As lots of others have said don't talk to her anymore. Save the conversation. The chances she would do anything are very small. She's just trying to scare you into giving her money. She will soon find other victims and forget about you.
I don't know if he hates farang. But wasn't he in charge of immigration when they changed retirement visas from having money in the bank for 3 months to having money in the bank all year?
My wife buys palm sugar from a place in Samut Songkram.
Anyway the guy has told us that a lot of the palm sugar for sale is not pure, that they cut it with cane sugar.
If you can upload a saved photo. Take a photo on your phone and use messenger to send it to yourself. Then you can open facebook on your computer and copy or save the photo on your computer.
As mentioned I get better photos taking them outside. Indoors always seem to get shadows from blocking the lighting.