331 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 IMO, most Asian women have very little body hair, compared to western gals. Finding a need for women to shave armpits and legs seems so paternalistic and old fashioned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 The OP makes a valid point....The last several years has brought about a steady decline in expat dress - not sure the cause.... It's possible many think the 50+ grubby aging backpacker look is suddenly chic....Or a different class of people have decided to add CM as their place to be.....CM used to be "cleaner" looking in regards to expats..... Now it's more common to see what I would expect in Pattaya or Angeles PI → slovenly/dirty looking sorts.....I just shake my head and wonder if they can see themselves in the mirror - but obviously they can..... Also in that same period the behavior of people in immigration became less friendly and more surly/aggressive.... CM used to be a place where most people came to settle.....Now the crowd looks more unsettled..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puukao Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 when a place is labeled, "one of the cheapest destinations in thailand" it will attract the lowest of the low. all backpackers who could care less about culture. the transients that are trying to hide from the rest of the world. outcasts labeled leapers in their home country.... i have a tattoo of my elite visa on my forehead..... i will show those peasants!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Sitting at the barbers I found this quote in a magazine from a interview of a famous author.....Fits right along with this topic...... Many expats look/act and dress as slobs...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dru2 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 'CM used to be a place where most people came to settle.....Now the crowd looks more unsettled.....' Could it be that they are all digital nomads? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MESmith Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 I dress the same to visit a mall as I do the local market. They're both the same, places to buy things. I guess those visiting malls to pull a bird might dress differently Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaseTheBass Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 One gets used to Aussies making the place look untidy after a while Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balo Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 If it was in a privat hospital in Bangkok they would expect you to dress properly , so why not in Chiang Mai ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
finy Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 It's usually the middle-class who care about status because they're jealous of rich people. Rich people and poor people don't care what others think of them. I can tell you why I wear what I want and don't shave unless I have to: years in the air force having to iron dress shirts and trousers every day + getting sent to the hairdressers because someone thinks my hair is too long + getting charged if you don't shave perfectly lol And there are lots of ex sas in Thailand, so maybe they feel the same way as me. It can't be that your old because I don't care what the younger crowd wear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberfarang Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Considering some of the expats I have seen walking about in Thailand, I would say that being of working class from a council estate is the elite in comparison. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 It's usually the middle-class who care about status because they're jealous of rich people. Rich people and poor people don't care what others think of them. I can tell you why I wear what I want and don't shave unless I have to: years in the air force having to iron dress shirts and trousers every day + getting sent to the hairdressers because someone thinks my hair is too long + getting charged if you don't shave perfectly lol And there are lots of ex sas in Thailand, so maybe they feel the same way as me. It can't be that your old because I don't care what the younger crowd wear. I call BS and ignorance on this statment.....Many of us had to wear suits to the workplace.....It's not a matter of what you had to wear before - even as a follower in a military service.....Sounds more like you were treated like a child if true.....But saying the very rich or the poor slobs don't care???? Ignorant.....I've known both and people from all extremes and find your rationalization incorrect..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fey Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 (edited) It's easier to not care when your young. Many foreigners 'let themselves go' over here as we all know. Or they were 'never there' in the first place. It's pretty natural to detest someone with hairy pits, bo or unruly pubes. When your young it's just easier to laugh it off. Try getting back into the mindset of being younger and see it through the eyes of a teenager and you'll get a kick of how much better you feel. I actually shave my pits and pubes, legs and whole body below the neck regularly with my electric shaver. I also shave my crack using a mirror and nose and ear hair, balls the whole enchilada. 'm completely smooth afterwards. I did have some problems nicking my balls even with the face shaver so you really need to be careful down there. Never use a blade razor. I feel cleaner, younger and more attractive this way. When i see dudes or ladies with hairy legs, backs and arm hair i always say to myself why don't they shave that crap off already? Why do they want to look like a lower animal rather then a human? I guess some people just like the 'ape' look. I'm a 'chimp' Edited September 24, 2015 by fey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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