I have been on Tinder a lot lately and I gotta say one of the reasons I want to stay in Thailand is because I am absolutely inspired by Thai women.

 

Unlike Western women (and men on this forum) who have had their lives handed on the silver platter I have met some really lost causes, yet they keep smiling, keep fighting and keep looking great every day.

 

My past date had 3 children.... screwed over by a Thai who run away and then a Brit who also run away and left her with 2 kids who are now back in the village. This made me think that there isn't much difference between a Thai guy and a Western guy. Thailand is enabler of bad behavior and if there are no laws to protect women and children the losers will get shafted. Shame on you British guy. I would love to open a gofundme me page for that woman and put this British losers mug on it.

 

My current gf has no living parents, no family.... saved money all by herself to go to the university and make a better life for herself. 

 

What would a Thai Visa forum member do? Whinge and complain about Thai people being lazy while getting his overseas pension and barstooling around.

 

Give me a break. Thai women deserve every penny they got from you guys. 

 

If you have been ripped off you should learn to start over.... like Thai women do :)

 

Everyone take care unti my next obesrvational post about Thailand. As per previous thread I power washed my passport and have to leave the country.

 

Can't wait to return and be inspired even more.

 

 

I like Tinder too. I find that ST off there is far easier and more affordable than Lady Drinks and Bar fines on top of the fee. ????

 

I dont go out on "dates" from Tinder, if I want to go on a date, Ill put a wig on my hand and treat myself to Kobe.

Ok great!

 

Did you ever thought about why they run away and left her alone?

 

9 minutes ago, Pravda said:

Everyone take care unti my next obesrvational post about Thailand. As per previous thread I power washed my passport and have to leave the country.

Answer: No, you probably forgot that as well as were you last put your passport.

12 minutes ago, Pravda said:

I am absolutely inspired by Thai women.

Likewise.

 

12 minutes ago, Pravda said:

My past date had 3 children.... screwed over by a Thai who run away and then a Brit who also run away and left her with 2 kids

Common denominator? (I am not excusing anyone for abandoning their children)

 

12 minutes ago, Pravda said:

Thai women deserve every penny they got from you guys.

Agreed.

 

12 minutes ago, Pravda said:

What would a Thai Visa forum member do?

Find more inspiration!

I'm moving this topic to the Pub.

 

It's currently Friday lunchtime, so I think there will be more chance of catching members in the Pub over the weekend.

 

Edit: @CharlieH had the same idea and beat me to it.

16 minutes ago, Pravda said:

I am absolutely inspired by Thai women.

yes i am amazed at how hard working the women are.

 

this whole country would fall apart without them. they do just about everything while the lazy Thai men sit around and do nothing.

 

I don't know if I think it's funny or sad when some people make these generalizations.

All women are good or all are bad and similar for the men.

 

Do guys (in general) leave women who make them happy?

Or do guys leave women who make them unhappy?

 

Some women think moaning all day long is perfectly alright. And some think spending huge amounts of (his) money is ok. And then there are the drinkers, gamblers, drug users, etc.

 

There are lots of reasons to separate from each other - even with kids.

 

 

I don't understand the last picture. 

 

You can Google just about everything and get the result you want. 

 

This thread is about inspirational Thai women*that I joob joob 

I can think of many other ways of what foreigners thinks and feelings are towards thai ladies/girls and 'inspire' would probably be among the bottom of the long list, but what is an inspiration to one person could have a whole lot of different meaning to others...

13 hours ago, Pravda said:

Give me a break. Thai women deserve every penny they got from you guys. 

Does your new girlfriend really love you or do you "help her with her finances" ?

1 hour ago, NCC1701A said:

yes i am amazed at how hard working the women are.

 

this whole country would fall apart without them. they do just about everything while the lazy Thai men sit around and do nothing.

 

True that ... you have to give it to them. They are always more active and look forward to new opportunities ????

 

But to say "Thai woman inspire me!" ... that would go a bit too far ????

 

 

There are all kinds of people in the world, Thailand is not an exception. Anyway, here the number of run away <deleted>ty man are very very high, more than you can imagine, and in the case they don't run away they collect mia noi. 

it must be said also that upstream girls and women fall in love with <deleted>ty men, they accept to be lovers, and they are regularly abandoned after being pregnant.
Unfortunately it is always the usual problem of the sexist society, the man who has many women is a star, a man with charisma and fascination,
women, on the other hand, are criticized by a society full of moralists without morals.

The reality is this: the men in Thailand are revered. Have you ever seen an elderly mother serve the meal to her son in his twenties and thirties, while this lazy boy does nothing?
Men believe they can do what they want in Thailand. And this is absolutely not correct. Not to mention the squalid examples in the elites that legitimize these unrighteous behaviors.

I don't think a Thai women deserves 9 million baht.......for just being married to a guy and dumping three kids on him.....seriously, what inspires me is conversation other than money which no matter what anyone says, Thai women talk about....how about a girl that talks about politics, her work, travel etc etc etc....Thai women are snatch for rent, nothing more and nothing less

1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Do guys (in general) leave women who make them happy?

Or do guys leave women who make them unhappy?

Fair questions.

 

What's your answer/opinion on this? 

 

To me, age has a lot to do with it. If you are young, many girls you meet are attractive ... and a danger to fall for it.

Doesn't matter how happy your girl at home makes you. You just follow your d!ck, so to speak. Nature is calling.

 

Later, maybe you understand better and really appreciate what your partner provides to you.

 

The other question, woman who don't make you happy, yeah, leave them anyway. Why would you stay?

 

 

 

 

 

15 minutes ago, RedPill said:

Fair questions.

 

What's your answer/opinion on this? 

 

To me, age has a lot to do with it. If you are young, many girls you meet are attractive ... and a danger to fall for it.

Doesn't matter how happy your girl at home makes you. You just follow your d!ck, so to speak. Nature is calling.

 

Later, maybe you understand better and really appreciate what your partner provides to you.

 

The other question, woman who don't make you happy, yeah, leave them anyway. Why would you stay?

My understanding is that often women misunderstand men's thinking.

 

It seems many women find hundreds of reasons why their partner does not love them anymore. I.e. she is too old, too fat, her breasts are not big enough, they are too big, she thinks need a nose job, she thinks she must have whiter skin, maybe better (designer) clothes, and and and.

 

But that in reality the reason is that she is nagging him all the time and that she should not complain when he goes from time to time out with the guys and gets drunk that is something some women obviously don't (want to) understand.

 

And if they ask the guy what he does not like and he tells them he does not like their nagging, what do they understand: I am too old, he wants a younger woman...

 

I know that is not always like this but you get the idea - that is my personal opinion.

 Tinder girls are inspirational?...………....yeah, ok!

 Just be careful, it could a Nigerian guy you are chatting with! 

1 hour ago, sanemax said:

Does your new girlfriend really love you or do you "help her with her finances" ?

And what if a guy helps the girl with her finances? Does that mean she does not love him?

 

Lots of farangs earn a lot more than most Thai people. So if a girl earns i.e. 15k per month and he earns 100k and he supports her maybe with 10k per month. Does this mean she does not love him? Because if she would love him she would never ever take any money from him?

 

Lots of us had mothers who didn't work while we were young - maybe she never received a salary in her whole life. Mother was at home and took care of us. And father earned all that money and he paid for everything. Do you think it's possible that our mother loved her husband?

 

14 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

And what if a guy helps the girl with her finances? Does that mean she does not love him?

 

Lots of farangs earn a lot more than most Thai people. So if a girl earns i.e. 15k per month and he earns 100k and he supports her maybe with 10k per month. Does this mean she does not love him? Because if she would love him she would never ever take any money from him?

 

Lots of us had mothers who didn't work while we were young - maybe she never received a salary in her whole life. Mother was at home and took care of us. And father earned all that money and he paid for everything. Do you think it's possible that our mother loved her husband?

 

You cannot compare Mothers in the Western world 50 years ago to third world prostitutes of today .

  Western mothers took care of the house, cleaning , shopping , washing clothes and usually bought a few Children up , which was a job in itself .

   Compared that to a young Thai girl who just provides sex and laughs at her payers unfunny jokes and pretends that she likes her boss , but with all employees , she will change job as soon as a better job is offered  

5 hours ago, Pravda said:

My current gf has no living parents, no family.... saved money all by herself to go to the university and make a better life for herself. 

I think my alarm bells would be ringing by hearing that - as that seems to be exactly how the beach road totty puts themselves through uni !

Thai women are pretty tough-minded. They have to be, to survive in a society that is male-oriented for no good reason.

While there are a lot of stories about Thai women swindling farangs out of their money, there are also a lot of Thai women who make excellent partners, because they don't have the same entitlement hangups as Western women. I have one such.

I am unable to imagine ever having sex with a Western woman again, having experienced what Thai women bring to the table.

5 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I don't know if I think it's funny or sad when some people make these generalizations.

All women are good or all are bad and similar for the men.

 

Do guys (in general) leave women who make them happy?

Or do guys leave women who make them unhappy?

 

Some women think moaning all day long is perfectly alright. And some think spending huge amounts of (his) money is ok. And then there are the drinkers, gamblers, drug users, etc.

 

There are lots of reasons to separate from each other - even with kids.

 

 

Seems to me this subject probably has a few 'standards' but on top of that it's individual attitudes and actions.

 

About 2 years back my Thai son told his long-term buddy to stop coming to our house.

 

Why? Buddy has a Thai wife and 3 kids under 12 years old. The wife appears to be balanced, sincere, very pleasant and always ready to be helpful, she's a qualified accountant.

 

Here's the point, the buddy brings his wife and kids to our house but also regularly brings other girls who are 1 - 2 night stands and he tells my son about the sex experience he has with of these other girls.

 

My son's 12 year old had been asking questions about 'what gives', then buddy's wife appeared one evening, with kids and she asked my son and his wife if they know if her husband has a minor wife or dates girls? Nobody realized that sons' 12 year old daughter was listening.

 

Son and his wife were caught off guard and didn't know what to say so they feigned any knowledge of the situation.

 

Same evening son and his wife then quickly decided they don't want to tell lies about this so my son decided best thing is to tell his buddy don't come to our house again, son also told him to behave himself and have proper respect for his wife and his kids.

 

The reality is that my son has strong principles about this subject and he's especially serious about the damage that could come out of such scenarios for kids. 

 

 

Your wearing rose colored glasses...In time you will see something else.

55 minutes ago, RichardColeman said:

I think my alarm bells would be ringing by hearing that - as that seems to be exactly how the beach road totty puts themselves through uni !

 

It is true that i don't know anything about her, but neither do you and I certainly didn't meet her in Pattaya. 

 

As a matter of fact, most girls I met held 2 or 3 jobs. The very first girl I met on tinder held a job at international company, moved me into her hiso condo after the third date and was the biggest ho of all. 

 

So, I'm going to refrain myself from judging Thai girls as I did in the past. I told this one I'm not rich and she told me she's making enough for herself and just wants love. To be honest she won't be winning any beauty contests, but that's fine. 

 

BTW, a week ago I went on a date with a 22 year old (I'm 46). She flat out told me she is a prostitute and she just wants someone to love her too. I said I'll think about it. She paid for lunch ????

 

That's another thing.... Most of them I find very honest regarding their past  relationships and what they want. That's something I wasn't expecting especially from what I read here..... 

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

Thai women are pretty tough-minded. They have to be, to survive in a society that is male-oriented for no good reason.

While there are a lot of stories about Thai women swindling farangs out of their money, there are also a lot of Thai women who make excellent partners, because they don't have the same entitlement hangups as Western women. I have one such.

I am unable to imagine ever having sex with a Western woman again, having experienced what Thai women bring to the table.

Yeah one of these days Im gonna have to find one. Its hard in BKK though since Im old and fat and like them 25 and below. Maybe Ill go to a village somewhere

Nice to find a positive post that refects the truth as opposed to the judgemental bigotry espoused by many contributors here who use this forum to push their twisted moral agenda.

2 hours ago, sanemax said:

You cannot compare Mothers in the Western world 50 years ago to third world prostitutes of today .

  Western mothers took care of the house, cleaning , shopping , washing clothes and usually bought a few Children up , which was a job in itself .

   Compared that to a young Thai girl who just provides sex and laughs at her payers unfunny jokes and pretends that she likes her boss , but with all employees , she will change job as soon as a better job is offered  

It seems you think you know a lot about what is going on with farangs and Thai women in Thailand.

Reality is a little more complex.

But don't let that get in the way of your prejudices.

7 hours ago, Pravda said:

Everyone take care until my next observational post about Thailand.

35 minutes ago, Nyezhov said:

Yeah one of these days Im gonna have to find one. Its hard in BKK though since Im old and fat and like them 25 and below. Maybe Ill go to a village somewhere

Quite seriously, if you raise your sights to a 35 to 40 yo, I think you will be pleasantly surprised. More life experience, lower expectations.

Yeah, the silky lining of their vaginas is totally inspirational.

 

1 minute ago, Lacessit said:

Quite seriously, if you raise your sights to a 35 to 40 yo, I think you will be pleasantly surprised. More life experience, lower expectations.

30. High as I can go. Unless there is NO cellulite or flab