7 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Load of bs

To a misogynist of course.

On 8/30/2025 at 11:02 PM, spidermike007 said:

I seriously doubt that, as my mother was old school and she was very comfortable embracing the dignity within femininity, unlike most western women these days. 

 

Or perhaps you could explain yourself more clearly, and tell us exactly what it was that offended you  

It’s apparent that a pattern of misogyny has been passed down through your family.

1 hour ago, nick supreme said:

It’s apparent that a pattern of misogyny has been passed down through your family.

Many SIMPS and emasculated men interpret a very healthy relationship with a man taking on the role of the man and the woman taking on the role of the woman, while manifesting the dignity and beauty within femininity as something bad. A lot of Western men just don't understand that concept, as they have been completely trained otherwise, and they're taught to believe the masculinity is something toxic.

 

Healthy women love masculinity, and healthy men love femininity, it's about as natural as trees in the forest. 

 

I realize that's a very foreign concept to the average man's Western mind, but it's something that works very well here, and I'm not talking about a woman who is subjugated, I'm not talking about a woman who is dominated, like most men are dominated in the West. I'm talking about a very healthy relationship. It's possible here and many of us absolutely love that. Those who don't embrace the lifestyle are very threatened by it. 

 

 

 

 

I think a large part of the equation is the erosion of femininity in the West. It has gotten so bad, that masculinity is now considered toxic. This is an existential threat to civilization, no doubt. It is me-too, and uber-feminism that has been the real nuclear bomb to relationships and a woman's ability to express herself, have sex freely, date normally, manifest the incredible dignity within femininity, and relate to men, in a healthy manner. It seems to contribute to an extremely unfulfilled female gender, and has resulted in making life very difficult for most men in the West. After Covid, things are even worse than before. A real life Zombieland. Thankfully, little of that toxic nonsense has reached the shores of Thailand. Women here seem to intuitively know how powerful their innate femininity is, and they use it to the fullest. I am very thankful for that. I think many have simply rejected alot of mind numbingly wrong headed Western notions, that women are saddled with. 

 

The most important aspect of this, that most Western women cannot see, nor understand, is that most Asian women are very comfortable manifesting the dignity and beauty within femininity. For most men, that is incredibly appealing, and a hugely refreshing change from what they have become used to, and learned to tolerate.

 

I don't think Thai women are going to embrace the nonsense. Thai women having an intuitive understanding of just how much power their femininity gives them, and I think they're smart enough to just say no. There are many aspects of Thai culture that give women an inherent understanding and appreciation for their role within society, which I think is a wonderful thing. Healthy men enjoy being men, and healthy women enjoy being women, what could possibly be more wonderful than that? 

 

I know a lot of SIMPS in America and they oftentimes appear quite desperate in their defense of extreme women and their antics. It's a pretty pathetic thing to witness. And a lot of times it's very unconscious, they don't even know they're doing it, they're just well-trained. Emasculation is a horrifically ugly thing to witness. 

 

The way I look at it is relationships are kind of like a boat, and all boats need a captain. The rules here are quite a bit different than they are in the West, and most Thai women prefer a man who is strong, decisive and stable. Alot of times women here prefer the man to make alot of the decisions, however if he brings his old habits with him from the West and refuses to behave like a man she has no choice but to become the captain of the ship and take over.

 

I feel sorry for those beta fools, but they allowed it to happen, and they brought it on with their passivity and weakness, or bizarre notions of femininity or required female dominance. 

 

 

3 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

Healthy women love masculinity, and healthy men love femininity, it's about as natural as trees in the forest. 

 

I have no doubt that you consider yourself the epitome of masculinity. Yet, it's important to recognize that you are merely a pass-port bro in Thailand.

3 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

I think a large part of the equation is the erosion of femininity in the West. It has gotten so bad, that masculinity is now considered toxic. This is an existential threat to civilization, no doubt. It is me-too, and uber-feminism that has been the real nuclear bomb to relationships and a woman's ability to express herself, have sex freely, date normally, manifest the incredible dignity within femininity, and relate to men, in a healthy manner. It seems to contribute to an extremely unfulfilled female gender, and has resulted in making life very difficult for most men in the West. After Covid, things are even worse than before. A real life Zombieland. Thankfully, little of that toxic nonsense has reached the shores of Thailand. Women here seem to intuitively know how powerful their innate femininity is, and they use it to the fullest. I am very thankful for that. I think many have simply rejected alot of mind numbingly wrong headed Western notions, that women are saddled with. 

 

The most important aspect of this, that most Western women cannot see, nor understand, is that most Asian women are very comfortable manifesting the dignity and beauty within femininity. For most men, that is incredibly appealing, and a hugely refreshing change from what they have become used to, and learned to tolerate.

 

I don't think Thai women are going to embrace the nonsense. Thai women having an intuitive understanding of just how much power their femininity gives them, and I think they're smart enough to just say no. There are many aspects of Thai culture that give women an inherent understanding and appreciation for their role within society, which I think is a wonderful thing. Healthy men enjoy being men, and healthy women enjoy being women, what could possibly be more wonderful than that? 

 

I know a lot of SIMPS in America and they oftentimes appear quite desperate in their defense of extreme women and their antics. It's a pretty pathetic thing to witness. And a lot of times it's very unconscious, they don't even know they're doing it, they're just well-trained. Emasculation is a horrifically ugly thing to witness. 

 

The way I look at it is relationships are kind of like a boat, and all boats need a captain. The rules here are quite a bit different than they are in the West, and most Thai women prefer a man who is strong, decisive and stable. Alot of times women here prefer the man to make alot of the decisions, however if he brings his old habits with him from the West and refuses to behave like a man she has no choice but to become the captain of the ship and take over.

 

I feel sorry for those beta fools, but they allowed it to happen, and they brought it on with their passivity and weakness, or bizarre notions of femininity or required female dominance. 

 

 

Both femininity and masculinity, much like gender itself, are fluid and dynamic concepts that can adapt and change over time.  You live in the past. 

14 hours ago, nick supreme said:

I have no doubt that you consider yourself the epitome of masculinity. Yet, it's important to recognize that you are merely a pass-port bro in Thailand.

I don't even know what a passport bro means, and I don't need to know, as it means nothing to me.

 

What I do know is that I have a very good life here, and I have a very good woman who seems to be quite happy and fulfilled. Can you say the same about yourself? 

14 hours ago, nick supreme said:

Both femininity and masculinity, much like gender itself, are fluid and dynamic concepts that can adapt and change over time.  You live in the past. 

While you may love the fluidity of gender qualities, if it works for you it's all good. But many of us love role playing, many of us understand how incredibly healthy role-playing is for a good solid relationship, and many of us appreciate the wonderful qualities within femininity, and a good woman who's able to express them without fear and without the constraints of social pressure. 

7 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

While you may love the fluidity of gender qualities, if it works for you it's all good. But many of us love role playing, many of us understand how incredibly healthy role-playing is for a good solid relationship, and many of us appreciate the wonderful qualities within femininity, and a good woman who's able to express them without fear and without the constraints of social pressure. 

Your understanding of femininity seems to be that of a woman who exists solely to serve you. It appears you struggle to engage with strong, independent women.

Why not try direct for a full day ?

 

Just directly pay for any alibi item at the store, and the girl out on visiting the local 7/11, at the counter of any bank (but never in the same bank where you have your account for obvious reasons). Try also the barbers, get a haircut and ask the lady out, Of course this option cannot be done again as naturally you cannot have a haircut 5 times a day🤣

 

Do this with 20 girls during the day and it will surely work out with one, If not, repeat the process, until successful. 

14 hours ago, nick supreme said:

Your understanding of femininity seems to be that of a woman who exists solely to serve you. It appears you struggle to engage with strong, independent women.

I assumed that you would misunderstand my explanation, some guys just simply aren't capable of relating to the possibility of a woman manifesting their wonderful feminine qualities, and they confuse that with subordination. It has a lot to do with your Western training, the women in your life obviously did a very good job hypnotizing you into thinking that you have to behave a certain way. 

 

My heart truly goes out to you, as it must be very challenging to endure that level of feminine dominance. 

10 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

I assumed that you would misunderstand my explanation, some guys just simply aren't capable of relating to the possibility of a woman manifesting their wonderful feminine qualities, and they confuse that with subordination. It has a lot to do with your Western training, the women in your life obviously did a very good job hypnotizing you into thinking that you have to behave a certain way. 

 

My heart truly goes out to you, as it must be very challenging to endure that level of feminine dominance. 

 

You moved to a patriarchal country to find an economically disadvantaged woman to dominate. You couldn't handle the strong women of the West who have resources and choices.

 

My heart truly goes out to you

On 8/30/2025 at 5:07 AM, LL 2.0 said:

Right, let’s talk Thai birds for a sec. Not the bar slappers, I mean the “good girls,” you know, the so-called “normal ones.” The office lot. The bank clerks. The ones who can pay their own AIS bill and ain’t hangin’ off chrome poles in Walking Street. Lovely girls, don’t get me wrong, but bloody hell, they’ve all got this goofy act they do called ขี้อ้อน (Key-Ohn). Basically, behavin’ like children to get you to treat them extra nice like.

 

I’m not kiddin’. You’re sat there tryin’ to enjoy a lovely little krapow-gai kai-dow, and she’s pokin’ your arm goin’, “Tirakkk, look at meee na.” Next thing, pouty lips, big eyes, puffin’ up the cheeks with air, then talkin’ like Peppa Pig after a night out on the Sangsom. Thirty-five years old, degree on the wall, car in the driveway, but she’s sat there doin’ baby voices like she’s about to lob the whole pram at me ‘cause someone nicked her favourite Barbie doll.

 

Back home, a bird pulls that stunt, nah, you’d call her a nutter and block her instantly. Here? Feck, it’s a bloody national romance sport, lads. Olympic-level cutesy. You can’t even eat a bowl of blinkin' noodles without them tryin’ to spoon-feed you like a toddler at nursery.

 

And the kicker? The bar girls don’t even bother with it. Straight to the point, keep the beer flowin’, the baht rollin’. Job done. Meanwhile, the “good girls” got you sendin’ LINE stickers of cartoon bunnies at 2am like some lovesick muppet.

 

I’m tellin’ ya, lads, half the time I dunno if I’m hanging meself out of proper women here or just runnin’ the late shift at a bloomin’ child daycare centre. 

If you still think that’s cute, you must be pretty new here.

12 hours ago, nick supreme said:

 

You moved to a patriarchal country to find an economically disadvantaged woman to dominate. You couldn't handle the strong women of the West who have resources and choices.

 

My heart truly goes out to you

I spent a lifetime enduring what you refer to as the strong women of the West. What I and millions of others have found were emotionally bereft women who were scared to death of their own femininity, and insisted on male domination. If that's something you're comfortable with, that is on you. 

 

It wasn't about being threatened, it was more like the fact that I found in the West, that the more intellectual the woman was, the more argumentative she was, and the more unwilling she was to ever accept any sort of intellectual compromise. That just was not fun on any level. But if you find combative feminist women fun, I suggest you stay where you are. Not all of us can enjoy this great lifestyle here.