Thai"friendly"....share your insight.

[Ks45672]

These girls are razor sharp

They know people like to hear they're good girls , "students" just paying for uni rather than hardcore hookers

 

The truth is that some of the ones that told me that 10-15 years ago are still in the game

 

Probably hard to go from making 100k a month (having fun and free drinks), to 25k after uni working a 40+ hr week, if they ever even went to uni at all

[faraday]

1 hour ago, britishjohn said:

Ok so if I understand you right, these would be girls who are not so hardened by banging 3 guys a night and might even enjoy the experience. Where does one meet such girls ?

Merthyr Tydfil

[dpspike]

On 8/17/2018 at 10:20 AM, britishjohn said:

Tempted to drop my standards for a few weeks and get some...They won't win any beauty awards but at least it's free, except for the coffee.

Dropped into Thermae recently, most there are nothing to write home about. And many refuse farangs in favour of gentlemen from the land of the rising sun. Being a newbie I wanted to know why. I was told it's the 3 fours. 4 thousand bht, 4 mins and 4 inches.... 

I remember checking out that place quite sometime back. In spite of the absence of any Asian men, none of the women would talk with me, except one who was in her 30s. She told me it was 3 inches for 3 minutes for 3000 baht. Things must be improving nowadays. The young girls look good, but they would have to give a pretty <deleted> amazing  performance for me to pay 3000, ST or LT. I guess I can't blame them for holding out for some idiot that will pay 4000, but I'm thinking there probably aren't enough of those idiots for all the girls there. All these years I've been in Asia, I still don't understand the business sense motivating such practices (or lack thereof as the case may be).

Edited August 20, 2018 by dpspike

[britishjohn]

2 hours ago, dpspike said:

I remember checking out that place quite sometime back. In spite of the absence of any Asian men, none of the women would talk with me, except one who was in her 30s. She told me it was 3 inches for 3 minutes for 3000 baht. Things must be improving nowadays. The young girls look good, but they would have to give a pretty <deleted> amazing  performance for me to pay 3000, ST or LT. I guess I can't blame them for holding out for some idiot that will pay 4000, but I'm thinking there probably aren't enough of those idiots for all the girls there. All these years I've been in Asia, I still don't understand the business sense motivating such practices (or lack thereof as the case may be).

Maybe I got it wrong, maybe it was 3 x 3, and I didn't want to be too unkind to Asian men. 

Actually I'd say half of the women in Thermae have refused to talk to me, normally the cutsie ones, and the others always say the same 2,500bht for 2 hours, 5,000 for overnight. Although sometimes you can do a deal. Problem is it makes them more grumpy and I do like a happy woman. 

 

 

[moontang]

divide and conquer....cab drivers act the same way with cab fares.....they hate for their gang to see them give a square deal...even if it means no customer.

Edited August 20, 2018 by moontang

[britishjohn]

Just had a txt...from the potential 20k girl. Offer not accepted ! And then some garbled explanation to go with it. Which I roughly translate as : you didn't take me to fancy enough places therefore I judge your likely future generosity to be low and prefer to take my chances finding a big spender like my ex.

They might earn shag all, and live in hovels but if they're above attractiveness you can be sure at some point they have been treated to nothing but the finest...and they will never forget it.

 

 

Edited August 20, 2018 by britishjohn

[rumak]

OOPs........thought this was a topic on which temples you have gone to recently.  my bad

[WonnabeBiker]

On 7/27/2018 at 10:41 PM, britishjohn said:

I met a 41 year old from TF who was in great shape and a bit of a looker. After 5 dates things were not progressing as I wished so I backed off. Then she told me I'd have to fork out 30k baht a month if I wanted to take it to the next level. It didn't feel very romantic lol

I'm getting fed up with online now, I need to figure out how and where to meet them in the real world...

 

Search for ladies in your town!

[BritManToo]

2 hours ago, britishjohn said:

Actually I'd say half of the women in Thermae have refused to talk to me,

Bangkok isn't really the best place for a white man to look for women (not cut price ones anyway).

Pattaya is full to the brim, and competition from the other ladies forces the prices down.

Hua Hin also has a surprising amount of talent around Bintabaht and Soi 80.

And if you want pretend 'good girls' try a few in the rural areas where the male competition is non-existent.

 

I don't even have to look any more, everyone locally knows I'm single and little old ladies call round with younger friends/nieces/neighbours they think might be suitable for me to have a look at. All appear ready to move right in (if only I were 20 years younger), sometimes they even turn up with beer and food!

Edited August 20, 2018 by BritManToo

[britishjohn]

Female friends (read women I turned down), have ocassionally offered me their friends as a potential gf, sometimes at a price. I am always told she is a "lovely girl" (read dog).

I end up with no friends after I reject them...

Edited August 20, 2018 by britishjohn

[moontang]

53 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Bangkok isn't really the best place for a white man to look for women (not cut price ones anyway).

Pattaya is full to the brim, and competition from the other ladies forces the prices down.

Hua Hin also has a surprising amount of talent around Bintabaht and Soi 80.

And if you want pretend 'good girls' try a few in the rural areas where the male competition is non-existent.

 

I don't even have to look any more, everyone locally knows I'm single and little old ladies call round with younger friends/nieces/neighbours they think might be suitable for me to have a look at. All appear ready to move right in (if only I were 20 years younger), sometimes they even turn up with beer and food!

A friend in HH has a deal going with a bargirl....700 for ST before she goes to the bar.  He has an 8 million THB house, too, and while he is pretty low profile, it would be obvious to most Bargirls he is well off....makes him happy, still, not paying the bar, and not having to endure all that drama..pretty good value for a place usually offering little..so you are on to something about the competition.

Edited August 20, 2018 by moontang

[BobBKK]

19 hours ago, britishjohn said:

Ok so if I understand you right, these would be girls who are not so hardened by banging 3 guys a night and might even enjoy the experience. Where does one meet such girls ?

If you have to ask the question you must be pretty new here. There is a hierarchy of girls available for a 'consideration'.  Asian girls are open minded about sex but often want something in 'return' and as long as you let them save face 'this is for your gas' you will find most accommodating. All the following, I have found, will give you what you want if you're smart:

 

bar girls

escort girls

online girls

sidelines girls

monthly payment girls

wives

girlfriends

mia nois

giks

students who need 'rent'

7/11 girls who need relief from the boring tills

Library girls who are bored with books

and everyday girls who are bored with their Keeniow Thai BF's

 

and every girl in-between. Use your Big head and not your Little head and treat them well, with respect and give the money carefully and discretely.  It's worked for me!  Goodluck.

 

 

 

Edited August 21, 2018 by BobBKK

[britishjohn]

7 hours ago, BobBKK said:

If you have to ask the question you must be pretty new here. There is a hierarchy of girls available for a 'consideration'.  Asian girls are open minded about sex but often want something in 'return' and as long as you let them save face 'this is for your gas' you will find most accommodating. All the following, I have found, will give you what you want if you're smart:

 

Yes pretty new, only 5 months so far. It's easy to quickly get an overview of how it all works and what's available. But getting to grips with the nuances  takes a while. The world is always changing and I think some views about Thai women are a slightly outdated legacy of the past. But as many have said here, money is always going to be a major factor. It's just taking me a little while to understand what level of generosity is required to achieve what I want.  It fascinates me how some women are watching your spending patterns like a hawk. When you give the taxi driver double what he asks for, it doesn't go unnoticed. In some cases probably money well spent...

[BritManToo]

13 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

It's just taking me a little while to understand what level of generosity is required to achieve what I want.

Depends what you want, sex is around 1,000bht a go, more if you want a girl in her 20s, less if you want a guy dressed as a girl.

They will accept more, but it doesn't get you any future credit (this is the bit most guys fail to understand).

Buy a girl a house/land/car/gold thanks very much, but it's still 1,000bht the next time.

Biffault's Law in action.

Edited August 21, 2018 by BritManToo

[britishjohn]

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Depends what you want, sex is around 1,000bht a go, more if you want a girl in her 20s, less if you want a guy dressed as a girl.

They will accept more, but it doesn't get you any future credit.

Buy a girl a house, thanks very much, but still 1,000bht the next time.

I'm quite a cynical person also, maybe I'll get worse the longer I live here...

[BritManToo]

5 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

I'm quite a cynical person also, maybe I'll get worse the longer I live here...

or maybe you'll go home pennyless and heartbroken.

Edited August 21, 2018 by BritManToo

[britishjohn]

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

or you'll go home pennyless and heartbroken.

Impossible, although I can see how it could happen to some...

[Elkski]

Don't double pay the taxi.   The idea that would improve your situation with a woman is false.  You look like a fool.  You hurt all future taxi riders.

 

A frugal woman will not want you too much.  It's actually embarrassing how little they tip.  It's not 20%, it's not 10%. It's closer to 20 baht. Sometimes 40. Or 5%.

 

First off why think like your buying something. Don't offer a monthly salary. Just be a fun guy. Don't throw around money or that attitude like that is who you are or can buy anything. I have been told by more than one Thai woman that they hate farang like this who know their money is power.

 

Look for good girls who would be upset if you asked them how much time live with me.  Be fun, romantic.  See if one or more of your and her future dreams are similar.

 

Sure Pat use a taxi and give her 500 or 1000 because you want to keep those 100's to avoid the cabby not having the right change the next day. I'm like a hawk sitting on the bird feeder when it comes to cabbies. I tip them if and when I want.

 

If you imply to a woman your money won't run out like you did to us they see you as a mark.  A man whose substance is money based.  Thai women like a man who cooks, cleans, gardens, farms, fixes the car, and leads them.

 

Of course support equals love to them more than you're used to.  But family is #1. No pension for mom or dad. Farmer's may drink too much for there own good but they are poor.  Daughter sees all this money and wants a farang that will make her family proud. 

 

Maybe take care of them as well as you can. Or at least as well as she has. On these first dates ask about her family. Remember "The List".  Short version:

 

Family

Job

Friends

Dog

Buffalo

You

[britishjohn]

On 8/21/2018 at 6:30 PM, Elkski said:

Don't double pay the taxi. The idea that would improve your situation with a woman is false.  You look like a fool.  You hurt all future taxi riders.

 

A frugal woman will not want you too much.  It's actually embarrassing how little they tip.  It's not 20%, it's not 10%. It's closer to 20 baht. Sometimes 40. Or 5%.

 

First off why think like your buying something. Don't offer a monthly salary. Just be a fun guy. Don't throw around money or that attitude like that is who you are or can buy anything. I have been told by more than one Thai woman that they hate farang like this who know their money is power.

 

Look for good girls who would be upset if you asked them how much time live with me.  Be fun, romantic.  See if one or more of your and her future dreams are similar.

 

Sure Pat use a taxi and give her 500 or 1000 because you want to keep those 100's to avoid the cabby not having the right change the next day. I'm like a hawk sitting on the bird feeder when it comes to cabbies. I tip them if and when I want.

 

If you imply to a woman your money won't run out like you did to us they see you as a mark.  A man whose substance is money based.  Thai women like a man who cooks, cleans, gardens, farms, fixes the car, and leads them.

 

Of course support equals love to them more than you're used to.  But family is #1. No pension for mom or dad. Farmer's may drink too much for there own good but they are poor.  Daughter sees all this money and wants a farang that will make her family proud. 

 

Maybe take care of them as well as you can. Or at least as well as she has. On these first dates ask about her family. Remember "The List".  Short version:

 

Family

Job

Friends

Dog

Buffalo

You

 

There seems to be two schools of thought here. Those who think it's all about the bottom line and those who feel there are plenty of good women whose priority isn't money. there is truth to both I guess and it depends on the type of woman you are looking for. A homely woman or a sexy one....

 

But there are plenty of people whose money won't run out. If you're on a pension for example, barring some catastrophe,  it keeps coming...

[Elkski]

 

3 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

There seems to be two schools of thought here. Those who think it's all about the bottom line and those who feel there are plenty of good women whose priority isn't money. there is truth to both I guess and it depends on the type of woman you are looking for. A homely woman or a sexy one....

That is such a stupid thing to say.  You need to stop  generalizing people like you do.  I know there are good looking women who don't ask for money.   I know that nit all that girls have sex by 16.  In fact I am sure there are more 40 yr old virgins here then 25 yr old ones in USA.   Every human is  a unique individual.  I find the variety in Thailand more broad than USA.  Each woman's upbringing can be so different here.   This is a big part of who they are.  One thing that is universal with women imho is that they all dream of a happy life and family.  They dream of a beautiful wedding and happy family.   It's just forced on women in media, tv, magazines,  its how life should be.   They are open to living with a man without marriage if you reason with them and provide happiness.  Deep down they just want to be happy.  But they also look for security.   Unfortunately they now have been exposed to social media and they have all heard fantasy stories of isaan girl who marry  rich farang and lives so happy life.   

[BritManToo]

31 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

Those who think it's all about the bottom line and those who feel there are plenty of good women whose priority isn't money.

I think of it as realists Vs fantasists. 

[Esso49]

13 minutes ago, Elkski said:

 

That is such a stupid thing to say.  You need to stop  generalizing people like you do.  I know there are good looking women who don't ask for money.   I know that nit all that girls have sex by 16.  In fact I am sure there are more 40 yr old virgins here then 25 yr old ones in USA.   Every human is  a unique individual.  I find the variety in Thailand more broad than USA.  Each woman's upbringing can be so different here.   This is a big part of who they are.  One thing that is universal with women imho is that they all dream of a happy life and family.  They dream of a beautiful wedding and happy family.   It's just forced on women in media, tv, magazines,  its how life should be.   They are open to living with a man without marriage if you reason with them and provide happiness.  Deep down they just want to be happy.  But they also look for security.   Unfortunately they now have been exposed to social media and they have all heard fantasy stories of isaan girl who marry  rich farang and lives so happy life.   

 "In fact I am sure there are more 40 yr old virgins here then 25 yr old ones in USA." 

 

That is quite a statement and on what basis do you draw that assumption or is it something you picked up from Hans Christian Anderson  or overheard in the psychiatric ward ?

[britishjohn]

31 minutes ago, Elkski said:

 

That is such a stupid thing to say.  You need to stop  generalizing people like you do. 

Of course there are always exceptions in life, but in general women seek to capitalize on their looks. I can't imagine many stunningly beautiful women are poor.

[Hummin]

On 7/27/2018 at 8:00 AM, AlexRRR said:

Used TF on and off for years, your always going to meet someone who's looking for leg up if you dont have a criteria on what your looking for, put your thinking cap on if you pay you can set education standard as well as age height weight....

 

Met 2 TGF's on it, they were both great girls.

 

I have since found Thai Cupid (you pay) far better but again I have a criteria and you should too.

Great girls, but ? You left them or they leave you?

[DILLIGAD]

Impossible, although I can see how it could happen to some...

I started with nothing and I’ve got most of it left!!!!


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[DILLIGAD]

Don't double pay the taxi.   The idea that would improve vtiur situation with a woman is false.  You look like a fool.  You hurt all future taxi riders. 
A frugal woman will not want you to too much.  It actually embarrassing how little they tip.  It's not 20%, it's not 10%.   It's closer to 20 baht.  Sometimes 40.   Or 5%
 
First off why think like your buying something.   Don't offer monthly salary.  Just be a fun guy.  Don't throw around money or that attitude like that is who you are or can buy anything.   I have been told by more than one thai women that they hate farang like this who this no their money is power.   
Look for good girls who would be upset if you asked them   how much time live with me.  Be fun, romantic.  See if one or more of your and her future dreams are similar.   Sure Pat he taxi and give her 500 or 1000 because you want to keep those 100's to avoid the cabby not having the right change the next day.   I'm like a hawk sitting on the bird feeder when it comes to cabbies.  I tip them it and when I want.    If you imply to a woman like your money won't run out like you did to us they see you as a mark.  A man who's substance is money based.  Thai women like a man who cooks, cleans, gardens, farms, fixes the car, and leads them.
Of course support= love to them more than your used to.  But family is #1.  No pension for mom or dad.  Farmer's may drink to much for there own food but they are poor.  Daughter sees all this money and wants a farang that will make her family proud.  Maybe take care of them as well as you can.   Or at least as well as she has.  On these first dates ask about their family.  Remember "The list".  Short version
Family
Job
Friends
Dog
Buffalo
You

You forget the flies on the dogs back, after the dog!


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[Nyezhov]

Once a Thai lady hits 40 or so and is still unmarried or divorced, has a job, etc, at that point in time if she ever wants to have a companion for the rest of her life, she has to turn to Falang.

 

My ting tong HiSo bff just took the piss on me and announced on her facebook page that she has old Falang single friend...

 

Now I have all of these older ladies messaging  calling me dear and sweetheart, oh look, here is how I cook,  oh this is my job I work for *insert multinational corp*, can we meet, here is a picture of my daughter (universally they are hot)...

 

If I wasnt in my early 60s some of these chicks would look damn good...like the ones with good jobs up in Isaan...but Im still in the butterfly  stage on as many young ones as I can hustle.

 

TF is golden for that......but here so is Thermae, Nana, Lumpini, Hua Lamphong, Saphan, even my favs...Khao San Road and Ari....everyhwere....and Im old, just have a good game

 

 

Edited August 21, 2018 by Nyezhov

[kekalot]

here is my take on it as a tall, fit, 35 years old man

 

I have been on Thaifriendly but my experiences are more on Thaicupid.

I met plenty of women on Thaicupid but my profile clearly states I am not going to be their ATM (not on those terms)

 

I live by the beach so most of the women from a bit further away (Bangkok etc) will come here as a "vacation" and most of them (if not all) initiated sex on first night.

I have not a single time paid for sex directly, if they come from Bangkok I would give them about half the minivan/motorbike money and pay for some of their food (no fancy restaurants)

 

I have had some women that indirectly or even directly asked me to take them to the most expensive restaurants around (we don't have many here) and I practically told them that I do would not even go there for myself and to forget it.. those 2 women (in 5 years) instantly stopped messaging.

I have met some girl from Hua Hin that VERY clearly was looking to get knocked up by a farang (asked me if i would use a condom with her and she freaked out when i said yes).. one year later i saw her on social media and she had a kid lol (wasn't mine)

I have met some girl from Bangkok who invited me over and then when i was there if I touched her even a little bit she would shout "don't touch me!!" and smoke cigarettes and drink too much.. same girl came to see me did practically the same -- then she messaged me on Line asked me why I didn't have sex with her.. when I explained to her that she told me to not touch her she said she had come for sex.. -- mindblowing isn't it.

 

most of the others that came here, I treated them like I would treat a girlfriend (the boyfriend experience? haha) and i would say 90% of them still talk to me years later.. even some girl that came to visit 5 years ago that spoke absolutely no English (and I spoke no Thai), if I was to message her to come over she would come without hesitation.

 

I do not let them come here if I am not attracted to them so I have no problems cuddling and holding them at night and quite often hear that it's the first time someone ever did that to them.

 

the main issue here is that women get hundreds of messages on all kinds of social media, my friend that I met 2-3 months ago asked me to delete her profile on Thaicupid because she didn't know how.. as soon as I logged in on there she had a popup asking her if she wanted to message 21 guy at the same time (yes, TWENTY ONE) ... and every 5 seconds there was a popup in the bottom left corner of the screen showing the new signups. she had a free account.

 

I had a paid gold account.. trust me men do NOT get that kind of trash and I wouldn't want to have access to this rubbish either.

 

she had 350 messages in her inbox after about a week on there and she might have been a 5 or 6..

 

now does she REALLY need to be able to send messages to 21 men at the same time or be notified of all the new accounts almost instantly?

 

I think this is made so girls would click on the male profiles and then the men think "oh my god, all those girls looking at my profile!" and also the 21 men might be all new accounts that can't read the incoming messages until they pay

certainly look like that.. but I don't like the fact that I have to be one out of 2000 men this month that sends her interest..

 

it's like the hunger games x20. I gave up on meeting real genuine girls on there, this kind of constant stream of (mostly) idiots ruins their ego forever.

[Ks45672]

5 minutes ago, kekalot said:

here is my take on it as a tall, fit, 35 years old man

 

I have been on Thaifriendly but my experiences are more on Thaicupid.

I met plenty of women on Thaicupid but my profile clearly states I am not going to be their ATM (not on those terms)

 

I live by the beach so most of the women from a bit further away (Bangkok etc) will come here as a "vacation" and most of them (if not all) initiated sex on first night.

I have not a single time paid for sex directly, if they come from Bangkok I would give them about half the minivan/motorbike money and pay for some of their food (no fancy restaurants)

 

I have had some women that indirectly or even directly asked me to take them to the most expensive restaurants around (we don't have many here) and I practically told them that I do would not even go there for myself and to forget it.. those 2 women (in 5 years) instantly stopped messaging.

I have met some girl from Hua Hin that VERY clearly was looking to get knocked up by a farang (asked me if i would use a condom with her and she freaked out when i said yes).. one year later i saw her on social media and she had a kid lol (wasn't mine)

I have met some girl from Bangkok who invited me over and then when i was there if I touched her even a little bit she would shout "don't touch me!!" and smoke cigarettes and drink too much.. same girl came to see me did practically the same -- then she messaged me on Line asked me why I didn't have sex with her.. when I explained to her that she told me to not touch her she said she had come for sex.. -- mindblowing isn't it.

 

most of the others that came here, I treated them like I would treat a girlfriend (the boyfriend experience? haha) and i would say 90% of them still talk to me years later.. even some girl that came to visit 5 years ago that spoke absolutely no English (and I spoke no Thai), if I was to message her to come over she would come without hesitation.

 

I do not let them come here if I am not attracted to them so I have no problems cuddling and holding them at night and quite often hear that it's the first time someone ever did that to them.

 

the main issue here is that women get hundreds of messages on all kinds of social media, my friend that I met 2-3 months ago asked me to delete her profile on Thaicupid because she didn't know how.. as soon as I logged in on there she had a popup asking her if she wanted to message 21 guy at the same time (yes, TWENTY ONE) ... and every 5 seconds there was a popup in the bottom left corner of the screen showing the new signups. she had a free account.

 

I had a paid gold account.. trust me men do NOT get that kind of trash and I wouldn't want to have access to this rubbish either.

 

she had 350 messages in her inbox after about a week on there and she might have been a 5 or 6..

 

now does she REALLY need to be able to send messages to 21 men at the same time or be notified of all the new accounts almost instantly?

 

I think this is made so girls would click on the male profiles and then the men think "oh my god, all those girls looking at my profile!" and also the 21 men might be all new accounts that can't read the incoming messages until they pay

certainly look like that.. but I don't like the fact that I have to be one out of 2000 men this month that sends her interest..

 

it's like the hunger games x20. I gave up on meeting real genuine girls on there, this kind of constant stream of (mostly) idiots ruins their ego forever.

I used date in Asia site before and started seeing a woman who was attractive but not near supermodel material and she was getting hundreds of msgs a day on her laptop

 

Men were offering to take her on holidays and loads of other expensive dates and gifts etc 

 

She used to delete the msgs a whole page 50 at a time

 

Imagine how many the girls who are 9.5/10 get

 

 

[kekalot]

1 minute ago, Ks45672 said:

I used date in Asia site before and started seeing a woman who was attractive but not near supermodel material and she was getting hundreds of msgs a day on her laptop

 

Men were offering to take her on holidays and loads of other expensive dates and gifts etc 

 

She used to delete the msgs a whole page 50 at a time

 

Imagine how many the girls who are 9.5/10 get 

 

well there you go, exactly. ruined ego, and that is not the only place they will get hit up on.

IE: you piss off your gf that is even remotely attractive if s he goes write some angry post on Facebook (or twitter or instagram) she will have 15 "nice guys" that will want to console her.

that is the problem nowadays too much easy access to "replacement"

 

back home my sister signed up my dad and made an account for herself same time on some dating website, she might be a 7 (just for being petite) and got 460 messages in less than a week.

she didn't read none of them but I did. was mostly trash except maybe 5-6 dudes which I then showed to and she laughed and said no.

 

the last 6 women in a row that sent interest to me on thaicupid were all overweight

I mean if i was getting hundreds of messages a day from women I know for a fact it would get to my head and not in a good way