Thaifriendly thread

[ndfdjnd]

The other one was closed last month.

 

My two cents from a male perspective.

 

Dating sites in general are only going to work for the best-looking 10% of the male population.  For the rest it's close to a waste of time because the women are swamped with messages so obviously they'll choose the most appealing which usually means the most attractive.

 

Anyway that aside, too many guys are paying for the premium membership to try to get ahead of the competition; they can send unlimited messages compared to free accounts which can only send one every 10 minutes.  Personally I won't pay a few thousand baht to talk to people, that is all kinds of wrong in my opinion.  It's the same with Tinder - too many guys are buying extra superlikes so their messages/profiles appear ahead of the rest, and anybody without a premium account is so far down the list their messages/profiles might not even be noticed, never mind read.  Thaifriendly should probably do something about this by increasing the cost of the membership (but it's already high) or by limiting the number of messages premium accounts can send in any one day.

 

The TF phone app is very buggy (at least on Android).  You cannot view past page 1 of the messages, so a popular girl who is getting 10 messages an hour (5 of them might be from the same guy sending the same thing over and over) has no chance to reply to them all if they're checking the app once a day; it's impossible.

 

All this means that trying to meet girls from TF in high season in Bangkok is not an efficient use of most people's time.  Even if you pay for premium, you're still competing over a few girls who are getting hundreds of other messages every day, it's a bit circle jerky.  It's much better to search outside Bangkok, the neighbouring provinces are only an hour's drive.  And it's best to focus your energy on the app more in low season, when competition is more sparse.  You will notice a huge difference in reply rates in Dec/Jan compared to the middle of the rainy season.

 

So an example scenario for maximum success would be messaging a girl in low season who lives in e.g. Samut Prakan, Nakhon Pathom, Nonthaburi, maybe as far as Ayuthaya, Hua Hin and Chon Buri if you're willing to travel that far (obviously ignore Pattaya).  Somebody of optimum age and decent appearance should expect above 75% reply rates for this group of girls.  The same guy messaging girls in Bangkok in high season might get a reply rate of somewhere around 25% and replies will typically be from the less pretty girls/single mums etc.

 

Eventually if you send enough messages without paying for premium TF will get tired of you and restrict your account until you pay premium.  So you either pay or start a new profile.

 

Thai girls are very good at changing what they actually look like using apps, filters, make-up, Instagram angles.  If she says she's not pretty on her profile, believe her.  It's not the same as western girls who will say they are fat and ugly even if they are not fat or ugly.  Thai girls are self-aware, probably because the culture here promotes the perfect appearance so much.

 

I avoid any profile in scant dress or with neon lighting in the background - almost always prostitutes.  They can't/won't write on their profile that they are a prostitute, and certain words might flag your messages for an admin to review/too many girls reporting you for asking can result in an account ban.  But note that TF don't ban girls who ask for money for sex in messages, say they are 'freelance', or anything along those lines.  I've reported enough of them to know.  I guess they must make money out of them or that some guys are interested in these type of girls?

 

TF is not as good as it once was but if you put enough time into it (or buy premium) you can still get a date every few nights if that's what you want.  When I started using it about 4 years ago you could get a date every night, or 2-3 if you had the energy.  There're a lot more timewasters on Tinder, people who download it because they were bored, or delete it after a day but don't uninstall the app (so their profile still appears in search results), or only check messages once a week.  Not to mention the ladyboys who don't have their own gender option so get lumped in the 'female' category.  Tinder again works best outside Bangkok in areas with fewer foreigners/people in general.  There are some other websites and I spend some time on those as a substitute for Thaifriendly; reply rates are generally better.  Thaifriendly is the go-to dating app for foreigners in Thailand, it gets a lot of publicity everywhere.

 

Really the guys who can only use dating apps to meet girls (I include myself in this) should get some social skills and approach people in real life.  These girls will likely only be talking to you, not 50 other guys, and most Thais are not adverse to dating foreigners anymore.

[Thainess]

Whatever, dude.

[Bang Bang]

OP,

In the time it took you to write all that you could have taken a cab to Oskar, had a beer, picked up a babe, brought her home, banged her silly and washed up and said your prayers.

[shadowofacloud]

Amazing. Sort of a Little Bang(kok) Theory.

 

Keep up the good job. I would love to see some formulas.

[Argus Tuft]

3 hours ago, ndfdjnd said:

The other one was closed last month.

I wonder why

[theguyfromanotherforum]

If you can't pick up women on Tinder and Thai Friendly in Thailand out of all places then invest in the mirror.

 

Yep. You're too old.

 

Move on.

[sukhumvitneon]

Just use hookers.  As for the rest of your post:

 

 

[catman20]

18 hours ago, Bang Bang said:

OP,

In the time it took you to write all that you could have taken a cab to Oskar, had a beer, picked up a babe, brought her home, banged her silly and washed up and said your prayers.

he did bang on a bit ????

[Aussieroaming]

18 hours ago, Bang Bang said:

OP,

In the time it took you to write all that you could have taken a cab to Oskar, had a beer, picked up a babe, brought her home, banged her silly and washed up and said your prayers.

What! Act normal you mean, yegads man. These days if it doesnt come with an App it cant be real.

[dotpoom]

22 hours ago, ndfdjnd said:

The other one was closed last month

The other what was closed last month ..there are hundreds of these sites?

[atyclb]

18 hours ago, Bang Bang said:

OP,

In the time it took you to write all that you could have taken a cab to Oskar, had a beer, picked up a babe, brought her home, banged her silly and washed up and said your prayers.

 

 

imo the only thing decent at oskar is the pizza.  mainly older "standard issan issue" dressed for oskar that seem to all have phd's just like the thaifriendly girls.

[BigT73]

19 hours ago, Bang Bang said:

OP,

In the time it took you to write all that you could have taken a cab to Oskar, had a beer, picked up a babe, brought her home, banged her silly and washed up and said your prayers.

Some people like to fish with the thrill of the catch and some like to shoot fish in a barrel each to his own.

[nickmondo]

blimey mate, how long did that essay take?

dont waste your time with the stupid dating sites, you cant trust a woman you meet there, and she cant trust you, because you should be getting loads of interest.

if you insist on using them, in your profile speech, tell them that you are older, very successful, got loads of money and you want to take care of a lady and her family.

You will be inundated!!!! 

But seriously dude, get a life mate. 

Go and meet a woman in the Mall, the gym, a restaurant, on the street.

Seriously mate, its so easy here.

You dont need dating sites

 

[jgarbo]

23 hours ago, Thainess said:

Whatever, dude.

Respectable Thai women don't "date", ie one night stands. That's the job of prostitutes. Your weapon may be in Thailand, but your guidance system is still in East Bromwich, or Clapham.

[smotherb]

I've been looking for an app to pick my nose and scratch my balls.

[jgarbo]

20 hours ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

If you can't pick up women on Tinder and Thai Friendly in Thailand out of all places then invest in the mirror.

 

Yep. You're too old.

 

Move on.

You're never too old. It just costs more.

[jgarbo]

41 minutes ago, smotherb said:

I've been looking for an app to pick my nose and scratch my balls.

I've got it! Bt 10,000. Guaranteed. It'll even scratch your nose and pick you balls. No extra. 

[smotherb]

2 minutes ago, jgarbo said:

I've got it! Bt 10,000. Guaranteed. It'll even scratch your nose and pick you balls. No extra. 

What's her name?

[jgarbo]

Just now, smotherb said:

What's her name?

Miss App. Of course.

[smotherb]

Just now, jgarbo said:

Miss App. Of course.

Ah, Kuhn App. No, she's a bit long in the tooth and she always wants you to kiss her

[jgarbo]

Just now, smotherb said:

Ah, Kuhn App. No, she's a bit long in the tooth and she always wants you to kiss her

She has teeth? 

[smotherb]

Just now, jgarbo said:

She has teeth? 

yeah, they're blue, both of them.

[jgarbo]

3 minutes ago, smotherb said:

yeah, they're blue, both of them.

Your got the wrong app. It was yellow with green furry gums. Shame...

[Suradit69]

On 9/25/2018 at 6:58 PM, ndfdjnd said:

Really the guys who can only use dating apps to meet girls (I include myself in this) should get some social skills and approach people in real life. 

A first step would be to get out of your bedsit to meet people (under cover of darkness if necessary) rather than spending your time writing an overly lengthy screed that very few people will ever bother to slog all the way through and which is about as meaningful as telling someone to be careful after he's dropped his mobile phone down an open sewer.

[Suradit69]

4 hours ago, catman20 said:

he did bang on a bit ????

That's an understatement, although to be fair I think the problem is that he's not been able to bang on anything other than a keyboard. 

[Bournville]

Respectable Thai women don't "date", ie one night stands. That's the job of prostitutes. Your weapon may be in Thailand, but your guidance system is still in East Bromwich, or Clapham.

Exactly. This is why many girls have shunned bar girl work and Freelance on Tinder etc etc.

Be happy

[White Christmas13]

23 hours ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

If you can't pick up women on Tinder and Thai Friendly in Thailand out of all places then invest in the mirror.

 

Yep. You're too old.

 

Move on.

You are talking a lot of bull I am very old I am 70 I never use that sh666t at all I use a proper dating website

yes I pay for it but I have 4 girls coming to see me in the next few months don't ask me to post the pics

again I did before in another tread and i spend already 4 weeks with one of them a few months back just let

me post 1 pic and you tell me how old she is

Edited September 26, 2018 by White Christmas13
never add the picture

[White Christmas13]

2 minutes ago, White Christmas13 said:

You are talking a lot of bull I am very old I am 70 I never use that sh666t at all I use a proper dating website

yes I pay for it but I have 4 girls coming to see me in the next few months don't ask me to post the pics

again I did before in another tread and i spend already 4 weeks with one of them a few months back just let

me post 1 pic and you tell me how old she is

any takings ?

 

[The Theory]

“Respectable Thai women don't "date", ie one night stands. That's the job of prostitutes.”

 

 

absolutely,

of course, it takes more than one night to figure how much you “really” got in your bank accounts. ????????

Edited September 26, 2018 by The Theory

[Ebumbu]

2 hours ago, White Christmas13 said:

any takings ?

 

 

She love you, but hab little problem about money. Can you help?