Old age sex, revisited.

[GammaGlobulin]

On 7/18/2024 at 8:49 PM, swissie said:

Numerous studies by respected universities show that "sexual-desire" does not stop in old age. I tend to agree. I look at the girls like I did 50 years ago. Knowing, that even after swallowing "magic pills", bedroom activities will turn out "mediocre" at best.

How about you? Between the age of 65 to 99? Spill your guts!

I myself find it outragious that the "Gods" have left us with "the desire" in old age, but robbing us from "the capabilities".

 

 

You just need to find some way to re-channel your libido towards more worthy pursuits.

 

This is NOT about old age, meaning the choice to go celibate.

It's about the decision to shake off the chains that tie one to the daily hassle of dreary relationships with the opposite sex.

 

Most people are unwilling to admit just how terrible their lives are made by this need to cohabit with a female/male/or-what-have-you.

 

I am happy I no longer need to wake up and see my former GF, my former wives, ...

Or anybody.

 

So much stress has just fallen away since I took the plunge into strict celibacy.

 

Therefore I do recommend that you:

 

A.  Give one year of celibacy a try.

B.  Get rid of Microsoft Windows OS 10/11, and become free with Linux, OpenSUSE Leap, 15.6......

 

These are the two best decisions I have made in the past two decades.

 

Try it.

 

 

[StreetCowboy]

1 hour ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   If you choose a ladyboy instead of a female then that would be gay . It would only not be gay if you didn't have a choice 

If you chose the most feminine and beautiful, would your sexuality depend on which was the ladyboy?

[StreetCowboy]

1 hour ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

You just need to find some way to re-channel your libido towards more worthy pursuits.

 

This is NOT about old age, meaning the choice to go celibate.

It's about the decision to shake off the chains that tie one to the daily hassle of dreary relationships with the opposite sex.

 

Most people are unwilling to admit just how terrible their lives are made by this need to cohabit with a female/male/or-what-have-you.

 

I am happy I no longer need to wake up and see my former GF, my former wives, ...

Or anybody.

 

So much stress has just fallen away since I took the plunge into strict celibacy.

 

Therefore I do recommend that you:

 

A.  Give one year of celibacy a try.

B.  Get rid of Microsoft Windows OS 10/11, and become free with Linux, OpenSUSE Leap, 15.6......

 

These are the two best decisions I have made in the past two decades.

 

Try it.

 

 

Is giving Linux a go a bit like the posts about ladyboys?

[GammaGlobulin]

26 minutes ago, StreetCowboy said:

Is giving Linux a go a bit like the posts about ladyboys?

 

a. Linux, and the use of Linux, especially for the desktop, is logical, and a rational choice.

 

b. In Thailand, for most Farang, choosing a ladyboy for a change of pace seems illogical, and an irrational choice.

 

c. I would not compare the two experiences, in fact. Linux is a much better user experience compared to Windows OS.  The Thai Ladyboy often provides a less than optimal user experience, but just judging from the plethora of data gleaned from the Thaivisa forum.  There is really no comparing Linux to a Ladyboy, nor bananas to peaches.

 

 

 

[JimTripper]

On 7/22/2024 at 10:50 AM, scubascuba3 said:

i give back, even give to charity, i give to the deaf, there's a deaf lady i see i let her have a go down there for 500

 

I don't think most guys over 55 care much about sex. The guys I have known who are honest say the physical act is not very important at their age. The looking, etc may be there, but the act itself is fleeting at best.

 

I'm in the same camp. The desire for physical consumation is not very strong. I will notice attractive women when I'm strolling through town. Rejections are taken in stride and gestures of interest are well considered.

 

I also wake up with a woody far less often. The snake just kind of knows to go away. When I was younger it needed to be trained (most of the time that was done with my right hand).

Edited August 17 by JimTripper

[scubascuba3]

6 hours ago, JimTripper said:

 

I don't think most guys over 55 care much about sex. The guys I have known who are honest say the physical act is not very important at their age. The looking, etc may be there, but the act itself is fleeting at best.

 

I'm in the same camp. The desire for physical consumation is not very strong. I will notice attractive women when I'm strolling through town. Rejections are taken in stride and gestures of interest are well considered.

 

I also wake up with a woody far less often. The snake just kind of knows to go away. When I was younger it needed to be trained (most of the time that was done with my right hand).

i enjoy sex more than ever at 54, but I'm not horny every day, so i go with it. I reckon guys have had bad experiences and get put off, you know fumbling around with condoms, numb ones etc

[save the frogs]

I experiemented with MACA. It works well to increase sex drive.

But it's not like Viagra where you pop one pill to get an erection.

It actually does sth in the body to increase sexual desire. 

I think Horny Goat Weed is similar, but never tried it.

But .,,, it takes a couple of weeks of taking it daily to start having an effect.

And then you need to keep taking it, which will get expensive. 

And you have trouble getting an erection, it may not help. It's not like Viagra. 

 

Edited August 17 by save the frogs

[JimTripper]

3 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

i enjoy sex more than ever at 54, but I'm not horny every day, so i go with it. I reckon guys have had bad experiences and get put off, you know fumbling around with condoms, numb ones etc

You should not be fumbling around with a condom at 54, but if you never learned to use one it's time to try.

 

Fumbling around with a numb one may require a little more foreplay, a pill or even a situation where you're not 'on the clock'. It can't be rushed. Not something that's easy in a quick short time, cheap massage situation or a paid interaction in general.

 

A penis has a funny way of telling you something.

Edited August 18 by JimTripper

[jerrymahoney]

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

you know fumbling around with condoms,

No -- that's her department.

[scubascuba3]

13 minutes ago, jerrymahoney said:

No -- that's her department.

Shouldn't be using them at your age if with the same partner

[jerrymahoney]

3 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Shouldn't be using them at your age if with the same partner

So if you've had a vasectomy I can tell you to go F**** yourself and you won't get pregnant?

[JimTripper]

14 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Shouldn't be using them at your age if with the same partner

You could still be spreading all kinds of diseases. You need to wear a rain jacket. Simple as that. You're in Pattaya and doing short times. Man up, be responsible and learn how to use a condom.

 

Let me know if you need tips on putting one on or how to take it off.

Edited August 18 by JimTripper

[Ben Zioner]

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

i enjoy sex more than ever at 54, but I'm not horny every day, so i go with it. I reckon guys have had bad experiences and get put off, you know fumbling around with condoms, numb ones etc

Met my present wife 15 years ago when I was 56, had sex 2 or 3 times a day then, with Cialis though. Anyhow it was just great. Now of course we are more conservative and enjoy it about twice a week.

 

Just to show how important sex can be, I had a prostate cancer diagnosis 5 years ago and have chosen to postpone any radical treatment, which would have killed the bliss. Living years as man are well worth twenty as an eunuch. 

[scubascuba3]

41 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

You could still be spreading all kinds of diseases. You need to wear a rain jacket. Simple as that. You're in Pattaya and doing short times. Man up, be responsible and learn how to use a condom.

 

Let me know if you need tips on putting one on or how to take it off.

You don't understand the alternatives, do some research then come back to the table

[scubascuba3]

43 minutes ago, Ben Zioner said:

Living years as man are well worth twenty as an eunuch. 

Wise words 👍

[JimTripper]

 

1 hour ago, Ben Zioner said:

Living years as man are well worth twenty as an eunuch. 

 

41 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Wise words 👍

 

I disagree. I would take the 20 years. Have fun!

[scubascuba3]

18 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

 

 

 

I disagree. I would take the 20 years. Have fun!

That may be because you don't know what it's like

[JimTripper]

20 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

That may be because you don't know what it's like

I'm not a slave to it and can do without. Learn to control your urges. You don't need the constant short times. Find others things that are important to you to focus on, hobbies, exercise, etc. 

 

If you're doing constant short times in Pattaya at 54 something's not right.

Edited August 18 by JimTripper

[Lacessit]

2 hours ago, JimTripper said:

You could still be spreading all kinds of diseases. You need to wear a rain jacket. Simple as that. You're in Pattaya and doing short times. Man up, be responsible and learn how to use a condom.

 

Let me know if you need tips on putting one on or how to take it off.

Most women know how to put them on. It's part of the enjoyment, if they use the right body part.

[JimTripper]

12 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Most women know how to put them on. It's part of the enjoyment, if they use the right body part.

As a man, you need to know how to use a condom and have the responsibility to use one.

 

I can't believe what I'm reading here.

[Hummin]

So many almost ready to jump a fence and really do not care for themselves or others. 

10 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

As a man, you need to know how to use a condom and have the responsibility to use one.

 

I can't believe what I'm reading here.

 

 

[JimTripper]

27 minutes ago, Hummin said:

So many almost ready to jump a fence and really do not care for themselves or others. 

Here's a video in case you missed it in high school sex ed or were out that day.

 

[Hummin]

3 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

Here's a video in case you missed it in high school sex ed or were out that day.

 

For me? Im not doing ST or p4p. Same partner for 8 years

[Ben Zioner]

3 hours ago, JimTripper said:

I would take the 20 years.

What for? To sell condoms?