40 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

If there is a 40 year age gap, there is a greater chance that they are pretending to like you and you might need to keep looking over your shoulder.

 

 

That's a 29 year age gap, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

 

Look, women are experts at faking, lying, pretending and making things seem a certain way they are not. We can't even begin to fathom the deviousness of women.

 

So, you just have to accept that the beginning you can't know for sure if she really likes you. Only with time you will find out if it's really the case. Even if she does all the right things, touch her hair, give off signs she really likes you, she could could be faking it if she's good.

 

But in time, you will find out if she actually likes you or not.

Nah, it's fun to mess with a head case who's also had to pay $$$ to defend it. We were friendly. He just couldn't resist. He's done this 4 times that I know of.  

 

I'll tell you has neither friends in high places or celebrity courtesans -him.

 

Around mid November, he will have a judgement rendered against him. And then he has 30 days to pay it. Then Marshall's can take property out of him home to pay it. I would love that. What I get will more than cover everyone's bills to sue him further.

 

I got a quote for 25,000 baht to do a background search back in his home country and here. I booked it.

3 minutes ago, JakeC said:

The women I meet are your sisters and daughters

I'm an only child, no siblings and I have no children 😔

33 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Any decent girl won't have sex on the first date, they learn it ruins things

 

True, this was a really classy girl. Her English was a cut above other girls, her whole demeanour and the way she carried herself, she was head and shoulders above most of these girls.

 

When I wrote to her first and asked her out on a date, she said "Yes, let's just go for it, let's go on a date. I think it's better than to write for ages back and forth". Such a refreshing attitude.

 

I really liked her. She even did all the washing up, not just from the cooking, but the other dishes I had from days ago. And after the dinner, she again did all the dishes. Class act all the way.

33 minutes ago, JakeC said:

Attraction can take many forms, as you should know. You might be attracted by someone's eyes, voice, body...That gets you to approach. but then you have to see if there is a foundation for a lasting relationship or whether you want to keep them around by paying for their time.

 

No attraction itself is the foundation. The sine qua non. Without it all your other parametres don't even come into play, they're only relevant AFTER attraction is present for both.

 

34 minutes ago, JakeC said:

I can guarantee that I've met more beautiful girls and thrown them back into the ocean, than you have had beautiful girls.

 

Hahahahaha, it's certain that guarantee is about as useful as a tootheless cat for mice control.

 

35 minutes ago, JakeC said:

Unlike yourself, I've spent a fair bit of time around the kind of celebrities about whom you fantasise. I

 

Lol. Who? Mickey Mouse?

Hello everyone,.I am New here.

I agree re lawyers often want to scam,

as someone wrote that here 

II cant find a place to post my matter, so hijacking the thread. My dad died

in Thailand and how would be

easiest to pay from Europe to get

a copy from  Thai court re a lawyer

applied to be probate admin for his

estate and I was never called to the 

court hearing or knew about it.

Can I pay via Western Union as bank 

payments are  often very delayed.

-I  worked with foreign payments in a bank, so know that 

.many thanks, it's an urgent case , and been

scammed by 2 lawyers before 

10 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

That's a 29 year age gap, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

 

Look, women are experts at faking, lying, pretending and making things seem a certain they are not. We can't even begin to fathom the deviousness of women.

 

So, you just have to accept that the beginning you can't know for sure if she really likes you. Only with time you will find out if it's really the case. Even if she does all the right things, touch her hair, give off signs she really likes you, she could could be faking it if she's good.

 

But in time, you will find out if she actually likes you or not.

He's right, if there's a big age gap it's most likely fake, of course money is an incentive, funny when guys complain about being an ATM..... fool that's why they're with you

9 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I'm an only child, no siblings and I have no children 😔

Didn't you say you had 5 children the other day? there's more porkies told in Pattaya than anywhere else in the world

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I think it's better than to write for ages back and forth

Yep that's a total waste of time, she realises that, maybe a pro at internet dating

10 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

20 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I'm an only child, no siblings and I have no children 😔

Didn't you say you had 5 children the other day? there's more porkies told in Pattaya than anywhere else in the world

You do realise we are in the Pub forum? 

Porkies are a minimum requirement when making comments. 

 

BTW, 6 children 

59 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I love you Nerdie guys, you catch me out everytime 😂

 

 

Inspector Jacques Clouseau - Actor Peter Sellers. British actor and comedian (1925–1980). Sadly he died young of a heart attack at age 54.

 

 

17 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No attraction itself is the foundation. The sine qua non.

I agree 100%. For the rest, get a dog.

 

And attraction back.

 

-Which I can only see decreasing in liklihood as I coast into age 73.

2 minutes ago, short-Timer said:

 

Inspector Jacques Clouseau - Actor Peter Sellers. British actor and comedian (1925–1980). Sadly he died young of a heart attack at age 54.

 

 

Sounds like Peter Sellers was a bit crazy, his personality was basically the characters he played

2 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

He should of used a real estate agent

Yes, he should HAVE.

15 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

16 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

With the  sort of records they'll be able to access what do you think or hope they'll find.  

I am looking for a pattern of fraud, which relates to some other stuff; unrelated to the deposit. New info makes a closer look worth the $$. 

 

But this an example of if when you're doing something shady, you should avoid all controversy.

 

I would never confront this person. He stiffed me, I hired a lawyer. I haven't talked to him since. Others came forward and the lawyer gave me a low rate to represent them too.

 

 

8 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Sounds like Peter Sellers was a bit crazy, his personality was basically the characters he played

 

He was in many notable films of that era. A great comedic actor actually.

11 hours ago, Angel555 said:

Hello everyone,.I am New here.

I agree re lawyers often want to scam,

as someone wrote that here 

II cant find a place to post my matter, so hijacking the thread. My dad died

in Thailand and how would be

easiest to pay from Europe to get

a copy from  Thai court re a lawyer

applied to be probate admin for his

estate and I was never called to the 

court hearing or knew about it.

Can I pay via Western Union as bank 

payments are  often very delayed.

-I  worked with foreign payments in a bank, so know that 

.many thanks, it's an urgent case , and been

scammed by 2 lawyers before 

 

Maybe best to start a separate thread.

This thread is drowned out by Cameroni's sex life exploits and you won't get much attention here.

 

 

11 hours ago, KannikaP said:

Yes, he should HAVE.

 

Really? Do you think real estate agents will help you get back deposits?

1 minute ago, KannikaP said:

Yes, he should HAVE.

I had a real estate agent.

 

How would they get me back a deposit?

 

Like, I left the deposit with them? I haven't seen that offered.

 

 

2 minutes ago, short-Timer said:

 

He was in many notable films of that era. A great comedic actor actually.

Yes that's what they say, personally i didn't find him funny

2 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

Really? Do you think real estate agents will help you get back deposits?

Sorry you misunderstood my answer. I was pulling him up on using should OF, instead of should HAVE.

2 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I had a real estate agent.

 

How would they get me back a deposit?

 

Like, I left the deposit with them? I haven't seen that offered.

 

 

See my answer to the Frog!

1 hour ago, Prubangboy said:

I haven't lived there in a year. I'm down $900 on a $1500 deposit, plus I had to fly back for the trial. At this point it's sort of a hobby. 

 

What an absolutely riveting hobby choice. I can think of about a million or two better ways to spend my time and money than flying somewhere in the slim hope of getting back $900 you’ll probably never see again, plus the joy of adding the cost of lawyers, flights, and hotels to the tab. But, let’s not forget the pure adrenaline rush of sitting in a courtroom, surrounded by legal jargon in a foreign language you can’t even begin to follow. Truly, nothing beats that level of unmatched fun and excitement. Can't wait to learn about all the other thrilling hobbies you have.

9 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I am looking for a pattern of fraud, which relates to some other stuff; unrelated to the deposit. New info makes a closer look worth the $$. 

 

But this an example of if when you're doing something shady, you should avoid all controversy.

 

I would never confront this person. He stiffed me, I hired a lawyer. I haven't talked to him since. Others came forward and the lawyer gave me a low rate to represent them too.

 

 

Waste of time. Move on.

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Waste of time. Move on.

 

I couldn’t have paraphrased all of your posts in just a few words any better than you just did, even if I really tried. Bravo Susan!

21 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I agree 100%. For the rest, get a dog.

 

And attraction back.

 

-Which I can only see decreasing in liklihood as I coast into age 73.

 

Well, the luck you have is that women are only a fraction as visual as men. Yes, it counts, not the way it counts for men. But this is an issue for any man over 45. That's the usual cut off date you seen now with young girls, to them a 45 year old guy is the limit

 

But there are girls who will go beyond that.

34 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Yep that's a total waste of time, she realises that, maybe a pro at internet dating

 

Not really a pro, she didn't friend me, didn't find out much about me before the first date. Just a girl with a bit of courage. Let the chips fall as they may.

@Cameroni I feel as if I'm communicating with a child. Attraction is the initial phase. For you it's a mix of visual attraction and your own imagination.

But for a relationship to succeed in the long term you need more than that. If it were EVERYTHING, then you wouldn't need to check your girl's phone and she would not be almost completely detached from you when you lived together.

All of your relationships are missing something, aren't they? Plus, they ALL put their hands out, don't they?

Plus, they ALL CHEAT on you, don't they?

I don't allow someone being attracted to me to get to my head. I look further. Whereas you just keep repeating the same actions, hoping for a different outcome. A definition of madness?

@scubascuba3 liely has it right. Just another Internet dating pro... You aren't special. You are just another one on her list. She'll be putting her hand out before long.

 

 

 

 

39 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

He's right, if there's a big age gap it's most likely fake, of course money is an incentive, funny when guys complain about being an ATM..... fool that's why they're with you

 

Money is alway an incentive. Women are with men for resources. Anyone who thinks otherwise is living in fantasyland. Only thing it's NOT JUST about resources. Just as it isn't just about looks with us. It's a multilayered tapestry. Many other factors come into play. If you have the face or the body, or both, you're already head and shoulders above most 25 year old guys anyway.

2 minutes ago, JakeC said:

Just another Internet dating pro... You aren't special. You are just another one on her list. She'll be putting her hand out before long.

 

They are called "Stealth Hookers" for short.