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9 hours ago, Sujo said:

Why not, but if i were him i would do long visits to other countries also and then chose which country he suits better.

 

Thats what i did and chose malaysia, though not retired.

Malaysia, Nope, yuk

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6 minutes ago, IAMHERE said:

Multiply the cost of a two week vacation by 26, then multiply that by how many years you have left. If you have that much money in the bank (wherever) then I say go for it. Otherwise you'll be old, lonely and poor before your time.

I get your point but respectfully suggest that it's not going to be possible for most people to repeat the intensity of a 2 week trip for a full year. For starters you'd probably have a condo vs a hotel, so money saved there, and you'd probably fit in more "rest days", if for no other reason than recovery. Having said that if he was the type to send money for sick buffalo then maybe it would be the same as a year of 2 week'ers ????

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9 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

So i discussed with him,is life for a 50yo going to be much more exciting everyday for him than going to work everyday in Sydney Australia?

is somehow selling all his assets about 10 million going to give a better life eg for him stopping the loneliness or depression.

the answer i believe is NO

I feel empathy for him but that is a wrong reason to "retire" even at his relatively young age especially with only 10 million baht to last him a lifetime and no house or job to go back to if suddenly he gets....lonely in Thailand too.

It seems like you are the one who shouldn't retire in Thailand. Don't tell people what to do. 

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He needs to consider his son is moving interstate not to another country. Surely if here in Thailand he’ll miss his son and who knows

what prices air tickets will be after Covid... most airlines are going

to be gutted..... 

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Money can,t buy you love,------the beatles all joking aside do you want a full on 24/7 relationship for the sake of a few minutes of sex?just have the edited highlights,holiday there,and pay as you go. Never burn your bridges.

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Until I retired some three years ago I was a contract engineer in the aerospace/defense industry. I made the choice to base myself in Pattaya a bit over 35 years ago, a nice place to live and up to date communications. When my retirement came up where to go but back to my half life base. Seen no reason to question that choice yet.

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There are 3 reasons it's wrong to retire in Thailand.

 

1. You think a relationship with an ex-bargirl will end well.

 

2. You think a relationship with an ex-bargirl will end well.

 

3. You think a relationship with an ex-bargirl will end well.

 

????????????

 

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Steady on mate, do a couple of years here

on a couple of visas first, see how it goes.

Don't burn yer bridges yet.

I have an idea that the Ozzi pension ceases

after being away for a certain amount of time.

Worth checking that.

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10 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

It seems lots of people somehow think they must make a decision for the rest of their life. Why?

You are spot on.Flexibility is the key if you can possibly manage it.

 

Also avoid rigid dualistic thinking ie..Thailand good-homeland bad (or vice versa) and don't burn those bridges...you can just leave a plank across the stream if you like.

 

On a side issue but one that is still pertinent to this thread-i was visited by an Aussie friend who announced firmly that he wished to retire in Thailand so (having heard these stories many times before) I merely directed his attention to this forum (TvF) and said you can read all the good/bad and indifferent stuff you want at your own pace...

 

He has not looked at the forum to date and I doubt that he ever will..until things start to go wrong...

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With 10 million Baht only? He lived in a house in Australia, I guess he doesn´t want to live in a 35 sqm Condo in Thailand. Phuket is the most expensive place in Thailand. He needs a health insurance, perhaps he wants a car, I am sure he wants a good steak, a burger and some beers from time to time. For sure he wants to travel through the country. That´s not cheap. 

I relocated in the age of 55 with 20 million Baht and still had a 6 MB house (ok, on paper my wife), 2 cars and a scooter - and get yearly 1 million Baht in dividends. That makes me feel safe.

 

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What's better at 65 for this guy?

Having had 15 good years in Thailand and be broke but about to start to get his pension.

Having had 15 years of sadness and depression in Sydney but now having a pensipn, house and further savings?

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26 minutes ago, sidjameson said:

Having had 15 good years in Thailand and be broke

Hey Sid... that is a big assumption - what if he blows it all in 5 years and they weren't very good either... sometimes miserable people find they are miserable wherever they are... 

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1 hour ago, daveAustin said:

C'mon guys, as a non-mongering singleton, one can easily live a comfy life in Muang Thai on a lot less than Oz certainly. You don't need millions upon millions. That 10mil could be good for 10-15 years. To a chap that is clearly not having the best of it, getting out and potentially living the dream than sit and languish (for what?) is quite logical. There is always money to be made online and that capital can be made to work.

 

At the end of the day, F the uncertainty! We're all dead anyway. When? :wink:

I agree, I moved to Thailand after banging my first bar girl for a week or two.

So many posters living a life of fear, I'm surprised they ever manage to step outside their home.

I guess with COVID they probably won't any more.

Some spend so long planning and saving, they have no time left for living.

Never really worried that much about making money.

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4 minutes ago, HighPriority said:

Maybe, but he will certainly become more hansum... ????

While he's money lasts,if he had any sense just have the edited highlights of a relationship,i.e the sex,not the full 15 rounds.

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4 minutes ago, kingdong said:
9 hours ago, SiSePuede419 said:

There are 3 reasons it's wrong to retire in Thailand.

 

1. You think a relationship with an ex-bargirl will end well.

 

2. You think a relationship with an ex-bargirl will end well.

 

3. You think a relationship with an ex-bargirl will end well.

 

????????????

 

You might think you,'re having a relationship with a bargirl,to her it's just work.

And then there are lots of people in this forum with happy relations with ex-bargirls.

Sure, there are also lots of unhappy relations - not only with bargirls.

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12 hours ago, sidjameson said:

Very nice post.

What's the total cost per month for the live in carer? Sounds like a possibility for me.

My wife did it when she was younger and also for a short while after we married and were awaiting her visa to come to Oz. 
From memory it paid about 15-18k Baht. 24/7 sleeping/cooking/cleaning on demand ????

She did get about 3hrs a week where she could get out of the house...

Dunno how she did it !

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3 minutes ago, kingdong said:

While he's money lasts,if he had any sense just have the edited highlights of a relationship,i.e the sex,not the full 15 rounds.

It seems to me that most guys who fall in love with (bar)girls here fall in love because the girls are feminine and they are nice to the guys. They smile, bring you drinks, laugh about your jokes all day long. And then there is maybe 30 minutes sex a day. 

Many of us here had sex with lots of girls. Some good, some not so good, some great. And did we all stay with the girl with the great sex? Or one of the others with additional qualities. 

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4 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

It seems to me that most guys who fall in love with (bar)girls here fall in love because the girls are feminine and they are nice to the guys. They smile, bring you drinks, laugh about your jokes all day long. And then there is maybe 30 minutes sex a day. 

Many of us here had sex with lots of girls. Some good, some not so good, some great. And did we all stay with the girl with the great sex? Or one of the others with additional qualities. 

Dunno,either way you,'re falling in love and staying with a girl who's a prostitute,might be love to you it's a job to her.

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