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Do Foreign Men Often Move to Thailand Because They Can’t Get Women Back Home?

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3 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

It does make you wonder what the 50 year old pre-menopausal mum's are after......true love I guess.

 

Drag queens and lots of cheap red wine.

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  • Do Foreign Men Often Move to Thailand Because They Can’t Get Women Back Home?     No...... a lot of them move here because they dont want the sort of women you get back home............

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    Yes. At 50, single dad with four kids,  I really had my heart set on marrying a per-menopausal, overweight mother of three......but as they kept knocking me back I had to settle for a 23 year old Thai

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Just now, transam said:

Not necessarily, he could be as hansum as me..............🤩


A useless attribute in Thailand compared to the bulge in the back pocket. 

Just now, KhaoHom said:

 

Drag queens and lots of cheap red wine.

 

Damn...I could have done that.

Just now, short-Timer said:


A useless attribute in Thailand compared to the bulge in the back pocket. 

Not sure about that, in my case it wasn't, but might have been in your case, eh.......🤗

Realizing the possibility here compared to the West.  Who wants to be with an old stinky fat western lady with a bunch of baggage? Asia women in Asia are the best in my opinion.  Has kept me feeling younger.

Just now, transam said:

Not sure about that, in my case it wasn't, but might have been in your case, eh.......🤗


A truly weak attempt at trolling. A for effort though. 

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2 hours ago, SoCal1990 said:

Is it true that foreign men often move to Thailand because they “can’t get women” in their own countries? Whether it’s due to age, appearance, income, personality, or just bad luck, it seems some might come here to reset that playing field.

 

If that’s the case, one might view these men as taking advantage of economic inequality or social dynamics. Others might say it’s a win-win, two adults finding mutual benefit in a relationship.

 

And then there’s the question no one really asks out loud: even if they could date back home in the West, would they even want to? Or do many men now simply prefer being with an Asian partner and living in Asia instead?

 

 

Joking aside, I made a very conscious decision that I was going to marry a young, pretty Asian (most probably Thai). No way on God's Earth was I going to marry a 50 year old from the UK.

 

After 14 years of intense and often difficult and challenging research......I met the one.

Just now, short-Timer said:


A truly weak attempt at trolling. A for effort though. 

Well, at least you never said I was stalking, well done............:clap2:

Just now, transam said:

Well, at least you never said I was stalking, well done............:clap2:

 

Yeah, your thinking of Susan and Yagunka

7 minutes ago, KhaoHom said:

 

If you accept anything that floats along then you are correct, but I big to differ. Thai women are ok being single and most might marry misery to a Thai they wouldn't with a farang.

 

Thai women are clever, saavy and the city girlies sophisticated. Their beauty competes with Japan, Korea and China

 

Now, the Philippines is shooting fish in a barrel. Zero standards. Guys living in Phils have no game. If I was living there I'd have two live in gf bc why not?


This isn't about the women, its about men who can't get laid unless they come here. They've literally climbed out of mommy's basement. Of course anything that gets close is good enough.

Just now, short-Timer said:

 

Yeah, your thinking of Susan and Yagunka

I like the Yagunka, that's funny..........🤭

2 minutes ago, SLOWHAND225 said:


This isn't about the women, its about men who can't get laid unless they come here. They've literally climbed out of mommy's basement. Of course anything that gets close is good enough.

Is that a personal story.......?  🤔

15 minutes ago, short-Timer said:


A useless attribute in Thailand compared to the bulge in the back pocket. 

 

Not true. This is uglymanthink.

 

Unless you are willing to get in line you cannot have the best of the lot bc they have better options that will care for them as they need or pay them their rate.

 

Thai women are very attuned to attractiveness, appearance, smell and vibe. You're not going to get a discount if you look like Zap Branigan but you will get the choice of the lot AND a good attitude.

 

<deleted>ty black T shirt, cargo shorts, flipflops, smokers breath, alcoholic palor, missing teeth, overweight. Yeah, you da man champion.

 

For the record I've seen a fancy girl ask some fat fuk for 5k for ST when she'd take 3k. I guess 2k is hazard pay 55555. I could have possibly got her for 2k given the venue. I was just amusing myself.

 

Just call her starfish 😂

 

2 hours ago, SoCal1990 said:

Is it true that foreign men often move to Thailand because they “can’t get women” in their own countries? Whether it’s due to age, appearance, income, personality, or just bad luck, it seems some might come here to reset that playing field.

 

If that’s the case, one might view these men as taking advantage of economic inequality or social dynamics. Others might say it’s a win-win, two adults finding mutual benefit in a relationship.

 

And then there’s the question no one really asks out loud: even if they could date back home in the West, would they even want to? Or do many men now simply prefer being with an Asian partner and living in Asia instead?

40 years ago, it was hard to get Asian chocha in the USA even if you paid for it and my wife at the time later got an award as the Ultimate C*nt in the Visible Universe. Ergo. Heres the house and the car, gimme a ticket.

 

Im lucky I was a stoner at the time, because after my nocturnal endeavors, I would walk around and say to myself, "self, this place is f**ing spacey" and a love affair was born. Paper maps too. Bugs, moonshine and ditch weed.I  think one time it cost me $2 to get to Hat Yai.

 

And now, as my Asian adventures draw to a close, I can say to that ex wife, thanks for the incentive! But still some time left, I love going over to Thermae to see the Boss who I have been shaking hands with for 35ish years, plus high season in siem reap is coming, time to prey on backpacker chicks.

Strangely enough I find most men here partner with women within their domain and roughly similar ages. I rarely see some raspy fart with a beauty unless she's a rental. That's bc the lazy or unkept wouldn't or couldn't deal with a woman like that. So, they are happy with a more average, possibly frumpy, middle aged, maybe kids divorced woman.

 

It's also about how far you are willing to step out of your comfort zone to bag a real babe and or youngun.

1 minute ago, Yagoda said:

Thermae

 

👍

 

If you've got game there's plenty of girlies here to pick from. Pay no attention to the ... It's only Asian/ Japanese now blah blah. That's coming from losers

Just now, KhaoHom said:

 

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If you've got game there's plenty of girlies here to pick from. Pay no attention to the ... It's only Asian/ Japanese now blah blah. That's coming from losers

I was there last month to great success. Let me know if you need some recommendations there 🙂

 

Here is the way it works for newbies.

 

 

Maybe some of them move to Thailand because the boys are prettier.

2 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

I was there last month to great success. Let me know if you need some recommendations there 🙂

 

Here is the way it works for newbies.

 

 

 

Thx but I go back to Thermae 1, Grace and Buckskin Joe's / Soi 0

 

I'm married anyway...just pop in for a look. Rooms upside ST stupid expensive. I don't think I'm going to get a handy out of any of them for 1k lol.

 

Kinda burned out of lower Sukhumvit scene.

This is off topic, apologies

 

 

Last time I was in Thermae two girls bought out quickly by geeky Asian guys. The girlies were absolutely giddy like they'd won the lottery and why not?

 

Some dopey guy giving them 4-5k probably tip them as well

 

For an hour at best. Girlies probably get them to cim with a condom and quick so not even any actual sx

 

With a small dik lol

I remember a clip of a rock star who visited Pattaya many years ago. He did not think much of it because he was already living that lifestyle in his home country. Sure, he probably liked the visit but it was not a place he would come back to or move to.

 

One can get women anywhere if you are wealthy. It has very little to do with being in Thailand. Most expats come to Thailand for the increased spending power. With that comes increased availability of women.

Just now, KhaoHom said:

This is off topic, apologies

 

 

Last time I was in Thermae two girls bought out quickly by geeky Asian guys. The girlies were absolutely giddy like they'd won the lottery and why not?

 

Some dopey guy giving them 4-5k probably tip them as well

 

For an hour at best. Girlies probably get them to cim quick so not even any actual sx

 

With a small dik

 

Used to be '3-3-3' (3,000 baht, 3min., 3 inches), but nowadays they probably pay even more. The last time I visited Thermae was more than 20 years ago. Heard that Asian guys have been favoured there for a long time...

26 minutes ago, KhaoHom said:

Soi 0

 

Soi 0 has been gone for many years now. Unfortunately, I missed the opportunity going there when it existed.

What do you want a bloody woman for anyway, always done my own cooking, cleaning and washing, I let her do the ironing to feel useful. 

1 minute ago, KhaoHom said:

Kinda burned out of lower Sukhumvit scene.

Exactly. One of the reasons I relocated. Im too old to be lurking there all the time and for old guys getting around, the Big Swamp gets tiresome. The government is a joke and their immigration system is a pain and the ass, crazy enough to have a dedicated forum! And then the air sucks. And Ive seen all the temples. And transport in the boonies is a pain, and Im not going to Pattaya

 

Thats the beauty of Siem Reap. Compact. Land of the dollar store. Pay your fee once a year and see you. No worse infrastructure wise than Ubon or Lopburi. Want to go somewhere, Hit the button, dude shows up in a remork, $1.  Cambodia/Thailand is the perfect combo. Siem is a very cosmopolitan place because of the extreme tourism and there are tons of non perverted things to do, especially if you like to sit in front of an ancient ruin with a smoothie and watch the world while your driver snoozes in a hammock. For gutter crawlers like myself who can still unmedicated make a girl fake one, you can snag one in the Barang Ghetto. And the backpacker chicks...OMG. No shame. But of course, one does want to hit Suk once in a while....

 

Time wise from my door to Ruamchitt, 6 hours by air. That includes travel to airports. If go road/rail, 9 hours.

 

If you analogize, NYC would be the only thing in Bangkoks class. 6 hours by car is Vermont or Virginia Beach. Old man can live in Virginia Beach, or Myrtyle Beach or Burlington Vermont and drive to NYC for the big city itch. 

 

When I see the losers trying to use Cambodia as an insult I laugh. Those who know, know. If you go back to Thermae 1, you know. They probably cant afford it,

 

When I first saw those beer bars down by the tracks (Soi 0) I thought I had died and gone to heaven. And I could drink then too!!!!

 

 

 

 

12 minutes ago, KhaoHom said:

This is off topic, apologies

 

 

Last time I was in Thermae two girls bought out quickly by geeky Asian guys. The girlies were absolutely giddy like they'd won the lottery and why not?

 

Some dopey guy giving them 4-5k probably tip them as well

 

For an hour at best. Girlies probably get them to cim with a condom and quick so not even any actual sx

 

With a small dik lol

The rule of 3-3-3. 3 inches, 3 minutes, 3000 baht. Thats why muscular young falang get rejected. Dont want to wear out the money maker.

 

Thats why us old guys have such success. Id have a heart attack over 5 minutes,

1 hour ago, short-Timer said:

 

Yeah, your thinking of Susan and Yagunka

Always in your head, stalker LOL

6 minutes ago, proton said:

What do you want a bloody woman for anyway, always done my own cooking, cleaning and washing, I let her do the ironing to feel useful. 

My wife has initiative. Woke up from a nap a couple hours ago and she had already cut the grass, washed the car, did the laundry and cleaned the house. Now she’s cooking dinner and she took the day off from work. 

I guess you could class me as one who couldn't get women back home. What I offered was not what women wanted. The women I was interested in all seemed to want a bad guy with big muscles and who was exciting... In Thailand, the women want what I offer. I'm a polite middle aged man with a respectable job, I dress well, and I'm considered attractive here being relatively tall, with hair and not fat.

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