Thai"friendly"....share your insight.

[Odin Norway]

On 8/24/2018 at 9:25 AM, bkk6060 said:

I can meet someone 5 to 10 years younger then me easy in my home country.

But that puts them in their 50's.  Honestly it disgusts me to think about.

For some reason women that age have a smell about them.  Like Formaldihyde. I do not like them old elephant ear flaps either.

My guideline here is 30 years younger.  Otherwise, its a waste of time.

Good one there.And the only comment I think to myself when I see you is real love for sure.

[bkk6060]

22 minutes ago, Odin Norway said:

Good one there.And the only comment I think to myself when I see you is real love for sure.

HAHA.  Yes, it most certainly is.

Sorry if that makes you jealous. ?

 

[Odin Norway]

8 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

HAHA.  Yes, it most certainly is.

Sorry if that makes you jealous. ?

 

Haha.No thanks.For me that would be under age.There is real people in there also and not everyone is for sell.

Edited August 27, 2018 by Odin Norway

[cyberfarang]

2 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

Not trying to start something with you but I do not agree with/understand your comments.

You say "getting laid" has become an expensive luxury for higher incomes? How much is higher income?

Where and what type of place and who are you referring too?

I do not consider $30 expensive.  Or even $50.

Yes, a GOGO may run $150 all in.  But even then for many from other countries that is not expensive.

Some of these neighboring countries like Cambodia or Vietnam are equal or more now.

I still see Thailand as being very reasonable.

 

 

 

 

 

The days of cheap booze and cheap sex with Thai women in Thailand are almost over, they are no longer that desperate unlike it was here 20 years ago, times have changed. 

 

Any young, hansum Farangs have no need to use dating sites to pull women anywhere, it`s going to be mostly over 50 year old Farangs on those sites and the hot girls will be expecting a lot more than $150 from some old grand pa, pa. Hiring a Thai escort for short time can now cost 10000 baht or more for a full service. And yes, other south east Asian countries are equating themselves with Thailand.

 

There are still many western guys that believe Thailand is a sex mongers paradise, Thai women simply giving it away to any guys with a white skin, no matter what their ages or how disarranged their features. NOT ANY MORE, believe it and why being realistic, at my age, would not waste my time scouting for NSA encounters or trying to find the love of my life on any of those Thai dating sites.

[bkk6060]

17 minutes ago, cyberfarang said:

The days of cheap booze and cheap sex with Thai women in Thailand are almost over, they are no longer that desperate unlike it was here 20 years ago, times have changed. 

 

Any young, hansum Farangs have no need to use dating sites to pull women anywhere, it`s going to be mostly over 50 year old Farangs on those sites and the hot girls will be expecting a lot more than $150 from some old grand pa, pa. Hiring a Thai escort for short time can now cost 10000 baht or more for a full service. And yes, other south east Asian countries are equating themselves with Thailand.

 

There are still many western guys that believe Thailand is a sex mongers paradise, Thai women simply giving it away to any guys with a white skin, no matter what their ages or how disarranged their features. NOT ANY MORE, believe it and why being realistic, at my age, would not waste my time scouting for NSA encounters or trying to find the love of my life on any of those Thai dating sites.

Ok, I understand, but not really agree.  Just giving it away sure I agree on that but you did mention pricing.  Not as desperate yes, I agree with that also.

I live in Pattaya and have for almost 3 years still see the place as pretty good.

An example 100's of attractive girls on Soi 6 about $40 for one hour in the room and my experiences are pretty darn good I go there a lot.  Many massage places in town the same price range some attractive girls who take good care of you.

The attractive girls who are looking for fun on the dating sites are around the $45 range not $150 in Pattaya.  Some less some a little more but never more then $60.

Anyway, I could go on and on talk about Beach road which some think is crap, but I have met some super nice girls there some I have known for years. It just takes a little hunting.

 

Yes, I have seen the escort sites for 10,000 to 15,000 b but those are mostly for novices or tourists who may just be too lazy to do some hunting.  Or, the Gogo's which are mostly tourist rip offs. 

 

Freebie?  I do know some guys who pull from the disco's but absolutely no chance for me. ?

 

[Elkski]

Just as us men judge women they judge men.  

Do you think they like men who use sex workers?

Do they like men who look at them as a commodity?

They are looking fir a man who their mom will be proud of.  And they want to impress their friends.  

Do they like men who think money buys all? 

Isay for a decent man who hasn't been spoiled with 20 years olds, who can treat a woman as an equal, can find what he seeks on these dating sites.   

It is a skill and takes hundreds if not 1000 hours of searching.    

Just remember there are new women joining every day.   80% I've talked to say they have had it with Thai men.  The word on the street is that Western men take so much better care of their woman. Americans are the best I've been told.   I'd course this is a generalization on Thai women's part.   But it shows they are talking, sharing stories.   Many tell me they have a sister, friend, cousin or know someone who is very happy with their farang partner.   

 

I think some of you have a fancy for the hooker looks and then complain your pick wants money.  You complain about not being able to catch any above average looking women.   

I prefer a woman who looks good without makeup in the morning.  

I think I am content with what many would consider a 6-8.    But I look at what's inside equally.    What's inside must look good or it doesn't matter if she is a 10.  

 

 

I will support a age Gap of 15-20 years.   It just seems that many like a mature man, a man who may have more ability to support them=love to Asian women.  Also many women's fathers are 15-20 years older than mom.     

 

 

 

[moontang]

notice how many use their mobile number as their screen name?  What is that all about?

[Hummin]

11 minutes ago, Elkski said:

Just as us men judge women they judge men.  

Do you think they like men who use sex workers?

Do they like men who look at them as a commodity?

They are looking fir a man who their mom will be proud of.  And they want to impress their friends.  

Do they like men who think money buys all? 

Isay for a decent man who hasn't been spoiled with 20 years olds, who can treat a woman as an equal, can find what he seeks on these dating sites.   

It is a skill and takes hundreds if not 1000 hours of searching.    

Just remember there are new women joining every day.   80% I've talked to say they have had it with Thai men.  The word on the street is that Western men take so much better care of their woman. Americans are the best I've been told.   I'd course this is a generalization on Thai women's part.   But it shows they are talking, sharing stories.   Many tell me they have a sister, friend, cousin or know someone who is very happy with their farang partner.   

 

I think some of you have a fancy for the hooker looks and then complain your pick wants money.  You complain about not being able to catch any above average looking women.   

I prefer a woman who looks good without makeup in the morning.  

I think I am content with what many would consider a 6-8.    But I look at what's inside equally.    What's inside must look good or it doesn't matter if she is a 10.  

 

 

I will support a age Gap of 15-20 years.   It just seems that many like a mature man, a man who may have more ability to support them=love to Asian women.  Also many women's fathers are 15-20 years older than mom.     

 

 

 

I aggree with most of the post except I found that they admire Scandinavians more, because of the UN rating of the best countries to live. 

 

I would say the girls is good or better than us to sweettalk us in to the state of being the right one ?

[cyberfarang]

On 8/24/2018 at 2:25 PM, bkk6060 said:

I can meet someone 5 to 10 years younger then me easy in my home country.

But that puts them in their 50's.  Honestly it disgusts me to think about.

For some reason women that age have a smell about them.  Like Formaldihyde. I do not like them old elephant ear flaps either.

My guideline here is 30 years younger.  Otherwise, its a waste of time.

Have to agree, that young women smell nice. Maybe it`s nature`s way of some sort of chemical attraction for child childbearing purposes and once past child bearing age, women lose that chemical attraction. I`m no expert, just a theory.

 

I do prefer women in their 30s, still physically attractive and have mentally matured by that time. But unfortunately, being in my early 60s, doubt they are attracted to me. It is said that once men reach over 50, they become invisible to younger women.

[spacebass]

On 7/29/2018 at 4:26 AM, ChakaKhan said:

OK I'll bite!

 

Is this true or just trolling me?

 

Or what you would pay for the meal is the same as paying outright for boom-boom?!  ?

 

Does KFC count!?   555

I think the meal out for sex is a western concept, in Thailand first pay for meal second pay for sex one way or another.

[DILLIGAD]

I think the meal out for sex is a western concept, in Thailand first pay for meal second pay for sex one way or another.

Agree. They don’t understand the concept of dessert.


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[moontang]

9 minutes ago, DILLIGAD said:

Agree. They don’t understand the concept of dessert.


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a photo with her drinking a glass of wine is almost a bigger red flag than a dog.

[Nyezhov]

1 hour ago, cyberfarang said:

Have to agree, that young women smell nice. Maybe it`s nature`s way of some sort of chemical attraction for child childbearing purposes and once past child bearing age, women lose that chemical attraction. I`m no expert, just a theory.

 

I do prefer women in their 30s, still physically attractive and have mentally matured by that time. But unfortunately, being in my early 60s, doubt they are attracted to me. It is said that once men reach over 50, they become invisible to younger women.

My GF in the states is 24. Thats about 40 years younger than me. Her crowd likes older men, most for the money (of which I have none) but virtually all because they find young guys (say up to age 35) as crude controlling boors, while older guys are smarter and easier to deal with (or push around...when my gf wakes me up at 3 am to go to the convenience store, she knows exactly how to get me to do it).  

 

And  she isnt a dummy despite her prediliction for wearing revealing clothes in Nightculbs and on Instagram, she is working on her Masters. So I can have a nice intellectual conversation. But shes a GF and expects to be a GF..... while I am a butterfly!

Edited August 27, 2018 by Nyezhov

[JimmyTheMook]

On 7/28/2018 at 8:04 PM, BritManToo said:

Some of the Thai bar girls I encountered managed to give me the 'romance' I never found with my (former) English wife.

The flirting, touching, helping shower you, all invaluable.

 

How about the rolling your fat arse around in the bed every 2 hours?

 

Huge plus in any relationship 

[Nyezhov]

15 minutes ago, JimmyTheMook said:

 

How about the rolling your fat arse around in the bed every 2 hours?

 

Huge plus in any relationship 

Yeah.. in the US my GF slaps me and says quit snoring. Or rolls in from a bar at 3am all giggly and sits on my face. She wont even do my laundry, she says its my job. 

 

But im not in the mood to clean the house baby...Well tough, I have class today and then Im going out tonight. But...No buts, look at you, a fat old man with a dime piece like me. Im so hot you should worship me. You want a girl to put your shoes on, go to Thailand. 

 

OK.

[The Deerhunter]

On 7/21/2018 at 10:41 PM, moontang said:

I didn't state anything was wrong with it, but it is odd that there was zero mention of freelancing or massage in their profiles.

They obviously knew you would suss that out and not necessary to tell you.  Craigs list was closed for a while.  Other forms of advertising were necessary.  Now its back, look under real estate, computers and motor vehicles.  555

[moontang]

1 minute ago, The Deerhunter said:

They obviously knew you would suss that out and not necessary to tell you.  Craigs list was closed for a while.  Other forms of advertising were necessary.  Now its back, look under real estate, computers and motor vehicles.  555

Householed services is mostly TS, but quite a few ladies in the Travel section....but it isn't straigtforward.

[The Deerhunter]

1 minute ago, moontang said:

Householed services is mostly TS, but quite a few ladies in the Travel section....but it isn't straigtforward.

Ah.  I like a man who does his research thoroughly.   You obviously have a full dance ticket most of the time

[Nyezhov]

1 hour ago, moontang said:

I once heard of a girl in the US, who ate a piece of dried dogshiite for a hit of crack.....

Divine did that for a movie!

 

Capitalism!

[cyberfarang]

One thing that would make the process of finding suitable dates on TF much easier, is by making the women`s profiles more detailed with more information so as the guys can know more about them and what type of relationships the women are seeking, other than just age and a few nondescript line of words. Most say nothing about themselves whatsoever, and it becomes a guessing game. Adding more details would save time and guys could aim for the woman that they consider will more likely be interested in them and the girls would receive responses from men that might be more compatible with what they are looking for in a guy.

 

Just a thought.

 

 

 

 

[DILLIGAD]

One thing that would make the process of finding suitable dates on TF much easier, is by making the women`s profiles more detailed with more information so as the guys can know more about them and what type of relationships the women are seeking, other than just age and a few nondescript line of words. Most say nothing about themselves whatsoever, and it becomes a guessing game. Adding more details would save time and guys could aim for the woman that they consider will more likely be interested in them and the girls would receive responses from men that might be more compatible with what they are looking for in a guy.
 
Just a thought.
 
 
 
 

I hear of a new ‘app’ for that.

It’s called ‘conversation’.


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[JimmyTheMook]

5 hours ago, Nyezhov said:

Divine did that for a movie!

 

Capitalism!

 

[neeray]

2 hours ago, DILLIGAD said:

I hear of a new ‘app’ for that.

It’s called ‘conversation’.


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Exactly !!!

[Hummin]

2 hours ago, JimmyTheMook said:

 

What is that Nigga ho music to do with TF? (They sing nigga 200 times in the text, so I guess it is legal to refer to!)

 

Most of the girls say no Arabs, Indian and chocolate man for me thank you!

Edited August 28, 2018 by Hummin

[BobBKK]

I asked a good friend, who is very wealthy, very fat and a bit unkempt (hair growing where it should not etc.)    "so what attracted your 25 year younger, fit and pretty wife to you then"?

 

Actually, to be serious, I have known couples who are within 5/10 years of each other and have a 'proper' relationship based on love not money. But I would guess that's 5% of the total that I know. All the rest it's an 'exchange' even though most believe it's 'real' like my fat friend.

 

Generally this is the truth:

 

Guy, "I'll give you support, security and nice place to live"

 

Girl "I'll give you youth, sex and illusion"

 

Both can be happy. If there is genuine love thrown in that's a bonus but it's rare. If they like each other and are happy to live that illusion then why not?  life is short. Personally I just enjoy the 'exchange' and don't 'tink too mut'.

Edited August 28, 2018 by BobBKK

[bkk6060]

21 minutes ago, BobBKK said:

I asked a good friend, who is very wealthy, very fat and a bit unkempt (hair growing where it should not etc.)    "so what attracted your 25 year younger, fit and pretty wife to you then"?

 

Actually, to be serious, I have known couples who are within 5/10 years of each other and have a 'proper' relationship based on love not money. But I would guess that's 5% of the total that I know. All the rest it's an 'exchange' even though most believe it's 'real' like my fat friend.

 

Generally this is the truth:

 

Guy, "I'll give you support, security and nice place to live"

 

Girl "I'll give you youth, sex and illusion"

 

Both can be happy. If there is genuine love thrown in that's a bonus but it's rare. If they like each other and are happy to live that illusion then why not?  life is short. Personally I just enjoy the 'exchange' and don't 'tink too mut'.

Glad you are on board with the exchange. ?

 

But your comment about a "proper relationship".  Where does that come from?

That is western thinking.  Western woman controlling what males should do and think.

There is no law or rule I know of, in fact no religious requirement about age difference.

 

It makes absolutely no sense to me why a 65 year old man would come here and hook up with a 55 to 60 year old female... Only because they give them no money?  Seems really stupid.  I can do that in my own country easily and she will actually have a decent job.

Some of us do not want to live out out lives looking at some old ladies face all day.  Gross..  I will take young a cute and energetic any time keeps me young for sure.  I have had both and paying to me is no big deal at all who cares in fact I think it is much better, as it actually gives you a much more controlling interest.

[Odin Norway]

5 hours ago, cyberfarang said:

One thing that would make the process of finding suitable dates on TF much easier, is by making the women`s profiles more detailed with more information so as the guys can know more about them and what type of relationships the women are seeking, other than just age and a few nondescript line of words. Most say nothing about themselves whatsoever, and it becomes a guessing game. Adding more details would save time and guys could aim for the woman that they consider will more likely be interested in them and the girls would receive responses from men that might be more compatible with what they are looking for in a guy.

 

Just a thought.

 

 

 

 

Yepp.Then you wil get a lot more PHDs in their 20s.95% dont even know what they are writing

[BobBKK]

17 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

Glad you are on board with the exchange. ?

 

But your comment about a "proper relationship".  Where does that come from?

That is western thinking.  Western woman controlling what males should do and think.

There is no law or rule I know of, in fact no religious requirement about age difference.

 

It makes absolutely no sense to me why a 65 year old man would come here and hook up with a 55 to 60 year old female... Only because they give them no money?  Seems really stupid.  I can do that in my own country easily and she will actually have a decent job.

Some of us do not want to live out out lives looking at some old ladies face all day.  Gross..  I will take young a cute and energetic any time keeps me young for sure.  I have had both and paying to me is no big deal at all who cares in fact I think it is much better, as it actually gives you a much more controlling interest.

 

Haha I meant some guys will choose to have that emotional security and we should live and let live. People need different things   I did not say I would want that, I don't, and I'm happy 'exchanging'. 

 

Been here 10 years and never had a GF, young or old, and prefer dating girls 25 years younger than me both here and Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia etc. Love that lifestyle and will continue as long as desire is there BUT there will come a time when I might choose to slow all that right down as I will need TLC and care near the end. At that stage I would probably go for an older companion as sex won't come into it. So when I see an elderly farang at Homepro with a wife/GF within 10 years I do get why he might do that in the twilight years.

 

Anyway I'm not there yet and happy to pay 'gas' money (mostly side liners as asians are very 'flexible' in this context). Cheers.

[cyberfarang]

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

What is that Nigga ho music to do with TF? (They sing nigga 200 times in the text, so I guess it is legal to refer to!)

 

Most of the girls say no Arabs, Indian and chocolate man for me thank you!

TV posters are reaching an all time low. Seems that anything goes these days.

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, BobBKK said:

Actually, to be serious, I have known couples who are within 5/10 years of each other and have a 'proper' relationship based on love not money.

Never met any woman that 'married down', including my mom.

Wealthy women marry wealthier men.

(apart from the Queen, who didn't have much of a choice)