I've been in Chiang Mai for a few months amd I know a few good restaurants and cafes to go on first dates but I'm in a different kind of situation now.   I'm looking for a good place to go on a first date with a ladyboy.  I have no idea where they are allowed in or where is a good place to take them. 

You should be a Gentleman and ask the Ladyboy where She would like to go and ask Her to take you .

   Give Her the choice , just ask her where she would like to take you and remind her that you will pay in full for wherever she would like  to take you 

9 minutes ago, 7select said:

I have no idea where they are allowed in

17 minutes ago, 7select said:

I have no idea where they are allowed in or where is a good place to take them. 

ladyboys like manly things too, you can take herm to a pool hall, or a football match, or Thai boxing. Any farang oriented Sports Bar, especially those full of Brits and Ozzies (who are known for their love of ladyboys) would be a suitable place for you and your sweetheart.....

 

Ask herm if s-he likes Tops...the market I mean....

17 minutes ago, sanemax said:

You should be a Gentleman and ask the Ladyboy where She would like to go and ask Her to take you .

   Give Her the choice , just ask her where she would like to take you and remind her that you will pay in full for wherever she would like  to take you 

Her?

22 minutes ago, sanemax said:

You should be a Gentleman and ask the Ladyboy where She would like to go and ask Her to take you .

   Give Her the choice , just ask her where she would like to take you and remind her that you will pay in full for wherever she would like  to take you 

Ive never gotten a straight answer from a thai girl.  The response is always ' up to u'.

35 minutes ago, 7select said:

have no idea where they are allowed in or where is a good place to take them.

Oh dear! Here we go again.

Suggest the nearest Love Motel. And do not invite his/her friends along for the ride.

A great place to start is the gold shop, he'll love that and will be most welcome by the owner!

Three baht around his neck will totally enhance the smile.

 

 

4 minutes ago, PatOngo said:

A great place to start is the gold shop, he'll love that and will be most welcome by the owner!

Three baht around his neck will totally enhance the smile.

 

 

Lmao,  not a prostitute from Wat Loi Kro road.  Matched in tinder, seems like a legit non prostitute ladyboy.

 

    No problem ,  ladyboy ,  will know all the in places ,  that give a good kick back ..

     You pay everything no forget na,  enjoy the ride ..

24 minutes ago, 7select said:

Ive never gotten a straight answer from a thai girl.  The response is always ' up to u'.

 

 Up  to u ,  same same , how much you can pay .

  I love em , when they are coy , never go farlang before..555

 

 

 

5 minutes ago, elliss said:

enjoy the ride ..

You can not say that without knowing who´s the horse.

I think up the back alley is the traditional approach.

Any gold shop will do ....

47 minutes ago, Matzzon said:

You can not say that without knowing who´s the horse.

 

    Here we go again ,  ops second post and he asks  tvforum  members where to go for a date... 555. 

    When i first came to LOS , not have thaivisaforum , i had to learn the hard way..

     Thais called us stupid farlangs then, and they still call us stupid farlangs . Sure...

 

         

 

1 hour ago, 7select said:

Lmao,  not a prostitute from Wat Loi Kro road.  Matched in tinder, seems like a legit non prostitute ladyboy.

Its a good job the Loi Kroh staff have never discovered ThaiFriendly, Tinder or Grindr. If they did, how would we know who the prostitutes were?

1 hour ago, sanemax said:

You should be a Gentleman and ask the Ladyboy where She would like to go and ask Her to take you .

   Give Her the choice , just ask her where she would like to take you and remind her that you will pay in full for wherever she would like  to take you 

We got the message, "to take you".

You have been here for a few months, so, you already know all the usual rules for dating a Thai you are meeting for the first time (coffee/drink first etc).

So, all you are asking is if there are any places where you might run into hostility or awkwardness if you show up with a ladyboy. No. Pretty much any place in Chiang Mai that caters to westerners won't even blink at a ladyboy, as long as she is not clearly a hooker, or a junkie, or someone with a bad reputation around town.

There are, however, other factors you should consider. If you bring her to any big, popular bar such as Warm Up Cafe, every girl there will take note and will remember that you sleep with men. Thai women have astonishing memories and an even more astonishing grapevine. If the novelty of ladyboys wears off and you decide to start dating Thai women, your public dalliance with a ladyboy could well come back to bite you on the ass.

If one of your future girl's friends happens to have seen you with a ladyboy, even if it was years ago, she will, absolutely, delight in revealing your secret. You could find your relationship inexplicably cooling down, or have to deal with a whole new layer of paranoia, insecurity, and contempt, all without ever being told why.

If you go in the other direction, and fully come to terms with being gay, you may find Thai gays less accepting of your ladyboy past than you would imagine.

The stigma around ladyboys is unfair, but not entirely without reason. Chiang Mai got hit really hard during the HIV epidemic and that is part of the reason why women here are so alert to what their partners get up to. If a partner comes to believe that you occasionally like to dabble in ladyboys, it will drive him/her crazy because they know how easy it is to pick up ladyboys and how likely they are to have multiple infections. It is pretty much a catastrophe to find themselves in that situation.

 

Now, you may well not mind all that, and that's cool if you have come to a firm decision on what your sexuality is about. Just be aware that seemingly innocent things, such as your date taking endless cute selfies of the two of you together, could end up haunting your future if the novelty wears off, you realize that ladyboys are just particularly self-obsessed men in skirts, and you end up wanting a relationship with a woman.

 

 

6 hours ago, elliss said:

Thais called us stupid farlangs then, and they still call us stupid farlangs . Sure...

They not call me that. I am pretty sure that must be a private issue.

9 hours ago, Nyezhov said:

ladyboys like manly things too

i take your word for it

You can hardly contain your excitement!  Pickup some street food on the way back to your room...????

1 hour ago, donnacha said:

You have been here for a few months, so, you already know all the usual rules for dating a Thai you are meeting for the first time (coffee/drink first etc).

So, all you are asking is if there are any places where you might run into hostility or awkwardness if you show up with a ladyboy. No. Pretty much any place in Chiang Mai that caters to westerners won't even blink at a ladyboy, as long as she is not clearly a hooker, or a junkie, or someone with a bad reputation around town.

There are, however, other factors you should consider. If you bring her to any big, popular bar such as Warm Up Cafe, every girl there will take note and will remember that you sleep with men. Thai women have astonishing memories and an even more astonishing grapevine. If the novelty of ladyboys wears off and you decide to start dating Thai women, your public dalliance with a ladyboy could well come back to bite you on the ass.

If one of your future girl's friends happens to have seen you with a ladyboy, even if it was years ago, she will, absolutely, delight in revealing your secret. You could find your relationship inexplicably cooling down, or have to deal with a whole new layer of paranoia, insecurity, and contempt, all without ever being told why.

If you go in the other direction, and fully come to terms with being gay, you may find Thai gays less accepting of your ladyboy past than you would imagine.

The stigma around ladyboys is unfair, but not entirely without reason. Chiang Mai got hit really hard during the HIV epidemic and that is part of the reason why women here are so alert to what their partners get up to. If a partner comes to believe that you occasionally like to dabble in ladyboys, it will drive him/her crazy because they know how easy it is to pick up ladyboys and how likely they are to have multiple infections. It is pretty much a catastrophe to find themselves in that situation.

 

Now, you may well not mind all that, and that's cool if you have come to a firm decision on what your sexuality is about. Just be aware that seemingly innocent things, such as your date taking endless cute selfies of the two of you together, could end up haunting your future if the novelty wears off, you realize that ladyboys are just particularly self-obsessed men in skirts, and you end up wanting a relationship with a woman.

 

 

Such a serious reply to an unserious topic ????

I've probably been around Thais too long as my normal MO with ladyboys is to get them really mao, slip them a GHB, take them back to their room, relieve them of their gold and do a runner. Works for me.

9 hours ago, Nyezhov said:

ladyboys like manly things too, you can take herm to a pool hall, or a football match, or Thai boxing. Any farang oriented Sports Bar, especially those full of Brits and Ozzies (who are known for their love of ladyboys) would be a suitable place for you and your sweetheart.....

 

Ask herm if s-he likes Tops...the market I mean....

Germans are the go to for ladyboy advice, "herm" you know that could catch on. Perhaps one of the dozen gender varieties. 

9 hours ago, Nyezhov said:

Ask herm if s-he likes Tops

Probably likes BOTTOMS better!   LOL

You say you are staying in ChiangMai but are posting from Arizona USA so this topic would seem rather trollish

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