British Man Found Shirtless and Agitated on Pattaya Roadside

[britishjohn]

I agree, many women told me that guys usually ask them back to their condo on the first date. Depends on the woman but most are not impressed.  Not the best approach if you're looking for a relationship. And as for sending dick pics...does that actually work for them ??

[neeray]

2 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

It seems from my conversation with the women from these sites your info. is correct. I have been told most guys ask to see naked photos with the excuse they want the women to prove she is not a LB. Also, dick pics are pretty common.

Besides the obvious, isn't this some sort of crime here?  Just saying if she decided to file a complaint.

Thank you. I didn't mention it because I am not into mind games but reverse psychology could come into this too. Back when I was actively using dating sites, I had several who I had never asked for "interesting" pics send some to me. And some who gently turned the conversation to sex.

 

On a related but separate note, ThaiCupid has a much more serious level of Thai women with longer term interest in mind. ThaiFriendly is better for the casual hookup or P4P.

I met my "keeper" on ThaiCupid.

[britishjohn]

7 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

My experience with Tinder in Pattaya was about 80% were LB, so I stopped using it.

Absolutely in Pattaya it's different, 99% on Tinder are hookers or LB so if you're not after that don't waste your time

[neeray]

7 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

I agree, many women told me that guys usually ask them back to their condo on the first date. Depends on the woman but most are not impressed.  Not the best approach if you're looking for a relationship. And as for sending dick pics...does that actually work for them ??

Women tell me that before they block the <deleted>, they tell him "I don't really want to see your little thing".

(seen one, seen them all)

[moontang]

19 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

My experience with Tinder in Pattaya was about 80% were LB, so I stopped using it.

yep, in CM it was like the Nana Plaza of the internet...packed with LB.

[jenny2017]

I think I'll never understand why some folks like online dating. There are so many singles out there, some of them with their own income, sick and tired of being alone.

 

  An ex-colleague, a very good looking teacher in her late 20's was asking me if I couldn't help her to find a nice guy for her. A Canadian friend at this time was going through a divorce, so I was trying to help a bit.

 

  When he wanted me to come to the first meeting, I decided to stop helping others. You can bring a horse to a pond but you can't make the damn horse drink. 

[britishjohn]

1 minute ago, jenny2017 said:

I think I'll never understand why some folks like online dating. There are so many singles out there, some of them with their own income, sick and tired of being alone.

 

  An ex-colleague, a very good looking teacher in her late 20's was asking me if I couldn't help her to find a nice guy for her. A Canadian friend at this time was going through a divorce, so I was trying to help a bit.

 

  When he wanted me to come to the first meeting, I decided to stop helping others. You can bring a horse to a pond but you can't make the damn horse drink. 

Your advice on where to meet them would be most welcome...

[dddave]

17 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

Tinder is potentially better than TF, but the modus operandi is different. It's easy to get carried out and accumulate too many matches. They will then all want to talk with you at exactly the same time, usually just after work finishes. Trying to banter with 5 different women simultaneously is too much for me. As I'm discovering you must reply quickly and once conversing you keep the momentum going. Many a time I'll respond in the evening to an introduction sent to me in the morning, never to hear from them again... they can be fickle if nothing else

 

 

 

I've had a long friendship with a very attractive, mid-30s, semi-professional..(OK, drop the "semi") former Beergarden regular who swapped her favorite stool at the slowly expiring  Soi-7 establishment for a (gifted) I-Phone and Tinder profile. She spends a good portion of her days at Terminal-21 as that is apparently the premiere meeting place for Tinder devotees in the farang ghetto district.  

The skills of killing long periods of time learned at BG-7 have not deserted her.  She and her colleagues hang at the Food Court and play with their phones between assignations.

One of their favorite pastime amusements is for two of them to get the same guy chatting on Tinder at the same time, then torment him with accusatory questions like "Are you chatting with another girl same time me?"

They both will also promise to meet the same guy at the same time in different locations, promising free sex cause he is so hot.

It's a minefield out there.

 

 

[moontang]

4 minutes ago, jenny2017 said:

I think I'll never understand why some folks like online dating. There are so many singles out there, some of them with their own income, sick and tired of being alone.

 

  An ex-colleague, a very good looking teacher in her late 20's was asking me if I couldn't help her to find a nice guy for her. A Canadian friend at this time was going through a divorce, so I was trying to help a bit.

 

  When he wanted me to come to the first meeting, I decided to stop helping others. You can bring a horse to a pond but you can't make the damn horse drink. 

A Thai teacher?  I'll take the Thai nurses and their constant use of clinical terms over the teachers...most of whom couldn't run a bottled water concession.  Absolutely clueless civil servants wearing extra large blinders.

[britishjohn]

One girl I met 2 years ago on Tinder while visiting Bangkok for the first time, became a sort of special friend and would call on me every time I came here. I gave her no money to talk of.  She now teaches in a university and claims to want a relationship which I would have been quite prepared to consider. However the moment I moved to live in Bkk, She decided our relationship should only be platonic, and muttered something about Thai girls not liking farang who live in Thailand as they know too much. Make of that what you will…

[TallGuyJohninBKK]

I would say from my past experience, and it was some years ago, that the share of "normal" Thai women was considerably greater on ThaiCupid than it ever was on ThaiFriendly.

 

I always took TF mainly as a place for hookers, part-time hookers, freelance hookers, bar and karaoke girls acting like hookers, Thai women willing to engage in sex for money but not considering themselves hookers, Thai women looking for paid sponsorships, and the raft of ladyboys posing as women.  

[moontang]

47 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

One girl I met 2 years ago on Tinder while visiting Bangkok for the first time, became a sort of special friend and would call on me every time I came here. I gave her no money to talk of.  She now teaches in a university and claims to want a relationship which I would have been quite prepared to consider. However the moment I moved to live in Bkk, She decided our relationship should only be platonic, and muttered something about Thai girls not liking farang who live in Thailand as they know too much. Make of that what you will…

as stated, they want a bf who is rarely here.  It seems to be better to look like a dumb tourist in BKK, and probably Patts, too, although most don't need qualifying as dumb in Patts.  Great free sex, with them thinking you are going back to your igloo soon and will gladly do the wire?  Not far fetched, at all.  Especially, when the non Bargirls  are looking for much bigger fish to fry..2000 is absolute chump change compared to 20,000 per month for several years, and possibly a new house in Isaan.

 

Dear Chinarat, 

Last night (and this morning) was the best ever.  I think I may be in love with you.  I do want to tell you though, that I stretched the truth, nid-noi..I am not going back to my own condo in New York City, where I work for Morgan Stanley, making 200,000 per year.  I am actually going back to my 4000 baht per month apartment in Bang Kapi, where I work at a language center for 30,000 per month.  I will take you to Samui, but not this weekend...maybe when mum finally croak s there will be some money left after the cremation.  Hard to say.  I do have a bottle of Hong Thong and a few VCD  if you want to meet me later.  I hope you are not angry with me.

 

Love,

Cowboy Farang

Edited July 28, 2018 by moontang

[theguyfromanotherforum]

To guys looking for an online relationship on the internet, you are looking at the wrong site.

 

This post is really to help you out and not be condescending at all.

 

I was chatting with my wife while back in Canada before we ever met. It was totally random on a penpal site. These sites are mostly aimed for people who want to correspond in a friendly manner. Most Thai women are there to learn English and not date. My wife's profile specifically said not interested in dating, but I was persistent. It took time before I bought the ticket and left for Thailand.

 

 

 

I would simply avoid sites like tinder and Thai friendly if you are genuinely looking for a long term, non paying relationship.

 

[moontang]

when I first came hee, it occurred to me that the saying "save some for a rainy day," was about shagging freelancers in BKK, because when the rainstorms approached there were great discounts and value to be had.  

Now that I am older, I think "cut to the chase," may also be about dating in BKK, because you should really think twice about putting a lot of time and effort into a potential relationship.  If they won't jump in the sack by the second date; PUNT!

[bkk6060]

40 minutes ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

To guys looking for an online relationship on the internet, you are looking at the wrong site.

 

This post is really to help you out and not be condescending at all.

 

I was chatting with my wife while back in Canada before we ever met. It was totally random on a penpal site. These sites are mostly aimed for people who want to correspond in a friendly manner. Most Thai women are there to learn English and not date. My wife's profile specifically said not interested in dating, but I was persistent. It took time before I bought the ticket and left for Thailand.

 

 

 

I would simply avoid sites like tinder and Thai friendly if you are genuinely looking for a long term, non paying relationship.

 

So you pay and contribute nothing financially to your marriage?

Sounds like you found a real keeper congratulations...

Edited July 28, 2018 by bkk6060

[elgenon]

I remember seeing a girl I recognized from Rainbow 4 on ThaiCupid. Professionals want love and to marry too.

[cyberfarang]

2 hours ago, jenny2017 said:

I think I'll never understand why some folks like online dating. There are so many singles out there, some of them with their own income, sick and tired of being alone.

 

  An ex-colleague, a very good looking teacher in her late 20's was asking me if I couldn't help her to find a nice guy for her. A Canadian friend at this time was going through a divorce, so I was trying to help a bit.

 

  When he wanted me to come to the first meeting, I decided to stop helping others. You can bring a horse to a pond but you can't make the damn horse drink. 

As an educated guess, I would say that many of the guys, especially the older men, that use TF and similar sites, are probably married men looking for something on the side and will also have it`s fair share of weirdos. Obviously the guys, just like the women, are going to tell a load of crap in their profiles with misleading photos of themselves.

 

I think women that use these sites must be quite desperate. For example, why would a young, beautiful attractive girl need to join a crap site like TF to hook up with guys? When I was using the site, most of the women that contacted me were in their 40s and 50s, those that had been left on the shelf and looking for security for their old age. There are no doubts that the young pretty girls are going to be all about money. The older the guys, the higher the price.

 

The guys that are looking for one night stand hookers would be better off to join sites such as, Badoo, Tinder and HI5. Older guys that join TF expecting that pretty girls young enough to be their daughters or granddaughters will find them desirable and want to form relationships with them are living in cloud cuckoo land. 

 

Dare you to try an experiment. Take a photo of a young hansdome guy from the Internet and set up a fake profile saying he`s in the movie business or some other glamorous occupation and at the same time have a normal profile of yourselves on there. Then see how many responses each profile gains. I know, because I have already tried that. The results were staggering.

 

[theguyfromanotherforum]

16 hours ago, britishjohn said:

I met a 41 year old from TF who was in great shape and a bit of a looker. After 5 dates things were not progressing as I wished so I backed off. Then she told me I'd have to fork out 30k baht a month if I wanted to take it to the next level. It didn't feel very romantic l

 

Did you ask her if it was ok to bring a camera and make some money back on pornhub?

[andre47]

Many of these 'ladies' are fake profiles. The provider of this website wants to make men to pay for the service, but they will chat with fake girls. They don't exist. Of cause some are real, but you never know.

 

Maybe the OP of this post is also engaged by the provider of the website to promote the site here for free.

Edited July 28, 2018 by andre47

[goegoe]

They are more than than enough for what we are doing to/with them !

 

 

[goegoe]

1 hour ago, cyberfarang said:

As an educated guess, I would say that many of the guys, especially the older men, that use TF and similar sites, are probably married men looking for something on the side and will also have it`s fair share of weirdos. Obviously the guys, just like the women, are going to tell a load of crap in their profiles with misleading photos of themselves.

 

I think women that use these sites must be quite desperate. For example, why would a young, beautiful attractive girl need to join a crap site like TF to hook up with guys? When I was using the site, most of the women that contacted me were in their 40s and 50s, those that had been left on the shelf and looking for security for their old age. There are no doubts that the young pretty girls are going to be all about money. The older the guys, the higher the price.

 

The guys that are looking for one night stand hookers would be better off to join sites such as, Badoo, Tinder and HI5. Older guys that join TF expecting that pretty girls young enough to be their daughters or granddaughters will find them desirable and want to form relationships with them are living in cloud cuckoo land. 

 

Dare you to try an experiment. Take a photo of a young hansdome guy from the Internet and set up a fake profile saying he`s in the movie business or some other glamorous occupation and at the same time have a normal profile of yourselves on there. Then see how many responses each profile gains. I know, because I have already tried that. The results were staggering.

 

 

Old man opinion...

 

 

[Elkski]

i think you can find whatever you wish on Thaicupid and even TF.  on TF  since you can only send a message every 10 mins they expect to give out line id quickly.. this can be good or bad as I don't like to block people on line.    This is a job of screening.. decide before hand what you are looking for and stick to it... sure someone will be real friendly or great English  but also give the ones slower in English a chance.

 

it is a fine line between wasting time with a fatty or pushing to see them on video in clothes that show more than a robe or snowmobile suit.

99% of pictures women take today are using a beauty app on their phones... this is a fact.  there are nice gals on there but maybe 1% so you will need to weed through 100.. seriously... but the first 80 take only a few chats.   you can sort for english skills but that is not to  meaningful. but they seem to not lie about their education or height and weight.   the body measurement seems to never be filled out correctly.. the numbers make no sense in cm or inches   remember you want 85/60/90  something like 34/25/36.  They also seem to be honest about children.

very early on in the line chat ask them point blank to ell you how much debt they have.  they may not answer honesty. But that's ok, if you ever find out differently this one lie is good reason to use to  dump them.     i always avoid the real lookers and the ones who dress sezy  I like modern western styles but not the bargirl look or bedroom poses. Yes some will send sexy pictures very quickly... and many times like in normal courtship the takes turns to sex... dont forget over 40 women want it as much as men.   Dont look for girls 25+ years younger unless you have the resources and like broken hearts. 

Edited July 28, 2018 by Elkski

[3421abc]

Tinder has higher quality girls (in bangkok). TF sucks!

[NoshowJones]

On 7/21/2018 at 9:38 PM, sirineou said:

 Not to hijack your thread from the direction you would like it to take , but IMO the above would help the guys (at least to have some laughs ) but I still don't see how it would help the girls. If the intent to help both the Guys and the girls then why the request for "funny stories"

IMO it is a thinly veiled attempt to have some fun on the Thais.

I think it would have being better if  this thread took place in the Pub section.

You should apply to Thaivisa for a job as a "you know what".?

[NoshowJones]

17 hours ago, britishjohn said:

I met a 41 year old from TF who was in great shape and a bit of a looker. After 5 dates things were not progressing as I wished so I backed off. Then she told me I'd have to fork out 30k baht a month if I wanted to take it to the next level. It didn't feel very romantic lol

I'm getting fed up with online now, I need to figure out how and where to meet them in the real world...

 

Do what I did in Thailand before I met the wife, chat up market girls, give lots of smiles, same with office girls, even look at girls in the shopping mall, and if they look back, try and hold their gaze, I found that one works quite well.

[sniper]

I chatted to a few girls on both thaifriendly and thaicupid, i talk very respectfully with them and on a few occasions they have told me that they like talking to me because I am the only guy who hasn't asked for any naked pictures of them, I can't understand what sort of idiot thinks asking for naked photos or sending dic pics is going to work if you want to meet the girl, maybe some guys know they have no chance of a real life encounter with nice girls so they are content with a quick wank if the one in a thousand requests actually gets a naked photo sent to them, sad. A lot of the middle eastern guys profess instant love, which doesn't work either. 

I don't know why the genuine girls put up with all the sleazy crap

Edited July 28, 2018 by sniper

[Elkski]

27 minutes ago, 3421abc said:

Tinder has higher quality girls (in bangkok). TF sucks!

I think tinder was a meat market.  but i didn't use it much... all these opinions depend on the type of gals a guy is looking for..

I was looking for a quality woman.. and my goal is to find one woman for the rest of my

 life..

 

[Media1]

It's Asia same all Asia. A numbers game. There not all bad

[BestB]

In 2 words, hooker platform.

 

if in doubt.  When she says looking for long term, tell her you only looking for short time, response almost always “universal” which is how much you pay?

 

Just the other day had one who wrote this 

“I looking for good boyfriend ,give me money and stay together forever”

 

i am almost certain perfect wife material and once we marry, I be posting on thai visa telling people how wonderful my wife is???

 

PS. Prior to marrying she was very happy to spend the night for a thousand baht 

[colinneil]

30 minutes ago, BestB said:

In 2 words, hooker platform.

 

if in doubt.  When she says looking for long term, tell her you only looking for short time, response almost always “universal” which is how much you pay?

 

Just the other day had one who wrote this 

“I looking for good boyfriend ,give me money and stay together forever”

 

i am almost certain perfect wife material and once we marry, I be posting on thai visa telling people how wonderful my wife is???

 

PS. Prior to marrying she was very happy to spend the night for a thousand baht 

Why post nonsense? Not every Thai woman on a dating site is a hooker.

I met my wife on Thai love links, she has never asked for 1 baht, now nearly 8 years since we first connected.

A  more perfect wife you couldnt find.

She works full time (school director) comes home takes care of me, wakes every 2 hours to help me turn on the bed,

Now all you pl+++ers saying they are all out for money take note, you are wrong.

Edited July 28, 2018 by colinneil