Been thinking about the different types of foreigners who end up living in Thailand long-term. You see the same recognisable patterns over and over: the retiree stretching a pension, the guy who came for a holiday and never left, the English teacher buying time, the businessman in his Bangkok bubble, the digital nomad in a café.

Most labels like this feel like they were written about someone else. The retired guy who's genuinely happy and integrated into his community doesn't see himself as the same category as the guy nursing a beer and moaning about traffic. The person who came here after a burnout and built a decent life doesn't fit neatly alongside the one who's running from something.

Which brings me to the question: how do you actually describe why you're here and what kind of expat you've become? Not the version you'd tell a stranger on a plane, the honest version.

Are you mostly integrated or mostly in a farang bubble? Did you come here with a plan or did you just drift in and stay? Has your reason for being here changed over the years?

I'll go first: came for work, stayed because the quality of life was better than what I was going back to, then of course I met a Thai woman and that pretty much sealed my fate...lol

No grand plan. Not sure which box that puts me in.

9 minutes ago, The Cobra said:

Not sure which box that puts me in.

I came here my 30's, to work offshore Songkhla for Chevron.

I was fed up with travelling back to Australia on my time off, decided shack up with a beautiful young Thai chick, buy a house and call Thailand home.

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https://aseannow.com/topic/1329073-so-why-do-you-live-in-thailand/

https://aseannow.com/topic/1200925-why-did-you-come-to-thailand-in-the-first-place/page/5/

I taught at a university in Japan for 15 years. In those days, we had 5 months of paid vacation (before the Bubble burst...) and I used to spend two or three months here in Thailand, mostly scuba diving on the islands.
When I retired from the Uni, I moved here and started a business. Ran that for 10 years in Chiang Mai before deciding I wanted to just relax and play, which is what we've been doing for the past 12 years, traveling around the North, taking some dive trips to other countries, and generally just aging peacefully.
I like Thai living. 🙂