If you were looking for a new relationship today what age gap would you aim for and why?

[EVENKEEL]

4 hours ago, Hummin said:

Agree with most, but this fixation about weight under 50kg, gets me every time! If they are 150cm, okay, but a woman above 160cm, is to skinny when below 50kg.

 

Anyway, smaller winy, smaller woman makes it look bigger I heard ????

My 11 yr old daughter is 163 cm at 50 kg. She's thin and gangly. One guy mentioned 144 cm which is a midget.

[bignok]

2 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

I know this is a place for banter but I wish some guys from late 50's on could have a bit of humility when it comes to women. All these criteria such as 40kg with nothing about the person herself. Posting videos of popstars who would shudder at the thought of old guys showing interest. Good luck but wake up too. 

Ive dated 42kg to 65kgs. I dont care. Its about the fun factor. Either you click or you dont.

 

 

[bignok]

3 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

My 11 yr old daughter is 163 cm at 50 kg. She's thin and gangly. One guy mentioned 144 cm which is a midget.

True but Isaan has lots of midgets.

[NextG]

4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

ALL women are just waiting for their husbands to die.

So might as well take the 25 year old.

 

60yo guy takes his new hot 25yo wife into his regular boozer.

Barman says, "Cor mate how did you score that one"

Guy replies, "I lied about my age"

Barman says, "Wot, like to said you were 40"

Guy says, "No, I told her I was 93"

No. That is just crazy. 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

I know this is a place for banter but I wish some guys from late 50's on could have a bit of humility when it comes to women. All these criteria such as 40kg with nothing about the person herself. Posting videos of popstars who would shudder at the thought of old guys showing interest. Good luck but wake up too. 

Some guys look in the mirror and think about what they can possibly get. And then, when any woman is interested, they go for it - her.

Other guys don't think too much. They just look for the hottest girls and try to get one. And maybe they do get one.

Why think too much?

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, EVENKEEL said:

My 11 yr old daughter is 163 cm at 50 kg. She's thin and gangly. One guy mentioned 144 cm which is a midget.

I was the one who mentioned the 144cm girl. I met her in Nana last Friday.

Yes, she was exceptionally short - even for Thai girls.

I could easily lift her with one arm. 

She was cute and nice, and she knew how to dance. The even had C-cup or something in that region. And she was 21 and her English was pretty good.

Almost perfect. 

[ravip]

21 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Men and women are different in many many ways. What's so difficult about accepting that fact?

And if you personally think you would like a 20-year older woman, than go ahead. Maybe you will find a rich one who buys you a car. But please don't expect from all of us to do that. 

???? of course I understand very well. We tend to justify what pleases oneself  - it's just human.

 

I would like to see a 70 year old man attract a 20 year girl without the money factor. 

 

It's the money that makes all the difference  - not the male/ female factor. 

[Lacessit]

8 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

nope  just mirroring your words...if you are angry or think im trolling look in the "mirror"

 

so defensive....is there a law that says i cant do the exact same behavior as others do to me?

 

speaking of pathetic seems to me a weak attempt at finding "love"..but thats just me

 

feel free to hover mouse over my avatar and click all ignore boxes....truth hurts sometimes

I suggest you watch the film "The Flim-Flam Man" starring George C Scott.

From your posts, IMO you will die alone. I won't.

[Lacessit]

1 minute ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

sorry friend..no time the rain has stopped and i gotta get back to the hustle.....time is money!

One of these days, you may realize the most important things in life are time, and good health. Money is secondary.

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, ravip said:

???? of course I understand very well. We tend to justify what pleases oneself  - it's just human.

 

I would like to see a 70 year old man attract a 20 year girl without the money factor. 

 

It's the money that makes all the difference  - not the male/ female factor. 

And your point is?

He wouldn't be attracted to her is she wouldn't be 20. So, the age makes the difference.

 

We are all the sum of our "properties". Maybe a guy wants a girl for property A, and she wants him for property B. Same same, not much different. 

[sidjameson]

18 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

And your point is?

He wouldn't be attracted to her is she wouldn't be 20. So, the age makes the difference.

 

We are all the sum of our "properties". Maybe a guy wants a girl for property A, and she wants him for property B. Same same, not much different. 

Possibly, but you can see many couples aging and still in love even after 'property A has gone. I wonder how many women attracted to the money stay if that runs out.

[bignok]

2 hours ago, NextG said:

No. That is just crazy. 

No it isnt. 45yo women dont really want a 75yo husband. Most of these age gap ones are about $

[OneMoreFarang]

31 minutes ago, sidjameson said:

Possibly, but you can see many couples aging and still in love even after 'property A has gone. I wonder how many women attracted to the money stay if that runs out.

No more money, no more good looks, no more sexy body, no more well paid job, whatever.

Lots of things change over time. And sometimes it's a problem. But sometimes we don't focus on things so much anymore when we get older.

 

I.e. when I met my gf, she was young and hot. Now she is not young and hot anymore. But I still love her.

But coming back to this thread if we would separate for whatever reason then I would look for young and hot again. But I won't leave my gf now only because another one if younger and hotter. I am still happy with her, even when she changed. I am sure I also changed. 

[OneMoreFarang]

20 minutes ago, bignok said:

No it isnt. 45yo women dont really want a 75yo husband. Most of these age gap ones are about $

Please publish your research - or any research about that. 

[bignok]

3 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Please publish your research - or any research about that. 

Its called think about it

[Walker88]

6 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Please publish your research - or any research about that. 

I've seen larger age gaps here, and unless the women are future Oscar winners, they seem smitten.

 

I have to assume sometimes people just click. Also, sometimes there might be daddy or grand daddy issues. Not for me to say or judge. If it works for them, great.

[EVENKEEL]

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

I suggest you watch the film "The Flim-Flam Man" starring George C Scott.

From your posts, IMO you will die alone. I won't.

Loved that movie.

[thailandsgreat]

Topic well covered. But maybe better to head out of BKK, Pattaya etc and to the slightly smaller places where farlang are less common.  But you must also be prepared to live that life.

 

Where she lives is maybe more important than her age.

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, thailandsgreat said:

Topic well covered. But maybe better to head out of BKK, Pattaya etc and to the slightly smaller places where farlang are less common.  But you must also be prepared to live that life.

 

Where she lives is maybe more important than her age.

Her family, is the most important for you and your happiness ???? as well here of course

[OneMoreFarang]

8 minutes ago, thailandsgreat said:

Topic well covered. But maybe better to head out of BKK, Pattaya etc and to the slightly smaller places where farlang are less common.  But you must also be prepared to live that life.

 

Where she lives is maybe more important than her age.

Where I live is up to me. And she has two options: Live with me where I want to live or leave me.

 

There are so many stories out there from guys who moved to the village of their wife. And then they build a house, on her land, and then life is over. Or at least it is limited to what she wants.

I find it hard to understand why guys do this again and again.

[OneMoreFarang]

33 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

I have to assume sometimes people just click. Also, sometimes there might be daddy or grand daddy issues. Not for me to say or judge. If it works for them, great.

I agree.

By now I know the story how my gf grew up. Her mother died when she was maybe 5, and later her father didn't really take care of her. I am sure when I met her and told her I will take care of her, that that resonated with what she wanted. And I still take care of her.

Lots of what we do has a lot to do with how we grew up. 

[thailandsgreat]

8 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Where I live is up to me. And she has two options: Live with me where I want to live or leave me.

 

There are so many stories out there from guys who moved to the village of their wife. And then they build a house, on her land, and then life is over. Or at least it is limited to what she wants.

I find it hard to understand why guys do this again and again.

True. You probably have to buy/rent some condo in a reasonably civilized place but away from BKK, Pattaya. But I don't rule out finding non-bar girls in e.g. Pattaya. There is life outside the bar areas too.

 

Building on wife's land is a real killer in Philippines too.

[NextG]

1 hour ago, bignok said:

No it isnt. 45yo women dont really want a 75yo husband. Most of these age gap ones are about $

Did his reply indicate 45 year old women and 75 year old men or did you just make that up to suit your argument? Ludicrous…

[OneMoreFarang]

7 minutes ago, thailandsgreat said:

True. You probably have to buy/rent some condo in a reasonably civilized place but away from BKK, Pattaya. But I don't rule out finding non-bar girls in e.g. Pattaya. There is life outside the bar areas too.

 

Building on wife's land is a real killer in Philippines too.

I love Bangkok. I've been here since almost 30 years and I don't plan to move anywhere else, ever. 

[bignok]

Just now, NextG said:

Did his reply indicate 45 year old women and 75 year old men or did you just make that up to suit your argument? Ludicrous…

Strange response to age gaps.

[Lucky Bones]

I think the answer is delicately balanced between ambitions and abilities.

If the twain shall not meet then go short-time.????????

[Caldera]

Current age gap 27 years and that seems pretty ideal. Once I'm 50+ I would probably tolerate a somewhat larger age gap, but I wouldn't actively chase it. 

Edited July 30, 2023 by Caldera

[thailandsgreat]

11 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I love Bangkok. I've been here since almost 30 years and I don't plan to move anywhere else, ever. 

I guess many girls you see there are working in shops, happy to be relieved of their 9 to 5 work to marry. Bangkok girls maybe high maintenance?

 

 

 

[NextG]

15 minutes ago, bignok said:

Strange response to age gaps.

Not at all. It’s only you who mentioned 75 years old. My first age gap relationship when I was the older one was 31 to 18. Money wasn’t involved nor has it ever been in my relationships. The issue is that many have started relationships where finance is the main issue and subsequently see that as the norm. But many have relationships based on mutual attraction… unbelievable to some it seems. 

[NextG]

4 minutes ago, thailandsgreat said:

I guess many girls you see there are working in shops, happy to be relieved of their 9 to 5 work to marry. Bangkok girls maybe high maintenance?

 

 

 

Such crazy assumptions ????