11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

At the very least not so long ago a woman who cheats would face the opprobium

 

Law & Crime Network.

Son kills his mother because she was "too American".

Muslim family that relocated to the US.

Mother was cheating? Can't remember. But she filed for divorce, asking for big settlement. 

Son lost it. 

 

3 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Problem is some women can "cast a spell on you" when they have charms and looks up the wazoo and you're trapped in the same office with them day in and day out for months on end. 

 

It's a power play, the woman is playing with men for kicks. Some women get their excitement that way. 

 

Yes, better not to put anything like that in writing. Better tell her what a disgusting slut she is to her face after work, outside the building. With no witnesses.

2 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

Law & Crime Network.

Son kills his mother because she was "too American".

Muslim family that relocated to the US.

Mother was cheating? Can't remember. But she filed for divorce, asking for big settlement. 

Son lost it. 

 

 

Yes, it can be taken too far as well, honor killings are a bit OTT.

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

It's a power play, the woman is playing with men for kicks. Some women get their excitement that way. 

 

Yes, better not to put anything like that in writing. Better tell her what a disgusting slut she is to her face after work, outside the building. With no witnesses.

 

Lesson learned. Written notes will be used as evidence. But even if I had confronted her face to face, she may have filed a complaint.

 

Excitement? Maybe revenge on men for cheating on her in the past? Maybe low self-esteem. It's a power trip to have many guys after you. The OnlyFans phenomenon ... having thousands of eyes on you is a major ego boost. 

 

Just to get back onto this story, witness how Argento, after Bourdain's death, and knowing that there are photos of her cavorting, kissing and fondling Hugo Clement, circulating publicly, tries to spin this narrative that  "Oh we both cheated on each other all the time" "Tony was totally okay with it". When in actual fact, the texts from Bourdain just before his death, clearly show, that he was not, in fact okay with it. At all.

 

Argento was just trying to save her reputation, clearly now ruined beyond repair, by suggesting they were swingers and both cheated on each other.

 

In fact as far as Bourdain knew, Argento had not been with any men, apart from her ex husband. This notion that they both agreed to cheating, was just a pure lie. That's why Bourdain was so shocked and hurt when he saw the photos of Argento fondling Clement. Her infidelity was public and inescapable.

4 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

But even if I had confronted her face to face, she may have filed a complaint.

 

She may have, but without evidence then.

 

5 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Maybe revenge on men for cheating on her in the past?

 

Could be all of that. But the woman's will to power manifests in how deeply she can manipulate a man. Much like man's will to power manifests in how deeply he can extract sexual favours from a woman.

Just now, Cameroni said:

Much like man's will to power manifests in how deeply he can extract sexual favours from a woman.

 

u should try it Bro ,,,,,,

I don’t respect him. 

 

Supposedly a man who preaches everyone about finding pleasure in simple things, his public image of being happy and not caring, but offs himself over a puzzy.

 

Reminds me of some posters who pay for sex and claim to be happy.

Just now, NickyLouie said:

 

u should try it Bro ,,,,,,

 

I have, but it is quite sad that we have this urge to defile women, and rank her love according to the depths of depravity they would commit for us. It's a strange phenomenon.

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Could be all of that. But the woman's will to power manifests in how deeply she can manipulate a man. Much like man's will to power manifests in how deeply he can extract sexual favours from a woman.

 

Sometimes in relationships you need to try to get the other person to see their negative behavior patterns. But if it's too much and they don't change, you may have no choice but to walk away. And be conscious of your own negative behavior patterns. 

 

1 minute ago, Celsius said:

I don’t respect him. 

 

Supposedly a man who preaches everyone about finding pleasure in simple things, his public image of being happy and not caring, but offs himself over a puzzy.

 

Reminds me of some posters who pay for sex and claim to be happy.

 

Indeed, this is a major contradiction in the public persona of Bourdain, who liked to portray himself as this punk rock, devil may care, rock God.

 

But in real life, as Argento noted, he was a deeply bourgeoise and traditional man.

 

Goes to show, you never can tell.

7 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

Sometimes in relationships you need to try to get the other person to see their negative behavior patterns. But if it's too much and they don't change, you may have no choice but to walk away. And be conscious of your own negative behavior patterns. 

 

 

I think that's what Bourdain was trying to do. He was gently trying to get Argento to see that what she did was a negative behaviour, that it hurt him. But Argento would not listen. Like a stubborn street dog, she would just bite Bourdain, never showing any understanding, sympathy,  compassion or love.

 

What a despicable, base and horrific woman Argento is.

 

Almost comically, Argento, on top, insisted that SHE was the victim. I wonder what twisted logic she conjured up in her sick mind to portray herself as a victim, when she cheated on Bourdain. She was a victim of Bourdain's "possessiveness" I guess. Honestly, she probably blames Bourdain for her cheating. So she is the victim.

The ancient Greeks already warned us. They gave us the archetype of the Siren. The women with beautiful appearance, and beautiful voices, but who will ruin men's lives.

 

Argento is the modern equivalent of the Siren. Or rather, she was. Now looks like a train wreck. But she was.

 

Women talk about how bad men are, toxic, narcissist, etc, but some women, are absolutely terrifying. And you would do well to steer clear of them.

 

Argento is one such woman. So was Amber Heard. So is Casandra Ventura. So was Ava Gardner.

2 hours ago, Lacessit said:

Never heard of them.

 

You've never heard of Anthony Bourdain? That's just sad dude, real sad.

Bourdain never saw it coming. He never truly saw Argento, as she really was. Like a true Siren, she deceived his senses. Bourdain thought he had a pure goddess, a real love.

 

What he got, was heartless, disloyal cheater, who abaondoned him in the blink of an eye.

 

For another man.

36 minutes ago, Lemsta69 said:

 

You've never heard of Anthony Bourdain? That's just sad dude, real sad.

 

Cut him some slack, he's like 100 years old.

18 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Cut him some slack, he's like 100 years old.

 

Nah, he's a know-it-all. I've got zero tolerance for the FIGJAM types like him.

His tv shows were great but he always seemed on edge.

43 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Bourdain never saw it coming. He never truly saw Argento, as she really was. Like a true Siren, she deceived his senses. Bourdain thought he had a pure goddess, a real love.

 

What he got, was heartless, disloyal cheater, who abaondoned him in the blink of an eye.

 

For another man.

They werent married. 

2 hours ago, Celsius said:

I don’t respect him. 

 

Supposedly a man who preaches everyone about finding pleasure in simple things, his public image of being happy and not caring, but offs himself over a puzzy.

 

Reminds me of some posters who pay for sex and claim to be happy.

Walk towards pain. That's what brings real happiness.

37 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

They werent married. 

 

No, to his credit he did not want to marry. But not because he saw her clearly, but because his previous marriage failed.

 

Anyway, look how Argento lied so shamelessly after he died:

 

"Months after the suicide, Argento gave a tearful interview on-camera to the Daily Mail: “People say I murdered him. They say I killed him,” Argento said. “I understand that the world needs to find a reason. I would like to find a reason too. I don’t have it. Maybe I would feel some solace in thinking there was something that happened.… "

Argento admitted that she cheated on Bourdain, but added, “He cheated on me too. It wasn’t a problem for us.…"

 

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2021/07/anthony-bourdain-asia-argento-roadrunner?srsltid=AfmBOorHIdGBKbEebOU2TIJRIi0FQK5jjiY3Dosdkd8ZxMJ0jbLsuTzR

 

Argento said this when she KNEW full well what happened. That Bourdain and her had violent screaming matches over telephone, that he saw her photos of her cheating on Bourdain and he begged her to  consider his feelings. That she refused and broke up with him, saying SHE was the victim.  She KNEW all this. She knows EXACTLY what happened. She knows how hurt Bourdain was that she cheated. In the same hotel where she and Bourdain had fond memories.

 

And yet to the world, in an interview she pretends as if she is clueless, has no idea why  Bourdain killed himself and cannot fathom it.

 

The true Siren, spinning lies, deceiving...to the end.

 

It truly is sickening to see Argento lie through her teeth.

10 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No, to his credit he did not want to marry. But not because he saw her clearly, but because his previous marriage failed.

 

Anyway, look how Argento lied so shamelessly after he died:

 

"Months after the suicide, Argento gave a tearful interview on-camera to the Daily Mail: “People say I murdered him. They say I killed him,” Argento said. “I understand that the world needs to find a reason. I would like to find a reason too. I don’t have it. Maybe I would feel some solace in thinking there was something that happened.… "

Argento admitted that she cheated on Bourdain, but added, “He cheated on me too. It wasn’t a problem for us.…"

 

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2021/07/anthony-bourdain-asia-argento-roadrunner?srsltid=AfmBOorHIdGBKbEebOU2TIJRIi0FQK5jjiY3Dosdkd8ZxMJ0jbLsuTzR

 

Argento said this when she KNEW full well what happened. That Bourdain and her had violent screaming matches over telephone, that he saw her photos of her cheating on Bourdain and he begged her to  consider his feelings. That she refused and broke up with him, saying SHE was the victim.  She KNEW all this. She knows EXACTLY what happened. She knows how hurt Bourdain was that she cheated. In the same hotel where she and Bourdain had fond memories.

 

And yet to the world, in an interview she pretends as if she is clueless, has no idea why  Bourdain killed himself and cannot fathom it.

 

The true Siren, spinning lies, deceiving...to the end.

 

It truly is sickening to see Argento lie through her teeth.

So what. He's stupid for dating her. He obviously had serious depression. People dont kill themselves over a woman unless they are 99% depressed.

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

We should bring back a bit of Old Testament. The jews had it right on cheating.

 

At the very least not so long ago a woman who cheats would face the opprobium, the censure and rejection of society at large. However, now, we see it on this forum. the castrated males are spinning "she can do whatever she likes" "you don't own her" "she is free to do as she pleases" narratives.

 

If we could adopt the Old Testament laws on cheating, we would be doing a lot better for all concerned. Because I can tell you one thing, the cheating slut Argento is not happy.

 

Leviticus 20:10 and Deuteronomy 22:22 prescribed the death penalty for both the adulterer and the adulteress.

 

Before the destruction of the Second Temple, the Jewish courts relinquished their right to inflict capital punishment. Changes in punishment for adultery were enacted: The adulterer was scourged, and the husband of the adulteress was compelled to divorce her,[8] and she lost all her property rights under her marriage contract.[9] The adulteress was not allowed to marry the one with whom she had committed adultery;[10] if she did, they were forced to separate.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thou_shalt_not_commit_adultery

 

It would be a fitting punishment. Those women, and men, who committ adultery lose all their property.  Destitution would be a fitting punishment for adultery. We should consider it. We can learn a lot from the jews on this.

They werent married so it wasnt cheating. 

7 hours ago, Lemsta69 said:

 

You've never heard of Anthony Bourdain? That's just sad dude, real sad.

You've probably never heard of Henry Lawson or Daisy Bates either.

 

I doubt either of us are impoverished by the knowledge deficit.

6 hours ago, Lemsta69 said:

 

Nah, he's a know-it-all. I've got zero tolerance for the FIGJAM types like him.

So put me on ignore, Mr. Richardhead.

10 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Bourdain was never diagnosed with any serious mental illness. Like many in the culinary profession he suffered from depression, overwork, exhaustion and substance abuse.

 

Looking at Argento, she seems like a rock bottom skank and it is inconceivable that a man like Bourdain should take his precious life over a cheap slut like Argento. But he did. He loved her. For some reason.

So it have to be her fault, and no responsibility given to man, and the his choice of poison, which very much gave him his fix, like any other drug.

 

Haven't we all had at least once in life lived and truly felt through betrayal of someone we loved? Felt life was over, didn't heal for months, a year?.

 

It's life, 

 

He killed himself obviously out of long time of not life time mental disorder. 

 

Why must people always find someone to blaim for tragic events like this? If his parents abused him, or anyone else when growing up, yes, but a grown man? 

12 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

So what.

 

So what? Argento knew she had caused Bourdain's death. The texts prove it. Then she gives an intereview and pretends as if she doesn't know why he killed himself. This is not repulsive to you? You have no sense of justice?

 

12 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

He's stupid for dating her.

 

Really?  How was he supposed to know she would cheat on him? 

 

Argento just fulfilled his archetype, Bourdain had the archetype of the Italian woman with a strong personality. She just fulfilled his archetype of attraction. But he had no way of knowing she would cheat on him.

 

Bourdain was stupid for jumping on the Me-Too bandwagon because of Argento. He mouthed off about Me Too constantly, only to find out that Argento herself had committed statuory rape with a 17 year old boy. Then he had to pay off that boy secretly. Argento made a fool out of him. That was stupid. Yes. But if a woman is attractive and you fall in love with her, how could Bourdain know she would cheat on him?

5 hours ago, Hummin said:

So it have to be her fault, and no responsibility given to man, and the his choice of poison, which very much gave him his fix, like any other drug.

 

First of all there is causation. Causation here is clear and immediate, just before his death Bourdain discovered the photos of Argento cheating with Hugo Clement in one of the hotels Argento and Bourdain had fond memories. in.. Just before his death he texted Argento "You were reckless with my heart. With my life", he texted trying to get her to apologise and to see how hurt he was, to fix the relationship. Argento refused and told him she wants to end the relationship. There were phone calls and shouting matches. Just before he committed suicide. So the cause, the responsibility here is very clear. Argento's cheating was the cause, and she bears responsibility for what happened.

 

As for Bourdain's role, Bourdain fell in love with a woman who fulfilled his archetype of attraction. He was deceived into thinking she was  a wonderful woman, Argento never showed her real side before this. How could he know she would cheat on him? He couldn't. Bourdain's role was to provide constant moral support for Argento, even when she falsely accused Weinstein of rape, he became a public mouthpiece for Me-Too. Even when it came out that Argento herself committed statutory rape, he paid off her accuser with a lot of money, even though it made him look totally foolish. He took steroids to maximise muscle mass in his body because he was over 60 and Argento was much younger. Bourdain suppported Argento with a lot of money. He constantly posted on social media how much he loved her. When his long time camera man disagreed with Argento he fired him. Bourdain had pushed Argento to direct his episodes, to star in his series, he supported her professionally.

 

So Bourdain's role, was one of total support, love and care. So does he bear responsibility? No. Not even for choosing an evil woman, because he could not know she was evil. How was he to know she was evil? He couldn't.

 

5 hours ago, Hummin said:

Haven't we all had at least once in life lived and truly felt through betrayal of someone we loved? Felt life was over, didn't heal for months, a year?.

 

It's life, 

 

Sadly, because women's power is to deceive men, yes, we have all gone through this. However, some men are more susceptible to depression than others. Bourdain had taken heroin, LSD and many other substances, his susceptibility to depression was slightly higher than the average man.

 

And when it happened to us, were we 61, with a failed marriage behind us, did we pay off a 17 year old boy who said our gf statutorily raped him with over 300,000 USD? Did we fire one of our best friends and camera men to protect the girl who betrayed us? Did we get her involved in our business, directing our Tv Series? Did we take steroids to ensure our body was to her liking? No. Bourdain had gone all out with Argento, and he most likely saw her as his last chance for happiness at 61.

5 hours ago, Hummin said:

Why must people always find someone to blaim for tragic events like this?

 

Well, because some was to blame. The truth is the truth. This was not a "tragic event", this was an evil, deceptive woman, cheating with another man, on a man who had supported her publicly, paid off her rape victim to slience him, put her on his TV show. She hounded Bourdain into suicide, and causation here is very clear.

 

We have to strongly condemn Argento's actions, because if we just shrug our shoulders and say "Meh, women can cheat, it's okay", if we do not censure this, guess what, it will become the norm. Because with social media, women have never had such chances to cheat, it is a new world. We need to defend ourselves against evil women.

 

19 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

We have to strongly condemn Argento's actions, because if we just shrug our shoulders and say "Meh, women can cheat, it's okay", if we do not censure this, guess what, it will become the norm. Because with social media, women have never had such chances to cheat, it is a new world. We need to defend ourselves against evil women.

 

I don't know what your obsession with this is, but it's definitely not healthy.

14 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

First of all there is causation. Causation here is clear and immediate, just before his death Bourdain discovered the photos of Argento cheating with Hugo Clement in one of the hotels Argento and Bourdain had fond memories. in.. Just before his death he texted Argento "You were reckless with my heart. With my life", he texted trying to get her to apologise and to see how hurt he was, to fix the relationship. Argento refused and told him she wants to end the relationship. There were phone calls and shouting matches. Just before he committed suicide. So the cause, the responsibility here is very clear. Argento's cheating was the cause, and she bears responsibility for what happened.

 

As for Bourdain's role, Bourdain fell in love with a woman who fulfilled his archetype of attraction. He was deceived into thinking she was  a wonderful woman, Argento never showed her real side before this. How could he know she would cheat on him? He couldn't. Bourdain's role was to provide constant moral support for Argento, even when she falsely accused Weinstein of rape, he became a public mouthpiece for Me-Too. Even when it came out that Argento herself committed statutory rape, he paid off her accuser with a lot of money, even though it made him look totally foolish. He took steroids to maximise muscle mass in his body because he was over 60 and Argento was much younger. Bourdain suppported Argento with a lot of money. He constantly posted on social media how much he loved her. When his long time camera man disagreed with Argento he fired him. Bourdain had pushed Argento to direct his episodes, to star in his series, he supported her professionally.

 

So Bourdain's role, was one of total support, love and care. So does he bear responsibility? No. Not even for choosing an evil woman, because he could not know she was evil. How was he to know she was evil? He couldn't.

 

 

Sadly, because women's power is to deceive men, yes, we have all gone through this. However, some men are more susceptible to depression than others. Bourdain had taken heroin, LSD and many other substances, his susceptibility to depression was slightly higher than the average man.

 

And when it happened to us, were we 61, with a failed marriage behind us, did we pay off a 17 year old boy who said our gf statutorily raped him with over 300,000 USD? Did we fire one of our best friends and camera men to protect the girl who betrayed us? Did we get her involved in our business, directing our Tv Series? Did we take steroids to ensure our body was to her liking? No. Bourdain had gone all out with Argento, and he most likely saw her as his last chance for happiness at 61.

 

Well, because some was to blame. The truth is the truth. This was not a "tragic event", this was an evil, deceptive woman, cheating with another man, on a man who had supported her publicly, paid off her rape victim to slience him, put her on his TV show. She hounded Bourdain into suicide, and causation here is very clear.

 

We have to strongly condemn Argento's actions, because if we just shrug our shoulders and say "Meh, women can cheat, it's okay", if we do not censure this, guess what, it will become the norm. Because with social media, women have never had such chances to cheat, it is a new world. We need to defend ourselves against evil women.

 

 

So in reality cutting short, the reality everyone else lives with, he was struggling with mental health and abusing stimulants?

 

None can know the dynamic between them that lead to she leaving him.

 

Nobody should be accused of someone's else's suicide. It's absurd