FritsSikkink Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 59 minutes ago, pp00 said: 70 years old wife is surprized her 48 y.o. husband disappears to Thailand (to get some sex...) Surpizes me too! He might want to enjoy a better life?? He isn't 48 years old, he is married for 48 years. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FritsSikkink Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 1 hour ago, RamenRaven said: That's like saying "rent, don't buy." Not always true. Depends on your situation. Renting is better for some. Buying is better for some. Some can live with either choice. There's no one size fits all solution. You rent or buy property. Got nothing to do with marriage. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soalbundy Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 1 hour ago, FritsSikkink said: Then you divorce and move on. Depends on your age, financial status, debt ie mortgage, children, etc. divorce can be ruinous for both parties. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted February 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted February 23, 2023 3 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: I you marry a woman that is absolutely no guarantee that she will stay the way you like it. In fact, you sign a contract that even if she changes in any way she wants you will still support her. How stupid is that? It is called love, and you will still love the person as you both grow older, and hopefully she will accept my 15 years lead on her age as I become not so hansume anymore, but hopefully a great husband she do not want to loose. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tropposurfer Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 10 hours ago, Mac Mickmanus said: This guy in the story is being probably being unfaithful and spending money on prostitutes. The guy in the story is at fault , not his Wife Too right! The post was covered in pustules in my opinion and made me almost wretch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tropposurfer Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 10 hours ago, Mac Mickmanus said: This guy in the story is being probably being unfaithful and spending money on prostitutes. The guy in the story is at fault , not his Wife Too right! The post was covered in pustules in my opinion and made me almost wretch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 27 minutes ago, Isaan sailor said: So many of us came here seeking fun, companionship and adventure. The difference for me at least—American wife had already divorced me three years prior (and managed to take a hefty chunk of my retirement savings). I thought western women took care of home and kids while their men working? Unless she also working and contributed to common wealth? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liverpool Lou Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 10 hours ago, ukrules said: She should mind what she says lest he dumps her and leaves her destitute. Why should she be left destitute when she clearly must have her own money as the money he has been reported as using is his? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mickmouse1 Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 She is lucky he is still with her. Let him enjoy himself and you can do the same by going to Morocco my dear.???? Good solution for both. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liverpool Lou Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 7 hours ago, Andycoops said: You don't have to be a nuclear scientist to know what is going on. Exactly, an anonymous "caller" with an unlikely and unrealistic situation. Well done, This Morning, and the Daily Mail, on doing a "Thaivisa-poster"...making up the entire thing for views. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotchilli Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 2 hours ago, FritsSikkink said: Change the locks He'll just bang on the door until she lets him in.. make it crystal clear, go to Thailand, don't come back. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 (edited) 8 minutes ago, hotchilli said: He'll just bang on the door until she lets him in.. make it crystal clear, go to Thailand, don't come back. What if it's his house? Most couples this age have little or no positive feelings for each other, they just co-habit and share housing costs. Edited February 23, 2023 by BritManToo 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4MyEgo Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 This is romantic, she still love him long time.....LOL After 48 years eating the same meal, I too would be looking for a fresher side dish. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 1 hour ago, Hummin said: It is called love, and you will still love the person as you both grow older, and hopefully she will accept my 15 years lead on her age as I become not so hansume anymore, but hopefully a great husband she do not want to loose. Yes, sometimes that happens. But there are many cases, I am sure many can be told by members here, where the wonderful girl became a demanding wife after they married. And because of divorce laws many men have to live with that or lose a lot, sometimes everything. With some people we think we see in advance that the marriage won't last. But with others we think all looks fine. Until the moment it doesn't look so good anymore. And whatever happens and for whatever reason it happens it seems most of the time the guy loses a lot. So, IMHO, avoid! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 2 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: Yes, sometimes that happens. But there are many cases, I am sure many can be told by members here, where the wonderful girl became a demanding wife after they married. And because of divorce laws many men have to live with that or lose a lot, sometimes everything. With some people we think we see in advance that the marriage won't last. But with others we think all looks fine. Until the moment it doesn't look so good anymore. And whatever happens and for whatever reason it happens it seems most of the time the guy loses a lot. So, IMHO, avoid! Well I I know deleted happens, but to be true, both parts sacrifice their valuable time, and if it is not worth it, who have the advantage in Thailand? The older man or a younger woman who have to start all over again? We have a deal me and my wife, she keeps whats in her name in Thailand, I keep everything else, meaning bikes, car, and assets in Norway. No trouble clear deal And of course no kids involved. I understand things can change and most likely will change, but the mentality to just change for a few kg and wrinkles? Both parts getting outdated sooner or later. Anyway invest common sense in the relationship, thats all I can say, or do not invest at all. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted February 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted February 23, 2023 33 minutes ago, Hummin said: We have a deal me and my wife, she keeps whats in her name in Thailand, I keep everything else, meaning bikes, car, and assets in Norway. No trouble clear deal And as we all know, women always stick to their end of the deal. Believe women! 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ54 Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 Whacky post with no finish… or anything pretty much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taboo2 Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 Listen to your husband....It is none of your business!!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purdey Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 I feel sorry for her. It looks like she can't understand or absorb what is happening. So many balding, fat old wrinkled men come to Thailand and are taken in by Thai girls as young, or younger, than their granddaughters. Julie has been thrown on the scrapheap by someone who is her own age and perhaps because she just doesn't look like she did 48 years ago. She should hire a Thai detective to take incriminating pictures and clean out her old man's bank account (if she has access), sell the house and move into a flat. He deserves everything coming to him. ???? 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colabamumbai Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 12 hours ago, spidermike007 said: There are two sides to every story. Personally, I don't understand why he wouldn't just get a divorce. But, it is very possible he has not had sex at home in years. And there could be multiple issues. She would be smart to just let him do his thing. There are 3 sides to every story, more in Thailand. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JCauto Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 9 hours ago, HuskerDo2 said: You are a fool. Your stupidity is beyond belief. You come to a msg board to find some sort of sympathy? It's OBVIOUS what he's doing there. There are so many stupid people in the world and you are towards the top of the list. No wonder why he's looking for other female companionship. Absolutely incredibly bizarre post. You may want to consider where the post came from - I don't believe the 70yo British woman specifically came to post her story on Thaivisa, it's a reprint of a newspaper article. Now that would be...foolish? Stupid? Where might you be on the list? No wonder you came here looking for other female companionship. Absolutely dumb post. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted February 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted February 23, 2023 29 minutes ago, Purdey said: I feel sorry for her. It looks like she can't understand or absorb what is happening. So many balding, fat old wrinkled men come to Thailand and are taken in by Thai girls as young, or younger, than their granddaughters. Julie has been thrown on the scrapheap by someone who is her own age and perhaps because she just doesn't look like she did 48 years ago. She should hire a Thai detective to take incriminating pictures and clean out her old man's bank account (if she has access), sell the house and move into a flat. He deserves everything coming to him. ???? It seems you are a woman... IMHO most guys, especially when they get older, want a nice and comfortable life and no stress. Unfortunately, many women, and especially older farang women, like to nag and make trouble. Guys don't like that! And if divorce is difficult for whatever reason, then escape is an option. Maybe just closing the door at home in the hobby room or a holiday in Thailand. The main point is to get away from the nagging monster. And if then there is a nice girl or woman who pours him a beer and talks nice to him and is not nagging then she won already 90%. I am sure many guys would not look for anybody else if the woman at home wouldn't make his life so miserable. 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Purdey Posted February 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted February 23, 2023 1 minute ago, OneMoreFarang said: It seems you are a woman... IMHO most guys, especially when they get older, want a nice and comfortable life and no stress. Unfortunately, many women, and especially older farang women, like to nag and make trouble. Guys don't like that! And if divorce is difficult for whatever reason, then escape is an option. Maybe just closing the door at home in the hobby room or a holiday in Thailand. The main point is to get away from the nagging monster. And if then there is a nice girl or woman who pours him a beer and talks nice to him and is not nagging then she won already 90%. I am sure many guys would not look for anybody else if the woman at home wouldn't make his life so miserable. I just do not agree with blaming the woman, whose character you don't know, for her husband's philandering. He could just be selfish person who wants to think that a young woman finds him attractive (if we want to play the guessing game). I doubt anyone thinks of Thailand first as the answer to marriage problems. He could go to the pub, go to visit a mate or just go to another room and read a book. He is just asking to get ripped off for his hubris. I hope Julie screws him for everything. And no, I am not a woman. 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BangkokReady Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 12 hours ago, scubascuba3 said: It's not all roses for him either, likely the thai girl has more than one "boyfriend" and of course it's based on money, Unless he's perfectly happy with that arrangement. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riclag Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 (edited) Lol ,he’s participating in a affair madam! He’s probably shaggin a young Thai bird. How do I know this because “ he says its none of your business”. Edited February 23, 2023 by riclag Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 2 hours ago, BritManToo said: And as we all know, women always stick to their end of the deal. Believe women! Trust is something you earn, and you also can see her family, and how they are as humans. A marriage contract with witnesses is a valid document where I come from. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 1 minute ago, Hummin said: A marriage contract with witnesses is a valid document where I come from. Only for the man. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ukrules Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 7 hours ago, NanLaew said: And after he moves to Thailand full-time, his Thai wife will withdraw her services while her brother drives around in the Fortuner. Winning. What makes you think he's going to treat any Thai wife better than the old model? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 7 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Only for the man. Is it so black and white? However not my experience or as said where I come from 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connda Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 (edited) When your husband leaves - book your own tour. Female sex tourism destination: Greece, Italy, Spain and Croatia in Southern Europe to various Caribbean Islands such as the Dominican Republic, Jamaica and Cuba, it is something that occurs in various pockets of the world. Costa Rica, Thailand, Fiji, the Gambia, Kenya Edited February 23, 2023 by connda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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