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Single retired men

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35 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

The problem is not Pattaya, it's alcoholism. If they didn't come to Pattaya to end their lives, they would do it back at home. This happens in every city in the world - alcoholics are drinking themselves to death. Plenty of Thai people do the same back in their own cities/towns/villages and Pattaya. If people want to end their lives, it's their choice.

Edit for the benefit of our resident clown RR, who was confused:

"Plenty of Thai people drink themselves to death back in their own cities/towns/villages and in Pattaya".

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    Start off with an hours walk at 5 am, then go to Makro. Home cook breakfast. Clean the house then go to the gym for an hour. Go to market,then home and cook lunch. Have a shower and maybe a nap. Do th

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    I'm single, drinking once a week is enough and good discipline. Find hobbies, lots to choose from, I wouldn't include bar hopping as hobbies. The guys who drink daily it's just a slow drawn out death

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5 hours ago, blaze master said:

Interesting. Very interesting indeed.

Oh don't be a gossip !!!!

I bet you were the work gossip !

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13 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

Enjoy pretending to being Ian Thorpe aged 67.

I missed this stupid comment.

At 67, exercise is very important. You can't stop age decline, but you can slow it down. You do what you can at any pace you can. Thorpe can swim at least 5x faster than I, but I'm not concerned about how fast I swim. It doesn't matter. It's not a competition at all. The point is elevating the heart rate for a specific period, and giving the joints and muscles some non-impact exercise, a break from the stress of weight resistance exercise. I use it for cardio/recovery after gym work and terrestrial-based exercise.

Something must have bothered you about a 67-year-old doing so much exercise while you sit on your big fat ass posting cr*p here. You'd be amazed at what a 67-year-old can look like if he dedicates himself to personal health.

6 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

I missed this stupid comment.

At 67, exercise is very important. You can't stop age decline, but you can slow it down. You do what you can at any pace you can. Thorpe can swim at least 5x faster than I, but I'm not concerned about how fast I swim. It doesn't matter. It's not a competition at all. The point is elevating the heart rate for a specific period, and giving the joints and muscles some non-impact exercise, a break from the stress of weight resistance exercise. I use it for cardio/recovery after gym work and terrestrial-based exercise.

Something must have bothered you about a 67-year-old doing so much exercise while you sit on your big fat ass posting cr*p here. You'd be amazed at what a 67-year-old can look like if he dedicates himself to personal health.

And a few two years older also.

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Ah so technically he should refer to her as the ex wife, i wonder who she lives with

they still married.

4 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

And a few two years older also.

I hope so... I'll see when I get there - one day at a time...

10 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

they still married.

I don't know or care but GG said divorced further up

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On 6/6/2026 at 8:53 AM, save the frogs said:

On the plus side, there are so many foreign retirees in Pattaya that there is no shortage of people to keep you company.

I've lived in Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket. Bangkok is actualy the most lonely if you're single because it is very hard to find genuine friends - the expats tend to be very wannabe and always try to one-up you and show they're better than others. In Phuket it's easy to find friends but they tend to be broken all around: broke, crazy, and/or addicts and generally not people you can count on. Pattaya of all places is very easy to make friends and some of them are quite normal too. I am in my 40's so my friends are usually in their 40's or 50's - might be retired but not that old. Besides- if you have the cash you'll never be completely lonely in Pattaya, lol.

2 minutes ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

Pattaya of all places is very easy to make friends and some of them are quite normal too

Oh yeah.

So very normal!

Normal as in conforming to a standard, regular pattern, or an expected average

Pattaya, Thailand has many people who are exactly what you would expect to see on average in Pattaya

Just like Squirrel Hill, Pittsburgh has many people who are exactly what you would expect to see in an area where 40% of people are educated with advanced degrees

Exactly 💯 😄

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1 minute ago, Ralf001 said:

they still married.

If your talking or should I say "gossiping " about "still kicking" then yes apparently they are still married

Now can we stop the gossip please , I had a work colleague last night gossiping, who blatantly accused me of starting the conversation after I told him to stop gossiping!

6 hours ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

I've lived in Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket. Bangkok is actualy the most lonely if you're single because it is very hard to find genuine friends - the expats tend to be very wannabe and always try to one-up you and show they're better than others. In Phuket it's easy to find friends but they tend to be broken all around: broke, crazy, and/or addicts and generally not people you can count on. Pattaya of all places is very easy to make friends and some of them are quite normal too. I am in my 40's so my friends are usually in their 40's or 50's - might be retired but not that old. Besides- if you have the cash you'll never be completely lonely in Pattaya, lol.

wow , your lucky to be able to be retired in your 40's

Here I am slaving away for $5 an hour

6 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

If your talking or should I say "gossiping " about "still kicking" then yes apparently they are still married

Now can we stop the gossip please , I had a work colleague last night gossiping, who blatantly accused me of starting the conversation after I told him to stop gossiping!

wow , your lucky to be able to be retired in your 40's

Here I am slaving away for $5 an hour

You demand we do not gossip and yet you post bare faced lies!!

On 6/6/2026 at 12:19 PM, georgegeorgia said:

If your a single retired man maybe 60 plus , retired living in Pattaya .

What exactly do you do all day ?

I'm not talking about the *lonely" who need to hook up and live with a Thai partner !!

Please spare me

I'm talking about the 65yo man who has retired from the UK Australia America or wherever and living full time by himself in Pattaya

Are you not bored ?

And please if you could do you personally see this scenario with your own eyes ?

Farangs who gave retired to Pattaya only to go in a downward spiral ?

I'm interested if you do ,and please tell me ,are these retired farangs who are in that "downward spiral" , do they live in low class Condon such as Flybird or Nirun ??

In your case, you no doubt spend hours fondling your ladyboys genitals

On 6/6/2026 at 12:19 PM, georgegeorgia said:

If your a single retired man maybe 60 plus , retired living in Pattaya .

What exactly do you do all day ?

Now I'm not an expert on this subject matter, but from what I've seen, meeting your mates for a beer at breakfast time and stretching it out over the whole day seems to be perfectly acceptable in Pattaya.

8 minutes ago, Caldera said:

Now I'm not an expert on this subject matter, but from what I've seen, meeting your mates for a beer at breakfast time and stretching it out over the whole day seems to be perfectly acceptable in Pattaya.

The famous Breakfest Club

What are people really doing on daily basis in Thailand if you do not have any work to do? They build, they buy things online, garden, flowers, exercise, eat, and yes alot of the day is about food, and the next meal, animals, AN?

Hobbies?

And if you building somethings, thats a full day job, even you do not do the physical work yourself.

On 6/6/2026 at 12:19 PM, georgegeorgia said:

If your a single retired man maybe 60 plus , retired living in Pattaya .

What exactly do you do all day ?

I'm not talking about the *lonely" who need to hook up and live with a Thai partner !!

Please spare me

I'm talking about the 65yo man who has retired from the UK Australia America or wherever and living full time by himself in Pattaya

Are you not bored ?

And please if you could do you personally see this scenario with your own eyes ?

Farangs who gave retired to Pattaya only to go in a downward spiral ?

I'm interested if you do ,and please tell me ,are these retired farangs who are in that "downward spiral" , do they live in low class Condon such as Flybird or Nirun ??

Maybe do your research in a gay bar?

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living in Niran maybe a step up from the caravan dwellers prior to retirement to Pattaya.

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7 minutes ago, Hummin said:

The famous Breakfest Club

What are people really doing on daily basis in Thailand if you do not have any work to do? They build, they buy things online, garden, flowers, exercise, eat, and yes alot of the day is about food, and the next meal, animals, AN?

Hobbies?

And if you building somethings, thats a full day job, even you do not do the physical work yourself.

Thailand is definitely about eating. Woke up today at 04:30, started breakfast for my daughter and I. Scrambled eggs, 12 grain toast with Dalfours Four Fruits jelly, Oatmeal with soymilk and banana and coffee. Watched the rest of Revenant on TV, then walked my daughter to her school.

Picked up a kitten from grandmas house, which will have a 100% better chance of staying alive at our house. Heated up leftover Chicken, Potato, Carrot, Cabbage , Celery and Onion soup, watched Ted on TV. Looked at AN now while watching. Give the dogs what's left of the soup.

15:30 pick up daughter at school, walk home, start dinner. Pad Krapow Gai, then watch another movie.

Weekday's much the same, besides walking, mowing the lawn when it's not raining, weed the yard, exercise, watch TV, talk to kids in America, then weekend at my girlfriends. Eating, eating, eating.

Some play a lot of golf. Some explore and go walking.

Of course, many get into unhealthy routine.

Most retirees I know would be even more bored if they'd stayed in their own country, where their family is usually grown up and has often moved away.

3 minutes ago, crazyg said:

Some play a lot of golf.

I'd say golf is the best way to ruin a good walk but most are just riding around in golf carts 🛒

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Once you are happy with your own company, all the negatives that you have asked become irrelevant.
The trick is to be happy with your own company... that can take a lot of work but once you've achieved it, it's Nirvana

I lived in Nirun Condo when I first moved to Thailand while looking for my forever home.

I ended up staying for two years, and I still go back to visit friends I made there.

I know it does not look like much, but it has a lot going for it.

You never feel alone there like you do in a multi room highrise.

A good mix of Farang and Thai.

I now live in a luxury 86 sq condo and I do not know my neighbours.

I should have stayed at Nirun and saved myself 5 million baht.

Nothing wrong with Nirun...

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Easy answer:

Wake up at 0530, drink glass of water with sea salt and a lemon, stretch, go to balcony to get that sweet Vitamin D, meditate. About an hour later, drink black coffee with cinnamon and cacao chips, and go for a nice 50 min walk at Big Buddha hill. Three times a week, after said walk, go to gym. Around 12 noon, eat a nice healthy breakfast: Sardines, or Eggs (whites and Yolk every other day) with olive oil. Take a nice shower. Go to sauna 3x a week. Then do some minor doom scrolling for investments and local news back home. One hour of Youtube. Since I am from the generation that read, I have many books to read and have a plan to read x number of pages per day to keep my brain active. I then solve some differential equations 1 or 2 x a week, or calculus. I go out 2 x a week to see the two week millionaires get rinsed. Massage is dependent on how I feel and the "Happy Ending" rate. I love movies, so find time to watch a movie and some good shows on streaming. Talk to my family every other day.

I am 65, look 50 and my only worry is living older than my retirement money will allow....55555.

I avoid drama, idiots in this country and <removed> folks.

Life is short, live it!

It seems you are extremely bored.🙃

15 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

wow , your lucky to be able to be retired in your 40's

Here I am slaving away for $5 an hour

I'd say with your experience, also shift work you'd be up around $35 an hour.

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1 hour ago, ujay said:

It seems you are extremely bored.🙃

Hi Sparky!

On 6/6/2026 at 3:09 PM, newnative said:

It's not the place, it's the person. Unless you're living in a really big city, the things you have available to do in Pattaya will mirror most places of the same size anywhere else, and Pattaya will likely have more on offer than some of them, with certainly a much better choice of housing types and prices, both for rentals and sales, than many other places.

It's entirely up to the person whether they take advantage of what's on offer or sit in their room and do nothing. If a single person can't find anything to do in Pattaya, that will also likely be the case if they are living somewhere else of similar size.

I lived for over 30 years, mostly as a single person, in a small, expensive city in the US which had many of the same amenities as Pattaya, but without the housing selection Pattaya has, the beach, or the year-round nice weather. I found plenty to keep myself busy and I was never bored; and, I'm never bored here. It's not the place, it's the person.

''I lived for over 30 years, mostly as a single person, in a small, expensive city in the US which had many of the same amenities as Pattaya, but without the housing selection Pattaya has, the beach, or the year-round nice weather''...... OR THE LADIES

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5 hours ago, rogerpattaya said:

I lived in Nirun Condo when I first moved to Thailand while looking for my forever home.

I ended up staying for two years, and I still go back to visit friends I made there.

I know it does not look like much, but it has a lot going for it.

You never feel alone there like you do in a multi room highrise.

A good mix of Farang and Thai.

I now live in a luxury 86 sq condo and I do not know my neighbours.

I should have stayed at Nirun and saved myself 5 million baht.

Nothing wrong with Nirun...

Yes, those *low class" Condo areas do have a "community feel " don't they

I did have farangs sitting outside that mini mart saying hello to me as I walked past

On 6/6/2026 at 8:15 AM, SiSePuede419 said:

Everyone love 7, even Cheap Charlies

Great ice coffee. Too bad you Europeans have never tasted it, never will

What's up with that..?!?

Too afraid to look like bloody Americans by buying ice coffee?

Or is it you already so chill you need to warm up with hot coffee like a good little paisano with their teeny tiny cups of espresso 🙏

What a way to start the day ...

... 7-11 toasted sandwich with Americano and milk. Brilliant breakfast!

On 6/6/2026 at 4:15 PM, georgegeorgia said:

And of course , yes some good points

Many of these single matured aged farang have come to live in Pattaya and most ( statistics please) most possiblity have been divorced in their own country previously.

And possibly now have grown up children back wherever they come from

So we have men in their 60's renting rooms above shophouses

What about that old black duck.. lonilessness??

Old black duck? You are really confused.

Face facts , you will retire in Sydney. Too scared to open your front door let alone retire anywhere else.

On 6/6/2026 at 7:30 PM, JensenZ said:

This is the problem with you and most other people who don't know Pattaya. I live 5km from the centre, and I never see bars or bargirls, or massage shops. I live in a normal urban area where the Thai working class lives. What's even better, I seldom see foreigners at all and never tourists. It would be the same lifestyle as in any other Thai city.

Sure, if you can't find a good partner, you could be lonely, but you'll probably be more lonely in your hometown/city without a partner, so what's the difference? In Pattaya, with due diligence, you can find good partners, something that is virtually impossible for foreigners in their home countries unless they choose a woman of about the same age. I'm 67, so I couldn't do that. I'd rather languish in Pattaya with my 35-year-old partner who treats me well.

You never see bars or bar girls but are shacked up with a girl 32 years younger than you. Right.

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