6 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

sneaky way to put down Brits there wouldn't you say? There are degenerate individuals in every country. As far as how women are treated, Buddhist men already look at women as secondary, so that has them a notch or two down already.

 

Thai women generally prefer Thai men, even though everyone knows the reputation they have. If you aren't living in a country where most are poor, the females will seek out what's attractive to them first and not who has the thickest wallet, as independence has them choosier.

 

Just as teen girls fall for BS a few times before they realize that most men are just little boys looking to be served, and then look towards ones that might stay longer after sex, if not permanently.

 

The same goes for Hispanic and Black males, if you're going to say a majority treat women haphazardly. This doesn't mean all but more then a few. No man should be envious of anyone else. Women all have preferences, and a lot of it is regarding the relationship they had with their dads. They will look for a man like their dad if he was a loving, kind father, and if he was absent or abusive, will forever seek out the perfect male her father should have been.

 

You can't force a decent woman to be attracted to you as it isn't a choice, so it's better to find one that is looking for you. Some women look for the bad boy because they don't know any better, until they are again used enough times to be more choosy the next time.

 

Thailand has women mainly attracted to wallets, and anyone who thinks different is delusional. This doesn't mean they won't also be physically attracted to you. It depends who she falls for first. if it's a huge man that stinks but has cash to burn, she'll be with him and hope  the next one will be attractive with the same amount of money. I've seen gorgeous Thai women both here and in the US with fat men with no attraction and good looking western men with large Thai women in both places. All personal choice and dreams

Your presentation is very bright. And now, your message is...

8 hours ago, kevozman1 said:

Whilst I think people from Britain are definitely one of the more degenerate groups who go to Thailand, I have noticed from the people who run the site and visitors that there seems to be a underlying issue amongst other male visitors that runs past what most people would notice, a large douse of envy. You see, most Thai women are are happy enough with Thai men, mostly from family pressure or just simply what's comfortable for them to deal with regarding language and proximity with school/work/hobbies. However, with the foreign element I have noticed in my two+ decades of experience in Thailand that English guys, after Thai guys, have often been the ones who have the put the least amount of effort with the women (meaning real attraction). Even some guys from there who are basically bums seem to do better that the vast majority of other groups, and then you have the younger ones who are passing through, doing remote work or doing a Muay Thai camp often get women who end up simping for them, similar to the local Thai men who are desirable. It's a mix of looks and energy and can't be taught.

 

The best thing is not to hate. Just accept these desirable Thai men and younger English guys are going to be banging the women you want and keep it moving if you're not actually attractive to women. That can vary in different locations, but in Thailand that is who I have seen having REAL attraction from women. 

Man so brilliant, I guess you have phd in Psychology. Who would have thought that women are more attracted by young beautiful men, the more when they are rich. Iam really astonished

7 hours ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

Yes, and don't forget that some Thai women have that uncanny ability to identify fools and simpletons because they are a much easier prey.

That is a trait of most women

6 hours ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Tough one for them........ if you can't get fit, monied and young......for which combination should you go?

 

Best bet I guess....is as you suggest.....fit, monied, but old(er).......best get my dumbbells out and start saving up.

Maybe I didn't make my point clear. I'm not talking about partner preference, but what they are physically attracted to. It's not uncommon for females to find older men more physically attractive.

49 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

Maybe I didn't make my point clear. I'm not talking about partner preference, but what they are physically attracted to. It's not uncommon for females to find older men more physically attractive.

 

Party on

On 8/11/2025 at 8:49 AM, Lacessit said:

Brits like to call us colonials.

There a few words beginning with the letter C that Brits like to call Aussies. 'Colonials' certainly isn't one of them. 55555

The Brits do whine a bit more than most

 

I'm American and I've lived with the loud American thing all my life, but thick skin you just blow it off

 

But jeez the Brits whine a lot actually

 

Get them going on the weather and you are in for a tirade. Too hot too cold too wet, its an hour long conversation

 

I love you guys, love your country, but you do have some cultural 'flaws' as do we all

Whatever. Im not a brit and the thai babes love me.....long time. 

Everyone wants to be British, just look at our amazing country, overrun with filthy rapists and Child Molesters, a police force not fit to police a bus queue, a government of traitors and communists, a broken justice system, a ruined health service, ruined education system infiltrated by life's failures who have now decided to "Teach" as they "cannot do"  Freedom of opinion and speech that will get you 3 years in the nick, jails full of foreign aliens with alien views and the desire to destroy the host nation....Jesus, what more could you want? Maybe it is simply penis envy?

On 8/11/2025 at 9:25 AM, fredwiggy said:

A sneaky way to put down Brits there wouldn't you say? There are degenerate individuals in every country. As far as how women are treated, Buddhist men already look at women as secondary, so that has them a notch or two down already.

 

Thai women generally prefer Thai men, even though everyone knows the reputation they have. If you aren't living in a country where most are poor, the females will seek out what's attractive to them first and not who has the thickest wallet, as independence has them choosier.

 

Just as teen girls fall for BS a few times before they realize that most men are just little boys looking to be served, and then look towards ones that might stay longer after sex, if not permanently.

 

The same goes for Hispanic and Black males, if you're going to say a majority treat women haphazardly. This doesn't mean all but more then a few. No man should be envious of anyone else. Women all have preferences, and a lot of it is regarding the relationship they had with their dads. They will look for a man like their dad if he was a loving, kind father, and if he was absent or abusive, will forever seek out the perfect male her father should have been.

 

You can't force a decent woman to be attracted to you as it isn't a choice, so it's better to find one that is looking for you. Some women look for the bad boy because they don't know any better, until they are again used enough times to be more choosy the next time.

 

Thailand has women mainly attracted to wallets, and anyone who thinks different is delusional. This doesn't mean they won't also be physically attracted to you. It depends who she falls for first. if it's a huge man that stinks but has cash to burn, she'll be with him and hope  the next one will be attractive with the same amount of money. I've seen gorgeous Thai women both here and in the US with fat men with no attraction and good looking western men with large Thai women in both places. All personal choice and dreams. 

Bullocks

On 8/11/2025 at 2:49 PM, Lacessit said:

Brits like to call us colonials. We remind them we do much better than they do, in a number of areas.

 

There are 2.5 Brits to every Australian. It might be a fairer match if the ratio was 3:1.

 

Together they are 4 nuts

On 8/14/2025 at 10:22 PM, GinBoy2 said:

The Brits do whine a bit more than most

 

I'm American and I've lived with the loud American thing all my life, but thick skin you just blow it off

 

But jeez the Brits whine a lot actually

 

Get them going on the weather and you are in for a tirade. Too hot too cold too wet, its an hour long conversation

 

I love you guys, love your country, but you do have some cultural 'flaws' as do we all

 

 

I think you are meeting the wrong sort of Brits.....broaden your horizons.

 

As you say, cultural flaws are everywhere - and that is something else America beats us hands down on.

On 8/11/2025 at 7:38 AM, kevozman1 said:

Whilst I think people from Britain are definitely one of the more degenerate groups who go to Thailand, I have noticed from the people who run the site and visitors that there seems to be a underlying issue amongst other male visitors that runs past what most people would notice, a large douse of envy. You see, most Thai women are are happy enough with Thai men, mostly from family pressure or just simply what's comfortable for them to deal with regarding language and proximity with school/work/hobbies. However, with the foreign element I have noticed in my two+ decades of experience in Thailand that English guys, after Thai guys, have often been the ones who have the put the least amount of effort with the women (meaning real attraction). Even some guys from there who are basically bums seem to do better that the vast majority of other groups, and then you have the younger ones who are passing through, doing remote work or doing a Muay Thai camp often get women who end up simping for them, similar to the local Thai men who are desirable. It's a mix of looks and energy and can't be taught.

 

The best thing is not to hate. Just accept these desirable Thai men and younger English guys are going to be banging the women you want and keep it moving if you're not actually attractive to women. That can vary in different locations, but in Thailand that is who I have seen having REAL attraction from women. 

A very strange post.

Life's a funny thing. You hit the big five-oh, and the calendar pages start flapping faster than a pigeon on a wire. Now I'm two years older, staring at 52 in the face, and the neon sign above my head finally flickered on. The message? "Nothing matters."
It’s the kind of truth you see in a shot glass, a cold, hard fact staring back at you. Every day's a tick-tock closer to the final curtain, and there's no encore. So, the old game—the one where you run yourself ragged for a world that doesn't notice—is over.
The only case worth cracking now is my own. The only dame worth chasing is my own well-being. It's time to stop looking for answers in the shadows and start living a little before the lights go out for good.

No,

That's not the reality, just a overestimation of themselves 🥳

On 8/11/2025 at 3:17 PM, Cameroni said:

 

Of course they do. You're 100 years old but they like you for your handsome face and sexy body.

 

How are the autobiography pre-orders going? 

 

 

A guy who worked as a gigolo on the Gold Coast once told me, the secret to women is getting them to laugh. Works for me too.

 

My autobiography is a legacy to my son. I won't know or care whether it is published or not.

On 8/11/2025 at 3:49 PM, vangrop said:

Man so brilliant, I guess you have phd in Psychology. Who would have thought that women are more attracted by young beautiful men, the more when they are rich. Iam really astonished

Women are attracted by power, brains, youth, physicality and money.

 

In any kind of contest, money wins easily.

1 hour ago, Celsius said:

Life's a funny thing. You hit the big five-oh, and the calendar pages start flapping faster than a pigeon on a wire. Now I'm two years older, staring at 52 in the face, and the neon sign above my head finally flickered on. The message? "Nothing matters."
It’s the kind of truth you see in a shot glass, a cold, hard fact staring back at you. Every day's a tick-tock closer to the final curtain, and there's no encore. So, the old game—the one where you run yourself ragged for a world that doesn't notice—is over.
The only case worth cracking now is my own. The only dame worth chasing is my own well-being. It's time to stop looking for answers in the shadows and start living a little before the lights go out for good.

I hate having to agree with you!

24 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Women are attracted by power, brains, youth, physicality and money.

 

In any kind of contest, money wins easily.

In my world, the attraction is towards intelligence & good sex.

 

Nobody wants to be with an idiot, for so many reasons, and everyone wants good sex.  If you think money wins, you already loss.

 

Either the money runs out, or they already got enough, and are bored with you, and now simply want to be happy.

On 8/14/2025 at 10:22 PM, GinBoy2 said:

But jeez the Brits whine a lot actually

 

Get them going on the weather and you are in for a tirade. Too hot too cold too wet, its an hour long conversation

England is too cold and too wet and too windy.

Thailand is great.

On 8/11/2025 at 7:38 AM, kevozman1 said:

Whilst I think people from Britain are definitely one of the more degenerate groups who go to Thailand, I have noticed from the people who run the site and visitors that there seems to be a underlying issue amongst other male visitors that runs past what most people would notice, a large douse of envy. You see, most Thai women are are happy enough with Thai men, mostly from family pressure or just simply what's comfortable for them to deal with regarding language and proximity with school/work/hobbies. However, with the foreign element I have noticed in my two+ decades of experience in Thailand that English guys, after Thai guys, have often been the ones who have the put the least amount of effort with the women (meaning real attraction). Even some guys from there who are basically bums seem to do better that the vast majority of other groups, and then you have the younger ones who are passing through, doing remote work or doing a Muay Thai camp often get women who end up simping for them, similar to the local Thai men who are desirable. It's a mix of looks and energy and can't be taught.

 

The best thing is not to hate. Just accept these desirable Thai men and younger English guys are going to be banging the women you want and keep it moving if you're not actually attractive to women. That can vary in different locations, but in Thailand that is who I have seen having REAL attraction from women. 

I had it explained to me as     ....   similar to the local Thai men who are desirable Brits have a similar "undersized" ****

      makes it easy

 

1 hour ago, KhunLA said:

In my world, the attraction is towards intelligence & good sex.

 

Nobody wants to be with an idiot, for so many reasons, and everyone wants good sex.  If you think money wins, you already loss.

 

Either the money runs out, or they already got enough, and are bored with you, and now simply want to be happy.

I suggest you take a look at the wives Rupert Murdoch, Aristotle Onassis, Donald Trump and Bernie Ecclestone have collected.

 

18 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

I suggest you take a look at the wives Rupert Murdoch, Aristotle Onassis, Donald Trump and Bernie Ecclestone have collected.

Are they happy ?  

 

Trophy wife/husband, or a bunch of toys will only keep you happy for so long.  

38 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

Are they happy ?  

 

Trophy wife/husband, or a bunch of toys will only keep you happy for so long.  

Certainly Melania looks as if she is chewing scorpions.

 

If you lost everything by some stroke of fate, how long do you think your wife would stick by you?

 

Reminds me of that great Eagles song.

 

 

42 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

If you lost everything by some stroke of fate, how long do you think your wife would stick by you?

There's the difference between having a trophy wife vs intelligence as an attraction. 

 

We don't have to think about the answer to that question.  Knocking on 20 yrs together 'till death do we part, for better of for worst'.  

 

We're blessed to have each other 😎

She doesn't need me or my finances now, and could leave at any time, or give me the boot, as everything is in her name anyway.  And yet ...

 

 

Actually, everything we have is because of her savvy investing.  

 

If we've never met, I'd probably be living somewhere, (maybe not TH) have a nice oops fund, and be living month to month as a single guy.  Oops fund would be way less than her retirement / oops fund now.

 

She'd probably be back at work, computer graphic designer, and happily married, or not, somewhere, probably Krung Thep, as that's where the work is.

29 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

If you lost everything by some stroke of fate, how long do you think your wife would stick by you?

I have pensions, and if the financial world as we know it ends, nobody will be any better off!

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

I suggest you take a look at the wives Rupert Murdoch, Aristotle Onassis, Donald Trump and Bernie Ecclestone have collected.

 

What about Jeff Bezos trophy wife age 55?

Richest man in the world ..........

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

What about Jeff Bezos trophy wife age 55?

Richest man in the world ..........

IMO Bernie Ecclestone takes the Incongruity Award.........

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

What about Jeff Bezos trophy wife age 55?

Richest man in the world ..........

Looking like plastic surgery failure, though depends what she'd look like without.

1 hour ago, KhunLA said:

Looking like plastic surgery failure, though depends what she'd look like without.

....better than that!