What was your wife/girlfriend's employment when you first met her? And what is she doing now?

[Celsius]

7 minutes ago, Goat said:

A common comeback statement from those who have indeed fallen in love with a prostitute to slut shame non prostitutes.

 

Yep....especially be wary of comments if you marry a Thai Chinese with masters degree. The Batman slap meme follows every single time.

[BritManToo]

4 minutes ago, Goat said:

Only if you marry them. 

And why would anyone do that? 

I dont want to give some woman i dont like anymore all my stuff.

When I was UK married in the 1970s, women got nothing if they divorced you (that law change was made in 1997).

When I was Thai married in the 2010s, I had nothing for her to take, but needed a VISA.

[Goat]

2 hours ago, save the frogs said:

a non-bar girl could have slept around a lot before meeting you and/or sleep around while she's with you. 

some bar girls may have gotten it out of their system and are sick of sleeping around.

 

I think 9 times out of ten the bar girl was a slut before moving on to being a hooker.

 

The town bike who got pregnant to who knows who, and now is now a single mother that no Thai guy wants, so they hear about how some farangs have fallen for others, so they pack their bags and head to pattaya, Patong etc.

 

Girls with self respect dont end up working as prostitutes. They do what the other 99% of the population does and get a real job. It takes a certain pesonality to rent out your genitals to hundreds of autistic like foreign men, twice their age and three times their weight.

[Goat]

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

law change was made in 1997).

wow, Australia definately was before that.

[Goat]

9 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Yep....especially be wary of comments if you marry a Thai Chinese with masters degree. The Batman slap meme follows every single time.

I think if they are in a relationship with a prostitute then their social circles are very, very limited, so they simply dont know what is out there in the real world.

 

They think that all uni educated women are somehow "hiso" when in reality they are just normal people. 

[Lacessit]

18 minutes ago, Goat said:

Rubbish.

I have had dozens of uni girls over the years and not a single one has ever asked me to pay. 

Most of the thai bar hookers didnt even finish high school, let alone have a uni degree.

 

Some for sure, but nowhere near 33%

When did I say bar hookers went to university?

You could be living up to your nom-de-plume, or posting from a bar stool while you are trying to con a 50yo Issan hooker to go with you without a bar fine.

Either way, I don't care.

[bignok]

21 hours ago, Ralf001 said:

Soi 6 mid afternoon bar lockdown with me and a dozen mates.

We ran a train on her.

She is now in jail and is EX.

What carriage were you in?

[Lacessit]

38 minutes ago, bignok said:

No it says something about you

No prizes for second.

[bignok]

1 minute ago, Lacessit said:

No prizes for second.

You won the smallest one award.

[Kwasaki]

9 minutes ago, Goat said:

I think if they are in a relationship with a prostitute then their social circles are very, very limited, so they simply dont know what is out there in the real world.

 

They think that all uni educated women are somehow "hiso" when in reality they are just normal people. 

For someone with no wife or girlfriend you have a a lot to say about other human beings who decided or were force into doing with their life for whatever reason or situation themselves found or ending up in.

Did you end up preferring the young bull and not stroll anywhere. ????

[Ralf001]

31 minutes ago, Goat said:

Or even worse, a bargirl with two kids. Soccer teams can get lost in those caves.

Elon and his Sub will rescue them !.

[Ralf001]

10 minutes ago, bignok said:

What carriage were you in?

Carriage ?

[bignok]

1 minute ago, Ralf001 said:

Carriage ?

Train ride

[Ralf001]

3 minutes ago, bignok said:

Train ride

I dislike trains, won't ride them.

[BritManToo]

10 minutes ago, Kwasaki said:

For someone with no wife or girlfriend you have a a lot to say about other human beings who decided or were force into doing with their life for whatever reason or situation themselves found or ending up in.

Did you end up preferring the young bull and not stroll anywhere. ????

No wife, no gf, no education and broke ................

[Goat]

22 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

No wife, no gf, no education and broke ................

No wife, many girlfriends, low education, plenty of money.

Because no ex wife and kids to take it. 

[Goat]

35 minutes ago, Kwasaki said:

were force into doing with their life for whatever reason 

So what do you feel about the men who are exploiting these girls who were forced?

That is the big issue.

It is very pitiful IMO. Ugly.

If it wasnt for these exploitive predators then they would not be forced into it. 

[spidermike007]

She was a nuclear physicist, who graduated from MIT. 

 

Joking aside, she worked in a spa that I visited for a shoulder massage. I was smitten, at first sight. 

 

I know alot of guys who married bargirls. Only one of them is honest about it, when asked. My wife was a hooker. And now she helps run our hilltop resort. 

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

I think 9 times out of ten the bar girl was a slut before moving on to being a hooker.

Heterosexual women can broadly be divided into 2 categories, sluts and virgins.

I tried the virgin route ....... 30 years of almost no sex, and huge expenses.

Then I tried the slut route ........ sex whenever I want it.

 

Slut is best for me, but you are welcome to my share of the virgins!

 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

I think 9 times out of ten the bar girl was a slut before moving on to being a hooker.

 

The town bike who got pregnant to who knows who, and now is now a single mother that no Thai guy wants, so they hear about how some farangs have fallen for others, so they pack their bags and head to pattaya, Patong etc.

 

Girls with self respect dont end up working as prostitutes. They do what the other 99% of the population does and get a real job. It takes a certain pesonality to rent out your genitals to hundreds of autistic like foreign men, twice their age and three times their weight.

Yet, it seems when a bargirl found a husband and lives happily ever after without doing much work lots of girls see this and want the same.

And it seems lots of (bar)girls see sex with guys not as such a burden like others, especially Christians, think it is. I think it's mainly a question of the attitude and religion. If you never learned that sex is sin, then it isn't sin. 

[RichardColeman]

When I met her - teacher.

Now, really just a home mum. Daughter is only 7 so by the time takes her school and back, little time for anything else other than the housework !!

 

That said when we ran into financial difficulty due to a right bottom of a tenant and our money got low, she went out and worked 12 hour shifts on the security gate. (thankfully that will never happen again as I m now getting a nice pension that was not available before)

 

First thai wife though was a cashier on the BTS skytrain, a right lazy deceitful moo that I divorced after 3 years

 

 

 

[Celsius]

53 minutes ago, Goat said:

I think if they are in a relationship with a prostitute then their social circles are very, very limited, so they simply dont know what is out there in the real world.

 

They think that all uni educated women are somehow "hiso" when in reality they are just normal people. 

 

And when they ran out of that shtick they will do a final one and claim you probably married the ugly one.

 

BTW, join any Patterz Facebook page and feast your eyes at the number of foreigners who supposedly married those hot bargirls in their 30's. All of them look in their 50's and 60's due to drinking, drugs and "train" rides. 

 

Real self made women in Thailand don't need to get paid. 

 

 

[BritManToo]

3 minutes ago, Celsius said:

And when they ran out of that shtick they will do a final one and claim you probably married the ugly one.

 

BTW, join any Patterz Facebook page and feast your eyes at the number of foreigners who supposedly married those hot bargirls in their 30's. All of them look in their 50's and 60's due to drinking, drugs and "train" rides. 

 

Real self made women in Thailand don't need to get paid. 

I've never known a married woman in any country that kept her looks for 5 years.

It's amazing how quick they can go from HOT to NOT!

 

PS.

Real self made women in Thailand (or anywhere else) don't want men with less income/assets than them.

Edited July 18, 2023 by BritManToo

[Celsius]

6 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

 

 

PS.

Real self made women in Thailand (or anywhere else) don't want men with less income/assets than them.

Some do and some don't.

 

I never said my wife has more money. And even though she is 100% Chinese blood (with masters degree) she also grew up relatively poor. She is 100% self made. That does not mean she is rich.

[BritManToo]

5 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Some do and some don't.

You're wrong, the western world is full of women that managed to earn lots of money, and by the time they look around for a husband there is nobody suitable (earning more) for them to marry. The suitable men are all hunting for much younger (and poorer) women.

 

List 5 rich women that married age appropriate men with nothing?

Edited July 18, 2023 by BritManToo

[transam]

2 hours ago, Goat said:

I am not that old. First came here as a child.

But I will never tire of it. It keeps me young. Plus gym every morning, i am fitter than most males in their twenties who spend hours on their phones everyday.

 

How about you mate? Does the missus work up in Ubon, or do you take care of her and her kids?

Yeah, riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight....????

 

No, Mrs.T does not work, and here kids are both married................????

 

Can't wait for the next bait, ol' timer.................????

[BangkokReady]

On 7/17/2023 at 10:48 AM, bignok said:

Why would care?

His past posts suggested a little displeasure at the fact that his claims sleeping with a lot of women didn't do much to impress people who have slept with a lot of prostitutes.

 

The initial post where this happened was followed, from memory, by one which somehow derided sleeping with prostitutes.

 

I would imagine this one is aimed at finding out how many users' partners were or still are prostitutes.

 

Just a guess based on past posting/commenting behaviour.

[transam]

43 minutes ago, Goat said:

No wife, many girlfriends, low education, plenty of money.

Because no ex wife and kids to take it. 

Yeh, riiiiight, I bet wifey is out shopping for you, eh.................................????

[Bangkokhatter]

2 hours ago, Goat said:

I didnt know that one.

I always ask the female in Thai language. If she was a prostitute I get a sick amusement watching the male who usually can not understand cringe as she blows her cover, not knowing exacly what she has said.

 

Every Thai wedding during the speeches the MC will ask the bride and groom how and where they met. This can also be amusing, especially when the groom gives a completely different answer because he couldnt undersatnd answer she gave in Thai.

Yeah ok mate.

 

This post and many of your other replies just reinforce my belief that you don't really have any idea about Thailand and what goes on at the many levels of Thai society, just posting from your Darwin bedsit.

 

The only reply you would probably get is a right hander.

 

To stay on topic, 1st wife met at a wedding, 2nd wife worked at the same company.

[Kwasaki]

56 minutes ago, Goat said:

So what do you feel about the men who are exploiting these girls who were forced?

That is the big issue.

It is very pitiful IMO. Ugly.

If it wasnt for these exploitive predators then they would not be forced into it. 

I'm still in Facebook contact with 3 bar girls from years ago before I met my wife, the bars they worked had minders but they never needed them.

 

The Western Point of view of bargirls is ugly if you ask me in Thailand it is viewed very differently, it is work.