4 hours ago, kenk24 said:

200 baht a day would be 6000 a month... not the 2-3000 you noted. 

provided you work 30 days a month; which never happens.

On 4/9/2020 at 4:41 PM, kiever said:

no never i would do it for a girl in my home country.. but in my home country i would never have a girl at less than half age of mine.

So maybe you have heard the expression "you get what you pay for"  I am sure you have seen celbrities like Nicholas Cage 56 with his GF 26,  Dennis Quaid 65 with his GF 26 and others . As you said you couldn't get a girl who is less than half your age in almost any country unless rich and famous and it would be talked about. So have a girl around your age  or a hot young Trophy wife  that will cost you like it does the celebrites.  Photo below of Dennis Quaid

https://people.com/celebrity/13-celebrities-whose-romances-bridged-the-age-gap/

Why give the lady 50,00O baht? Dump her!

 

Op, fxxxk it....   marry her and let us know how you get on.

33 minutes ago, Davo369 said:

fxxxk it....   marry her

Brings a tear to my eye.

It's so romantic.

 

 

 

47 minutes ago, Assurancetourix said:

provided you work 30 days a month; which never happens.

where you are... 

If she's asking for gold she's already planning for life without you, give her the boot

Contract has expired..She wants to start a super fund.

6 hours ago, wmlc said:

I’m surprised you and other foreigners on this board don’t know about Thai culture or behavior. Your girlfriend is just scared about her future and needs stability. Most, of not all Thai girls see gold as stability. It is something they can pawn or sell at a moments notice if they need money. Take a look at all the ads right now because if corona virus. All the gold shops are advertising about buying, selling and pawning in their shops. Thai people as well as the rest of us are having issues with money and jobs due to corona virus. The only issue I would have about her request is it comes during this difficult time. Think of the picture you have painted of yourself with her. She thinks you are rich! Therefore, she is under the impression that you can and should buy gold for her. Yes, western women don’t normally request this but some do. But most western women don’t do what thai women do such as taking care of their man, looking 100% more beautiful after 30 and so on. You can’t compare. 

Do you honestly think, at 23 years old, this bar girl is thinking about stability?

 

No, sir. She is thinking how much she can get her hands on right now and will spend it right away.

 

Bar girls want things, they want it right now, and they will do whatever it takes to get it.

 

Has zero to do with stability.

So she has lived 100 % off you for 2,5 years and now she wants even more? 
Give them an inch and they take a mile....

Interesting post about Thailand, including Thai women (of course) :

THE TRUE FACE OF THAILAND TODAY

https://www.neeeeext.com/index.php?topic=260.msg669#msg669

 

 

She sounds like a typical greedy never satisfied Thai woman and probably lying about her friends getting all this gold.However,this is a difficult time and no work is around due to the virus so you could send her enough money.to pay her rent and buy food etc until you are able to return to Thailand.If she complains and wants lavish gold presents say goodbye to her. You love her but she probably likes you but mainly for the money.There are a FEW reasonable kind Thai women around keep looking.

Oh hell, it is 2315 hours in Oz and I turn on tv and get "Thai horror story number 297,867 ... or was that 868" ?

I contributed to two of those numbers so I should know - then twenty-five years ago I stopped dating and trying to 're-humanise' Thai bar girls/hookers and instead learned to speak near fluent Thai, as I wanted to meet a good girl. Married twenty years now and have a kid. Never bought her a thing if I didn't want to. Missus has said many times in the seven years that we have been in Oz that "she will never return to LOS ever again" and, she means it. Good luck to the OP, but I'd running like all shxt right now ....

 

My (probably ex) would tell me about going to temple for a few days of meditation and get to talking to the other women about her relationship with me and they would ask "how much allowance does he give you every month?" and "can you get me a farang boyfriend?" 

I've always said that old saying that "nature abhors a vacuum" has a version in Thailand that LOS abhors a straight white male with money who is single, they are going to fix you up and it may not matter much what you look like, as long as the credit cards work.

you silly men never learn... guess what's between her legs must be magic, huh? 

 

7 hours ago, samsensam said:

 

how about an incentive method of employment to ensure you get bang for your buck, as it were, put her on performance related pay; win/win 

Well, after such request and two years being a parasite that would be too much. I would tell her that she can get something more precious than gold, but JUST on her face. That's the only thing she deserves.

For future? For most Thais, especially Isaan girls, the future usually means no further than tomorrow. And gold is just a saleable commodity if cash runs out. Certainly not a token of love as she would have you believe. I learned the hard way and it looks as if you are following a well trodden path just as I did until I wised up.

 

But I'm still with her. We have now been married 6 years, after 2 years of what you describe.. As another commented, where would I now at 68 find a 44 year old attractive lady who is happy to live with me and (mostly) do my bidding? Well here in Thailand of course, I could do it all again, but for me now it's a case of better the devil you know???? And that old saying" no money no honey"? I've reversed it to " no honey, no money"???? That works !

buy some, and hold onto it for her, "for her future". 

OP,

Where us she now?  Do you even know?

She would not be the 1st, of last Thai that was sloppering another knob while their "Farang BF" was away.

PM me her Line.  ????

You really think she will turn down some extra money?

 

I know,  I know..... "your girl is different"   and  you 2 are truly in love... 

On 4/9/2020 at 4:24 AM, Davo369 said:

Would you do this to a girl from your home country? 

Hmm. Travel 10,000 miles to find GF in a foreing land whose cultures, societies, language, religions, etc. nothing in common. Why he should do the same from his home country. Only desperate people travel 10,000 miles to find GF across the globe.

 

Post removed, can we not make sweeping derogatory generalizations on Thai females please.

 

49 minutes ago, daphnia88 said:

you silly men never learn... guess what's between her legs must be magic, huh? 

 

Every woman has magic between her legs, it's just some never learn how to perform the magic successfully.

4 minutes ago, Mulambana said:

Hmm. Travel 10,000 miles to find GF in a foreing land whose cultures, societies, language, religions, etc. nothing in common. Why he should do the same from his home country. Only desperate people travel 10,000 miles to find GF across the globe.

 

I am on my 16th round trip from the States..yep, just about 9000 miles.  But I only paid for three of those trips; my proper use of credit card bonuses paid for the rest. Even as the Lufthansa hostesses start looking more like Merkel, and the Thai hostesses start looking more like General Prayut, it still isnt as bad as driving across country or even New Yawk to Miami.

How about you get her some small business, foodstall, foodcart, washery, etc. Costs 100,000 bht and let's see how she answers to that. You have spoilt her life too much.

I think this is a big difference between thai lady and filipina lady .  In thai villages they weighs love with how much money and gold the man give .  so you just have to think this kind of  thai lady  as a glory hole and make sure you use it as much as you can so you can throw it sooner and move on to a different glory hole.  Trust me there is no shortage of it .. 

Get a new one at least if you are fine with burning such money. Half your age or not, you are being used.
She most likely bones other guys too, on your money. If you are not the hammer someone else is my friend, wake up.

I did many girls in my first years in Bangkok, single, who had sponsors like you. Not saying that to show off, just saying it is not just stories, it happens.
No need to keep those for a long term at such high cost, just get another one. Great time as it is a buyers market as said by others already.

You are her job. Nothing else.

7 minutes ago, ChaiyaTH said:

I did many girls in my first years in Bangkok, single, who had sponsors like you. Not saying that to show off, just saying it is not just stories, it happens.

Oh, I wouldn't worry about people seeing this as you "showing off". I mean, what is there to brag about by paying women to have sex with you?  ????

55 minutes ago, ChaiyaTH said:

Get a new one at least if you are fine with burning such money. Half your age or not, you are being used.
She most likely bones other guys too, on your money. If you are not the hammer someone else is my friend, wake up.

I did many girls in my first years in Bangkok, single, who had sponsors like you. Not saying that to show off, just saying it is not just stories, it happens.
No need to keep those for a long term at such high cost, just get another one. Great time as it is a buyers market as said by others already.

You are her job. Nothing else.

Rightly said -   YOU ARE HER JOB, NOTHING ELSE 

On 4/9/2020 at 10:41 AM, kiever said:

no never i would do it for a girl in my home country.. but in my home country i would never have a girl at less than half age of mine.

You have stated that you would never do it for a girl in your own country so your only criteria for this relationship is she is half your age, ok so now look around you, there are thousands just like her all looking for some farang who is older by at least half her age and initially she will not be asking for gold but when she does just do what you need to do with the one you have now, dump and run because you are on a hiding to ever more demands for money, home, land, credit card oh and more gold for her, love plays a very small part in her life for you but showing off to her friends all the benefits her buffalo gives her on demand is everything.

RUN buddy RUN, the grass really is greener on the other side of the fence in this instance.

Does she take it up the chocolate starfish?