1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

She's sick, so she's constantly complaining. You know how women get when they have a small cold.

 

What a hellish 10 days I have in store.

 

Kill me now.

Go to the nearest clinic and get some of what she needs. Let her get well, watch TV, eat some good local food, wait a couple days, and then maybe she'll be in a better mood, especially if she sees you concerned. Not much else you can do, as you don't want tension for the next 9 days. She might be a totally different person when she's well, and it might let you both have a much better time.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

 

 

Kill me now.

You're putting in long term relationship duties in a short term relationship. So def the worst of all worlds.

 

Not quite death-worthy, but I def feel for you.

 

May as well do Britman2 here too: Since I ended my long marriage, all my stuff fits in one big suitcase -assuming I leave the toaster and blender behind, like I always do.

 

Dug in at the solar panel-level?  It's looking like a lifetime NO vote for me going forward. 

 

I booked a third dinner date for omakase. I haven't been on a date as such since 1991. So I read a bit on Reddit.

 

Like I thought: If I don't get some kissy escalation at the end, it's fade time. We did air kisses on the last go-round.

 

If I do, I'd hang on for two more trips to the buffet. I like her, but if you don't get in by meeting number 5, then outer space alien abduction becomes more likely than sex.

 

I had to add outer space to alien abduction for clarity. This is, after all, the Trump era. Alien abduction is sort of a thing now.

38 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

You're putting in long term relationship duties in a short term relationship. So def the worst of all worlds.

 

Not quite death-worthy, but I def feel for you.

 

May as well do Britman2 here too: Since I ended my long marriage, all my stuff fits in one big suitcase -assuming I leave the toaster and blender behind, like I always do.

 

Dug in at the solar panel-level?  It's looking like a lifetime NO vote for me going forward. 

 

I booked a third dinner date for omakase. I haven't been on a date as such since 1991. So I read a bit on Reddit.

 

Like I thought: If I don't get some kissy escalation at the end, it's fade time. We did air kisses on the last go-round.

 

If I do, I'd hang on for two more trips to the buffet. I like her, but if you don't get in by meeting number 5, then outer space alien abduction becomes more likely than sex.

 

I had to add outer space to alien abduction for clarity. This is, after all, the Trump era. Alien abduction is sort of a thing now.

 

At least you like her. This girl and me there's real antipathy. I unloaded her in town and told her to do her thing and come back with a grab. 

 

It's the first time I've such a mutual dislike with any girl. I'm thinking of telling her to leave early. I really don't like her. 

2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Go to the nearest clinic and get some of what she needs. Let her get well, watch TV, eat some good local food, wait a couple days, and then maybe she'll be in a better mood, especially if she sees you concerned. Not much else you can do, as you don't want tension for the next 9 days. She might be a totally different person when she's well, and it might let you both have a much better time.

Her hacking constant cough is annoying as hell. Just took her to a waterfall. Instead of following me to a shady spot to lie down she says she'll go look at the waterfall. 

 

Took her to a place for drinks and food and she says she'd rather go to this restaurant she saw on tik tok. 

 

This is the first girl I actually dislike. And it's mutual. Never had this before. 

 

I think if she leaves early it would be best. I just don't want to raise her ire, lest she accuses me of rape. Tough place. 

2 hours ago, save the frogs said:

 

yeah well if you brag about your exploits on here, you will get monkeys on your back.

 

The question is, who is the monkey? 

 

🧐🌝

11 hours ago, Hummin said:

The question is, who is the monkey? 

 

🧐🌝

that sounds like a trick question.

i'm not answering that. 

 

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Her hacking constant cough is annoying as hell. Just took her to a waterfall. Instead of following me to a shady spot to lie down she says she'll go look at the waterfall. 

 

Took her to a place for drinks and food and she says she'd rather go to this restaurant she saw on tik tok. 

 

This is the first girl I actually dislike. And it's mutual. Never had this before. 

 

I think if she leaves early it would be best. I just don't want to raise her ire, lest she accuses me of rape. Tough place. 

Yes it is. I know it isn't easy to find in Thailand, a good cough medicine like Nyquil or Daquil, although you can get it on Lazada with overnight shipping. Besides that, nothing I've found is strong enough to stop a cough. If she has to stay, you have to stay pleasant. 9 more days will only be easy if she's happy.    Or, "We're really not getting along well, so I'm thinking it would be better for the both of us if I helped you go back home".

2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Or, "We're really not getting along well, so I'm thinking it would be better for the both of us if I helped you go back home".

 

I asked her to leave. It was clear it was never going to happen for us, and she was more than happy to leave, got the flight right away. Thank God. You  know, during the calling phase she was all smiles, joking , laughing, pretending she was this lighthearted soul. When she appeared in person she was the most complaining, long faced, miserable person. You can't trust women. 

 

And stupid too. I explained to her in detail where my house was when I dropped her in town, she looked it up on google. I gave her instructions how to come in the house, because I had an important work call and didn't want her to ring the bell. I told her come through the terrace door. What does she do? Sends a text "I'm here, I can't come in". Total idiot.

 

So glad she's gone. She lied about her age too, no way was she was 35. That's why she did not want to show her ID.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I asked her to leave. It was clear it was never going to happen for us, and she was more than happy to leave, got the flight right away. Thank God. You  know, during the calling phase she was all smiles, joking , laughing, pretending she was this lighthearted soul. When she appeared in person she was the most complaining, long faced, miserable person. You can't trust women. 

 

And stupid too. I explained to her in detail where my house was when I dropped her in town, she looked it up on google. I gave her instructions how to come in the house, because I had an important work call and didn't want her to ring the bell. I told her come through the terrace door. What does she do? Sends a text "I'm here, I can't come in". Total idiot.

 

So glad she's gone. She lied about her age too, no way was she was 35. That's why she did not want to show her ID.

 

   Did you bang her before she went ?

2 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Did you bang her before she went ?

 

No. I just wanted her gone, losing a bang was fine. There'll be many more and with much better women than that. No way was she 35. What a liar.

 

Pretended to be all smiles on the initial calls, but in reality a long face complainer.

 

Glad she's gone.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I asked her to leave. It was clear it was never going to happen for us, and she was more than happy to leave, got the flight right away. Thank God. You  know, during the calling phase she was all smiles, joking , laughing, pretending she was this lighthearted soul. When she appeared in person she was the most complaining, long faced, miserable person. You can't trust women. 

 

And stupid too. I explained to her in detail where my house was when I dropped her in town, she looked it up on google. I gave her instructions how to come in the house, because I had an important work call and didn't want her to ring the bell. I told her come through the terrace door. What does she do? Sends a text "I'm here, I can't come in". Total idiot.

 

So glad she's gone. She lied about her age too, no way was she was 35. That's why she did not want to show her ID.

You might have dodged a bullet  and the end result was good. Next time get recent pictures and or talk on messenger before you meet. Might save you a castration someday if you get to know her better also. They are prone to carry knives.

16 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I asked her to leave. It was clear it was never going to happen for us, and she was more than happy to leave, got the flight right away. Thank God. You  know, during the calling phase she was all smiles, joking , laughing, pretending she was this lighthearted soul. When she appeared in person she was the most complaining, long faced, miserable person. You can't trust women. 

 

And stupid too. I explained to her in detail where my house was when I dropped her in town, she looked it up on google. I gave her instructions how to come in the house, because I had an important work call and didn't want her to ring the bell. I told her come through the terrace door. What does she do? Sends a text "I'm here, I can't come in". Total idiot.

 

So glad she's gone. She lied about her age too, no way was she was 35. That's why she did not want to show her ID.

Did it ever strike your mind, she was as disappointed as you where.

 

Might be the case. Glad to help

On 4/30/2025 at 9:43 AM, Cameroni said:

Finally, there is you, the Farang, yourself. The sex was great when you were  much younger, and that woman was head over heels in love with you, would participate, would do anything to please to you. But once you hit 70 your sexual market value obviously has dropped way down because of age, and almost no young and attractive women will be attracted to you and participate in sex eagerly to please you, simply because they just about manage to stop themselves from vomiting for having sex with you.

 

Quite.  It makes zero sense to compare the sex you had when you were younger and married to the woman of your dreams who was the same age as you, to sex you have at 70 with women who probably aren't that into you.

 

OP cannot really say anything about sex with Thai women apart from those willing to have sex with a 70 year old man, probably in exchange for money.

 

Quite an odd post overall, but I guess sometimes people forget that at 70 they are not the same person they were at 30.  Ego hides the truth.  🤷‍♂️

9 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You might have dodged a bullet  and the end result was good. Next time get recent pictures and or talk on messenger before you meet. Might save you a castration someday if you get to know her better also. They are prone to carry knives.

 

I dodged a bullet with two giant breast and a magnificent rump. I did talk on Line, but you only see the face! You don't see how big her rear is!!

 

Prone to carry knives? What???

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Did it ever strike your mind, she was as disappointed as you where.

 

Might be the case. Glad to help

 

She was! That was the weird thing. I could tell she didn't like me at all. When she was fortunate to even be in my presence, this used up old overweight hag. 

 

Thank God she felt that way though, and she left right away. 

 

I never had such mutual dislike with any female before. Boy did I not like her.

2 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

OP cannot really say anything about sex with Thai women apart from those willing to have sex with a 70 year old man, probably in exchange for money.

 

This.

 

We sometimes think we're the same as 20 years ago. Of course we're not.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

I dodged a bullet with two giant breast and a magnificent rump. I did talk on Line, but you only see the face! You don't see how big her rear is!!

 

Prone to carry knives? What???

Thai women are prone to go to knives against their men. Thai men also. Of course self defense is okay, but not bringing out a knife in a minor disagreement. Been there, and heard it many times living here.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Thai women are prone to go to knives against their men. Thai men also. Of course self defense is okay, but not bringing out a knife in a minor disagreement. Been there, and heard it many times living here.

 

I have a Crocodile Dundee Machete here, if she brings out the knife, she'll quickly put it away, I suspect.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Prone to carry knives? What???

My wife always carried a large switch knife in her handbag.

My previous LTR carried a carving knife under her m/c seat.

 

Yes, and they both threatened me with them and had to be disarmed.

All part of the fun for us old guys in Thailand.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

She was! That was the weird thing. I could tell she didn't like me at all. When she was fortunate to even be in my presence, this used up old overweight hag. 

 

Thank God she felt that way though, and she left right away. 

 

I never had such mutual dislike with any female before. Boy did I not like her.

I'm guessing you're wondering what she'll have to say to her friends when she gets home. "He was a brute, he wanted me to do awful things, he was too tall, too short, too fat, too skinny, a smartass, said he was the worlds best lover, wouldn't let me eat dinner, was cheap, didn't buy me drinks bla,bla,bla................

Just now, BritManToo said:

My wife always carried a large switch knife in her handbag.

My previous LTR carried a carving knife under her m/c seat.

 

Yes, and they both threatened me with them and had to be disarmed.

All part of the fun for us old guys in Thailand.

Mine slapped me in the face when she was mad at her mom and I went to hug her. Then she went to the kitchen and got a knife and came at me. No lie. Her sister got in between us as she knew she was off.

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

My wife always carried a large switch knife in her handbag.

My previous LTR carried a carving knife under her m/c seat.

 

Yes, and they both threatened me with them and had to be disarmed.

All part of the fun for us old guys in Thailand.

 

Well, it's a good thing I got that machete, looks like.

 

My God.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Mine slapped me in the face when she was mad at her mom and I went to hug her. Then she went to the kitchen and got a knife and came at me. No lie. Her sister got in between us as she knew she was off.

But let's face it, a few years later they're great stories to share with your mates over a few beers, if you survive ........

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I'm guessing you're wondering what she'll have to say to her friends when she gets home. "He was a brute, he wanted me to do awful things, he was too tall, too short, too fat, too skinny, a smartass, said he was the worlds best lover, wouldn't let me eat dinner, was cheap, didn't buy me drinks bla,bla,bla................

 

I was cheap, hahahaha, she wanted to go to this fancy restaurant. I took her to an average food court. She even refused to eat. No way was I going out of my way for that specimen.

 

This was the only time when getting  a woman over was not worth it. First time.

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

She was! That was the weird thing. I could tell she didn't like me at all. When she was fortunate to even be in my presence, this used up old overweight hag. 

 

Thank God she felt that way though, and she left right away. 

 

It's quite possible that the way you behaved, or even the fact that you were out of her league, meant that she realised she didn't stand a chance, and she therefore hated you and didn't want to waste any more time if she knew she couldn't manipulate you.

 

A lot of women are used to men being attracted to them and falling over themselves to make them happy or get them into bed.  When that is absent, they don't like the dynamic that is left (them being judged on their merits).

Just now, BritManToo said:

But let's face it, a few years later they're great stories to share with your mates over a few beers, if you survive ........

My family all hate her, especially seeing our daughter here is their sister. One wanted to fly here and kick her ass. Some expressed a much more forceful plan.

1 minute ago, BangkokReady said:

 

It's quite possible that the way you behaved, or even the fact that you were out of her league, meant that she realised she didn't stand a chance, and she therefore hated you and didn't want to waste any more time if she knew she couldn't manipulate you.

 

A lot of women are used to men being attracted to them and falling over themselves to make them happy or get them into bed.  When that is absent, they don't like the dynamic that is left (them being judged on their merits).

Exactly. When I divorced my wife here, she never saw it coming and you could see it in her eyes during the proceeds. I really loved her and treated her very well, but she was damaged from childhood and to this day hates most everyone around her. Mostly wants to just stay home and stare at the ceiling and get money without much communication between. When you spurn a good looking woman, they get real angry because it might have never happened to her before and "how dare he"?

2 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

 

It's quite possible that the way you behaved, or even the fact that you were out of her league, meant that she realised she didn't stand a chance, and she therefore hated you and didn't want to waste any more time if she knew she couldn't manipulate you.

 

A lot of women are used to men being attracted to them and falling over themselves to make them happy or get them into bed.  When that is absent, they don't like the dynamic that is left (them being judged on their merits).

 

Yes, that was most likely the case. She knew it would never happen, no way could I find her attractive, and obviously my behaviour showed it. So she had no other option but to act up really.

 

One thing's for sure if anyone ever tells me again, get an educated, professsional woman that's older, in her 30s, I will punch them in the mouth so hard. She was a pharmacist, but stupid as straw. Incapably of following basic instructions.

 

Strictly 18 to 28 now, much much better. So very much better. It was worth a shot, now at least I'm sure my age range choice is spot on.

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

But let's face it, a few years later they're great stories to share with your mates over a few beers, if you survive ........

Here's a good one,

A short time after I married mine, she was driving her scooter along the road and I'm pillion. For some unknown reason she completely loses her temper, starts swerving across the road side to side and screaming. In fear of my life, I squeeze the breath out of her until she stop the m/c. Two Thai guys run up and ask if she needs help with the foreigner. As we're stopped I stop pinning her arms. She jumps off, picks up a large rock from the roadside, and starts chasing the poor Thai white knights down the road .....

You should have seen them run.

All forgotten and happy by the time she gets back to me.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, that was most likely the case. She knew it would never happen, no way could I find her attractive, and obviously my behaviour showed it. So she had no other option but to act up really.

 

One thing's for sure if anyone ever tells me again, get an educated, professsional woman that's older, in her 30s, I will punch them in the mouth so hard. She was a pharmacist, but stupid as straw. Incapably of following basic instructions.

 

Strictly 18 to 28 now, much much better. So very much better. It was worth a shot, now at least I'm sure my age range choice is spot on.

Age isn't really the problem, as age can do two things. Make a woman more mature and able to be in a mutual relationship with a man, or she might have grown up without a decent father and never learned how to relate to men. Of course any abuse from men also hurts her ability to relate. This can happen with any age group, although the bitterness is usually in the older ones who have experienced the dark side of life around men.