In Thailand, there are many options to maintain a good sex life as you get older. When we were young it was a lot simpler. It didn’t take much thought or planning and it seemed like pleasure was to be had easily, but it becomes more complex as you age. Some will say having a loving and caring wife is now the best way. Others will say that’s not the case. Some people will say it’s best to stay single, date a lot, and play the field. Many think the best way is to just P4P and/or go short time when you want it and to avoid any emotional involvement or commitments. Some simply don’t want to look after someone else and choose some sort of freestyle option. And some might think having some sort of young mistress, where you pay all of her expenses, in exchange for some sex whenever you need it, is the best. Personally I prefer no commitments and to stay free and go with the flow. It seems to suit my solitary lifestyle the best, but I still say to each his own.

 

NOTE: If you are one of those men who feels sex is overrated, don’t need it anymore, never enjoyed it, your equipment doesn’t function, don’t care, etc, then please kindly spare us all your off-topic comments as this topic is purely about maintaining a healthy sex life rather than about abstaining. 

What is the question?

Get yourself a dog 

Bit of a worry if a 1990 person is worrying about how to get it up in his old age 😆 

1 minute ago, Pattaya57 said:

Bit of a worry if a 1990 person is worrying about how to get it up in his old age 😆 

34yo and on pills

3 minutes ago, Pattaya57 said:

Bit of a worry if a 1990 person is worrying about how to get it up in his old age 😆 

Coukd be the year of his car, when he moved to Southern California, or anything. 🙄

2 minutes ago, maesariang said:

34yo and on pills

So that's how you roll. Got it. 

9 minutes ago, maesariang said:

What is the question?

You can't be serious? You can't read the subject of the topic? Susan, always the problem child. 🤦🏻‍♂️

27 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

but I still say to each his own.

He answered his own question. Topic done.

It's inevitable libido declines with age. Best thing is not to worry about it.

 

Do something if one is so inclined.

 

Viagra and Cialis have health downsides for older people, such as elevated heart rate and low blood pressure. That's not a healthy sex life.

2 minutes ago, maesariang said:

Topic done.

Yet, you can't stop posting about it.

4 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

Yet, you can't stop posting about it.

You made 4 useless posts.

4 minutes ago, maesariang said:

You made 4 useless posts.

You've never made a useful one Susan. Sad. 

26 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

Get yourself a dog 

You prefer terriers, or St. Bernards?

I pretty much lost interest when I hit 52 or so. Just don't need it anymore. A very noticable decline that progressed fairly quickly.

 

Now, I can still get going and appreciate a woman, but it takes the right situation to make it happen. I'm not thinking about it all the time like when I was younger. If that situation does not happen I move on well and don't feel rejected and that sort of thing.

 

My question to you is, why maintain something as you get older if you no longer need it much? The desire is not there so it's not really an issue.

31 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

Get yourself a dog 

How does that work? Do you really believe you can get a dog to lick anything by putting peanut butter on it? Never mind, I don't want to know. 

3 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

My question to you is, why maintain something as you get older if you no longer need it much?

That's a fair question. But I think the OP was speaking to the people who still have a regular need. 

You are never too old to be frisky.

Big bosomed  Anna Nicole Smith found wedded bliss with   J. Howard Marshall.  Isn't this special?

 

 

 

And let's not forget Ulf and Joop. They still find time to sashay at a local event. They would be right at home in Pattaya.

 

 

 

 

22 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

That's a fair question. But I think the OP was speaking to the people who still have a regular need. 

I think it's natural to not need it as much as you get older. Although, some guys may have a physical problem that occurs before their mental need drops off.

 

There are guys out there who don't accept changes as they age and kind of want to hang onto everything that was there when they were young. Similar to a mid-life crisis type thing. That's the vibe I'm getting from the OP. Like someone that's not old yet but is worried about getting older.

1 hour ago, SoCal1990 said:

but it becomes more complex as you age.

 

 

I counted the word "some" 7 times.

28 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

 

You need lube rather then just cranking one out dry?

13 minutes ago, maesariang said:

I counted the word "some" 7 times.

Geez ...and I thought I had a booooring life !

Your not locked up in the  View talay 2B in Pattaya by any chance are you ?

6 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Geez ...and I thought I had a booooring life !

Your not locked up in the  View talay 2B in Pattaya by any chance are you ?

Some might say you do. Some others may not.

2 minutes ago, maesariang said:

Some might say you do. Some others may not.

So it's a 50/50 consensus?

How "woke" is that 😂

 

It's a bit like nowadays where I'm told children at school playing tennis etc can't lose anymore ... apparently everyone's a winner 

Why keep bothering with the old in out, it's quite boring

1 minute ago, proton said:

Why keep bothering with the old in out, it's quite boring

That is life. Humans have no purpose.

2 minutes ago, proton said:

Why keep bothering with the old in out, it's quite boring

Well proton some of us find it quite fascinating and interesting because of our academic interests 

I always think of myself as a amateur Professor 

1 hour ago, maesariang said:

I counted the word "some" 7 times.

Susan, you are not finished counting words. You need to go back and count every single word and then come back again and give us a full report.

1 hour ago, proton said:

Why keep bothering with the old in out, it's quite boring

No need for in and out. You need to keep it inside and do the left to right thing.