How to deal with a Thai woman?

[glegolo18]

On 7/17/2023 at 4:13 PM, bob smith said:

Today i got into an argument at a bar with a 'mama san' or however u spell it.

 

she was adamant that women should never ever foot the bill and shouldnt even be allowed to earn more money than a man,

 

i told her thats ridiculous and she neeeds to understand that the world has evolved now.

many women these days work in high paid jobs and bring in the dough...

well she didnt like that and kicked me out of her bar.

 

i left without paying any tip and i wont be goin back!!

 

was I in the wrong?

should women always be paid for ?

are they not allowed to earn more than blokes?

 

any help appreciated.

Do you really care?????????????????????????????

Or are you just boared??????????????????????????????

[Bundooman]

On 7/17/2023 at 4:27 PM, bob smith said:

she started it!

That was the response I got from my 7 year old son when he got into a fight some 40 odd years ago

But he grew up!

Why don't you?

[Lacessit]

2 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

Taxes were paid and spent. The fact is the current generation is paying for everything through their taxes. No one will be cutting your pension. There will just be a requirement to stay in the country. I don't think this will happen soon, but probably in the next 10 years.

I will probably be gone by then.

I have to wonder what a country has come to, when it goes back to being a prison colony.

[freedomnow]

2 hours ago, geisha said:

Since the last 2 years, and because of Brexit , the immigration in UK and EU  look at the stamps and pages in your passport ! I’m British . I was asked in Heathrow where I lived, I said France as I’m a resident.I had my identity card to show.,This year, Swiss air Nice to Bangkok transit Zurich, forgot my French identity card at home . Got a right telling off from the strict Swiss as I passed through EU queue window , UK passport, resident of France , forgot card !!  If you don’t have your card or proof, normally they’ll stamp your passport. In my case they were lenient with a warning.  I think a load of visas. and stamps from Thailand didn’t help, although my maximum stay in Thailand is 4/5 months.

Not exactly linked to passport control cross-linking your pension residency in UK..

But yes, headaches more and more official checks at every turn....

2-factor authentication to buy relatively cheap things with paypal now and elsewhere.

[bignok]

2 hours ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

im at the point of blocking Bogs and big Nok as im growing tired of the nonsense...yawn

Fantastic news. No more stalking from you. Awesome.

[1happykamper]

4 hours ago, Celsius said:

That is 30k too much for someone who decides to live in a 3rd world country.

 

The goverments will get smarter soon and will only pay residents. You decide to live elsewhere and help some foreogn economy? Then use your own money.

That was English?  . I didn't understand your point at all. 

[cardinalblue]

You leave a tip never pay a tip which is a solely voluntary act

 

were you wrong in getting kicked out of the bar? 
 

don’t understand your defense as it seems you both had a different opinion on a subject…

[BTB1977]

I got into an argument in a empty bar. Just me and the staff. Told them I had the biggest d/ck in the bar. Boy was I wrong. 

[scottiejohn]

29 minutes ago, BTB1977 said:

I got into an argument in a empty bar. Just me and the staff. Told them I had the biggest d/ck in the bar. Boy was I wrong. 

The staff were all girls were they?

[Lucky Bones]

On 7/17/2023 at 6:43 PM, bob smith said:

Today i got into an argument at a bar with a 'mama san' or however u spell it.

 

she was adamant that women should never ever foot the bill and shouldnt even be allowed to earn more money than a man,

 

i told her thats ridiculous and she neeeds to understand that the world has evolved now.

many women these days work in high paid jobs and bring in the dough...

well she didnt like that and kicked me out of her bar.

 

i left without paying any tip and i wont be goin back!!

 

was I in the wrong?

should women always be paid for ?

are they not allowed to earn more than blokes?

 

any help appreciated.

Vivid imagination has our Bob.????????

[bignok]

56 minutes ago, BTB1977 said:

I got into an argument in a empty bar. Just me and the staff. Told them I had the biggest d/ck in the bar. Boy was I wrong. 

Hangover 2

 

[JensenX]

How to deal with a Thai woman? Well, first of all, they are not all the same so we can just generalize. Please don't get upset if my generalizations don't fit your personal relationship experiences.

 

If we're talking about bargirls, then the answer is quite simple. Keep the relationship 100% sexual. Don't get intimate. Don't get personal (stay as far out of her personal life as possible).

 

Am I the only one to discover that once the sex is over, everything else is annoying? Get out of there asap once you've had your fun. If the fun has gone - get out. 

 

Taken down to basics, she's interested in money, you're interested in sex.

[NedR69]

On 7/17/2023 at 5:27 AM, bob smith said:

she started it!

Pick your battles. You don't have to show up to every argument you are invited to.

[Bill97]

On 7/17/2023 at 4:40 PM, bignok said:

Which of your topics are real?

None 

[problemfarang]

So you were discussing about money and who must take care of the family at a BAR with a MAMASAN who is basically a pimp. She lived in a sociality like that for years and thats her way of living.

 

You were aware of this, right?

[AustinRacing]

Would you argue with a sugar producer that there are health hazards associated with consuming sugar? If you do, you’re likely to hit a brick wall. You’ll be in constant conflict if you think like this all the time. Hope you don’t. Life is too short. Enjoy the offerings at the bar, just don’t overdo the candies on offer. 

[JensenX]

35 minutes ago, AustinRacing said:

Would you argue with a sugar producer that there are health hazards associated with consuming sugar? If you do, you’re likely to hit a brick wall. You’ll be in constant conflict if you think like this all the time. Hope you don’t. Life is too short. Enjoy the offerings at the bar, just don’t overdo the candies on offer. 

Some people might attempt to have deep and meaningful discussions with bargirls and mamasans, but there is a reason why so many choose to discuss this on an expat forum instead. When you're talking to bargirls, keep the discussions as superficial as possible. Talking to you is just a job for them - they would rather not have to. 

[Kwasaki]

20 minutes ago, JensenX said:

Some people might attempt to have deep and meaningful discussions with bargirls and mamasans, but there is a reason why so many choose to discuss this on an expat forum instead. When you're talking to bargirls, keep the discussions as superficial as possible. Talking to you is just a job for them - they would rather not have to. 

They want to you mean, it's their job.

[Kwasaki]

42 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

New Bargirl peeks at card under skirt with farang rules...

 

Ummm..Where u come from........How long stay thai-laaaan?    You suh-peak thai?   You hab thai lady? You buy me olange juice? You waaan short time?  I lub you too mutt   You pay now teerak

(slides dress down to cover up cheat sheet)      *farang tries to distract as hides money in sock*

Whatever picking up a girl in a bar and how you go about is up to you.

[Jacques Clouseau]

I don't know if you were wrong, brother.

But you must have been pretty drunk.

No doubt about that...

 

[sipi]

You were wrong Bob, I could tell from the first sentence.

Anyone who gets into an argument with a woman is wrong. That's just how the world works.

Even if you're right.

[GinBoy2]

Maybe I'm just kinda old fashioned, but I do always pay the bill when we go out.

 

It really is irrelevant  since me and MrsG have joint finances, but maybe it's part of my dinosaur brain, and hers too, that I get out the credit card when we dine out.

 

Don't know why, and I'm sure someone will tell me why it's wrong, and it makes no real sense but it makes us for whatever reason feel good

[JensenX]

On 7/19/2023 at 4:50 PM, Kwasaki said:

They want to you mean, it's their job.

No. 

[thaibeachlovers]

On 7/17/2023 at 9:15 PM, JayClay said:

This didn't happen

Agree, Sounds like BS to me, unless he wasn't talking about a Thai woman.

[thaibeachlovers]

On 7/28/2023 at 9:04 AM, GinBoy2 said:

Maybe I'm just kinda old fashioned, but I do always pay the bill when we go out.

 

It really is irrelevant  since me and MrsG have joint finances, but maybe it's part of my dinosaur brain, and hers too, that I get out the credit card when we dine out.

 

Don't know why, and I'm sure someone will tell me why it's wrong, and it makes no real sense but it makes us for whatever reason feel good

Feminists would say you are wanting women to be subservient.

Far as I'm concerned, women wanted equality, so they can have it and pay for things themselves now.

[thaibeachlovers]

On 7/19/2023 at 9:28 PM, JensenX said:

Some people might attempt to have deep and meaningful discussions with bargirls and mamasans, but there is a reason why so many choose to discuss this on an expat forum instead. When you're talking to bargirls, keep the discussions as superficial as possible. Talking to you is just a job for them - they would rather not have to. 

I used to wonder how some farangs could have one sided long conversations with bargirls till I worked out that the girls are just pretending to understand, as that way they get a payday.

[thaibeachlovers]

On 7/18/2023 at 11:38 PM, Lacessit said:

I will probably be gone by then.

I have to wonder what a country has come to, when it goes back to being a prison colony.

Already happened to me. I had to go back to live in home country because the <deleted> bureaucrats won't give me my pension in LOS. I have a right to the pension so what right do the <deleted> have to say where I can have it?

[Hummin]

4 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I used to wonder how some farangs could have one sided long conversations with bargirls till I worked out that the girls are just pretending to understand, as that way they get a payday.

There is unicorns to find in bars to, but most customers is more than happy to talk about themselves and miss essential information about the smiling nodding joking fun sexy lady in front of them.

 

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