At the 7-11 right by my place there is a really cute girl who I have seen a couple of times.

 

Today I talked with her and her English was fairly good and she offered the information that she worked at the leasing office of that building and that she worked 9-6 today.

 

She seems nice and it would be nice to spend time with her.

 

This may be a silly question and I am prepared for some silly remarks but what is a good suggestion/way to ask her out?

 

I guess I could go to the leasing office and seem interested in a room there and then ask if she wants to meet on her day off.

 

Thanks in advance.

You already talked to her, do it again and ask her out. Surprised a alpha male needs this sort of advice.

Just go and ask her,she can only say,yes OK, or NO,your kidding,go out with you !

regards Worgeordie

I remember taking a girl to a simple, but decent restaurant on a first date.  "Are we really gonna eat in this place, she said??????" She obviously expected something more fancy,  never saw her again of course.

Don't spend beyond your means.

 

 

 

 

1 hour ago, AlphaCanadian said:

This may be a silly question and I am prepared for some silly remarks but what is a good suggestion/way to ask her out?

In 7-11,

You: "Hello, do you like beer or wine coolers"

Her: "I like those" (pointing)

You: "Great, we'll take them back to my room"

 

I've always assumed if they talk to me they're already up for a shag.

(1,000bht on the bedside table after)

Depends how old you are to what chance you have. Thai girls generally want someone around their own age, of course money talks sometimes

2 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Depends how old you are to what chance you have. Thai girls generally want someone around their own age, of course money talks sometimes

Rubbish....?

OP, go for it...If she actually spoke to you then I reckon you maybe half way there...Just keep your eyes wide open and not dive into the deep end if you are not a good swimmer....

Rubbish....[emoji849]

Keep it real, too many delusional people around

8 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Depends how old you are to what chance you have. Thai girls generally want someone around their own age, of course money talks sometimes

 

5 minutes ago, transam said:

Rubbish....

No it's not.

2 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

10 minutes ago, transam said:

Rubbish....

Keep it real, too many delusional people around

My Thai lady friend Thai husband was thirty years older than her, my Thai step daughter is twenty eight, good looking, single and has a Thai bloke who is forty seven chasing her and she is thinking about it..This is LOS, not farangland...

7 minutes ago, Vacuum said:

 

No it's not.

Oh yes it is...?

what is the age difference?    do you speak thai ?    are you decent looking ?    what is it you are

really looking for (with her) ?   

answer these questions and then i can give you some suggestions...

and of course:  is she willing to go out even though she has a bf ?

cute ones have one ,,,if not more

just go ahead and take your chances

Just simple,  hey you are looking cute, you fancy going out with me ? No you have , yes you can get.

Once i was walking behind a nice Thai and i just mumbled in myself she was really looking nice in English.

SHe turned around and i had a date !!?? Thailand baffles me, really everything seems to be possible over there, good and bad.

More and more I am convinced that "social media" is causing people to lose the ability to "think for themselves".

  I come across daily, questions on how to do common everyday stuff ....stuff that most people used to figure out themselves.....

  I remember someone commenting in a discussion one time on how some people seemed to have the gift of "mental telepathy". He reckoned that we all had this ability in the distant past (like the ability to "sense" when a loved one was in danger no matter where they were..stuff like that) but since modern ways of communicating with each other devoleped more and more...we ceased using this function/ability and eventually lost it. Things like mail delivery, phones, telegraphs and of course ...now the computer.

   It leads me to ask....where will mankind be in another 50 or 100 years concerning our ability to "think for ourselves" if we continue making the progress we are making in development at this lightening pace.

  Will we be asking ..."How does one use a bum gun"?....Ohh!, sorry,.. we have reached that point already (I remember someone asking it on here last year).

A Thai girl spoke to you about something other than asking if you want your hotdogs warmed up in front of her other Thai friends (both male and female) that work in the store?

 

you are as good as married. 

double post

12 minutes ago, dotpoom said:

More and more I am convinced that "social media" is causing people to lose the ability to "think for themselves".

  I come across daily, questions on how to do common everyday stuff ....stuff that most people used to figure out themselves.....

  I remember someone commenting in a discussion one time on how some people seemed to have the gift of "mental telepathy". He reckoned that we all had this ability in the distant past (like the ability to "sense" when a loved one was in danger no matter where they were..stuff like that) but since modern ways of communicating with each other devoleped more and more...we ceased using this function/ability and eventually lost it. Things like mail delivery, phones, telegraphs and of course ...now the computer.

   It leads me to ask....where will mankind be in another 50 or 100 years concerning our ability to "think for ourselves" if we continue making the progress we are making in development at this lightening pace.

  Will we be asking ..."How does one use a bum gun"?....Ohh!, sorry,.. we have reached that point already (I remember someone asking it on here last year).

Thats true. Here sometimes i see guys doing the shopping and if they cant find what gf or wife put on list, they start calling in panic about what she means or what she wants??!! Cant think themselves. Or when waiting for open bridge, instantly start calling and telling "im waiting for the bridge". But ok thats all another story, at one point we ill have chips implanted with a screen in front of us. Or we will be borg, all assimilated, one collective mind

My Thai lady friend Thai husband was thirty years older than her, my Thai step daughter is twenty eight, good looking, single and has a Thai bloke who is forty seven chasing her and she is thinking about it..This is LOS, not farangland...

Money and possible security is the reason, it brings them around

One good way to break the ice is to ask her for help with something.  Like translating a document, helping you with your Thai or showing you where a certain place is.  This usually makes her feel more confident and comfortable with you.  

 

My best advice for approaching women is to compliment them on something specific, best if it's something she put effort or thought into.  Telling her she's cute or pretty is something she probably hears everyday (if she really is) and something she was just born with.  I used to always compliment their nails, hair or shoes.  If she'd done her nails up nice, compliment that.  They never hear that from a man.  I also used to compliment a girls shoes, and then I'd say "My ex girlfriend used to take me shoe shopping with her, it's amazing all of the different kinds of shoes there are."  It's complete B.S. but more often than not they'd fall right into my arms.  

 

Confidence is genetically attractive for women.  Whatever you do, don't act weak.  

 

Good Luck!

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

In 7-11,

You: "Hello, do you like beer or wine coolers"

Her: "I like those" (pointing)

You: "Great, we'll take them back to my room"

 

I've always assumed if they talk to me they're already up for a shag.

(1,000bht on the bedside table after)

Pure class. For sure you are going to find a keeper. One that you will be able to take care of for the rest of your life. Sounds fun huh?  She is probably looking for a sugar daddy just like you... Again so smooth...

Age here is of no concern most are looking for better life it’s about money TIT

Whatever you do... remember that you will be the person who pays the bills. So think twice how far you want to go with her. Even how cute and kind she looks... ladies have on off switches. 

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

2 hours ago, transam said:

My Thai lady friend Thai husband was thirty years older than her, my Thai step daughter is twenty eight, good looking, single and has a Thai bloke who is forty seven chasing her and she is thinking about it..This is LOS, not farangland...

Money and possible security is the reason, it brings them around

In a country like LOS where there is no social security or unemployment benefits then looking for a film star looking guy with nufink is really not high on a birds agenda is it...

In a country like LOS where there is no social security or unemployment benefits then looking for a film star looking guy with nufink is really not high on a birds agenda is it...

They're similar to every other girl really, looking for a guy similar age, job, money, attraction, obviously when that fails they consider older men and money. You just need to keep it real otherwise you'll be surprised when your gf runs off with a younger thai guy

1 hour ago, dotpoom said:

More and more I am convinced that "social media" is causing people to lose the ability to "think for themselves".

  I come across daily, questions on how to do common everyday stuff ....stuff that most people used to figure out themselves.....

  I remember someone commenting in a discussion one time on how some people seemed to have the gift of "mental telepathy". He reckoned that we all had this ability in the distant past (like the ability to "sense" when a loved one was in danger no matter where they were..stuff like that) but since modern ways of communicating with each other devoleped more and more...we ceased using this function/ability and eventually lost it. Things like mail delivery, phones, telegraphs and of course ...now the computer.

   It leads me to ask....where will mankind be in another 50 or 100 years concerning our ability to "think for ourselves" if we continue making the progress we are making in development at this lightening pace.

  Will we be asking ..."How does one use a bum gun"?....Ohh!, sorry,.. we have reached that point already (I remember someone asking it on here last year).

Have a look at a movie called Idiocracy it is scary how true this is becoming

3 hours ago, transam said:

OP, go for it...If she actually spoke to you then I reckon you maybe half way there...Just keep your eyes wide open and not dive into the deep end if you are not a good swimmer....

Agreed,

If they've spoken to you, they're interested.

4 hours ago, chopin2 said:

I remember taking a girl to a simple, but decent restaurant on a first date.  "Are we really gonna eat in this place, she said??????" She obviously expected something more fancy,  never saw her again of course.

Don't spend beyond your means.

 

 

 

 

I took a girl to the kuay teo stand at the end of the road once. Cost ten Baht each. Never saw her again. Never wanted to.

3 hours ago, transam said:

My Thai lady friend Thai husband was thirty years older than her, my Thai step daughter is twenty eight, good looking, single and has a Thai bloke who is forty seven chasing her and she is thinking about it..This is LOS, not farangland...

My gf 32 years younger, and I have a 19 year old hounding me 43 years younger , Uni girl