forseo Posted November 26, 2016 Share Posted November 26, 2016 Hello. I live together with my Thai girlfriend about 3 years, she doesn't work, just sit at home, I working alone. All 3 years she not so cared about cleaning apartment, but I very asked everytime to keep apartment clean. She cleared apartment, but anyway was mostly dirty. I'm not crazy about cleanness, but I do not like when room like a big rubbish bin, with dirt everywhere. One week ago I joked how about to pay some room cleaning service. She asked to pay to she for room cleaning, 4000 baht every month. I agreed, just for interesting what will happen. And mirracle, she started to clear rooms)) So I paid first time today. I hoped that she just joked too, but no...) So now I do not really know what to do. What do u think about that?? --- sorry fo my english Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted November 26, 2016 Share Posted November 26, 2016 Subscribing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted November 26, 2016 Share Posted November 26, 2016 I think it is just a matter of whether or not you will to keep to your words... nothing really wrong with her having some spending money... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaintLouisBlues Posted November 26, 2016 Share Posted November 26, 2016 She must be bloody good in bed for you to put up with her for that length of time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonray Posted November 26, 2016 Share Posted November 26, 2016 Why do men get involved with ladies with no job and even less ambition in life ? yes...I guess she is pretty and all that but really just sits around for the past 3 years ? You guys need a reality check. A relationship works better if both parties are independent. if one or the other leaves the bills can still be paid. She has no option except to have you pay the bills, sad for her and even sadder for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steve187 Posted November 26, 2016 Share Posted November 26, 2016 get a last clean, and then show her the other side of the front door Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
electric Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 (edited) forseo ... sorry guy, but she sounds like a very lazy girl with no real pride in her house. "Slob" is a good word. Stop paying her immediately. Put an advert on the apartment building Notice Board, or tell everyone in the building. "Cleaner wanted 2hrs twice weekly. Apartment 123. Wage 300 baht per week." I'm sure you will have plenty of ladies knocking on your door for the job. Cleaning an apartment is not a big chore for many Thai women. Some lucky girl will be grateful to earn 300 baht each week as a little casual job, and I bet she'll do a great job of it. And .... it's a big saving on the 4000 baht you're giving your girlfriend. I'm curious, how has your girlfriend survived 3 years with no job and no personal spending money before you started giving her 4000 baht ? Edited November 27, 2016 by electric Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimmyyy Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 Yeah, i am not understanding the not cleaning thing. I don't know of a Thai girl that does not clean the house if they they don't work. We have three kids, my wife looks the kids cleans the house, makes a garden and is as happy as she can be. Something is wrong with this woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheryl Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 Moved to general forum. The Ladies Forum is for women in Thailand, not a place for men to talk about them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nasa123 Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 1 big kick in the ass and out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitkof Island Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 And where exactly did you find your lovely girlfriend ? I think that might explain your problems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JHolmesJr Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 i doubt she's asking money to clean the room per se…..she needs money to get on with daily personal expenses…id be uncomfortable having a gf and paying her to be a maid….why not encourage her to find a job…even if its a 7-11 cashier job? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petermik Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 Per her pro-rata as to her performance skills Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lemonjelly Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 Joined 5 hours ago and scans like English written by a Thai. It's a Sunday troll.Sent from my twisted mind using Thaivisa Connect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitkof Island Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 1 hour ago, jimmyyy said: Yeah, i am not understanding the not cleaning thing. I don't know of a Thai girl that does not clean the house if they they don't work. We have three kids, my wife looks the kids cleans the house, makes a garden and is as happy as she can be. Something is wrong with this woman. I do my two useless step daughters. one reason i moved 500 miles to get a safe distance from them. I am sure when i visit next the house will once again look like a bomb went off. They win the award for the laziest Thais in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaintLouisBlues Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 2 minutes ago, Mitkof Island said: They win the award for the laziest Thais in Thailand. Against fierce competition Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitkof Island Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 (edited) 4 minutes ago, SaintLouisBlues said: Against fierce competition NO ! mine are lazier than yours. ! But really where did the OP meet his lovely lazy girlfriend ? Let me guess. Edited November 27, 2016 by Mitkof Island Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheechee Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 10 hours ago, tonray said: Why do men get involved with ladies with no job and even less ambition in life ? yes...I guess she is pretty and all that but really just sits around for the past 3 years ? You guys need a reality check. A relationship works better if both parties are independent. if one or the other leaves the bills can still be paid. She has no option except to have you pay the bills, sad for her and even sadder for you. i doubt she is pretty.......................... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsensam Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 OP: must be a slow sunday in your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acid thunder Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 I'd be more concerned with what she does with all this free time on her hands. The Devil makes work for idle hands. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitkof Island Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 29 minutes ago, acid thunder said: I'd be more concerned with what she does with all this free time on her hands. The Devil makes work for idle hands. Yea still wondering where he met Miss Lazy . At what bar or massage shop ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crossy Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 I must be lucky, or living in a parallel universe. Over the years I've had several Asian girlfriends, Korean (3), Malaysian-Chinese (1), Thai (2, one of which is now my wife). All have been obsessed with cleaning. Even a one-night stand I had (Malay lady in KL) was up and cleaning before I surfaced on the Sunday after the Saturday night, evidently trying to impress even after being bounced around the bedroom any and every way possible (plus some) I'm happy now to pay for a lady to help my wife, after 12 years of wedded bliss she deserves it despite the fact that they spend most of the two days a week I pay for gassing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiang mai Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 If she stays with you full time and doesn't work, you need to support her, giving her a few thousand for being a housewife doesn't sound that far removed from what husbands in the West used to do in the mid 1900's and well beyond. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kannot Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 46 minutes ago, Crossy said: I must be lucky, or living in a parallel universe. Over the years I've had several Asian girlfriends, Korean (3), Malaysian-Chinese (1), Thai (2, one of which is now my wife). All have been obsessed with cleaning. Even a one-night stand I had (Malay lady in KL) was up and cleaning before I surfaced on the Sunday after the Saturday night, evidently trying to impress even after being bounced around the bedroom any and every way possible (plus some) I'm happy now to pay for a lady to help my wife, after 12 years of wedded bliss she deserves it despite the fact that they spend most of the two days a week I pay for gassing. bloody hell Crossy ......were you doing a "world tour" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crossy Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 5 minutes ago, kannot said: bloody hell Crossy ......were you doing a "world tour" No, only an "Asian Tour" :) And I loved every one of them, one Korean lady turned my proposal down, twice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petermik Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 7 hours ago, Crossy said: No, only an "Asian Tour" :) And I loved every one of them, one Korean lady turned my proposal down, twice Methinks too many "short circuit,s" for her to handle Crossy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kannot Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 2 hours ago, Crossy said: No, only an "Asian Tour" :) And I loved every one of them, one Korean lady turned my proposal down, twice The crazy fool!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TallGuyJohninBKK Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 3 hours ago, chiang mai said: If she stays with you full time and doesn't work, you need to support her, giving her a few thousand for being a housewife doesn't sound that far removed from what husbands in the West used to do in the mid 1900's and well beyond. I think that's the main point. a - normally, you wouldn't expect the man in a relationship to be paying the woman to clean their home, especially if she has no job or other responsibilities. but b - if the guy has decided to live together with this woman as a couple, and she has no income, then it's kind of incumbent on him to do one of two things, either 1. help her get out and find a paying job to help support herself and the guy, or 2. if not that, give her some monthly spending money for her personal needs while she sits at home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnniey Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 14 hours ago, Mitkof Island said: And where exactly did you find your lovely girlfriend ? I think that might explain your problems. How so? Lazy girls come from all backgrounds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balo Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 Why only 1 post from OP. Could it be a TV troll ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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