This was too spot on I have to share an article from MSN Lifestyle titled 30 telltale signs your Marriage is over   (AND I'M NOT EVEN MARRIED YET!)

I was  married for 26 + years (US) and divorced almost 10 years ago.  I've now been living with my Thai Fiancé for almost 5 years.  Proposed last year (Spring) and have been slipping the wedding from that fall, and now out to the beginning of Summer.    

 

I was gobsmacked when I read this list of 30 signs and I have to admit, I've got well over half of these signs (ever so subtle) and am thinking about my pro's and con's.   I've attached the full article (Word 5 Pages) and am just listing the 30 headers only.  I'd like to hear some similar stories and I'll try to match (Fortunately, 

 

                               30 Telltale Signs Your Marriage Is Over

AND AREN’T EVEN MARRIED YET!

 

No one ever said that marriage is easy. Every couple goes through rough periods now and again. Disagreements and arguments are bound to happen, especially as the pressures of work, money, and children come into play. But how do you know when it’s time to call it quits with your partner—for good?

1.       You’re not having sex

 

2.       You’re always fighting and bickering

 

3.      You’re not communicating anymore

 

4.       Your partner is cheating—and isn’t sorry

 

5.      Therapy isn’t working

 

6.       Your partner doesn’t want to make it work

 

7.      You’re daydreaming about being single or with another partner

 

8.       You and your partner give each other no respect

 

9.       When you seldom resolve your differences

 

10.  Friends or family notice the conflict in your relationship

 

11.  Your children are suffering because of the toxic situation

 

12.  You or your spouse put your children first—always

 

13.  Your partner develops addictive habits

 

14.  Abuse of any kind

 

15.  Your partner is moving money between accounts

 

16.  You’re leading separate lives

 

17.  You choose your phone over your mate

 

18.  You disagree about whether or not to have children

 

19. You feel like you can’t grow as a person while in this relationship

 

20.  When it’s no fun anymore

 

21.  You’re ignoring your gut feeling

 

22.  You’re preoccupied with the problems of others

 

23.  You’ve stopped fighting

 

24.  You’re having an affair, either emotional or physical

 

25.  You feel controlled

 

26.  You and your partner have totally different agendas t

 

27.  You got married for the wrong reasons

 

28. You keep secrets

 

29.  You aren’t interested in participating in your partner’s favorite activities

 

30.  You feel lonely

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30 Telltale Signs Full Document 5 pages.docx

30 Telltale Signs with Headers only.docx

1. You're not having sex.

No need to list any other signs, because she's always having sex with someone.