Just now, SMIAI said:

I almost want to track down fred's ex to hear her side of the story....about how he drove her to drugs.

Who said my ex did drugs? This is exactly what I'm talking about. People like you confuse a few people, forgetting what they've written and assuming the rest. You are a very weak man, not understanding that there are some very seriously disturbed, evil women in this world, but maybe you have very little experience with women and are just going by that limited experience, not imagining there are many others that have more. Again, so even a child could understand. When a man treats a woman equally, with respect, love, kindness and romance, doesn't cheat , abuse or neglect her, helps her family when needed, and provides for her and his family, and she is a covert narcissist with depression, there's not much you can do besides taking control of the future of your child, making sure she has a stable life instead of being pawned off to grandma like she did her other two daughters. Sinking in yet, are are you going to come back with another lame reply?

3 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

Please just show me where you have helped someone. it's a claim you make often. Now you have the chance to prove it. You...are the con artist. Prove me wrong. Show us where you have helped anyone.

Try researching instead of replying.

The proof of you helping ANYONE, fred. If you please. Don't try to deflect.

Just now, SMIAI said:

The proof of you helping ANYONE, fred. If you please. Don't try to deflect.

If you can't see, you aren't looking, or only see what you want to, and that's another problem you need to look into. Not my job to keep proving you wrong. it's yours to get some help.

19 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I've had at least 100 relationships with many different types of women and most ended amicably because of different future plans.

A future that didn’t include you.

 

Which I find hard to believe as you not only claim to be in the top 1% physically but also are an expert on women’s needs, a great listener and a great father. 

why would any woman not fight for such a wonderful man?

Proof of you helping ANYONE, fred. If you please. Link to the post or thread.

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Who said my ex did drugs?

You did

18 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

fred, all the name calling you do here, calls into question the veracity of your claims that it was your partners who were at fault.

 

Well yes. We can see that. 

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

If you can't see, you aren't looking, or only see what you want to, and that's another problem you need to look into. Not my job to keep proving you wrong. it's yours to get some help.

You have not proven 1 person wrong. They keep proving you wrong.

25 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I've had at least 100 relationships with many different types of

100? Gee that's a lot. Most people have about 5 in their life.

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

A future that didn’t include you.

 

Which I find hard to believe as you not only claim to be in the top 1% physically but also are an expert on women’s needs, a great listener and a great father. 

why would any woman not fight for such a wonderful man?

Sorry you haven't any skills regarding dating a normal woman, but many of us do. It also doesn't matter what you believe, as you're in you're own little fantasy land, and still don't get that you don't qualify to give any advice to people with wives or children. Stick to what you know, posting ridiculous topics, getting those awards and try not to drive drunk, because if you hit a child, you might not be coming back to this forum again.

4 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

You did

No, I didn't, so take your cronies here and go back to comprehension school.

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

100? Gee that's a lot. Most people have about 5 in their life.

Maybe those who act like you and your buddies here.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Sorry you haven't any skills regarding dating a normal woman, but many of us do. It also doesn't matter what you believe, as you're in you're own little fantasy land, and still don't get that you don't qualify to give any advice to people with wives or children. Stick to what you know, posting ridiculous topics, getting those awards and try not to drive drunk, because if you hit a child, you might not be coming back to this forum again.

Who dates 100 women? That's very unusual.

3 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You have not proven 1 person wrong. They keep proving you wrong.

No one has proven me wrong . You and your "friends" , who trash talk you when you're not sticking up for each other, ludicrous yes, are the ones who are consistently called out.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Maybe those who act like you and your buddies here.

5 relationships is normal for most people. 100 is abnormal. You must have issues.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

No one has proven me wrong . You and your "friends" , who trash talk you when you're not sticking up for each other, ludicrous yes, are the ones who are consistently called out.

We post facts. Since when do regular people date 100 different women? That's abnormal.

fred,,, you are a 68 year old American man stuck in the middle of arse in Baan Nawk in a paid relationship and you are trying to lecture people on their skills of dating normal women??

2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I have Medicare, so I'm not too worried. More expensive but it's home I can never worry about being kicked out of if things were to change. Schools are better as is the lifestyle, especially for my girl. Crime here is rampant too, and for things so very pointless. I lived there 62 years and never saw but a very little of crime. I will live in the country anyway. Politics everywhere aren't good, but at least there the person you vote in is in and not picked from another party. It's not as bad as some here, who have never been there, make it seem/

 

You are 70 now? If that is correct, you have been here for 8 years.  Within the first year of arriving you got a Thai pregnant and now have a kid you obviously love that is 8.  That will be interesting in America and wish you two  the best of luck.  Does Medicare cover you on arrival or do you have to wait 12 months?  If you die, will a family members raise the kid?  Do you have a home?  Hope you have a big bank account.  I'm sure you'll figure it out or already have but glad I'm not you.  Sure you think the same about me 🙂  

It seems the PROOF of fred helping even a single person on the board isn't going to materialise. Just more empty talk from the meister of narcissistic gaslighting.

5 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

We post facts. Since when do regular people date 100 different women? That's abnormal.

Sorry if you have to buy yours. I know how to talk with women, and can get dates because I'm honest to them, And by the way, you post assumptions and compost. You haven't the slightest idea what a fact means.

2 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

It seems the PROOF of fred helping even a single person on the board isn't going to materialise. Just more empty talk from the meister of narcissistic gaslighting.

Who are you talking to? Again, yet another who doesn't understand what narcissist means, because if you did, and read what I've been writing ever since I joined AN, you would see I'm an empath, quite the opposite of a narcissist. But seeing you are deflecting, it might be true about you, as your constant barrage of nonsense and assumptions are gaslighting, and again, if you want to research, it doesn't take that much, unless you only have a phone and not a PC or Laptop, and are having trouble looking at a small screen. 

Do you tell them you're an autist, fred?

When you meet one, you know it. You don't need a book to know it. Trust us on that. I'm not the only one who has picked up on it. 

8 minutes ago, atpeace said:

 

You are 70 now? If that is correct, you have been here for 8 years.  Within the first year of arriving you got a Thai pregnant and now have a kid you obviously love that is 8.  That will be interesting in America and wish you two  the best of luck.  Does Medicare cover you on arrival or do you have to wait 12 months?  If you die, will a family members raise the kid?  Do you have a home?  Hope you have a big bank account.  I'm sure you'll figure it out or already have but glad I'm not you.  Sure you think the same about me 🙂  

Almost 69, and over 7 years. I was still living in Texas until I moved here. I'm already on Medicare. I have 5 children back home, and if that happened, them or other family members would be happy to have their sister around. I will get another home when I move back, looking now. 

I honestly let out an involuntary laugh, at your claim of being am empath. 😊

You are a narcissist hoping to hide under the cover of an empath.

5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Who are you talking to? Again, yet another who doesn't understand what narcissist means, because if you did, and read what I've been writing ever since I joined AN, you would see I'm an empath, quite the opposite of a narcissist. But seeing you are deflecting, it might be true about you, as your constant barrage of nonsense and assumptions are gaslighting, and again, if you want to research, it doesn't take that much, unless you only have a phone and not a PC or Laptop, and are having trouble looking at a small screen. 

A narc is an egomaniac who lies to get what they want. Tell us again about these 100 relationships. Most have like 5 in their entire life.

Just now, SMIAI said:

When you meet one, you know it. You don't need a book to know it. Trust us on that. I'm not the only one who has picked up on it. 

You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about, and others here who are also aware can tell this. Not everyone guesses what narcissism is, and those that understand it from research and living with one, are years ahead of your assumptions. That you might have read some of what I've written,as some who are slow or bad at comprehending do skim, you would see I'm the opposite of one, and when you study this affliction for 30 years, yes, you can spot the disturbed ones, and with every word you're exposing more of yourself. Don't think people here are stupid, as that's another assumption. 

9 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Sorry if you have to buy yours. I know how to talk with women, and can get dates because I'm honest to them, And by the way, you post assumptions and compost. You haven't the slightest idea what a fact means.

100 relationships or 90 one night stands with hookers? 

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about, and others here who are also aware can tell this. Not everyone guesses what narcissism is, and those that understand it from research and living with one, are years ahead of your assumptions. That you might have read some of what I've written,as some who are slow or bad at comprehending do skim, you would see I'm the opposite of one, and when you study this affliction for 30 years, yes, you can spot the disturbed ones, and with every word you're exposing more of yourself. Don't think people here are stupid, as that's another assumption. 

He's right though. You lie non stop. So when did you help people? Who are your 3 friends? You dodge questions non stop. Only an egomaniac would brag about 100 relationships when 5 is the average.