Poll: Half of all foreigners are contemplating or have had a sexual experience with a lady boy

[happy chappie]

On 18/05/2018 at 12:08 PM, AYJAYDEE said:

so where did his survey sample come from? bangkok and pattaya? lol

 

Maybe they should stick another box on the visa on arrival forms.

[happy chappie]

I tried it and could tell she had been eating a load of sweet corn the night before.put me right off because I hate sweet corn.

[jenny2017]

1 hour ago, Jingthing said:

An open minded straight man (usually). 

As a gay man a ladyboy would never do it for me sexually because they present as ladies.

However I have seen some butch presenting LESBIANS that get my juices going. In that case, my attraction would be a gay thing disregarding their equipment. Not saying I'm seeking out butch lesbians but I can see the attraction when they present as very good looking males. 

I see that as a similar thing to why so many straight identified men are attracted to ladyboys. They like ladies. When they look like ladies, that attraction is a straight thing. 

Jing, how many ladyboys have you had in your life? And how many lesbian couples butch presenting? I just want to understand it. 

[atyclb]

11 minutes ago, Jingthing said:

40 minutes ago, IsaanFam said:

 
Yes, but there is a difference between looking at ladyboys and find them beautiful and sucking the dick of a man who identifies as a lady. And this is being gay.

You're making a lot of assumptions about what most of these straight men do in their sessions with ladyboys. Use your noodle. If your primary interest was going oral pleasure to a man you'd be much more likely to seek out people that are the whole package visually as a man. Ladyboys ain't that.

 

 

priceless

[jenny2017]

7 minutes ago, IsaanFam said:

 

You are making up the assumption that looking at and having sex with a ladyboy is making you super hetero. 

Jing is Super gay, but nothing wrong with it. Where did you get the hetero from? 

[PerkinsCuthbert]

I've been contemplating it for thirty years, still haven't decided.

[jenny2017]

 Ten years ago, I had sex with a very good looking ladyboy and I'm neither feeling bad about it, nor do I think that I'd wasted my money.

 

She's a stunner, sexy as hell, and she knew exactly what I liked and what not and gave me fullest satisfaction.

 

   I first thought it was a girl, and I wanted to get my money back when I found out that she wasn't, but when she gave me one of the best BJ I ever had, I knew that I hadn't made a mistake.

 

Others have sex with cows and donkeys, that's something I really don't understand, but off topic. 

 

   Reading the posts of so many tough guys who are so straight that they're watching ladyboy and gay porn on daily basis, then I've gotta laugh about some hardcore wannabe heteros. What's the problem with being honest? 

 

  I think that I'm old enough to make my own decisions and I didn't do anything to anybody who didn't want it too. If more people would understand that, the world might be a better place. 

 

  I've even told my wife about it and she's angry with me for a while. But she also knows that I'm not a liar. Life's way too short not to try things that might be good.

 

 

  

 

   

 

  

   

 

 

 

  

 

  

 

  

    

[Jingthing]

 
You are making up the assumption that looking at and having sex with a ladyboy is making you super hetero. 

I never said that and you know it. I am saying going after ladyboys is definitely not a gay thing.

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[Jingthing]

Jing, how many ladyboys have you had in your life? And how many lesbian couples butch presenting? I just want to understand it. 

Zero on both.

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[IsaanFam]

1 minute ago, Jingthing said:

I never said that and you know it. I am saying going after ladyboys is definitely not a gay thing.

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Good, now we found an agreement. I am saying having sex with a ladyboy makes you absolutely and definitely 100% gay.

[IsaanFam]

7 minutes ago, jenny2017 said:

   What's the problem with being honest? 

    

 

Don't worry, guy with a girl nickname, if a ladyboy looks so beautiful like a top model, every straight man likes it. The thing what puts us non-gay off is, well, the ladyboy is still a man with a dick. It is very simple.

[AlexRich]

17 hours ago, manarak said:

 

well, that's not for you to decide.

psychologists have been studying sexual preferences for decades, and they came to the conclusion that men attracted to ladyboys fall into the straight category.

 

"straight" I guess means they are attracted to persons that have the appearance and behavior of the opposite gender.

 

"bisexual" means attracted to both genders.

only bisexual men would be attracted to ladyboys and gay men.

 

as far as I know, sexually, appearance and behavior is what determines gender, not what is hidden under the clothes.

If a person is having sex with a guy in drag, he’s not straight. He’s somewhere along a spectrum of sexuality, but biology matters.

[overherebc]

3 hours ago, Justfine said:

"And yes, people lie on a topics like this because they still fear judgement."

 

People are more likely to lie in favour for a joke.

 

Half the jokes people make about Thailand are about lbs.

 

The survey results are nonsense.

I always lie in surveys because it's fun to see the reactions.

Why would you tell someone you don't know the truth?

The next time I give a BRA about what someone thinks or says about me will be the first.

Edited May 19, 2018 by overherebc

[Aforek]

Which poll? not me, at least; never been interested by men, because lady boys are men, of course ( and their breast is always made of silicone, like football balls and I hate that ); how do I know that ? just look at the pictures 

Edited May 19, 2018 by Aforek

[sisaketsam]

2 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

Truly naive.

Study up.

A true participant in those 100% gay areas are mostly less interested in LB then the hetero on Soi 6.

 

Have you done a poll to determine this or is from personal experience that you speak so knowledgeably?

 

[Airalee]

3 hours ago, Jingthing said:

An open minded straight man (usually). 

As a gay man a ladyboy would never do it for me sexually because they present as ladies.

However I have seen some butch presenting LESBIANS that get my juices going. In that case, my attraction would be a gay thing disregarding their equipment. Not saying I'm seeking out butch lesbians but I can see the attraction when they present as very good looking males. 

I see that as a similar thing to why so many straight identified men are attracted to ladyboys. They like ladies. When they look like ladies, that attraction is a straight thing. 

So you’re saying that if a straight man isn’t interested in having sex with a ladyboy that he is “closed minded” but gay men who are only interested in sex with other men (who present as men) are a-ok.

 

nice double standard

[grollies]

1 hour ago, jenny2017 said:

 Ten years ago, I had sex with a very good looking ladyboy and I'm neither feeling bad about it, nor do I think that I'd wasted my money.

 

She's a stunner, sexy as hell, and she knew exactly what I liked and what not and gave me fullest satisfaction.

 

   I first thought it was a girl, and I wanted to get my money back when I found out that she wasn't, but when she gave me one of the best BJ I ever had, I knew that I hadn't made a mistake.

 

Others have sex with cows and donkeys, that's something I really don't understand, but off topic. 

 

   Reading the posts of so many tough guys who are so straight that they're watching ladyboy and gay porn on daily basis, then I've gotta laugh about some hardcore wannabe heteros. What's the problem with being honest? 

 

  I think that I'm old enough to make my own decisions and I didn't do anything to anybody who didn't want it too. If more people would understand that, the world might be a better place. 

 

  I've even told my wife about it and she's angry with me for a while. But she also knows that I'm not a liar. Life's way too short not to try things that might be good.

 

 

  

 

   

 

  

   

 

 

 

  

 

  

 

  

    

Now I'm really confused.

[JAZZDOG]

15 minutes ago, Airalee said:

So you’re saying that if a straight man isn’t interested in having sex with a ladyboy that he is “closed minded” but gay men who are only interested in sex with other men (who present as men) are a-ok.

 

nice double standard

" MIND CLOSED TODAY "

[Jingthing]

 
Good, now we found an agreement. I am saying having sex with a ladyboy makes you absolutely and definitely 100% gay.

It is not. They present as ladies. That's a straight thing.

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[Jingthing]

 
Don't worry, guy with a girl nickname, if a ladyboy looks so beautiful like a top model, every straight man likes it. The thing what puts us non-gay off is, well, the ladyboy is still a man with a dick. It is very simple.

Puts off some of you straights. Many it does not. You won't find many gay identity men chasing ladyboys. It's mostly straights. Ask some ladyboys!

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[JAZZDOG]

New poll:  Everybody in favor of sucking-off a Lady Boy raise your hand

[Jingthing]

" MIND CLOSED TODAY "

Zipper closed anyway.


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[mommysboy]

4 minutes ago, Jingthing said:

It is not. They present as ladies. That's a straight thing.

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I agree.

 

It's an identity thing more than a gender preference/sexual orientation issue imo.

[Hummin]

9 hours ago, Jingthing said:

It is not. They present as ladies. That's a straight thing.

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You have to agree, the most important is what they think, and their fantasy who drive them to seek ladyboys? I would guess it is most so called straight men who do it secretly, but also can have gay fantasies, but find it easier. Who really knows what get people off? I would say it is narrow minded just call it case closed it is a straight ting. 

[Gecko123]

Additional survey flaws worth noting:

 

1. What does "contemplating" mean? Does it include idle musing about what it would be like to have sex with a lady boy, or someone who has tried to work through in their mind what the sexual appeal of ladyboys is? Probably everyone has had such thoughts. But that's a far cry from the definition "actively considering or planning to have sex with a lady boy," which is kind of what the blog post headline suggests.

 

2. Among those who answered that they had sex with a ladyboy, was there any effort to differentiate between someone who unwittingly had sex with a ladyboy , realized it midway or after the fact, and has no intention of repeating the experience? That's not the same thing as someone who consciously decides to have sex with a ladyboy on a one-off or ongoing basis. Those who suggest that it's impossible to be duped into thinking a ladyboy is female don't know what they are talking about. This is especially true for unsuspecting newcomers unfamiliar with the ladyboy subculture in many bars.

 

I think the OP has done a big disservice to the expat community's reputation by extrapolating the results of a poorly constructed poll to the entire community. I, for one, am offended. I suspect this was done in pursuance of a personal agenda to try and normalize a subculture which - on one level or another -  the OP enjoys exploring. To each his own, but please don't use clumsily constructed polls to try and validate one's own sexual inclinations. That's being a propagandist, not a journalist.

Edited May 20, 2018 by Gecko123

[Justfine]

Re point 1 above people think about robbing banks too.

 

 

[Justfine]

11 hours ago, Jingthing said:

It is not. They present as ladies. That's a straight thing.

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A human with a penis is a man not a woman. And most lbs are ugly and look like dudes not women. Only a tiny % actually look like real women.

[bert bloggs]

I read here in Thailand that at least 50%of lb,s revert back later on and that the percentage of them that have mental problems is quite high , i cannot remember where the article was but it was written by a Thai

as for wanting sex with one ,i myself cannot understand why,as there is a vast abundance of lovely women ,and if i wanted to play with a penis ,i have one of my own ,

 

[Gecko123]

28 minutes ago, Justfine said:

Re point 1 above people think about robbing banks too.

It's like asking a bunch of guys ' Have you ever thought about killing your wife?" Maybe half will chuckle and laughingly say, 'Hardly a day goes by without me thinking that.' There might be one guy in the corner who answers 'Why are you asking? Did you hear something?' , but if the police investigated everyone, chances are they would find no one's wife was in imminent danger.

Edited May 20, 2018 by Gecko123

[Aj Mick]

Dunno where the foreigners contemplating or inducing in a sexual experience with a ladyboy are hanging out. While I have seen the odd foreigner targeting gender benders of one persuasion or another, at least 90% of the foreigners I know personally are more interested in avoiding any experience with ladyboys, sexual or otherwise. 

 

Like me, most folks I know have no problem with gender benders encountered in day to day life, when out and about socially we tend to travel in different circles. 

Edited May 20, 2018 by Aj Mick