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meeting a lady that doesn't need your money

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1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

I've found the opposite to be true,

Men want the feelings and relationships.

Women just want money, position in society, big house, etc. and are generally willing to bang any guy that can provide those things.

Wrong women, just like I picked, but in different ways. An independent woman doesn't need a man's money and wants a loyal man more than anything else. Thailand is of course different, because it's a poor country and much of the female populace is looking to get out of that, and will go with most anyone if he has enough money, as has been proven thousands of times here. Western women won't just bang anyone, besides the poor and gold diggers who look to the cash first. If you are talking normal men and women, both want much the same things. Loyalty, honesty, mutual future plans, attraction at first, and hopefully chemistry, and in a woman's case, someone to protect her and provide for her, especially if she was taught to be a partner to a man instead of a dominating b*tch. Women worldwide are much the same in most ways, besides those like here who want cash more.

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    20 odd years here, never, ever had a thai woman who wanted money, same as when i dated back home. current gf has five cars, seven houses and condos and runs, at the last count - it's hard to keep up,

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    Sounds like bs

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8 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I've found the opposite to be true,

Men want the feelings and relationships.

Women just want money, position in society, big house, etc. and are generally willing to bang any guy that can provide those things.

 

This is what I found as well. Men are the romantics. Women are the materialists.

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I'm fairly certain I'm smarter than you,

And my dad was smarter than your dad so there!

If you actually knew me and how much I do know, you would run screaming into the hills of Chiang Mai, hiding away from a huge embarrassment. You actually have no idea if you're smarter than I, because that doesn't work. That's just a fantasy of yours ,maybe created by low self esteem or being proven wrong so many times.

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

This is what I found as well. Men are the romantics. Women are the materialists.

The opposite is also true. Many men are just players, looking at women as conquests, with no thought of romance besides BS used to get a result. Some men actually think they deserve sex, when no sex is actually what they deserve. Mismatches happen all day long, and is why the world has so many problems. The breakdown of the family is the fall of society, and it all starts at home. Remove the players and biatches, or let them get together, and the population would decrease dramatically, which would help all the world, as the players and biatches don't want kids anyway.

On 5/7/2025 at 10:19 PM, Cameroni said:

 

It will never happen, son. Don't worry.

 

Wrong.

I met my wife 25 years ago and she has never asked for any money for her or her family, in fact I borrowed from her a few times when we first met. . We have no problems regarding expenses and just seem to know who pays for what.

They was no sinsod when we got married either.

11 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I've found the opposite to be true,

Men want the feelings and relationships.

Women just want money, position in society, big house, etc. and are generally willing to bang any guy that can provide those things.

 

Women want everything.

 

But you need to work 80 hours a week to make money, and that doesn't leave much time to develop the emotional bond. 

 

20 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I've found the opposite to be true,

Men want the feelings and relationships.

Women just want money, position in society, big house, etc. and are generally willing to bang any guy that can provide those things.

 

 

You've been unlucky then. With me it was the sex with them it was romance and relationships.

 

Before moving hear a long time ago my girlfriend list in the UK was as follows : 2 Filipino nurses both earning more than me,  1 Chinese Malay from Penang ( smoking hot SRN nurse ) ,  Two Thai students working in London , 1 Indonesian secretary  and finaly 1 Taiwanese waitress I shacked up with in Taipei. None of these asked for money . The Indonesian was insistant on paying her way and American shares when we went out and the Taiwanese waitress was always buying me gifts even though she was the only one of them not earning so much. 

 

My problem was my sex drive....always wanted more and more. One was never enough. Totaly different now. Rather do some gardening.

On 5/7/2025 at 10:43 PM, Harrisfan said:

Not me. He's an idiot. Id want 150 sex sessions for that.

Your reverence for Dear Leader as well as this post demonstrates your unrealistic expectations .

Sad much.

48 minutes ago, petedk said:

Wrong.

I met my wife 25 years ago and she has never asked for any money for her or her family, in fact I borrowed from her a few times when we first met. . We have no problems regarding expenses and just seem to know who pays for what.

They was no sinsod when we got married either.

 

I meant with attractive women obviously.

50 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

The opposite is also true. Many men are just players, looking at women as conquests, with no thought of romance besides BS used to get a result.

 

I think in essence it's the same for men and women, women go on the c**k carousel until they're 30 and then settle down with one guy because they know it'll be too late for children otherwise, and men start to spin plates in their 30s, 40s and 50s, when they are financially able to and can attract good looking women. However, both are always open to that one person who can reach parts others can't reach, IF they are convinced they can't do better than them. But these people don't come along very often.

 

 

On 5/7/2025 at 10:06 PM, camper star said:

It started off like meeting the end of the rainbow, which we all we can't do.

My question is, how do I handle the subject when financial help for the family is needed.

 

Would you date or marry a poor person back home?

3 minutes ago, Freddy42OZ said:

 

Would you date or marry a poor person back home?

 

Absolutely........?

On 5/7/2025 at 10:40 PM, Harrisfan said:

My friend gave 200,000. Only had sex 12 times.

Escort Class

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

If you actually knew me and how much I do know, you would run screaming into the hills of Chiang Mai, hiding away from a huge embarrassment. You actually have no idea if you're smarter than I, because that doesn't work. That's just a fantasy of yours ,maybe created by low self esteem or being proven wrong so many times.

Your belief in a supreme being tells everyone all they need to know.

 

41 minutes ago, Freddy42OZ said:

Would you date or marry a poor person back home?

For me, dating always relied more on access to their tits than their wealth.

42 minutes ago, Freddy42OZ said:

 

Would you date or marry a poor person back home?

For me, I needed a best friend who would be up for a bit more bohemian lifestyle, go with the flow and not tied up to much, and  found it. 

 

We all have criteria for what we want, and what kind of life we want.

 

A dedicated polite kind honest active girl without kids was what I wanted, snd what I found. Her status was of no importance. 

 

I see those who find a working girl with education, is pretty much stuck one place with very little freedom to travel, unless they accept individual freedom, and less time together. 

11 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Your belief in a supreme being tells everyone all they need to know.

 

You do realize that more people on earth believe in God than don't right? And who is they? And what would they know?

Just now, fredwiggy said:

You do realize that more people on earth believe in God than don't right? And who is they? And what would they know?

Yes, I agree, there's lots of stupid people in the world

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Yes, I agree, there's lots of stupid people in the world

Yes, and most of them believe the universe started from nothing. All 5 billion plus species coming from a big bang that happened all by itself, which couldn't have happened because itself wasn't here either.

2 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

So a hooker and a cleaner

I'm just not seeing the downside.

Just now, Prubangboy said:

I'm just not seeing the downside.

Probably right provided she doesnt cost too much or cause problems. Add in chef and she's near perfect.

13 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Yes, and most of them believe the universe started from nothing. All 5 billion plus species coming from a big bang that happened all by itself, which couldn't have happened because itself wasn't here either.

If one single cell is a proof of expansion and chain reaction, same for our universe in a multiverse where these things continously happens. 

 

And nobody knows whats behind all this or the visual universe. People believe, but no living man or woman  truly knows what this is or all about. What we know, we exists for now

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

If one single cell is a prove of expansion and chain reaction, same for our universe in a multiverse where these things continously happens. 

 

And nobody knows whats behind all this. People believe, but no living man or woman  truly knows what this is or all about. What we know, we exists for now

But all those 5 billion different species, all with their own DNA, could not have come from 1 cell. And there have been many people who have come back from clinically dead and told of heaven. And there's one Burmese monk who was dead for 3 days and came back, saying he went to hell and saw Buddha. Many reasons we believe, that a creator makes sense while the others don't. But that's another story, and this is about meeting a lady that doesn't need your money.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

But all those 5 billion different species, all with their own DNA, could not have come from 1 cell. And there have been many people who have come back from clinically dead and told of heaven. And there's one Burmese monk who was dead for 3 days and came back, saying he went to hell and saw Buddha. Many reasons we believe, that a creator makes sense while the others don't. But that's another story, and this is about meeting a lady that doesn't need your money.

Our brain is a fantastic organ with many many layers we yet do not understand, and a chemical mystery giving us all the illusions and realities we can imagine.

 

Im not going to explain for you the bioscience we know and have proof of ot the psychologic behind beliefs and cultures evolution.

 

Abrahamic religions is not the true answer to our mysterious in life, it is a belief system, man made and politically used and abused

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

you can buy attraction, fashionable clothes, good haircut, nice cologne,

 

Also you can create attraction by your actions,

 

if you meet her base threshhold.

 

 

 

Actions and cologne won't move her off the fence.

 

There is, as you say, the base threshold. Either you pass it or you don't.

 

There is or isn't an involuntary, visceral feeling. Then the various tectonic plates of taste start to shift around.

 

 

10 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Our brain is a fantastic organ with many many layers we yet do not understand, and a chemical mystery giving us all the illusions and realities we can imagine.

 

Im not going to explain for you the bioscience we know and have proof of ot the psychologic behind beliefs and cultures evolution.

 

Abrahamic religions is not the true answer to our mysterious in life, it is a belief system, man made and politically used and abused

And everything that's man made originated with God's creation. I've heard all the theories and science scientists have come out with, half of them also believing in God, and it's still all theories. We will all meet God when we pass, and some of us got some splainin' to do.

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:
2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

This is what I found as well. Men are the romantics. Women are the materialists.

This is what I found as well. Men are the romantics. Women are the materialists.

Any opinions that separate men from women -like women are this/men are that- seem counterproductive to me.

 

If you want to be the leader like you say, that's based on building commonality between you. The best officers rose through the ranks.

 

 

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

And everything that's man made originated with God's creation. I've heard all the theories and science scientists have come out with, half of them also believing in God, and it's still all theories. We will all meet God when we pass, and some of us got some splainin' to do.

I’m not going to dismiss a god, which I do not know what is, or which intentions to create life in the know universe, but I know nobody else’s knows either. Not even the pope knows

 

The psychology of believes and beliefs systems is however quite understandable, and proved as oblong there have been humans on this planet. 
 

we already had this discussions on the God thread, and none of us have changed our views yet

35 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Actions and cologne won't move her off the fence.

 

There is, as you say, the base threshold. Either you pass it or you don't.

 

There is or isn't an involuntary, visceral feeling. Then the various tectonic plates of taste start to shift around.

 

 

It won't hurt and can give you a way in, if you can establish a connection and it lasts, before long she may decide not to want to lose you. 

 

However, that is not a substitute for a girl who has true, burning desire for you, whose archetype you fulfill and she is crazy about you. That can only come from her, that's true.

 

31 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

If you want to be the leader like you say, that's based on building commonality between you. The best officers rose through the ranks.

 

 

Good point, but there are differences between women and men. Through all the commonality we need to understand those differences too.

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