Popular Post swissie Posted November 14, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 14, 2018 A hypothetical question (hopefully). Scenario: You have invested the bulk of your money in Thailand, thinking the monthly income from overseas will be enough to support you & family. In other words: You are "real-estate-rich" but "cash-poor"). - Would your extended Thai-Family be willing to raise the required 400K for your marriage extension, if worse should come to worse and as a last resort? What do you think? Perhaps this provoking an unplanned "moment of truth"......? 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Led Lolly Yellow Lolly Posted November 14, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 14, 2018 (edited) This is a strange question. Being candid, if you don't know the answer to that question, I don't know how anyone here can answer it for you. . . but I can share my experience with you, and that's exactly what happens in my case, year in, year out, my sister in law puts up the money to keep my visa status in order, but then, I do work very hard for the family business. Good luck. Edited November 14, 2018 by NilSS 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted November 14, 2018 Author Share Posted November 14, 2018 38 minutes ago, NilSS said: This is a strange question. Being candid, if you don't know the answer to that question, I don't know how anyone here can answer it for you. . . but I can share my experience with you, and that's exactly what happens in my case, year in, year out, my sister in law puts up the money to keep my visa status in order, but then, I do work very hard for the family business. Good luck. Does not concern me in particular. Thread is more meant as some sort of unofficial poll. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 (edited) My wife put 400k for my marriage extension and I didn't invest 1 baht in Thailand. Edited November 14, 2018 by theguyfromanotherforum 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
473geo Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 Quite possibly - especially as the money would never actually leave the bank, they would come up with something. I hope never to be in the position to test this particular scenario - I don't judge my extended family by what they can or cannot do for me, or what I can do for them, we seem to blend into........well.......an every day family, there for each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damrongsak Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 (edited) Considering that I sponsored six family members to come to the US, guaranteed their income above the poverty level for 10 years and loaned them far in excess of 400K Baht (interest free) for various purposes, yes. Otherwise, they are dead and I'll get full retirement in a federal prison ( or Bang Kwang, depending on venue). And that's not to mention the others who are still in Thailand, though they live rather modestly. But I've known them for over 40 years. And we didn't invest all that heavily in Thailand. Unfortunately, we received a substantial sum from life insurance and the military death gratuity when our son was killed in Iraq. I hate thinking about the blood money, but our boy took care of his mom. Edited November 14, 2018 by Damrongsak 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Led Lolly Yellow Lolly Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 (edited) Ditto, sort of. My family are all dual nationals. Cost me a fortune. When my sister in law realised how much I was struggling in old Europe, she insisted we come 'home' to Thailand, at her expense. They are completely dedicated to me, and I to them. Swings and roundabouts. Edited November 14, 2018 by NilSS 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted November 14, 2018 Author Share Posted November 14, 2018 1 hour ago, theguyfromanotherforum said: My wife put 400k for my marriage extension and I didn't invest 1 baht in Thailand. Correct me if I am wrong. Now you are living in Toronto and your wife stayed in Thailand. WHY? Spill your guts! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 My wife stayed in Thailand because she actually has a job. And I am coming back in 2 weeks. Anything else? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted November 15, 2018 Author Share Posted November 15, 2018 Possibly I should refine my question: If such circumstances should evolve, would the extended family be able and willing to support a Farang family member. I realize that some Thai Families would not be able to shoulder such financial requests. But mostly, an extended Thai-Family (as a mutual effort) could raise 400K. So it's more a question of "wantig to" instead of "can do" in most cases. Me thinks. Cheers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 Flame post removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Formaleins Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 I am 100% sure some Thai families would be willing to help, why wouldn't they if they had the money? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maybefitz Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 My wife of 17 years here in CM is already making plans to sell some land to raise the 800,000 bt needed. Over the the years I have contributed to the family capital and business and there was no question they would help out. I am grateful indeed. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 "... In other words: You are "real-estate-rich" but "cash-poor")." One analysis of that comment - it's a result of your own decisions, nobody else's decisions and you know full well you need the 400K cash in the bank at a specific date each year, it's not a sudden surprise. Further 'real-estate rich', is that meaning: - you paid for the real estate and the ownership is in your name, or - you paid for the real-estate but the ownership is not in your own name? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Led Lolly Yellow Lolly Posted November 15, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 15, 2018 (edited) 9 hours ago, swissie said: Possibly I should refine my question: If such circumstances should evolve, would the extended family be able and willing to support a Farang family member. I realize that some Thai Families would not be able to shoulder such financial requests. But mostly, an extended Thai-Family (as a mutual effort) could raise 400K. So it's more a question of "wantig to" instead of "can do" in most cases. Me thinks. Cheers. While not directed at you personally, I find the notion that's commonly bandied around these forums that you're lower down the pecking order because you're a farang to be objectionable. Things are no different in Thailand. You marry into a good family, you landed on your feet. You marry into a bad family, you're screwed. I once had an argument with an American that married a Thai woman and then started complaining that she sent money home to Thai family yadda yadda. He also complained that when a few of them moved to America they set up camp in his house, yadda yadda yadda, mother in law now installed, and then went on to complain at length about Thai culture and all that's wrong with it. . . What I found so objectionable was the notion that there's something wrong with filial piety. The problem was not his wife, or her family, the problem was him and the fact he'd failed to understand the woman he'd married. Personally I find that there's something wrong with sending your parents to an old folks home to die with strangers, this is a cultural problem developed in the west that Thailand does not yet suffer from. They're still dedicated to eachother, even when that means wiping $#!t off their incontinent parents bedsheets. . . and even when you're a farang good god. Edited November 15, 2018 by NilSS 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ross163103 Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 My extended family would.....if they could.....but they can't, they're too poor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bermondburi Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 Presumably I'd have the funds to go to Laos every five months for a new Non-0, or home country every 17 months. Just do that and have a jolly at the same time. No need to involve family. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zzaa09 Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 15 hours ago, theguyfromanotherforum said: My wife put 400k for my marriage extension and I didn't invest 1 baht in Thailand. Farang Kee Nok, loh? Oh well, numerous instances that Thai and extended Thai look out for the Farang. Might surprise many as to how often this comes about. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 18 hours ago, swissie said: Scenario: You have invested the bulk of your money in Thailand, Surely nobody could be that stupid? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ54 Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 18 hours ago, swissie said: Would your extended Thai-Family be willing to raise the required 400K for your marriage extension If they had the means to do so they would..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ54 Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 18 hours ago, swissie said: Would your extended Thai-Family be willing to raise the required 400K for your marriage extension If they had the means to do so they would..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ54 Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 18 hours ago, swissie said: Would your extended Thai-Family be willing to raise the required 400K for your marriage extension If they had the means to do so they would..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Deerhunter Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 14 hours ago, theguyfromanotherforum said: My wife stayed in Thailand because she actually has a job. And I am coming back in 2 weeks. Anything else? Oh! That was quick! I am not asking for an explanation! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gandtee Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 18 hours ago, NilSS said: This is a strange question. Being candid, if you don't know the answer to that question, I don't know how anyone here can answer it for you. . . but I can share my experience with you, and that's exactly what happens in my case, year in, year out, my sister in law puts up the money to keep my visa status in order, but then, I do work very hard for the family business. Good luck. Same. Same. Forget the stories of Thais only wanting the farangs for their money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted November 15, 2018 Author Share Posted November 15, 2018 7 hours ago, scorecard said: "... In other words: You are "real-estate-rich" but "cash-poor")." One analysis of that comment - it's a result of your own decisions, nobody else's decisions and you know full well you need the 400K cash in the bank at a specific date each year, it's not a sudden surprise. Further 'real-estate rich', is that meaning: - you paid for the real estate and the ownership is in your name, or - you paid for the real-estate but the ownership is not in your own name? Post #3 gives the answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LivinLOS Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 8 hours ago, scorecard said: One analysis of that comment - it's a result of your own decisions, nobody else's decisions and you know full well you need the 400K cash in the bank at a specific date each year, it's not a sudden surprise. You are aware that people have up to now been able to use income declarations right ?? ...and you are also aware that many embassys are now unwilling to continue issueing those declarations right ?? I mean you do know the reason for the issue being raised ?? and that is is a change is procedure and IS a sudden surprise ?? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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