Popular Post thaibeachlovers Posted March 4, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 4, 2023 On 2/28/2023 at 3:13 PM, RamenRaven said: But if you rent, then that's a GF, even if it's short-term. Note that I deliberately said wife/GF. Agree. I wanted a long term commitment, but I wuz wrong to think that marriage was the answer. IMO marriage is a terrible idea for western men, and only benefits western women that win no matter how good or bad a wife they are. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaosLover Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 (edited) accidental double post, please delete. Edited March 4, 2023 by LaosLover Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaosLover Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 (edited) I've been hearing about the imminent, oncoming disaster of porn-based mental illness my whole life. For me, this is like the pot argument: Does it make you a loser, or do losers just really love pot? -Signed, Guy Who Really Loves Pot (and who would watch more porn if it had a story line.) Edited March 4, 2023 by LaosLover 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted March 4, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 4, 2023 I marked both, but since I live in thailand there is great benefits to have a local wife instead of a foreigner. As well the choices of a falang woman who suits me and fits with me is pretty slim out of many reasons. Those women who live or want to live in Thailand have often or is challenged one way or the other. A female expat worker would not fit in my life style either or even a local full time working wife, because that would limit my freedom while living here since Im not working in Thailand. If money was an issue, I might wanted a full time working woman. 1 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GinBoy2 Posted March 4, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 4, 2023 (edited) 6 hours ago, Hummin said: I marked both, but since I live in thailand there is great benefits to have a local wife instead of a foreigner. As well the choices of a falang woman who suits me and fits with me is pretty slim out of many reasons. Those women who live or want to live in Thailand have often or is challenged one way or the other. A female expat worker would not fit in my life style either or even a local full time working wife, because that would limit my freedom while living here since Im not working in Thailand. If money was an issue, I might wanted a full time working woman. I rather like having a working spouse. Gives us something other than mundane sh*&*t to talk about over dinner. In many ways when we were in Thailand full time, and I couldn't work her work stories helped keep me sane through the boredom Edited March 4, 2023 by GinBoy2 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 31 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said: I rather like having a working spouse. Gives us something other than mundane sh*&*t to talk about over dinner. In many ways when we were in Thailand full time, and I couldn't work her work stories helped keep me sane through the boredom We have a small farm with animals, so we have something to do every day, we also have other interests and activities as well travel often around inside and outside Thailand. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeandDow Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 good ebook on the subject https://www.digistore24.com/redir/302188/Tacknun/ www-vixendaily-com-love-exactly-how-to-attract-men-you-want-.pdf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeandDow Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 good ebook on the subject His Secret Obsession has helped thousands of women improve their relationships samle below (click link for full ebook free) https://www.digistore24.com/redir/302188/Tacknun/ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EVENKEEL Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 So, i was at the beach few days ago and there was this foreign lady walking with a guy. She was probably late 50's I'd say, and she had a real nice body. The semi thong bikini she had on was would put many 25+ yr olds to shame. But, that's like the unicorn discovery. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mavideol Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 (edited) Farang or Thai wife/girlfriend? neither, next ... 555 Edited March 5, 2023 by Mavideol 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rose33 Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 On 3/4/2023 at 6:49 AM, GinBoy2 said: On a somewhat serious note, I do worry about the effect of pornography today, but not for men, more for boys. I don't think it's a stretch to say that for many of us sex ed was rooting through Dad's sock draw for his porn stash. Thing was back then it was a lot more vanilla and for a lot of it even the teenage male brain could tell it was staged. Not so sure about that today, and I fear that what a lot of what those boys watch online gives them a very misleading idea of what is regular sex versus fantasy. It's not that I would want to restrict porn, I think as an adult I can distinguish reality and fantasy, but not so sure a 15 year old boy can make that distinction Hi, Thanks for your thoughtful reply. Scientific studies of the effects of pornography are rarely conducted. Why? Because early studies showed harm so clearly, that it became almost impossible for researchers to get ethics approval for more experiments. Men have been propagandised to believe it is healthy & liberating for them (much like cigarette smoking was encouraged for many decades). This is particularly so in the US, where people are taught that access to pornography should be defended as part of America's hard-won constitutional freedoms. But the First Amendment was never intended to protect speech that has no social merit, artistic quality, or political purpose. Most online pornography would not meet those standards, meaning that the Free Speech rationale for pornography has little merit or relevance today. I agree with you that digital delivery is a completely different ballgame to the old school 20thC methods like videos, DVDs, magazines, movie theatres. Those required a bit more determination and forethought by the user! 2000 was the year it really got started (high speed internet became widely available in the home). Interesting for us to look back now, 23 years down the track. I also agree with your very sensible observations about the effects on young men. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post freedomnow Posted March 5, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 5, 2023 6 hours ago, MikeandDow said: good ebook on the subject His Secret Obsession has helped thousands of women improve their relationships samle below (click link for full ebook free) https://www.digistore24.com/redir/302188/Tacknun/ Just what we need - a book on how to attract men on a western vs Thai wife choice thread... 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rose33 Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 On 3/4/2023 at 11:10 AM, LaosLover said: I've been hearing about the imminent, oncoming disaster of porn-based mental illness my whole life. For me, this is like the pot argument: Does it make you a loser, or do losers just really love pot? -Signed, Guy Who Really Loves Pot (and who would watch more porn if it had a story line.) Won't cause psychosis. Won't cause a sex crime rampage thru the streets. Won't cause pedophilia overnight. May contribute to a lot of divorces, failed relationships, and depression in the long term (for men and also for the women trying to have intimacy with them). Subtle downstream effects. Don't you think? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fusion58 Posted March 7, 2023 Share Posted March 7, 2023 Every GF I've ever had in my life has been Asian. I'm just not into farang females on a physical/sexual level. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Artisi Posted March 7, 2023 Share Posted March 7, 2023 On 3/2/2023 at 4:58 PM, LaosLover said: I prefer Farang: -No secret cultural code to crack -No relatives wanting money -Can talk about various stuff and agree that Somtum is goot -at the same time -more mental in bed Caveat: The kind of Thai women who would fill the bill above, I could not get. The intra-Asian competition would squash me like like like a bug. I had an arty, slightly intellectual GF prospect over here for like an hour and half. And I blew it. (I blew it) A rubber one? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bkk6060 Posted March 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 7, 2023 Farang my age are generally fat with disgusting attitudes. I hate them really. A Thai lady 30 years younger is preferable. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KhunLA Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 (edited) Either is a challenge, especially when you are as F'd up as I am. I wouldn't want to live with me ???? Edited March 8, 2023 by KhunLA 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BananaStrong Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 How about: 1. Farang wife who can't speak English and has 10,000,000,000 in her bank account that will become mine 2. Thai wife who graduated from Harvard and has a PhD in molecular biology. 3. Farang wife who cannot complain 4. Thai wife who cannot complain 5. Thai wife who sees me and only thinks of prn. 6. Farang wife who buys a few houses in Thailand (under my gf's name) and lives in America 7. Thai wife who owns a 100-story condo with me and I stay in the top 10 floors by myself 8. ......... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BananaStrong Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 3 hours ago, bkk6060 said: Farang my age are generally fat with disgusting attitudes. good attitude!!!!!! lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianthainess Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 On 3/4/2023 at 11:20 AM, Hummin said: even a local full time working wife, because that would limit my freedom while living here How does that limit your freedom here ? my wife works full time, so I actually have MORE freedom. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 2 hours ago, brianthainess said: How does that limit your freedom here ? my wife works full time, so I actually have MORE freedom. What you see as freedom, depending on your relationship to your wife ???? 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinBoy2 Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 11 hours ago, bkk6060 said: Farang my age are generally fat with disgusting attitudes. I hate them really. A Thai lady 30 years younger is preferable. So just canvassing thoughts here. But do you think a woman 30 years your junior would be interested in you? I'm very sure you are a Hansum Man, as are we all, but really gotta think about why any woman young enough to be your daughter has any true sexual interest in you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted March 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 8, 2023 1 minute ago, GinBoy2 said: But do you think a woman 30 years your junior would be interested in you? It worked for Prince Charles, Rod Stewart and Paul McCartney, so why shouldn't it work for me? 2 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fat is a type of crazy Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 8 hours ago, BananaStrong said: How about: 1. Farang wife who can't speak English and has 10,000,000,000 in her bank account that will become mine 2. Thai wife who graduated from Harvard and has a PhD in molecular biology. 3. Farang wife who cannot complain 4. Thai wife who cannot complain 5. Thai wife who sees me and only thinks of prn. 6. Farang wife who buys a few houses in Thailand (under my gf's name) and lives in America 7. Thai wife who owns a 100-story condo with me and I stay in the top 10 floors by myself 8. ......... You do have a propensity for hyperbole Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 (edited) 21 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said: So just canvassing thoughts here. But do you think a woman 30 years your junior would be interested in you? I'm very sure you are a Hansum Man, as are we all, but really gotta think about why any woman young enough to be your daughter has any true sexual interest in you I always liked mature woman, but mostly between 30 and 50 with a few exceptions both ways. I got a taste for older women from young age, but there is a limit of course both physical appearance and mentally. Edited March 8, 2023 by Hummin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YITB1980 Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 A Filipina is not one of the options. Some expats believe that the secret to relationship success is to find a sweet Filipina and bring her to Thailand. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 I h 25 minutes ago, YITB1980 said: A Filipina is not one of the options. Some expats believe that the secret to relationship success is to find a sweet Filipina and bring her to Thailand. I have met a few with Philipines and Laos gf's, and they seems ok with their life's. I guess bringing a thai gf to Laos, Cambodia or Philippines could be challenging. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaosLover Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 On 3/5/2023 at 11:30 PM, rose33 said: May contribute to a lot of divorces, failed relationships, and depression in the long term (for men and also for the women trying to have intimacy with them). Don't you think? No, I think porn addiction and sex addiction at the level of requiring a 12 steps program is very rare. Parsing out these bad habits as significant contributors to life-misery (as opposed to the vague may contribute) would be hard work. A person who's depressed, fails at relationships, and prob has a few other vices is never going to be the foundation of a rom-com plot. Like pot, porn is for the idle and the slack. If those traits are proof of mental illness, I should be in a straight jacket by now. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ignore it Posted March 11, 2023 Share Posted March 11, 2023 I'm with a Thai woman 2 thirds my age. Mind you, nothing wrong with American women. Everyone enjoys a good argument now and then. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shackleton Posted March 11, 2023 Share Posted March 11, 2023 Let's be honest most guys come to Thailand to find young girls Or companionship As probably had bad experiences in the UK divorced or can't get a girlfriend Thailand easy option money counts for a lot ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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