Popular Post Danderman123 Posted May 23, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 23, 2022 There is an interesting parallel between Farangs who are too old to be hitting the bars vs ladies who are getting too old to work bar. As long as a Farang has money, and can walk, a lot continue to go to bars. Even if they are not 100% mentally competent. I suspect that the ladies squeeze big bucks out of these guys. The question is whether older Farangs have an idea that their days going to bars are coming to an end, or whether they just plan to party until they drop? Same with bar girls. I am seeing that the median age of bar girls is rising, but some age better than others. What I am not seeing is any signs that bar girls who are older, but still pulling customers, are planning on retirement. What I see is that they continue to work until they cannot get customers any more. Unless they snag one of the older Farangs for a “permanent” relationship. Some older long time ladies are really deep into the lifestyle, they spend their earnings on young karaoke boys, and can not stop until they run out of money. I don’t see any sign from them that they see the crash coming. 2 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JeffersLos Posted May 23, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 23, 2022 16 minutes ago, Danderman123 said: pulling customers That and sucking, I presume. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post gargamon Posted May 23, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 23, 2022 So what's you're point? 15 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted May 23, 2022 Share Posted May 23, 2022 56 minutes ago, JeffersLos said: That and sucking, I presume. of course..for an extra 500 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted May 23, 2022 Share Posted May 23, 2022 The older the wine the sweeter the grape---Hello Teerak!(hack--cough--wheezing) Seems like that kind of job gets in deep and turns into a career--like it or not..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danderman123 Posted May 23, 2022 Author Share Posted May 23, 2022 50 minutes ago, gargamon said: So what's you're point? An observation. And a questIon: how do you know when you are too old? 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post starky Posted May 23, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 23, 2022 1 hour ago, Danderman123 said: An observation. And a questIon: how do you know when you are too old? Well you mostly answered your question. For men in Thailand with money your never too old (that applies worldwide). For women in the "industry" its when you can no longer find customer. Thats generally whem the get put out to pasture or end up working day shift in a run down beer bar. 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted May 23, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 23, 2022 As long they can serve beer, they are not to old 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted May 23, 2022 Share Posted May 23, 2022 Some move to massage or try Salon or coffee if they have a sponsor, Soi 500 has the old birds 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gt162 Posted May 23, 2022 Share Posted May 23, 2022 Going back to farming doing back breaking work for peanuts does appeal to them. Trying to hang on to find some old timer for financial support does. Nothing wrong with a dream and a hope. For some it does happen but mostly doesn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sitta Posted May 23, 2022 Share Posted May 23, 2022 6 hours ago, Danderman123 said: As long as a Farang has money, and can walk, a lot continue to go to bars. Where else can they find "GF"? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted May 23, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 23, 2022 12 minutes ago, sitta said: Where else can they find "GF"? Lots of single ladies in the care homes back in the west. 1 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted May 23, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 23, 2022 I knew an old (and well educated and rich) guy who visited a street with bars in Bangkok until he dropped. He was there mostly in the afternoon for a couple of hours checking out the newest girls. At the end his heath was so bad that he needed oxygen. He continued to visit the bars and one of his girls of the day was carrying the oxygen beside him. I think that is the perfect way to go. For many old guys there are at least these two options: a) Lots of greedy family members who pretend they love you and tell you they hope you live forever but basically they want that you drop ASAP so that they get their hands on your money. b) The best girls money can buy to make you happy until the end. It's your choice. I know which one I prefer. 13 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Iamfalang Posted May 23, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 23, 2022 I’m 76, get 300,000 wired to my account every month. I spend 100,000 in bars. problem? Not my problem. too old isn’t the problem. It’s too poor 12 2 4 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RichardColeman Posted May 23, 2022 Share Posted May 23, 2022 7 hours ago, Danderman123 said: There is an interesting parallel between Farangs who are too old to be hitting the bars vs ladies who are getting too old to work bar. I dunno, they look happy to me ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olfu Posted May 24, 2022 Share Posted May 24, 2022 Yes, what else on a plate to do. Its all about money to waste and have fun. Reasonably the only normal place is Thailand. I prefer Italy and Japan but both out of my price range. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted May 24, 2022 Share Posted May 24, 2022 Reported inflammatory remark removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted May 24, 2022 Share Posted May 24, 2022 So, old people get old and keep on being people, just older? Is that the point you want to make? not 100% mentally competent...?? never met someone who was 100% some age better than others?? - - do you think everyone should age exactly the same?? 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post redwood1 Posted May 24, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 24, 2022 (edited) 1 hour ago, Iamfalang said: I’m 76, get 300,000 wired to my account every month. I spend 100,000 in bars. problem? Not my problem. too old isn’t the problem. It’s too poor 300,000 a month.....I can only dream of having a budget like this......That's not even a budget....Thats a money spending free-for-all... Edited May 24, 2022 by redwood1 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted May 24, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 24, 2022 1 hour ago, Iamfalang said: I’m 76, get 300,000 wired to my account every month. I spend 100,000 in bars. The rest you just waste! 2 1 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Lacessit Posted May 24, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 24, 2022 3 hours ago, BritManToo said: Lots of single ladies in the care homes back in the west. Please, I've just had breakfast. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted May 24, 2022 Share Posted May 24, 2022 9 hours ago, Danderman123 said: An observation. And a questIon: how do you know when you are too old? You know you are too old when you can't get it up anymore. The women know they are too old when nobody will buy a lady drink or barfine them. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor Tom Posted May 24, 2022 Share Posted May 24, 2022 The ladies' are not just getting older, they are pilling on the kilos, getting wider and trying to wear the same tight shorts they did 15 years ago. If the old blokes can stomach them, good on them, but not for me. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor Tom Posted May 24, 2022 Share Posted May 24, 2022 9 minutes ago, Lacessit said: You know you are too old when you can't get it up anymore. They have drugs for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Walker88 Posted May 24, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 24, 2022 Males have a distinct advantage in terms of 'quality of life' in their later years, at least quality as many who come to Thailand might define it. A woman is limited in her reproductive years. After about age 45 she is unlikely to be able to reproduce, and hits menopause sometime between 35 (India is 35 on average, or so says the Indian Min of Health) and early 50s. Most lose interest in sex at that point, which is a blessing because most men would not be attracted to them in a sexual way. After menopause it's time to take up gardening or painting or crocheting. Many---perhaps most men---not only can 'do it', but want to do it well into their twilight years. There are certain countries that cater to that desire, perhaps Thailand being one of them. Here's a secret of biology and instinct: even young women are often actually attracted to a man who might be decades older than her, but who is in top physical shape. Such a man displays good genes, which means he would be likely to produce strong offspring. The female may not know why she is attracted to him as a mating partner, but the fact is many young women are. It's instinct. If he's also flush, that's just an added bonus. So, gentlemen, if any of you ever needed incentive to hit the gym, watch what you eat, don't develop a beer gut, and don't practice bad habits that age you more quickly (like smoking, excessive drinking, being fat, too much sun), that is it. She might actually be sexually attracted to you. And if you are in shape, you are more likely to be able to 'rise and shine' like a teenager, thus giving her the joy she seeks. I'm going to guess robust sex at an older age beats shuffleboard, cribbage, or knocking back beers with equally chubby mates. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post shackleton Posted May 24, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 24, 2022 Each to their own gave up bars years ago if you are after the ladies fair enough I Enjoy a beer or 2 in a good restaurant or when I am at home 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted May 24, 2022 Share Posted May 24, 2022 1 hour ago, Doctor Tom said: They have drugs for that. Yes, I know. And those drugs can suppress blood pressure readings to dangerously low levels, how does a systole/diastole of 80/40 sound? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted May 24, 2022 Share Posted May 24, 2022 29 minutes ago, Walker88 said: A woman is limited in her reproductive years. After about age 45 she is unlikely to be able to reproduce, and hits menopause sometime between 35 (India is 35 on average, or so says the Indian Min of Health) and early 50s. Most lose interest in sex at that point, which is a blessing because most men would not be attracted to them in a sexual way. After menopause it's time to take up gardening or painting or crocheting. You may be right for most. Having said that, I've known a couple of women in their sixties who were as horny as two-peckered owls, in the Biblical sense. I was tapping out first. Here, I don't think physical shape is as important as cash, although I agree it helps. I know a quite wealthy guy who has advanced Parkinsons. He has three Thai women, not capable of having sex with them. BJ's maybe. He pays them to cavort around him stark naked. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post spidermike007 Posted May 24, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 24, 2022 It is all about supply and demand. As long as some older guys are OK with older women, the old ladies will find work. Some guys are even ok with old, fat and ugly. It takes all kinds. I used to travel here decades ago. Some of the bar girls were stunning. Super model types. They had fewer options. The young stunners today have alot of options. Some of them get as much as 60,000 baht with high end escort services. Some of them make a fortune online. Things have changed alot. The selection today is a pale shadow of what it used to be. It is what it is. Everything changes and evolves. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walker88 Posted May 24, 2022 Share Posted May 24, 2022 44 minutes ago, Lacessit said: Here, I don't think physical shape is as important as cash, although I agree it helps. The attraction is subconscious. The biological imperative rules all. The sole purpose of life is more life, or propagating one's gene pool. A man who ages slowly and who maintains a youthful appearance evidences good genes. He is a good mating partner, because a woman who draws his seed is more likely to produce a strong offspring. She does not know why she is attracted; she just is. Consciously she might choose a younger mating partner, but a guy who ages slowly screams---in a Darwinian sense---that he is made of superior genes, and that attracts her mating instincts. There is clinical evidence backing this up. Of course, while a man can do everything possible to maintain his shape and youth, the real secret to an older man's sexual attractiveness is this: choose your parents well. Obviously that is dumb luck, winning the Birth Lottery, but almost everything in life is a function of one's success or lack thereof in the Birth Lottery.....intelligence, physical attractiveness, height, body shape, athletic ability, etc. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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