Are you a Hand Holding Farang ?

[thehelmsman]

Do you find it necessary to hold hands with your Thai G/F, wife everywhere you go? I see you in the stores, busy sidewalks. Are you insecure or just so deeply, deeply in love?

[CharlieH]

I dont but she certainly does.

 

What makes you so sure its the man that has instigated it ?

[oldhippy]

I do not find it necessary but I like it.

I do not do it in busy places.

I do not feel insecure.

I am not deeply in love.

Any other questions that I could answer?

 

[amvet]

My wife holds my hand so her sister won't.  Cute sister, bit on the aggressive side.  At my age there is only so much to go around. 

[brewsterbudgen]

It's not necessary but it's nice to do.

[oldhippy]

 

[thehelmsman]

From what I see it's a form of possession  on both parties. Sort of like the guy wants it to be understood the lady is with him.

[tryasimight]

What is wrong with a husband holding his wifes hand? And vice versa?

 

Or are alluding to an older man with a younger woman?

 

Don't go to Myanmar or other places...girls with arms wrapped around girls and young men holding hands is quite normal. Your head would explode.

 

[oldhippy]

2 minutes ago, thehelmsman said:

From what I see it's a form of possession  on both parties. Sort of like the guy wants it to be understood the lady is with him.

Funny that you first say "both parties", and next "guy wants etc".

 

[theguyfromanotherforum]

I dont but she certainly does.
 
What makes you so sure its the man that has instigated it ?

Exactly.

This is why I don't like holding hands.... because of the jerks like op.


Yea I'm insecure, she's not.

[thehelmsman]

1 minute ago, oldhippy said:

Funny that you first say "both parties", and next "guy wants etc".

 

You're right and the same goes for the lady, she wants to mark her territory.

 

1 minute ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

 

Exactly.

This is why I don't like holding hands.... because of the jerks like op.


Yea I'm insecure, she's not.

 

ahahahaa, 

[oldhippy]

1 minute ago, tryasimight said:

What is wrong with a husband holding his wifes hand? And vice versa?

 

Or are alluding to an older man with a younger woman?

 

Don't go to Myanmar or other places...girls with arms wrapped around girls and young men holding hands is quite normal. Your head would explode.

 

In Fiji, Tonga, Samoa it is (OK was) common to see men holding hands - funniest thing I ever saw were policemen... and believe it or not, wearing skirts.

 

 

 

[oldhippy]

OP, have you ever tried it?

It's fun.

True!

 

[tryasimight]

2 minutes ago, oldhippy said:

In Fiji, Tonga, Samoa it is (OK was) common to see men holding hands - funniest thing I ever saw were policemen... and believe it or not, wearing skirts.

 

 

 

The Longi (skirt to us) is normal wear in Myanmar.......and many other places. Want to crap?..squat...easy , job done! walk away

[thehelmsman]

1 minute ago, oldhippy said:

In Fiji, Tonga, Samoa it is (OK was) common to see men holding hands - funniest thing I ever saw were policemen... and believe it or not, wearing skirts.

 

 

 

Photo was taken in Fiji.

[tryasimight]

The Longi is looser...we all it a sarong...but it isn't.

With the ladies I looks as hot as anything...with men it is a big knot in front of their stomach where they tie it up.

[oldhippy]

Just now, tryasimight said:

The Longi is looser...we all it a sarong...but it isn't.

lava lava, pareu ,...

 

[tryasimight]

1 minute ago, oldhippy said:

lava lava, pareu ,...

 

Can't argue with that

[swissie]

13 minutes ago, tryasimight said:

The Longi (skirt to us) is normal wear in Myanmar.......and many other places. Want to crap?..squat...easy , job done! walk away

Any Scotts willing to elaborate on that?

Cheers.

[tonray]

Men in skirts holding hands....boy has this thread gone off the rails

[oldhippy]

Just now, swissie said:

Any Scotts willing to elaborate on that?

Cheers.

Or muslims?

 

[oldhippy]

1 minute ago, tonray said:

Men in skirts holding hands....boy has this thread gone off the rails

I was not aware that there were any rails to begin with.

Cheeses, I am so bored tonight.....

And it seems I am not the only one.

[swissie]

During the Honeymoon-phase some Farang like to hang on to the hand of the lady. Later on, they may find it more practical to hang on to their wallets.
Cheers.

[tryasimight]

1 minute ago, swissie said:

During the Honeymoon-phase some Farang like to hang on to the hand of the lady. Later on, they may find it more practical to hang on to their wallets.
Cheers.

Understandable.....hang on to anything...most have already lost their balls in previous relationships

[oldhippy]

 

[thehelmsman]

4 minutes ago, tryasimight said:

Understandable.....hang on to anything...most have already lost their balls in previous relationships

Yikes, a tad bit mean.

[473geo]

My wife often surprises me by slipping her hand into mine as we walk. No problem. When my kids do the same I wonder who they think is helping who across the road!

[oldhippy]

9 minutes ago, tryasimight said:

Understandable.....hang on to anything...most have already lost their balls in previous relationships

I think psychologists would call your comment "projection".

[tryasimight]

5 minutes ago, oldhippy said:

I think psychologists would call your comment "projection".

Possibly.....but  who cares....

[LannaGuy]

Holding hands is immature 'OCD' stuff and definitely 'outside' of Thai culture

 

"when in Rome"