Giving the lonely false hope

[Baht Simpson]

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I better not tell you what I thought when I saw a 320 pound hairy  guy with a mullet and moustache and a sleeveless with a slim young thai girl in tow.

 

Absolutely disgusting. Aesthetically speaking I mean.

🤢

[JakeC]

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I better not tell you what I thought when I saw a 320 pound hairy  guy with a mullet and moustache and a sleeveless with a slim young thai girl in tow.

 

Absolutely disgusting. Aesthetically speaking I mean.

 

How do you think that people view you when you are with yours?

Do you think they imagine that it's a genuine relationship or a transactional one? I would say that everyone would assume the latter.

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, JakeC said:

 

How do you think that people view you when you are with yours?

Do you think they imagine that it's a genuine relationship or a transactional one? I would say that everyone would assume the latter.

 

With maybe some few exceptions, the more discrepancy in age and looks, the more transactional a relationship is.

 

There are plenty of "normal" looking farang-thai couples out there, where the age difference isn't huge and the woman is not 1000 times better looking than the man.  

 

[marin]

3 minutes ago, JakeC said:

How do you think that people view you when you are with yours?

Do you think they imagine that it's a genuine relationship or a transactional one? I would say that everyone would assume the latter.

Exactly, a 50+ year old out with his 22 year old 11.  

[saintdomingo]

47 minutes ago, Baht Simpson said:

When I was young and naive and first visited Thailand I saw an old man on a Harley Davidson with a young Thai girl riding pillion. I thought, how nice of grandpa to pick his granddaughter up from school.

The regular sight of old gits walking round holding hands with fit looking  young women is very strange at first. My initial reaction was - this place is sick. But your eyes and brain soon adjust and you don't notice anymore.

[Harrisfan]

4 minutes ago, marin said:

Exactly, a 50+ year old out with his 22 year old 11.  

What does an 11 look like?

[simon43]

1 hour ago, K2938 said:

What social activities are you thinking about here, please? 

Badminton, swimming club, cycling club, walking club.....

[marin]

6 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

What does an 11 look like?

You tell me, its how Cam describes his latest "conquest"

[JakeC]

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With maybe some few exceptions, the more discrepancy in age and looks, the more transactional a relationship is.

 

There are plenty of "normal" looking farang-thai couples out there, where the age difference isn't huge and the woman is not 1000 times better looking than the man.  

 

 

I know there are many normal couples that are dedicated to each other. I was referring specifically to the poster I quoted.

[Harrisfan]

6 minutes ago, simon43 said:

Badminton, swimming club, cycling club, walking club.....

Walking club? 

[simon43]

10 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Walking club? 

Yes, walking club, hiking club, rambling club.

[roo860]

1 minute ago, simon43 said:

Yes, walking club, hiking club, rambling club.

There's certainly a Rambling Club on here mate!

[Felton Jarvis]

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

I better not tell you what I thought when I saw a 320 pound hairy  guy with a mullet and moustache and a sleeveless with a slim young thai girl in tow.

 

Absolutely disgusting. Aesthetically speaking I mean.

Unattractive men need love too.  😉

[Cameroni]

46 minutes ago, JakeC said:

How do you think that people view you when you are with yours?

Do you think they imagine that it's a genuine relationship or a transactional one? I would say that everyone would assume the latter

 

Good looking guy with stunningly beautiful girl, what else?

 

You don't even know what I look like, what are you on about?

[Cameroni]

43 minutes ago, marin said:

Exactly, a 50+ year old out with his 22 year old 11.  

 

I look like 35 though.

[georgegeorgia]

2 hours ago, Felton Jarvis said:

View Talay 2B is where I live. How on earth were you "detained" and by whom?

I have wrote about it countless times last year 

That pool area is locked ,if you have no card which I didn't your also locked in .

The staff at that coffee shop were rude to me as well,lucky I ended up escaping over that side fence 

The "prison officers " in white uniform practically locked me up in my " cell " near those glass doors 

I'm happy I escaped over that side fence near the cafe with a poster from here helping me 

[Baht Simpson]

19 minutes ago, roo860 said:

There's certainly a Rambling Club on here mate!

Yeah, there's some on here that can't half ramble. 🙂 

[georgegeorgia]

20 minutes ago, roo860 said:

There's certainly a Rambling Club on here mate!

There's no need to be judicious in your approach !!!!

[Purdey]

If you aren't social, you can be lonely in any city. Expecting others to be your friend without any effort is asking too much. The Welsh are very social and going to a pub, a church, a social club will help a lot. Staying home to watch TV is depressing. Staying in Pattaya, not understanding the language and expecting prostitutes to be your friend is not a life.

[roo860]

1 minute ago, georgegeorgia said:

I have wrote about it countless times last year 

That pool area is locked ,if you have no card which I didn't your also locked in .

The staff at that coffee shop were rude to me as well,lucky I ended up escaping over that side fence 

The "prison officers " in white uniform practically locked me up in my " cell " near those glass doors 

I'm happy I escaped over that side fence near the cafe with a poster from here helping me 

Should have locked you in there, residents could have thrown rotten fruit at you.🙂

[georgegeorgia]

1 minute ago, roo860 said:

Should have locked you in there, residents could have thrown rotten fruit at you.🙂

I see you know your judo well , are you Sir waiting perhaps ..to receive my limp penis?

[roo860]

1 minute ago, georgegeorgia said:

I see you know your judo well , are you Sir waiting perhaps ..to receive my limp penis?

😅😅😅, no thanks, but I'm sure your boyfriend is.

[JakeC]

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Good looking guy with stunningly beautiful girl, what else?

 

You don't even know what I look like, what are you on about?

 

 

I know what you are like. That is enough. 

 

[Cameroni]

4 minutes ago, JakeC said:

I know what you are like.

 

I've never met you, lol.

 

 

[1FinickyOne]

5 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

It's not my experience until I was locked up / detained in the View Talay 2B apartment last year when I "escaped" with the help of certain posters here and made it back to Australia 

what were you locked up for?  

[Felton Jarvis]

38 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

I have wrote about it countless times last year 

That pool area is locked ,if you have no card which I didn't your also locked in .

The staff at that coffee shop were rude to me as well,lucky I ended up escaping over that side fence 

The "prison officers " in white uniform practically locked me up in my " cell " near those glass doors 

I'm happy I escaped over that side fence near the cafe with a poster from here helping me 

I have lived at VT 2B for ten years and while the locked pool door is an irritant, I have never been treated this way. Most of the staff know that I am a resident here. Your circumstances are strange, indeed.

[Prubangboy]

5 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

You may be using the judicious approach 

Are you perhaps using the judicious approach?

Yeah

 

just go to meet ups until you get three or four regular people you know, and then you can cut way back on going to meet ups.

 

In the states, this would be impossible. Nor would there be the culture of chatting at a bar. If you are 70, suck beat Road is your friend.

[impulse]

The only ones getting false hope are the broke ones.  If they have money, the lonely (and the ugly) can have a harem around them if they want.

 

 I still remember Donnie from when I first moved to Asia (not Thailand).  Poor guy was uglier than a kick in the nuts.  But he paraded around the expat bars for over a year with a hooker on each arm.  Then, the Joint Venture fell apart and he got sent home. 

 

I think the saddest day of his life was when he found out that the US Embassy wouldn't give visas to hookers.

 

[roo860]

1 hour ago, 1FinickyOne said:

what were you locked up for?  

Being a total <deleted> 😅😅

[simon43]

"If you aren't social, you can be lonely in any city"

 

True, but it doesn't apply to everyone who is not 'social'. I don't looking for social interaction, but I'm a very friendly person if someone approaches me.  But I much prefer my own company and I'm definitely not lonely.