I like this new(ish) feature in the profile window that tells you who's been checking your profile, it reveals a few surprises.

The first time I checked my own profile I noticed a few guys I'd recently discussed issues with on one or another thread had called by to check my profile. I do that too when I read a response that interests me, sort of 'Who's this guy?'

The next time I called by was to update my profile with a photo, a few weeks later to change my location to Singapore and then again to change it back to Rome again.

It was in these subsequent visits to my own profile that I noticed something rather odd, I might say 'creepy'.

There is one particular poster who seems to call by my profile on a regular basis, at least once a week, or so it would seem. Let's say, every time I've checked my profile the record of visitors reveals he's called by not more than a few days earlier.

I'm not saying its stalking, but it is a bit creepy.

I don't want to embarrass this poster and I'm only mentioning it here because, to be frank it does worry me a bit, and as they say "a worry shared is a worry halved", so I'll not mention his name.

However, I think it might be an idea if I send a coded message, just to let him know his behavior has been noticed and perhaps as a prompt for him to get some help.. So here goes (A coded message to my secret admirer).

Crikey Mate, I know you like coming the dag and I'm not one to dob on a bloke, but I'd hate to see you turning into more of a piker than you already are.

Just let be known you've been sprung mate, and while everyone's allowed to come a guster once an a while, don't go troppo on us mate.

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I like this new(ish) feature in the profile window that tells you who's been checking your profile, it reveals a few surprises.

The first time I checked my own profile I noticed a few guys I'd recently discussed issues with on one or another thread had called by to check my profile. I do that too when I read a response that interests me, sort of 'Who's this guy?'

The next time I called by was to update my profile with a photo, a few weeks later to change my location to Singapore and then again to change it back to Rome again.

It was in these subsequent visits to my own profile that I noticed something rather odd, I might say 'creepy'.

There is one particular poster who seems to call by my profile on a regular basis, at least once a week, or so it would seem. Let's say, every time I've checked my profile the record of visitors reveals he's called by not more than a few days earlier.

I'm not saying its stalking, but it is a bit creepy.

I don't want to embarrass this poster and I'm only mentioning it here because, to be frank it does worry me a bit, and as they say "a worry shared is a worry halved", so I'll not mention his name.

However, I think it might be an idea if I send a coded message, just to let him know his behavior has been noticed and perhaps as a prompt for him to get some help.. So here goes (A coded message to my secret admirer).

Crikey Mate, I know you like coming the dag and I'm not one to dob on a bloke, but I'd hate to see you turning into more of a piker than you already are.

Just let be known you've been sprung mate, and while everyone's allowed to come a guster once an a while, don't go troppo on us mate.

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I think you are reading into this a little too much.

I think the reason people look into anothers profile is to check up on what they have been posting recently.

In your case as an interesting 'raconteur' and normally sensible poster, I can understand why people would want to see what you have been saying.

Take it as a compliment.

The time to get worried is when the 'lurkers' visit your profile and start subtracting your stars!!!

its been flagged Guesthouse - I would like to tell you that ive visited your profile to see who it was (didnt read the whole post sorry) and i knew straight away who you were talking about.

anyway as a helpfull chap, I will be visiting your profile on a thrice weekly basis to check up..

yours - undercover -

GH, the coding was not encrypted, was it?

I will be looking in often as well.

Guesthouse, Ive checked your profile twice in the last half hour or so, and in between checks your rating has gone from nothing to one star. Obviously one of your recent visitors has done this, and I wouldn't be surprised if it was kayo, because he often does things like this. Just letting you know, mate

its been flagged Guesthouse - I would like to tell you that ive visited your profile to see who it was (didnt read the whole post sorry) and i knew straight away who you were talking about.

I've just done the same.

GH, maybe the stalker has a "burning" desire to meet you

What's all this about members deleting other members' star ratings..... how f' sad is that?

is there something there you don't want them to see?

There is an interesting photo on the profile. Maybe people are looking for updates.

Oops... i looked !

totster

What's all this about members deleting other members' star ratings..... how f' sad is that?

You started with zero now you have one, be grateful.

I often visit posters I admire to give them one star.

Maybe he thinks you're a katoy

cricky's guest house , how you going me old mate ?

i got to tell you and all the punters out there, that you could possibly be referring to me again.

firstly i must admit that i do check you often as im a bit worried about you.

you hav'nt got any friends and im checking up to see whether you found any new buddies, but not to worry as im going to add you to my friends list.

actually guesthouse just to up your popularity, it is ok if you add me to your friends list as then the punters will see that your associating with a top class TV member.

got to be a top move mate.

but seriously mate, me and you are on a roll as we agreed on 4 subjects on my top "yellow shirt" thread and thats incredible for us ain't it ?

but im very inpressed that you like me so much, as you keep starting threads up about me and i do appreciate that, and thanks mate.

actually guesthouse it would be very nice if you give me a vote in the bedlam thread as im sure you would rather hang with me than pammy anderson.

anyway guesthouse,

i have to run as i have to check your profile to see if any buds have signed up in the last 5 minutes.

love you mate

ok punters,

i think we should all be nice to guest house, check his profile and make him our new bested friend.

Just checked your profile Guesthouse and yes indeed there is a very creepy message from a visitor.

Maybe he thinks you're a katoy

cricky's dave, your bloody spot on again my top mate.

ive always thought guesthouse was a katoey, and maybe he will be at the airport to meet me like all the other girls. :D

Just checked your profile Guesthouse and yes indeed there is a very creepy message from a visitor.

Is there? I'll be back in a minute

Oh yes there is

Your'e getting loads of visitors now GH. Was this a cry for help maybe

and some farka's just been in and taken some stars off mine .. ruined the perfect record

Just checked your profile Guesthouse and yes indeed there is a very creepy message from a visitor.

Is there? I'll be back in a minute

love it jangles. :D

Guesthouse, Ive checked your profile twice in the last half hour or so, and in between checks your rating has gone from nothing to one star. Obviously one of your recent visitors has done this, and I wouldn't be surprised if it was kayo, because he often does things like this. Just letting you know, mate

I hadn't yet, but I WILL now!

and some farka's just been in and taken some stars off mine .. ruined the perfect record

You got the wrong guy. I owe you one. One star.

and some farka's just been in and taken some stars off mine .. ruined the perfect record

You got the wrong guy. I owe you one. One star.

Looks like civil war's broken out in bedlam ...

Nurtured those 5 stars for months .. and all gone in a couple of clicks ... heartbreaking

There is an interesting photo on the profile. Maybe people are looking for updates.

UPdates

Helther Skelter, coming down fast!!!!

Nurtured those 5 stars for months .. and all gone in a couple of clicks ... heartbreaking

One day you're a rooster the next you're a feather duster

Nurtured those 5 stars for months .. and all gone in a couple of clicks ... heartbreaking

One day you're a rooster the next you're a feather duster

I may have hit you with some friendly fire there Mr Lamps so I will head to your profile right now and fire you a few stars to make up for my error .. as for dancing muppet boy .. he's toast

Cry for love?

I may have hit you with some friendly fire there Mr Lamps so I will head to your profile right now and fire you a few stars to make up for my error .. as for dancing muppet boy .. he's toast

actually I was extremely disappointed because your stars didnt reduce at all, not even one. I hate when that happens. All the diabolical glee fizzles into nothing.

Nurtured those 5 stars for months .. and all gone in a couple of clicks ... heartbreaking

I went from 4 stars to 3 stars just after I got rid of Mid from The Last Word!!