Do you let your wife/gf go out regularly with her friends

[Wake Up]

1 hour ago, PerkinsCuthbert said:

What's wrong with a couple of years age difference?

 

 

I give him an A for living life the way he chooses and ending his life in style. Really he doesn’t care that grown men post his photo and attempt to make fun of him because he is Sabaay Sabaay probably more than those that criticize him or poke fun at him. ?

[Lacessit]

17 minutes ago, Wake Up said:

I give him an A for living life the way he chooses and ending his life in style. Really he doesn’t care that grown men post his photo and attempt to make fun of him because he is Sabaay Sabaay probably more than those that criticize him or poke fun at him. ?

I'm not far off that, except his dress sense is really atrocious.

[Ks45672]

7 hours ago, InMyShadow said:

9 hours ago, OmarZaid said:

They age badly eh?  My wife's 59

You both look like elderly citizens. Your wife looks in the fifties. There is nothing wrong with that because,.. Well.. She is

You both lol like you were excavated in a Pyramid tbh

[SinCityGr8One]

My wife goes out occasionally with her friends at night. She always asks me if I would like to join her and her friends. I tell her no most of the time, because its girls night out and I don't want to be a fifth wheel. However on the several ocassion's I did go, it was a quite enjoyable night. If you do not have trust in a relationship, then you do not have a real relationship. IMHO.

[Rc2702]

39 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

I don’t think there is anything wrong with a wife catching up with her friends, but a lot depends on where they go. If they go to a restaurant or cafe that’s fine. But if they are out clubbing then there is only one reason for that, and that is to attract the opposite sex. If that is what you think your wife may be doing then simply explain to her that going clubbing would bring shame on them both, a loss of face. I’m presuming of course that you are not out at bars regularly with friends chatting up girls? If your wife does indeed want to hang out at clubs then say it’s okay, but that she should only really do so as a single lady ... then divorce her and move on with your life. 

 

It’s not a matter of trust, it’s a matter of respect for your partner. And if that is not there then don’t waste any time in moving on.

People normally go to nightclubs to dance.

[Rc2702]

40 minutes ago, Wake Up said:

I give him an A for living life the way he chooses and ending his life in style. Really he doesn’t care that grown men post his photo and attempt to make fun of him because he is Sabaay Sabaay probably more than those that criticize him or poke fun at him. ?

Her eyes are firmly locked to his bumbag.

[Internatltraveler]

Almost all of us men here have come from divorced wives, broken homes and the like, and we come here expecting a submissive, and subservient gf or wife is just what the doctor ordered and then we turn around and treat them like s _ _ t as our servants and slaves. No wonder most of us are not wanted in our own countries and not really loved for much more than our money pits in other cultures...no wonder. The story is right here in front of us....

 

Could you please stop your very strange assumptions? I was never divorced, I'm not from a broken home and I'm not unwanted in my country of origin.

 

   Time to get a life. 

 

Jennyh2017

 

Interesting that you ignore your own question and only focus on comments that had nothing to do with you personally. Your comments indicate your are totally blind to the idea that your question reflects an abusive nature in you. You have no right to control your wife regardless of what your background is. She is not your property, nor you hers and until you get that at a conscious level you will continue with your abusive thinking that you own her and her time.. This is the problem that was the center of my entire comment and you chose to overlook it and make a stupid comment about my life....I won't attack you because of the irrelevance of your response. Nice try of deflection though, I will give you that.

 

Get a grip on reality that you have no legal, moral, or ethical right to own your wife's life or her time. This is the very nature of being psychologically abusive toward your partner. By the way I have a great life with my dream partner who I respect her independence and autonomy, both of us being very successful world renown medical and neuroscience researchers. She warned me about engaging in these kind of dog fights but the repugnance of your comments is at the center core of the women's movements that are tired of being treated like second class citizens by men like those that speak out here about owning their women's time and bodies....it is you that needs to get a decent, respectable and respectful life. Your partner is not a dog you own and your attitudes simply reflect your own nature  here.

[cms22]

Yes, my wife goes out once a month with friends and has a great time. My wife is sexy but not a flirt like other of her friends. She also gets approached quite often by guys but TBH I quite like that. She's always telling me what happened, 

[cyberfarang]

3 hours ago, Wake Up said:

I give him an A for living life the way he chooses and ending his life in style. Really he doesn’t care that grown men post his photo and attempt to make fun of him because he is Sabaay Sabaay probably more than those that criticize him or poke fun at him. ?

This is a two way perception.

 

Women are going to consider the old man as a disgusting dirty old pervert and the men are going to consider the girl as a slut or even going to the extremes of describing the girl as a type of prostitute, providing a GFE for money. My point is, that people assume things, that the obvious is always the fact. The same applies if wives or husbands begin going astray, doing their own things outside the marital relationship, even by their own partners. It`s just human nature and I can understand the OP`s suspicions and concerns. 

 

In many cases people`s hunches are correct and I have learned to follow my own instincts.  Regardless of having trust, if something doesn`t feel right, then the odds are there is more going on than meets the eye.

Edited April 29, 2018 by cyberfarang

[JRinPDX]

On 4/27/2018 at 11:17 PM, giddyup said:

Trust can be abused. My neighbour said that he let's his Thai lady have a long leash, I replied that the problem with long leashes is that you are never sure if somebody is still on the end of it.

 

[ozmeldo]

She rarely does, but is welcome to. I know many of her friends and have been out to restaurants with many and on holidays with a few.

 

My wife is 42 but on a trip to US two years back two liquor stores wanted to see her ID. Whatever that's worth.

 

My wife is too lazy to cheat on me. Besides she knows if she did and was caught, I wouldn't give her a satang and be on a plane out of here in a week. I've had a vasectomy years ago so if she were to get pregnant there would be no question it's not mine and I'd be gone. Same with an STD or herpes.

 

No more free housing, trips abroad, more secure old age, remote possibility of moving to US.

 

But it's not any of that, it's love and respect. We do everything together because we are our own best friends. Nine years in September.

Edited April 29, 2018 by ozmeldo

[cornishcarlos]

33 minutes ago, ozmeldo said:

My wife is 42 but on a trip to US two years back two liquor stores wanted to see her ID. Whatever that's worth.

 

Doesn't mean much I'm sorry to tell you. I was asked for ID in a bar (Colorado) when I was 32 yrs old...

It's normal over there to ask for ID from just about everyone..

[LukKrueng]

On 4/28/2018 at 1:10 PM, giddyup said:

The leg chain only reaches as far as the letterbox.

mine is chained to the kitchen's sink but the chain is long enough to give all the freedom she needs around the WHOLE kitchen

[LukKrueng]

2 hours ago, cornishcarlos said:

 

Doesn't mean much I'm sorry to tell you. I was asked for ID in a bar (Colorado) when I was 32 yrs old...

It's normal over there to ask for ID from just about everyone..

I was 36 and asked for an id at the door of a very small casino in Michigan....

[robblok]

12 hours ago, GTgrizzly said:

If you don't have trust in your relationship you might as well get out of it

Two things create mistrust

1: Your partner does something to earn that mistrust

2 : The mistrust is created by your own insecurities 

Option 1 if its not perceived but real..... solve the problem or end the relationship, option 2 is a lot harder to fix.

[jenny2017]

10 hours ago, Internatltraveler said:

Almost all of us men here have come from divorced wives, broken homes and the like, and we come here expecting a submissive, and subservient gf or wife is just what the doctor ordered and then we turn around and treat them like s _ _ t as our servants and slaves. No wonder most of us are not wanted in our own countries and not really loved for much more than our money pits in other cultures...no wonder. The story is right here in front of us....

 

Could you please stop your very strange assumptions? I was never divorced, I'm not from a broken home and I'm not unwanted in my country of origin.

 

   Time to get a life. 

 

Jennyh2017

 

Interesting that you ignore your own question and only focus on comments that had nothing to do with you personally. Your comments indicate your are totally blind to the idea that your question reflects an abusive nature in you. You have no right to control your wife regardless of what your background is. She is not your property, nor you hers and until you get that at a conscious level you will continue with your abusive thinking that you own her and her time.. This is the problem that was the center of my entire comment and you chose to overlook it and make a stupid comment about my life....I won't attack you because of the irrelevance of your response. Nice try of deflection though, I will give you that.

 

Get a grip on reality that you have no legal, moral, or ethical right to own your wife's life or her time. This is the very nature of being psychologically abusive toward your partner. By the way I have a great life with my dream partner who I respect her independence and autonomy, both of us being very successful world renown medical and neuroscience researchers. She warned me about engaging in these kind of dog fights but the repugnance of your comments is at the center core of the women's movements that are tired of being treated like second class citizens by men like those that speak out here about owning their women's time and bodies....it is you that needs to get a decent, respectable and respectful life. Your partner is not a dog you own and your attitudes simply reflect your own nature  here.

 Once more:

 

Could you please stop your very strange assumptions? I was never divorced, I'm not from a broken home and I'm not unwanted in my country of origin

 

    And please stop your "almost all of us." 

Edited April 30, 2018 by jenny2017

[tweedledee2]

11 hours ago, Lacessit said:

I'm not far off that, except his dress sense is really atrocious.

I agree. There's no way I would wear one of those bags around my waist. 

[notmyself]

Far out! 'do you let' wow. 

[Hummin]

14 hours ago, PerkinsCuthbert said:

What's wrong with a couple of years age difference?

 

 

It is his nurse stupid. 

[BobBKK]

13 hours ago, mihalis said:

Thai women age badly.. So English age gracefully !! 

Not always but as there is not much sun in Blighty they don't suffer as Thais do from that constant UV issue.  I do think it's fair comment and Thai older ladies always seem to look grumpy for some reason.

 

BTW isn't this the main point why farangs choose 20+ years younger models?  if it were not so why not choose someone near your own age?  (yes there are exceptions, but rarely sighted, and those that I have met have met overseas and returned here).

Edited April 30, 2018 by BobBKK

[Farang99]

What do you mean, "let"? She is not a slave but a partner.

[Hummin]

The question is not if I will let her go out alone with friends, but will my gf let me out alone? I think so, but it will be 400 messages and phonecalls to check up where I am and what I do. And say battely empty will not work for me. 

[BobBKK]

21 hours ago, OmarZaid said:

They age badly eh?  My wife's 59

 

She looks early 50s?  you late 60s?  good luck to you both of you but my point stands and is the main reason farangs choose 20 years +++ difference. It's an exception if the ages are close when the guy is 50 up.  All of my male friends, if married, are 20 and 30 years apart and I'm not saying there is anything wrong in that but let's not fool ourselves why that is. Young fruit is more tasty.  

[tweedledee2]

My wife and I have been married for 4 years. I trust her completely and she has never given me any reason not too. She doesn't drink alcohol and doesn't socialize much other than with her parents or siblings but sometimes after a good rain she and Gran, our 74-year-old neighbor go out at night and hunt frogs in the rice fields.  

 

[puanddavid]

They age badly eh?  My wife's 59

Nice couple, pretty wife!! Thanks for the positive pic/comment mate!!


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[cornishcarlos]

2 hours ago, tweedledee2 said:

My wife and I have been married for 4 years. I trust her completely and she has never given me any reason not too. She doesn't drink alcohol and doesn't socialize much other than with her parents or siblings but sometimes after a good rain she and Gran, our 74-year-old neighbor go out at night and hunt frogs in the rice fields.  

 

 

Does Tweedledum kiss any of the frogs, hoping (not hopping).... !! 

[Tongjaw]

16 hours ago, InMyShadow said:

How is saying the lady looks looks slim and normal a pot shot?

 

snap out of it drama queen !!!!!

Oh maybe I missed the part where you said slim. I just saw elderly citizens. Drama Queen ? your so funny. Now relax, chill out and don’t fall off your bar stool sweet cheeks ? 

[Aussieroaming]

I dont own my wife, she can come and go as she pleases

[tweedledee2]

2 hours ago, cornishcarlos said:

 

Does Tweedledum kiss any of the frogs, hoping (not hopping).... !! 

 Why would I kiss a frog and what would I hope for cornishcarloass.   

[cornishcarlos]

59 minutes ago, tweedledee2 said:

 Why would I kiss a frog and what would I hope for cornishcarloass.   

 

You're not Tweedledum...