Why do all bar girls look exactly the same?

[NanLaew]

1 minute ago, FritsSikkink said:

I get out of the house all the time as I work here.

Well, I guess if you are out and about and working and only see tourists with "a beer gut, wear wife beaters, shorts and flip flops" and none of them are Chinese, Russian or Indian, is your work on or near Sukhumvit Soi 4 by any chance?

[NanLaew]

2 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

No you didn't take my point, it was a stupid generalization like you did.

Ahhhh... consider the penny has dropped sir!

[dfdgfdfdgs]

3 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

No you didn't take my point, it was a stupid generalization like you did.

 

But most bar girls do look the same.  Most tourists don't have beer guts and wear a wifebeater.

[NanLaew]

3 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

No you didn't take my point, it was a stupid generalization like you did.

Point taken.

 

With regard to the OP, there must be a 2-for-1 special on broad brushes at HomePro again.

[dfdgfdfdgs]

Anything constructive to add Nanleaw?  What's your theory on why they all look the same?  Sheep mentality?  Or do you disagree?

[NanLaew]

Here's one from the bar girls...

 

"Why do all farang punters look exactly the same?"

[dfdgfdfdgs]

We've covered that already, they look shit because they can't get it without paying for it.  Then you told me off for talking about punters.  Remember?

[NanLaew]

3 minutes ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

Anything constructive to add Nanleaw?  What's your theory on why they all look the same?  Sheep mentality?  Or do you disagree?

Because you are frequenting the same places far too often.

 

Take a break.

[Kadilo]

Bring back Thai Ron......least he was amusing (some of the time )

[dfdgfdfdgs]

I don't go to bars.  Any kind of bars, pubs or clubs.  I don't drink.

[dfdgfdfdgs]

Just now, Kadilo said:

Bring back Thai Ron......least he was amusing (some of the time )

The thread does not exist to amuse you, it's a genuine question about the inner workings of a bar girl's brain.  If you don't have any theory, why bother wasting your time commenting.

[473geo]

Perhaps an effort to quickly cast off the 'New arrival' look

 

[InMyShadow]

30 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

Why do most of the tourist have a beer gut, wear wife beaters, shorts and flip flops?

 

why do most tv posters pretend they are ripped and strut around in high fashion?

[Peterw42]

I think it may be a Union Thing. 

 

I havnt noticed a common Bargirl dress or look, besides revealing/sexy etc. Lots of bars have a uniform, sexy airline hostess, school-girl etc, but lots of bars, for 6-8 girls there will be 6-8 different outfits. They often have theme dress-ups, red santa dress for xmas, sexy witch for Halloween.

 

Again, the girls are not dictating the dress, the customers are, they take home the cute/sexy one they like the look of.

[NanLaew]

10 minutes ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

I don't go to bars.  Any kind of bars, pubs or clubs.  I don't drink.

If you don't, it sort of beggars the question how you come up with this rather unoriginal subject matter on how bar girls look the same, no?

 

Or is it all hypothetical... like allegedly seeing bare bums peeking out from under mini skirts in the broad light of day?

 

Or the really pretty ones only flogging their flanges on the internet?

[NanLaew]

4 minutes ago, Peterw42 said:

I think it may be a Union Thing. 

 

I havnt noticed a common Bargirl dress or look, besides revealing/sexy etc. Lots of bars have a uniform, sexy airline hostess, school-girl etc, but lots of bars, for 6-8 girls there will be 6-8 different outfits. They often have theme dress-ups, red santa dress for xmas, sexy witch for Halloween.

 

Again, the girls are not dictating the dress, the customers are, they take home the cute/sexy one they like the look of.

I am sure the OP who is apparently bereft of any and all inside bar experience is salivating at those descriptive morsels from an 'insider'.

[Kadilo]

23 minutes ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

The thread does not exist to amuse you, it's a genuine question about the inner workings of a bar girl's brain.  If you don't have any theory, why bother wasting your time commenting.

If you don't drink, go in bars, (but know everything about how they look etc ) why would you care about the inner workings of a bar girl's brain. It's a genuine question. If you don't frequent these places why the interest? 

[dfdgfdfdgs]

6 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

If you don't, it sort of beggars the question how you come up with this rather unoriginal subject matter on how bar girls look the same, no?

 

Are you suggesting the only way to know what bar girls look like is to go to bars?  That's a pretty dim comment.

 

One of the busiest intersections in Bangkok runs right past Soi Cowboy, you would need to be visually deficient not to notice them and therefore notice a pattern.  You can watch all the girls getting off at Nana BTS and Asoke BTS  early evening but surprisingly all the ones dressed like that never get off at any of the other BTS stations at the same time.

 

Lots of news reports, photos, anecdotes etc of bar girls working and not working on the internet, TV, and pretty much every other communication medium.  I've met plenty of girls who openly say they work or have worked in a bar.  They all look and dress the same.  It isn't a coincidence.

 

And of course, lots of guys dragging their bar girl around.  I know, I know, I'm assuming she's a whore.  But 95% of times she is.

[dfdgfdfdgs]

5 minutes ago, Kadilo said:

If you don't drink, go in bars, (but know everything about how they look etc ) why would you care about the inner workings of a bar girl's brain. It's a genuine question. 

And one I'm happy to answer.  I like to understand everything about the world around me.  It interests me what goes on inside the heads of other people.  Particularly if they think markedly different to how I think.

 

Maybe other people don't think too much so it's hard to understand why somebody would care about something that doesn't concern them, it's easier to label them a troll than consider the question as it's posed.

[starky]

Did you ever consider they look like prostitutes because they are?

[Kadilo]

1 minute ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

And one I'm happy to answer.  I like to understand everything about the world around me.  It interests me what goes on inside the heads of other people.  Particularly if they think markedly different to how I think.

 

Maybe other people don't think too much so it's hard to understand why somebody would care about something that doesn't concern them, it's easier to label them a troll than consider the question as it's posed.

I'll have to take to think about that one. 

[pgrahmm]

They all swim in the same sewer/environment & are soon swept away by new friends/influences/mentors /merchandisers/trends /alcohol & worse.....

In 6 months they're ready to start teaching the newbe's.....

 

Endless cycle - caught up in the "game".....

[starky]

55 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

In your bit of Isaan maybe. In my bit, they come home, double wrap like ninja's and go help on the rice farm.

Best.. Love it. Constantly telling the missus I feel like I'm living in a ninja village

[dfdgfdfdgs]

5 minutes ago, starky said:

Did you ever consider they look like prostitutes because they are?

But what comes first?  Looking like a prostitute or being a prostitute?

[JimmyJ]

"At some point they clearly all think to themselves, I'm going to cake myself in makeup, bleach my hair, get 5 tattoos, maybe a piercing or two and some surgery if I need it.

I'm interested why and when this thought process happens?"

 

I've wondered this about certain American women and many aspects of their appearance.

 

Who was the first woman who decided that it's "glamorous" to put on false eyelashes, which look like black caterpillars and appears to me unnatural and grotesque.

 

Who was the first woman to decide that botoxing her lips was an enhancement?

"I just feel really sexy the more I resemble Daffy Duck".

 

http://www.contactmusic.com/pics/mn/20170108/090117_weinstein_golden_globes_party/the-weinstein-company-and-netflix_5527249.jpg

 

"The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills", a US reality show, is a great example - almost all with blond hair - natural or not, all with boob jobs, botox, false eyelashes, racoon like eye makeup, etc.

They appear often to resemble drag queens, and one of them on the show commented that they hear that a lot.

[starky]

1 minute ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

But what comes first?  Looking like a prostitute or being a prostitute?

Well that's chicken and the egg shit obvi but in the generation of the kardashians and young girls posting their pussys on Instagram for all and sundry and trying to be famous due to a number of likes who can blame a Thai hooker for trying to keep up with the Joneses?

[dfdgfdfdgs]

We have a similar show in the UK called something like 'the only way is essex'.

 

It's not just Thai bar girls that does this, I understand that.  But with Thai bar girls it does seem to be close to 100% of them that wear those ultra-short skirts and have tattoos.

 

Even in these TV programmes where there is some sort of correlation, they don't all have the same distinguishing features.  Some of them look relatively normal.

[Peterw42]

OP, have you ever stopped to think that the conservatively dressed, not much make up, girl on the BTS is a bargirl on her day off, and the sexy girl getting off the train at asoke is a bank worker meeting some friends for a night out.

Normal Thai girls can be pretty sexy on occasion and bar girls pretty conservative in the day and days off.

[theguyfromanotherforum]

What is a Bargirl?

[dfdgfdfdgs]

2 minutes ago, Peterw42 said:

OP, have you ever stopped to think that the conservatively dressed, not much make up, girl on the BTS is a bargirl on her day off, and the sexy girl getting off the train at asoke is a bank worker meeting some friends for a night out.

 

 

I've been out with many girls who looked like whores who weren't whores.  But I've never met or been out with a whore (on her day off) who didn't look like a whore.