1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

Most of your posts are

 

1 I'm great

2 I don't lie

3 You're a teenager

 

You're a narc dude. 

I never said I'm great. Not lying is a good thing. That you answer like a teenager is evident, which doesn't reflect on me.

7 minutes ago, JakeC said:

I can see that @transam and @fredwiggy are working together 😊 @transam usually PMs him and off they go 😊 Pathetic 😊

Narcs working together from behind a keyboard.

Asean Now (that never quite worked did it ?)is a mausoleum of wasted lives. Old, loveless, and bitter, its posters tap furiously at keyboards, vomiting nostalgia and rage into the void, pretending it matters. Every post is a monument to irrelevance arguments over bargilrs, visas, and where to find the cheapest Chang  while their real lives quietly rot. No woman or young person would be seen dead here, and rightly so. On your deathbed, you won’t whisper, “I should have spent more time on the Thai visa forum.” You’ll whisper nothing at all, because nothing here ever mattered. And then AI arrived the final blow stripping away whatever value was left and ruthlessly scraping the site clean and making Thai questions effortless and impactful. (I note when I ask questions about Thai wills / real estate etc on ChatGPT it uses this site amongst others in contructing it's answers). 

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

I never said I'm great. Not lying is a good thing. That you answer like a teenager is evident, which doesn't reflect on me.

I'm well read on relationships and depression. I don't lie. I don't post opinions. You're a teenager.

 

You're a broken record who never grew up. Real adults admit to being wrong often. You're a know it all 10yo Fred. Not even teenage level.

No @fredwiggy It's just you and @transam 😊 Two of the most nauseating... 😊

 

Look...it's not for me to prove nor disprove that you are a narcissist. This only came up because we were discussing name calling and abuse from you. My suggestion that you are a narcissist is based on the content of your posts and your behaviour. I don't have anything against you. The forum is a place where we can perhaps be more open than we would in real life, wherein we might chhose to be more diplomatic. Even to say nothing at all. But I guarantee, if you carried on in the way you do here, in real life, people opinion of you would be much the same. You are just full of yourself. I've literally not ever seen anyone praise themselves as much as you do and to claim absolute nonsense as fact, as often. You are ridiculously thin skinned.

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

He ticks all the boxes. He read up so he could manipulate women more.

I've had a girlfriend for almost 5 years, and she and i get along great because I treat her like I treated all the the others, which is with respect ,love and care. That's not quite manipulation . As far as you and jakeC, no one here knows how you live, how you treat women or others, but if its like you act here, I really feel sorry for them, as they could do a lot better. You assume with every post, as does jakeC. Too ignorant to understand you again, don't know anyone here personally. That you twist what other say and call them a liar, also shows how you both were raised as children. 

2 minutes ago, JakeC said:

No @fredwiggy It's just you and @transam 😊 Two of the most nauseating... 😊

 

Look...it's not for me to prove nor disprove that you are a narcissist. This only came up because we were discussing name calling and abuse from you. My suggestion that you are a narcissist is based on the content of your posts and your behaviour. I don't have anything against you. The forum is a place where we can perhaps be more open than we would in real life, wherein we might chhose to be more diplomatic. Even to say nothing at all. But I guarantee, if you carried on in the way you do here, in real life, people opinion of you would be much the same. You are just full of yourself. I've literally not ever seen anyone praise themselves as much as you do and to claim absolute nonsense as fact, as often. You are ridiculously thin skinned.

And once again, as always, you're wrong.Take away all the twisted lies you've said about me. All the assumptions and name calling. Take away all the times I had to defend myself against you and a few other's ignorance here. What would you have to say? You would argue with me like you do with others, which is exactly the same, but I call you out more, as i see you how you really are and won't tolerate debasing based on ignorance.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

I've had a girlfriend for almost 5 years, and she and i get along great because I treat her like I treated all the the others, which is with respect ,love and care. That's not quite manipulation . As far as you and jakeC, no one here knows how you live, how you treat women or others, but if its like you act here, I really feel sorry for them, as they could do a lot better. You assume with every post, as does jakeC. Too ignorant to understand you again, don't know anyone here personally. That you twist what other say and call them a liar, also shows how you both were raised as children. 

He is a narcissist, folk of that ilk don't know they are..................🤔

That's okay @fredwiggy There's always the possibility that I might be wrong. I don't get into a wordy overly defensive rant about it. For me, it seems that you are a narcissist. If you are not, then great. But that doesn't change my opinion of what I have seen from you here over the years.

No point getting mad about it. Everyone can look at your posts and decide for themselves. Similarly mine. I don't mind what people write if they think it is true. We can discuss it without name calling and abuse. Of course if someone is simply Trolling...

 

That's not me. I write because it is what I see from you. A conceited and narcissistic character. 

19 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I knew this when I first started reading up on narcissism decades ago. Think for a moment why someone would read up on narcissism. Doesn't it make sense that they are trying to see these people how they are to better avoid them? Guess you missed that.

 

Guess you also missed where I showed how I live , both here and before in the US. That I live the opposite of a narcissist by my actions somehow slipped by your thinking eh?

 

Read this again. I've studied narcissism, depression and other things psychological for decades. Again, decades, not a few podcasts. That you actually try and point out what makes a narcissist shows you think others here are stupid, and that I, after studying for decades, don't understand it, shows a severe lack of common sense, education and a penchant for the extreme part of ignorance.

 

I match none of what you posted, but you certainly do. I don't need admiration but respect from others. My relationships with others is fine, unless they are proven to be disturbed. You're proving this with every post, and are actually trying to convince other adults a lie about me. Are you that stupid that you don't realize the people here aren't morons?  People like you I don't get along with as you assume about others you know little about, and with that little you twist it around to suit your own level of sickness. Like i said, you're way out of your league here, and I'm sure many more are seeing you for exactly what you are.

Calling him sick is what a narc would do. He has done nothing sick.

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

And once again, as always, you're wrong.Take away all the twisted lies you've said about me. All the assumptions and name calling. Take away all the times I had to defend myself against you and a few other's ignorance here. What would you have to say? You would argue with me like you do with others, which is exactly the same, but I call you out more, as i see you how you really are and won't tolerate debasing based on ignorance.

Which lies did he post? I saw none. You still have not posted any facts or link after 3 hours.

This thread has degenerated into an unpleasant flamefest. Please debate the topic - and don't attack each other in doing so, or I'll close the thread. Offenders who break our rules will find themselves removed from this and other conversations. Thank you.

 

9. You will not post disruptive or inflammatory messages. You will respect other members and post in a civil manner. Personal attacks, insults or hate speech posted on the forum or sent by private message are not allowed.

 

10. You will not post troll messages. Trolling is the act of purposefully antagonizing forum members by posting controversial, inflammatory, irrelevant or off-topic messages with the primary intent of provoking other members into an emotional response or to generally disrupt normal on-topic discussion.

So back to the topic... Why are people so nasty on here? That's is self evident. They are just nasty people.

Nice people behave differently.

33 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

how you treat women or others, but if its like you act here, I really feel sorry for them, as they could do a lot better

Actually most Thai women have zero interest in dating old farangs. They do it for $.

 

Thai women are attracted to Koreas more.

Just now, JakeC said:

So back to the topic... Why are people so nasty on here? That's is self evident. They are just nasty people.

None of them are prepared to meet in person. None of them admit to being wrong. The internet is their safe space.

To be fair, I wouldn't want to meet any of them in person either. 🙂 I'm not that lonely. I can tolerate them over the Internet.  Truth.

5 minutes ago, JakeC said:

To be fair, I wouldn't want to meet any of them in person either. 🙂 I'm not that lonely. I can tolerate them over the Internet.  Truth.

The question of whether narcissists like themselves is complex and depends on the type of narcissism and the method of assessment. Research indicates that while narcissists often present an image of grandiosity and self-love, this may be a facade masking deep-seated insecurities. Some studies suggest that vulnerable narcissists, who crave constant validation, may actually harbor self-loathing and low self-esteem, using their outward behavior as a shield against internal feelings of inadequacy. This perspective is supported by findings that narcissistic behaviors like boasting or seeking attention can stem from a need for external validation due to fragile self-worth. However, other research challenges this view, arguing that narcissists may genuinely believe in their own superiority. A study using a less communal Implicit Associations Test found that narcissists reported high implicit self-esteem, suggesting they do not necessarily hate themselves deep down. Furthermore, narcissists are aware of their own narcissistic traits and often rate themselves highly on both positive and negative aspects of narcissism, indicating a self-perception of being exceptional. This suggests that for some narcissists, their self-image is not a cover for self-hatred but a genuine belief in their own superiority. Therefore, the answer is not uniform: while some narcissists may genuinely like themselves, others may use their grandiose persona to compensate for underlying self-loathing

More trolling posts were removed. This thread has degenerated into complete nonsense.

 

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