4 minutes ago, short-Timer said:

Not sure I agree that life in the US is better. The healthcare system is broken, taxes are too high, the cost of living is even higher, crime is rampant, racism is everywhere, people are angry about everything, prison populations are out of control, homelessness keeps growing, poverty is rising, pharmaceutical costs are out of control, political divisions are worse than ever, and authoritarian tendencies are on the rise. It looks more like a republic in steep decline than any sort of model society.

I have Medicare, so I'm not too worried. More expensive but it's home I can never worry about being kicked out of if things were to change. Schools are better as is the lifestyle, especially for my girl. Crime here is rampant too, and for things so very pointless. I lived there 62 years and never saw but a very little of crime. I will live in the country anyway. Politics everywhere aren't good, but at least there the person you vote in is in and not picked from another party. It's not as bad as some here, who have never been there, make it seem/

I don’t have any idea what mine is. Not sure why I would want to ask a personal question like that with anyone. I believe it is none of anyone’s business to know how many people that someone has had sex with. And a question like that people will lie. 

On 7/14/2025 at 5:33 AM, simple1 said:

I have had many short term sexual encounters as well as longer term. No interest to me how many sexual relations my wife had prior to us getting together, never asked.

 

I always found it interesting to compare notes and most women are happy to. And I much prefer women who've been round the block many times, for many reasons. They can tell some fabulous tales - as can I.

 

A few women with a low body count sometimes went in fear of losing me to someone else 555. So to give one particular woman some security, who was being rather neurotic and fearful about my colorful past, we got engaged to be married. However it backfired. The law of unintended consequences meant she actually became even more insecure and neurotic, because now it meant she'd lose a fiancee if I left or dallied and not just a boyfriend. I had to leave her because her behavior was just too uptight.

 

Can't win.

5 minutes ago, BusyB said:

 

I always found it interesting to compare notes and most women are happy to. And I much prefer women who've been round the block many times, for many reasons. They can tell some fabulous tales - as can I.

 

A few women with a low body count sometimes went in fear of losing me to someone else 555. So to give one particular woman some security, who was being rather neurotic and fearful about my colorful past, we got engaged to be married. However it backfired. The law of unintended consequences meant she actually became even more insecure and neurotic, because now it meant she'd lose a fiancee if I left or dallied and not just a boyfriend. I had to leave her because her behavior was just too uptight.

 

Can't win.

 

Understood. I've been married for around 26 years with some ups and downs, but overall we are happy.

3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I don't need an ego to see how warped your mind is. Tell us about your relationships. How many? How many bargirls? How many didn't fail? Did you marry your childhood sweetheart? Why are you constantly switching towns? leaving hut women behind perhaps? Run out of hookers? How long have you been with your latest trick? Married before? What happened? Hopefully no children.

My mind is Zen. Non judgemental. You are a very judgemental Christian. This is why you hate Thailand. Thailand is Zen. You're not. Thais want to enjoy life. You want to talk about 10 years ago.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

My mind is Zen. Non judgemental. You are a very judgemental Christian. This is why you hate Thailand. Thailand is Zen. You're not. Thais want to enjoy life. You want to talk about 10 years ago.

I'm coming back to educate you on what I sad many times before, as your memory seems to be fading over time. I don't hate Thailand. I don't hate it's people. I hate what some do here. That I tell things just as they are angers and confuses some that see things with rose colored glasses or are just plain ignorant. I'm living in the present, just as everyone is. The past is where we got our experience and wisdom from.

 

You are actually the opposite of Zen, as you don't live peacefully but with angst and are prone to argue, instead of letting minor things go. You argue about the littlest things, and assume things about others you could never know. That you believe some things  you read from some  here shows a gullible attitude. That you don't believe what others say when they're telling the truth sees you as a skeptic or possibly jealous, because what they have is more than you. If Thailand was Zen there wouldn't be so many things going wrong here, especially in the actions of monks and those in charge, who are supposed to be Buddhists. Contradictions and hypocrisy is high here, so it's not being practiced as it should.  

Just now, fredwiggy said:

I'm coming back to educate you on what I sad many times before, as your memory seems to be fading over time. I don't hate Thailand. I don't hate it's people. I hate what some do here. That I tell things just as they are angers and confuses some that see things with rose colored glasses or are just plain ignorant. I'm living in the present, just as everyone is. The past is where we got our experience and wisdom from.

 

You are actually the opposite of Zen, as you don't live peacefully but with angst and are prone to argue, instead of letting minor things go. You argue about the littlest things, and assume things about others you could never know. That you believe some things  you read from some  here shows a gullible attitude. That you don't believe what others say when they're telling the truth sees you as a skeptic or possibly jealous, because what they have is more than you. If Thailand was Zen there wouldn't be so many things going wrong here, especially in the actions of monks and those in charge, who are supposed to be Buddhists. Contradictions and hypocrisy is high here, so it's not being practiced as it should.  

There you go again. Anger and judgement. I'm the opposite of you. 

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

There you go again. Anger and judgement. I'm the opposite of you. 

You're right about one thing. You are definitely my opposite, and what I've been reading about for 30 years. Remember what you just said............."You are a very judgemental Christian. This is why you hate Thailand. Thailand is Zen". You're not".............. Sounds like a judgement to me.

Is this a joke??

 

I went out for a few hours, have come back and fred is STILL arguing? 

 

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You are actually the opposite of Zen, as you don't live peacefully but with angst and are prone to argue, instead of letting minor things go. You argue about the littlest things, and assume things about others you could never know

 

Please....look in the mirror. That is you who you are describing.

Just now, SMIAI said:

Is this a joke??

 

I went out for a few hours, have come back and fred is STILL arguing? 

 

 

Please....look in the mirror. That is you who you are describing.

Yep. I walked 5km. Buying my 8th book in a month.

1 minute ago, SMIAI said:

Is this a joke??

 

I went out for a few hours, have come back and fred is STILL arguing? 

 

 

Please....look in the mirror. That is you who you are describing.

I was wondering how long it would be before yet another troll came in to support the number one troll. NowNow, don't get your Centigrade up, because your Next(G), comment might expose you.  

Are you 68 or 8?

 

It's quite clear that you came to Asia to find a woman who was tolerant enough to put up with your 💩 Obviously the ones before could not. This one must be quite desperate.

The fact that you have the other board child as a supporter is no surprise. 

No calling each other troll please.

Also removed the most blatant name calling posts.

 

@SoCal1990 and @biervoormij

Please do not stalk other posters with thumbs down, participate in the discussion, control your use of emojis.

41 minutes ago, simple1 said:

 

Understood. I've been married for around 26 years with some ups and downs, but overall we are happy.

 

Some men and women aren't made for marriage - we're needed to keep the divorcees happy between their marriages 5555 - never a shortage of 'em. 

14 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

The fact that you have the other board child as a supporter is no surprise. 

The fact that he's as spot on as I am about you and yours is no surprise either. 

 

Seen it all now: Harrisfan claiming to be 'Zen'.

 

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

The fact that he's as spot on as I am about you and yours is no surprise either. 

Try being nice to people. Accept we have different views.

SIX hours of non stop bickering, fred.

Is that the example that you showed your children? Is this the way you behaved with your partners?

No wonder you have to pay.

3 minutes ago, BusyB said:

 

Seen it all now: Harrisfan claiming to be 'Zen'.

 

Do you know what Zen is? 

Two of the most repulsive people on the board.... just totally full of themselves.

17 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

Are you 68 or 8?

 

It's quite clear that you came to Asia to find a woman who was tolerant enough to put up with your 💩 Obviously the ones before could not. This one must be quite desperate.

It's quite clear you haven't the intelligence of an adult as you assume like a teenager. You, again, do not know anything about me or my past. I have told it here but some are are either jealous of a decent man or are narcissists that can only think of their next meal and can't fathom that there are good men that treat women well and sometimes get the short end because they picked the wrong ones.

 

Are you so limited in your experience that you can't understand something this simple? I've had at least 100 relationships with many different types of women and most ended amicably because of different future plans. Some were abusive, cheaters , liars, manipulators or greedy, so I left. If you would read more about a person before passing judgement you would have seen what I've said all along. I don't lie, nor need to, as I'm proud of what I've learned along the way and that I look at women as equals. That many are disturbed is obvious, as well as men. If you aren't the caliber of decent man that I am, that's your problem, so stay out of my posts, as you look more ignorant with every reply.

2 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

Two of the most repulsive people on the board.... just totally full of themselves.

Yes, you (along with your other 4 usernames, M and H. You all fit together well, and are like peas in a pod. You help no one here, but can't pass up a chance to judge people you don't know.

fred, all the name calling you do here, calls into question the veracity of your claims that it was your partners who were at fault.

 

7 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

SIX hours of non stop bickering, fred.

Is that the example that you showed your children? Is this the way you behaved with your partners?

No wonder you have to pay.

I had custody of my children, and taught them how to survive in a world full of people just like you. . My children are all very intelligent, stable and don't take sh*t from anyone, just like I taught them. The partners I picked to have children with proved their true selves, so they all lost, and have continued to lose, use and abuse others. That you still think you know me shows just how ignorant you are.

I guarantee that I have helped more people on this board than you ever have.

Point to even a single post where it is confirmed that you have actually helped someone. You make all kinds of strange claims. I haven't ever seen even a single example of you helping anyone on this board.

1 minute ago, SMIAI said:

fred, all the name calling you do here, calls into question the veracity of your claims that it was your partners who were at fault.

 

Try looking at your own posts and stop the innocent act. You're a con, and changing usernames thinking you're hiding, doesn't work with those aware of your kind. Give it a rest, and try this with the others that have called you out before. 

I almost want to track down fred's ex to hear her side of the story....about how he drove her to drugs.

I don't care at all.Im single but have 2 regular mistress in Thailand.They call everyday but never ever about money.They like to talk with me and sometimes make a hot call that includes everything.

One of my mistress asked me today if i want live cam tomorrow with her and a sexy young girl..of course i said yes.Sorry i forgor the other mistress asked for 300 baht a while ago.Of course i take good care when together with them. When together i make sure they get a good time with me without any kind of jealouse or demand anything.When the bf or husband call im quiet.They get money from them.Actually my mistress from korat have 4 sponsors.. anyway not my business Im sure my posting will get some negative comments but that's ok 

 

Please just show me where you have helped someone. it's a claim you make often. Now you have the chance to prove it. You...are the con artist. Prove me wrong. Show us where you have helped anyone.