MagnumForce Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Hi folks, I was chatting with a lady in Hua Hin yesterday. She's originally from the back end of Udon. She wasn't a stunner by any means but she was attractive and she was about 34. She was very pleasant and easy to chat with and we got on very well. She was brutally honest with what she expects from her work. She told me her "Angel" (some sort of shamen or local witch doctor) told her that this year she would be very lucky and meet a rich man to "take care" of her (and her family). I asked what she meant by "take care". I nearly fell off my chair with her answers. She wants a salary to live with somebody as their girlfriend of 30,000ThB per month. She wants the lucky guy to fork out 3-4 million baht for a house for her. She also wants a dowry payable to the mother of 1 million in the event that the guy wishes to marry her. She might even want a house built for mom and dad. After that, comes the car etc. I was very surprised as didn't appear to be your usual hard case bar girl. She came across as the girl next door type. How realistic are these expectations? Is there actually somebody who would willingly pay these amounts for a girlfriend/wife? I know Hua Hin has a lot of wealthy guys but is this a bridge too far for her or not? Looking forward to your comments as I was quite taken aback by this. Are you? MF Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jacky54 Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 (edited) She's deluded, but many of them are. I mil sin sot for a <snip> of 34, hilarious, but sad really. You should have asked her what she is offering in return! Edited January 6, 2015 by Jai Dee derogatory term deleted 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post arthurwait Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 Hua Hin has a lot of people that would like you to think they are wealthy. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post samsensam Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 you'd be surprised how stupid some guys are when it comes to thi women and bar girls... her expectations are not impossible if she meets the right mug and plays her cards right 19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Mossfinn Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 About a 5 I reckon, but I guess the noobs will jump in with some great advice 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post AnotherOneAmerican Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 (edited) Three Thai ladies I know, both married foreigners. One was a bar girl in Phuket, guy bought two houses for her (age 42 now, still looks good, he's about 67). One was a divorced housewife, guy gave her 10Mbht and all his pension every month, (age 45 now and plain, he's about 70). One seems respectable, but cheats, guy bought her 3 houses, and a business worth about 10Mbht (age 40, still looks good, he's 66 and not well at all) All been with their women 5-10 years. Plenty of elderly foreigners throwing their life savings and pensions at younger Thai women. Edited January 6, 2015 by AnotherOneAmerican 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post inzman Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 This is a sad commentary on the state of old men. 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post daveAustin Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 ^^ Exactly, as long as she's not picky (), she'll snag some daft old dude, for sure. Just out of curiously, op, did she tell you what she was bringing to the table barring a well worn flange? 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jacky54 Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 (edited) we need a photo really of the expectant lottery winner. Come to think of it somebody the mrs knew at our old condo grabbed an idiot from the Uk on the internet and within two months and one visit handed over 10 mil baht, She was not good looking and earned a decent wage at a famous hospital. Horrible woman, had a German boyfriend living with her before and never stopped slagging him off as stingy to anyone that would listen, even to the security men, he paid for everything though. Some of these greedy cows make me sick and of course when their stories go around it tends to make expectations higher all round and to make other wife's feel short changed and envious. Edited January 6, 2015 by jacky54 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MagnumForce Posted January 6, 2015 Author Share Posted January 6, 2015 She's not looking for an old dude per se. She said between 40 and 55, maybe up to 60. That pretty much excludes most pensioners so she is focusing her attention on people who already have a lot of cash, are not too old and who will spend it gladly on her. Does that increase or decrease her chances, I wonder? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post h90 Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 Is there somewhere a position for "Barmen" who find meet rich woman that takes care? If yes please let me know where I can apply for the job. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jacky54 Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 She's not looking for an old dude per se. She said between 40 and 55, maybe up to 60. That pretty much excludes most pensioners so she is focusing her attention on people who already have a lot of cash, are not too old and who will spend it gladly on her. Does that increase or decrease her chances, I wonder? I wonder how many hundreds of men have been through her? lets face it he would have to be mental to take up with a greedy whore like this, er did she have nice tits, that's always worth a bit! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MagnumForce Posted January 6, 2015 Author Share Posted January 6, 2015 ^^ Exactly, as long as she's not picky (), she'll snag some daft old dude, for sure. Just out of curiously, op, did she tell you what she was bringing to the table barring a well worn flange? I got the impression that this would be a very one-sided affair but she can cook... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NancyL Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Sure, I know many guys who have paid this -- some to several Thai wives. Even after two or even three divorces in Thaialand they say it's still cheaper than their divorce from wife no. 1 in their home country. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacky54 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 ^^ Exactly, as long as she's not picky (), she'll snag some daft old dude, for sure. Just out of curiously, op, did she tell you what she was bringing to the table barring a well worn flange? I got the impression that this would be a very one-sided affair but she can cook... Mmm that's one up on my mrs then, she never cook me anything 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Crazy chef 1 Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 good luck to her...she will need it.. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Berkshire Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 Funny, but I was just reading another thread where a guy refused to pay for his GF's airfare to Europe. And here, we're talking millions in "take care" fees. Seriously, OP, the girl was just giving you her dream list. She's passed the "falling in love" phase and is being practical. And if she can get it, good on her. Is it possible? Of course. People still fall for the Nigerian scam, why not this. And when you think about it, if these older guys want to spend their remaining years and their last dollars on a younger woman, why not? Once he's gone, he can't take the money with him. Better than his relatives back home inheriting the money. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazygreg44 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 It is absolutely doable, all of us know at least a handful of guys who have handed over this amount of cash to their younger Thai girlfriends, even got married to them. I know of a swiss guy who never ever has been in her village, and pays the 39 year old woman 35,000 THB per month. All she has to do is a few weeks of escort service for him in Bangers during his work visits. I bet if the OP's bargirl's expectations are being met somewhere about in the half of that, it will stil be a lottery win. Don't forget they start to bargain at double the price tag they expect in the end. Many would be willing to build a house for her and themselves, even buy a car both can use, however paying dowry for a Thai woman who in most cases already has children and has worked through a few men, the answer will be a strict No ! At a marriage ceremony I would lend the money only for the show, to be given back to me after the guests have gone home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisinth Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Seems like her cup is half full and not half empty. Her sights are set. Good luck to her. I know many who set their sights low and consistently fail to make the grade.................... Being able to cook is also a bonus for her IMHO, especially if she can do chip butties................ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bender92 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Yes, every guy has a girl who is 'different'. Your's is a girl next door. Dream on. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sipi Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 If her "Moredo" told her she was going to... "be very lucky and meet a rich man to "take care" of her (and her family)." ....and "wants a salary to live with somebody as their girlfriend of 30,000ThB per month. She wants the lucky guy to fork out 3-4 million baht for a house for her. She also wants a dowry payable to the mother of 1 million in the event that the guy wishes to marry her. She might even want a house built for mom and dad. After that, comes the car etc." ....then tell her he/she was correct, share her happiness and agree with her. But tell her that person isn't you. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 you'd be surprised how stupid some guys are when it comes to thi women and bar girls... her expectations are not impossible if she meets the right mug and plays her cards right At 34 she's fast approaching her use-by date as a bar girl, what she wants aand what she gets may be totally different. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bridge2bridge Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 ASKING and GETTING are two different things. BUT she will probably find a SUCKER one day. There are plenty of them out there. P/S And she didn't even say-- LOVE YOU HANDSOME MAN. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post korkenzieher Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 Some of you seem incredulous. I live in Hua Hin, and I can tell you that plenty have done as well as she expects and better. Of course plenty have left town empty handed - but she wouldn't be the first to get that - and more. Not by a longshot. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elgordo38 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I first met one like that from Lampang after I came to Chiang Mai. She was a 40 yrs old a teacher and the mother of 3 teenage girls. She used to bike over and spend the weekend. Best header I ever had. She needed 20,000 bahts a month to educate her daughters. I told her to keep looking but her chances were not good. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phaser Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Well, mine was not a bar girl but rather a receptionist 22 years ago. Married 21 years (very happy for the first 6 then downhill slide to a sexless marriage), 2 kids (one born in Calif the other in KL)...Thai divorce a year ago...she got the two houses, two cars, and a big chuck of $. Yes, the divorce was cheaper than if I had done it in Calif. Fortunately, we have lived in Thailand for 13 years as of the date of the divorce. Bottom line - does not have to be a bar girl - if the economics circumstances and law are on their side of a guy working and the girl a housewife...the guy gets screwed (just like in Calif or the UK or elsewhere) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post maxman71 Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 OP must have met up with the same lady I met in BKK some years ago, who insisted she was not a prostitute, but she then proceeded to demand a "contract" with me as follows: I pay the all the rent for her apartment and the rent for the beauty shop she ran downstairs, plus all the utilities. Buy her a condo to the tune of THB 1 million. While she continued on with various other financial terms of this contract, I consulted with my "attorney", Mr. Jonathan "Jack" Daniels, and left while the lass was in the middle of a sentence and stopped all further negotiations and discussions with the young lass...If the OP would like a referral to my attorney, he is welcome to it. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chicowoodduck Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I think Jesus sums it up pretty well...... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post nontabury Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 you'd be surprised how stupid some guys are when it comes to thi women and bar girls... her expectations are not impossible if she meets the right mug and plays her cards rightAt 34 she's fast approaching her use-by date as a bar girl, what she wants aand what she gets may be totally different. The last time I visited the bars in HueHin, the girls all seemed to be older than 40. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post AnotherOneAmerican Posted January 6, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 6, 2015 Well, mine was not a bar girl but rather a receptionist 22 years ago. Married 21 years (very happy for the first 6 then downhill slide to a sexless marriage), 2 kids (one born in Calif the other in KL)...Thai divorce a year ago...she got the two houses, two cars, and a big chuck of $. Yes, the divorce was cheaper than if I had done it in Calif. Fortunately, we have lived in Thailand for 13 years as of the date of the divorce. Bottom line - does not have to be a bar girl - if the economics circumstances and law are on their side of a guy working and the girl a housewife...the guy gets screwed (just like in Calif or the UK or elsewhere) I doubt a Thai judge made such an award. Sounds like you gave it to her. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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