There's a big difference between paying a bar fine and taking a gal back to your room, and getting intimate with a girl in a bar. That's highly inappropriate, there are very few who like it or enjoy it, and it's just incredibly crass behavior on the part of the customer. Nothing wrong with a little petting or affection, but kissing a bar girl on the lips is taking it way too far. 

 

Some guys come here and they just have a total misunderstanding about all the unspoken rules, and a great lack of respect for the gals. 

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Don't think kissing men that look like women counts as gay.

I've always referred to it as a free pass for a gay experience, to some extent without stigma attached. Let's not forget 90% of ladyboys are pre-op, and still have their packages. So the all-important question, or should I say the big mystery for those of us who don't go down that path, is what happens to the package while you're fooling around? And if so, what isn't gay about that? Regardless of the breasts. 

Kissing is not part of Thai culture, and even less so with tongue kissing.

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

3 hours ago, SMIAI said:

You are kissing a man. It counts as gay. You know it's gay.

Is it still gay if you thought it was a woman you were kissing?

 

According to one of Bob Smiths previous posts: if you don't look down its not gay !!... 

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

According to one of Bob Smiths previous posts: if you don't look down its not gay !!... 

 

 

Look down or go down?

4 hours ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

They will kiss, but I suspect only in the expectation of a decent return for their efforts.

 

I get the impression kissing is not really "a thing" amongst Thais in the same way as it is with Westerners.

 

I would feel exactly the same as you.......not really the done thing.

Kissing someone who eat plala or someone who eats cheese and you dont?

 

or smoking, 

 

Not much French kissing among Thais in general, and just feel bad for the bar girls who have to suck on everyone pipes as part of their job,  and also kiss them as well. 

 

🤮🤢

3 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

3 hours ago, transam said:

No, I have voted many times on what I thought were important issues.........

You avoiding the question leads me to believe you are in fact a serial kisser.

 

In reality, you're nothing short of a master manipulator – baiting, trolling, and provoking with surgical precision.

 

As this thread so clearly demonstrates, you post under the flimsiest veneer of plausibility, lying in wait for the slightest crack to appear. The moment it does, you pounce, prising it open with deliberately provoking remarks. Once again, you've proven that your sole purpose here is to derive selfish amusement from provoking others – all under the paper-thin pretence of 'providing information'.

 

 

57 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Kissing is not part of Thai culture, and even less so with tongue kissing.

Yes it is.

17 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

In reality, you're nothing short of a master manipulator – baiting, trolling, and provoking with surgical precision.

 

As this thread so clearly demonstrates, you post under the flimsiest veneer of plausibility, lying in wait for the slightest crack to appear. The moment it does, you pounce, prising it open with deliberately provoking remarks. Once again, you've proven that your sole purpose here is to derive selfish amusement from provoking others – all under the paper-thin pretence of 'providing information'.

 

 

Righto Rich, anyway, back on topic, have you ever kissed a bargirl?

 

Come on mate, tell the truth now!

4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Is it still gay if you thought it was a woman you were kissing?

Maybe it depends on where you are kissing them? Though I can't imagine why anyone would care what someone else does...

28 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

In reality, you're nothing short of a master manipulator – baiting, trolling, and provoking with surgical precision.

 

As this thread so clearly demonstrates, you post under the flimsiest veneer of plausibility, lying in wait for the slightest crack to appear. The moment it does, you pounce, prising it open with deliberately provoking remarks. Once again, you've proven that your sole purpose here is to derive selfish amusement from provoking others – all under the paper-thin pretence of 'providing information'.

 

 

Simple question. Kiss or no.

2 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Come on mate, tell the truth now!

 

This fixation you have with bar girls reeks of some fetid freakish-monger clawing at the fringes of the freak-show spectrum...  like some desperate punter who’s mistaken sleaze for substance.

 

Thread after thread about bar-girls.... It’s like a mental breakdown...  a parade of derangement in stilettos... You’re not obsessed, you’re unravelling...   pathetically, with your zipper down...

39 minutes ago, Hummin said:

bar girls who have to suck on everyone pipes as part of their job,  and also kiss them as well. 

The sucking on everyone’s pipes is the reason I don’t kiss them

2 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

This fixation you have with bar girls reeks of some fetid freakish-monger clawing at the fringes of the freak-show spectrum...  like some desperate punter who’s mistaken sleaze for substance.

 

Thread after thread about bar-girls.... It’s like a mental breakdown...  a parade of derangement in stilettos... You’re not obsessed, you’re unravelling...   pathetically, with your zipper down...

You are protesting just a little too much Rich, and deflecting.

just as simple yes or no will do.

 

1 hour ago, spidermike007 said:

but kissing a bar girl on the lips is taking it way too far. 

Not just the lips Mike.

He goes the full tongue down the throat.

4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

This fixation you have with bar girls

I am sure you moved here for the temples and beaches.

3 hours ago, transam said:

I think the OP is a late developer, his threads revolve around more or less the same thing.

He is probably looking for info on the correct way to kiss a girlie on this one.....😘

Tell me then, how do you kiss the bar girls?

6 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

The sucking on everyone’s pipes is the reason I don’t kiss them

Oh, I thought you didn’t pay for company, how wrong could I be 

4 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Not just the lips Mike.

He goes the full tongue down the throat.

I hope he tips well... and not just the girls - anyone in the line of sight

51 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

In reality, you're nothing short of a master manipulator – baiting, trolling, and provoking with surgical precision.

 

As this thread so clearly demonstrates, you post under the flimsiest veneer of plausibility, lying in wait for the slightest crack to appear. The moment it does, you pounce, prising it open with deliberately provoking remarks. Once again, you've proven that your sole purpose here is to derive selfish amusement from provoking others – all under the paper-thin pretence of 'providing information'.

 

 

Seems a bit oxymoronic when you can easily put on ignore, though you choose not to, possibly because you are intrigued.

24 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

This fixation you have with bar girls reeks of some fetid freakish-monger clawing at the fringes of the freak-show spectrum...  like some desperate punter who’s mistaken sleaze for substance.

 

Thread after thread about bar-girls.... It’s like a mental breakdown...  a parade of derangement in stilettos... You’re not obsessed, you’re unravelling...   pathetically, with your zipper down...

You probably can’t stand the thought of these crusty old geezers rolling around with the same commodities as you. Calm down already, it’ll all be over before you know it.

28 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

The sucking on everyone’s pipes is the reason I don’t kiss them

Yeah am not keen myself but to save the next gent from mine I have a visitor pipe for the ladies.

 

10 minutes ago, novacova said:

Seems a bit oxymoronic when you can easily put on ignore, though you choose not to, possibly because you are intrigued.

Richard doesn’t come to the forum to discuss the topics.

90% of his comments are big noting himself or trying to belittle others.

It is a worn out record.

41 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Simple question. Kiss or no.

Of course he does.

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Of course he does.

Prolly tongue punches Le' Fartbox.

4 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

Prolly tongue punches Le' Fartbox.

Undoubtedly 

7 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

Prolly tongue punches Le' Fartbox.

Tastes like Khao Soi

34 minutes ago, novacova said:

Seems a bit oxymoronic when you can easily put on ignore, though you choose not to, possibly because you are intrigued.

 

I’ve a curated collection of grade A1 twonkers firmly on ignore – the sort of tireless dullards whose comments I genuinely can’t be arsed to wade through. Think Harris, Newbee, Yagoda, Ralf... Every so often I foolishly lift the veil and peek at one of their posts, only to be reminded – with clockwork precision – why the ignore list exists.

 

Now, in Malky's defence, he’s a different beast entirely. Utterly absurd, yes, but entertainingly so – like a drunk trying to win a debate with a streetlamp. He absorbs flak with unexpected tolerance and often manages a cheeky retort or a flailing but valiant jab in return. He’s not quite as thick as his posts would suggest, I'm entertained....

 

34 minutes ago, novacova said:

You probably can’t stand the thought of these crusty old geezers rolling around with the same commodities as you. Calm down already, it’ll all be over before you know it.

 

I'm shuffling somewhat ungracefully into my crusty old geezer phase myself... and I must say, my sympathies towards your particular brand of desperation are, slowly but surely, evolving.

 

Truth be told, I’ve a certain fondness for many of the older, more seasoned hands around here. Thus, its not age that bothers me in the slightest – it’s a deep-seated intolerance for weapons-grade twassers that I find increasingly hard to mask. Which, I suspect, might explain why you're replying in this fashion – perhaps the residual sting from being on the receiving end of one of my responses to an especially inane post in the past perhaps?...

.... I genuinely couldn’t say – not out of politeness, but because I honestly can’t remember ever engaging with you. Your presence, such as it is, appears to have achieved the rare feat of bland mediocrity thats too easy forget entirely...

... At least Malcy is memorable - so good on you for worshiping and protecting him !!!...

 

Malcolm B admitting an American is a good guy. Brings a tear to my eye

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

’ve a curated collection of grade A1 twonkers firmly on ignore – the sort of tireless dullards whose comments I genuinely can’t be arsed to wade through. Think Harris, Newbee, Yagoda, Ralf... Every so often I foolishly lift the veil and peek at one of their posts, only to be reminded – with clockwork precision – why the ignore list exists.

 

Now, in Malky's defence, he’s a different beast entirely. Utterly absurd, yes, but entertainingly so – like a drunk trying to win a debate with a streetlamp. He absorbs flak with unexpected tolerance and often manages a cheeky retort or a flailing but valiant jab in return. He’s not quite as thick as his posts would suggest, I'm entertained....

 

 

I'm shuffling somewhat ungracefully into my crusty old geezer phase myself... and I must say, my sympathies towards your particular brand of desperation are, slowly but surely, evolving.

 

Truth be told, I’ve a certain fondness for many of the older, more seasoned hands around here. Thus, its not age that bothers me in the slightest – it’s a deep-seated intolerance for weapons-grade twassers that I find increasingly hard to mask. Which, I suspect, might explain why you're replying in this fashion – perhaps the residual sting from being on the receiving end of one of my responses to an especially inane post in the past perhaps?...

.... I genuinely couldn’t say – not out of politeness, but because I honestly can’t remember ever engaging with you. Your presence, such as it is, appears to have achieved the rare feat of bland mediocrity thats too easy forget entirely...

... At least Malcy is memorable - so good on you for worshiping and protecting him !!!...

 

There’s a certain psychology with such sensitivity, especially when one can easily step out of the way. But no, an obsessive disorder seems to be in control.

15 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

26 minutes ago, novacova said:

Seems a bit oxymoronic when you can easily put on ignore, though you choose not to, possibly because you are intrigued.

Richard doesn’t come to the forum to discuss the topics.

90% of his comments are big noting himself or trying to belittle others.

It is a worn out record.

 

Indeed, I find myself teetering on the brink of contributing to such a vital topic. That said, I did leave it a few pages before dipping in – mostly to see who you’d attempted to troll and provoke this time. You’re still clinging to the usual tricks, I see – entirely predictable, but I’ll admit this thread has offered a few entertaining replies amidst the rubbish... 

 

Truth be told, Malcy, I think I might be slowly softening to your particular flavour of trolling... I imagine rather like a bad case of oral herpes – you learn to live with the occasional tingle, accept its unwelcome persistence, and lower your expectations accordingly...