Take Me Out Thailand: American man gets blackout for his male chauvinistic attitude

[findlay13]

a master debater

Edited June 15, 2023 by findlay13

[ketilnm]

8 minutes ago, Metapod said:

so many bitter old losers and cucks on here. the guy is right and i guarantee he has no issues getting women in bkk.

 

you put women on camera and give them a position of power (they can turn him down but he cant turn them down) and you are going to have some uppity bitches that wouldn't typically get a second look from this guy. the other factor is putting girls in a group always changes the male/female dynamic as girls always allign and don't like to stick out or go against the grain.

 

 

Yes you are right. This is a show. The guy is young and handsome and can speak thai. He probably have more girls then most people on this forum ever dream of..

 

Thai girls (And men) is much more "followers" then western people. They not learn to think for themself in the same degree then western people..

If the majority of girls in this show vote him down, then probably the girls who actually liked him, will also vote him down, as they are afraid to stand out.

 

 

[findlay13]

4 hours ago, h90 said:

And what is so outlandish?

He just explained the evolutionary role before there was contraception.

I think this technology is around a few years now but before that made perfectly sense for spreading your DNA.

He is is just an evolutionary biologist.

He's a master debater you mean

[BTB1977]

Guess they forgot to mention the thai half. Thai/American.  

[Lacessit]

4 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

I don't think so. Most members here can't count to ten in Thai. 

Can you count to a million in Thai?

[Tropposurfer]

A listener to and devotee of the toxic male Andrew Tate I would imagine. Misogyny and patriarchy writ large.

I wonder does he come from an evangelical Pentecostalist background or personal faith/cult?

[spidermike007]

What he said was not that outlandish. The fact that he said it on a dating show, and on TV, was silly and ridiculous. If discretion is the better part of valor, what is this guy? Indiscreet does not even begin to describe him. 

 

I have never gotten the part about multiple wives, or a mistress. I can understand a man wanting to fool around, occasionally. And I don't think that is a bad thing, as long as it is done very discreetly. But, a mistress is too much work, and too much covering up. Not to mention too expensive. LOL. 

[scorecard]

4 hours ago, bamnutsak said:

Tangmo. Isn't that usually a female nickname?

 

Like the recently deceased Nida Patcharaveerapong.

 

I assume these shows are somewhat scripted and that he was playing a "role"?

 

 

 

Scripted like reality shows in all countries.

[Freddy42OZ]

5 hours ago, Dmaxdan said:

Unlikely. He's way too young and nowhere near grumpy enough!

 

And he was clearly under the impression that he could have any woman he wanted. He's probably still washing the egg off his face.

Did you watch the show?  

I know him.

He arrived in Thailand not that long ago, maybe 3-4 years ago and immediately started making Thai friends, he has learn't to speak pretty much like a Thai and definitely has no problem getting Thai girls to fall over themselves to date him.

He most likely went on the show for a laugh.

[scorecard]

6 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

What he said was not that outlandish. The fact that he said it on a dating show, and on TV, was silly and ridiculous. If discretion is the better part of valor, what is this guy? Indiscreet does not even begin to describe him. 

 

I have never gotten the part about multiple wives, or a mistress. I can understand a man wanting to fool around, occasionally. And I don't think that is a bad thing, as long as it is done very discreetly. But, a mistress is too much work, and too much covering up. Not to mention too expensive. LOL. 

And  very risky, there's always a good chance someone will see the man with his mistress etc. 

[Freddy42OZ]

25 minutes ago, BTB1977 said:

Guess they forgot to mention the thai half. Thai/American.  

He is 100% American.  Not even 1% foreign.

[Chongalulu]

5 hours ago, ThailandRyan said:

If you were to spend just 30 minutes watching such shows you might learn something.

What you’d learn is just how vacuous the audience is for these types of shows. The irony of reality TV shows are they are the polar opposite of reality. ????‍♂️ 

[Chongalulu]

29 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Can you count to a million in Thai?

How long have you got …? ???? 

[OneMoreFarang]

I wonder how many of the women who rejected him inside the show tried to see him after the show without the publicity.

There is a huge difference between what "modern women" pretend and what the really want. 

[brucegoniners]

What a schmuck if it was for real.

 

But I tend to think this was a setup to get publicity. And it worked.

[Gecko123]

32 minutes ago, Freddy42OZ said:

He is 100% American.  Not even 1% foreign.

He introduces himself on the show as a luk kreung and definitely leads the viewing audience to believe he is part Thai. 

 

36 minutes ago, Freddy42OZ said:

He arrived in Thailand not that long ago, maybe 3-4 years ago and immediately started making Thai friends, he has learn't to speak pretty much like a Thai

He says in a U-tube video posted on page 2 of this thread that he moved to Thailand 5-6 years ago at the age of 16-17 to live with a "relative" because he was having trouble back in the States. 

 

Maybe this is unfair, and underestimates a young person's ability to pick up the language simply through immersion, but I'm a little skeptical that he got to that level of proficiency in just 5-6 years without a great deal of language exposure in a home environment or through a very rigorous academic effort, which frankly, with all his other interests and trouble getting through high school, I am wondering whether he was prepared to make. I'm wondering whether there's anything he's not disclosing about his exposure to Thai, in order to make himself seem like a linguistic wunderkind who picked up the language at an extraordinarily fast pace.

[kidneyw]

Yep, he's a keeper.

[BangkokReady]

7 hours ago, webfact said:

“I consider myself a conservative person. For me, a man must be the breadwinner, working for the family. A man is a leader while a woman is a follower and supporter. I do not mean to imply that a man is superior to a woman but each has to do their duties.”

I wonder how many of the women would have no problem with that first part and would like to maintain that, while trying to wiggle out of the rest... ????

[mberbae]

Let's not forget that at 22...we know NOTHING of what Life has in

store for us.

[BangkokReady]

6 hours ago, h90 said:

And what is so outlandish?

He just explained the evolutionary role before there was contraception.

I think this technology is around a few years now but before that made perfectly sense for spreading your DNA.

He is is just an evolutionary biologist.

I don't think that "evolutionary role" is quite right.  Evolutionarily speaking, we would originally have been living in tribes and men and women would both have roles related to hunting and gathering, although the women would probably look after the children, with the help of grandparents.

 

It's more of a traditional role.

 

Women might like to be submissive to powerful and wealthy men, and that might stimulate some primitive response, but it doesn't mean that that relationship dynamic is how we were in the past.

[bignok]

7 hours ago, chalawaan said:

Who wastes their life watching this crap? Posting here regularly is quite sufficient in that regard. 

How do you know it is bad?

[MrJ2U]

This guy sounds like the clowns who are running/ruining the country. 

[PingRoundTheWorld]

6 hours ago, Gecko123 said:

20 out of the 30 women dropped out almost immediately after the initial introduction and greeting

Exactly. Despite the clickbait and attempt at implying there's something wrong with traditional gender roles - the fact is 10 of them dropped out immediately just based on his looks and first impression. He is short, carries himself both arrogantly and insecure at the same time (which is awkward), had his hand in his pocket the whole time (sign of insecurity), and speaking Thai probably worked against him. He also comes off as immature, especially with those gaping holes in his ears - those might impress a teenager, but a mature woman wants a man, not a teenager.

10 more dropped also early on when the video of him came up simply because they didn't like what they saw of his personality. The remaining 10 gave him a chance but that was short lived too.

I think if it was a successful Thai man saying the same things (although a Thai man would be more eloquent and not say it the same way) I doubt the result would be the same. We all know it is common here for successful men to have mia nois and such, so let's not pretend he's saying something outrageous and out of line with the actual reality in Thailand. This isn't America.

Having said all of that - we can keyboard warrior roast the guy all we want - he had the balls to go on a TV show, which is more than most of us can say.

6 hours ago, Kaopad999 said:

The truth is, the majority of Thai womwen would much rather just date a Thai man, or even the likes of Korean guys which would be far higher up on their list.

No. The majority of Thai women would much rather date a Thai man than date you. Do not include the rest of us in your self-hating pity parade. What a terrible self-limiting attitude to have. I have no illusions about the limitations of foreigners in the Thai dating scene - just language and social access alone keep us away from most - but to declare yourself inferior is just nuts.

[metisdead]

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[BritManToo]

7 hours ago, Gecko123 said:

I keep hearing on this forum how Thai women are submissive and eager to wait on their man hand and foot.

You only hear that from the idiot posters.

[BritManToo]

3 hours ago, Gecko123 said:

Maybe this is unfair, and underestimates a young person's ability to pick up the language simply through immersion, but I'm a little skeptical that he got to that level of proficiency in just 5-6 years without a great deal of language exposure in a home environment or through a very rigorous academic effort,

Nah, I had a Brit pal that spent a year in the Bangkok Hilton (heroin), and came out speaking incredibly good (if low class) Thai. The ability to pick up a language is down to no distractions, stick yourself in a room with 20 Thais and no other entertainment 24/7 for a year, and you'll come out speaking Thai.

Edited June 15, 2023 by BritManToo

[rvdk]

His Thai is amazing, wow. 

[happydreamer]

They call him American but his commentary couldn't be further from that.  If he were a true American he'd have used his pronouns during his introduction

[Kaopad999]

48 minutes ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

No. The majority of Thai women would much rather date a Thai man than date you. Do not include the rest of us in your self-hating pity parade. What a terrible self-limiting attitude to have. I have no illusions about the limitations of foreigners in the Thai dating scene - just language and social access alone keep us away from most - but to declare yourself inferior is just nuts.

Keep living in your delusional bubble 

[NORDO]

His sentiments seem to follow the linage of a Thai male's perspective.