3 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

4 minutes ago, mauGR1 said:

I had a friend, bragging for decades about his complete indifference for sex.

Recently, he confessed that he'd been impotent all his life

and your point is?

Is that a rhetorical question ?

20 minutes ago, mauGR1 said:

I had a friend, bragging for decades about his complete indifference for sex.

Recently, he confessed that he'd been impotent all his life

You just made that up .

I know what you are trying to say though , although the reason why some men do not try to have sex with anything that moves , isnt because they are unable to do (apart from your "freinds" situation, that is )

7 hours ago, HuskerDo said:

and your point is?

What some on this thread are calling perverts are normal men.  In the West normal men have to take anti depressant pills to function.  In Pattaya one takes anti depressant women as opposed to pills.  What's normal?  Men like to have women they've never had. I like sweet young things and Old Grand Dad. 

 

 

7 hours ago, sanemax said:

You just made that up .

I know what you are trying to say though , although the reason why some men do not try to have sex with anything that moves , isnt because they are unable to do (apart from your "freinds" situation, that is )

I didn't, and you are not as bright as you think you are.

..But feel free to think that i'm lying.

Have a good day

1 hour ago, marcusarelus said:

What some on this thread are calling perverts are normal men.  In the West normal men have to take anti depressant pills to function.  In Pattaya one takes anti depressant women as opposed to pills.  What's normal?  Men like to have women they've never had. I like sweet young things and Old Grand Dad. 

 

 

That's an odd analogy but I'll roll with it. The anti-depressant pill can't give you an STD. The anti-depressant doesn't cost 2,300 baht. The anti-depressant pill won't ever stalk you. The anti-depressant pill in no way can ever have a jealous boyfriend or husband. Have a great day.

34 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

That's an odd analogy but I'll roll with it. The anti-depressant pill can't give you an STD. The anti-depressant doesn't cost 2,300 baht. The anti-depressant pill won't ever stalk you. The anti-depressant pill in no way can ever have a jealous boyfriend or husband. Have a great day.

I am sorry if all those bad things happened to you.

But.. Are you recommending the use of anti-depressants ? That would be quite depressing.

I heard many people make use of those pills, i wonder what the side-effects.

Anyway, if one could choose, i would recommend some healthy sex, big time, instead of anti-depressants.

25 minutes ago, mauGR1 said:

I am sorry if all those bad things happened to you.

But.. Are you recommending the use of anti-depressants ? That would be quite depressing.

I heard many people make use of those pills, i wonder what the side-effects.

Anyway, if one could choose, i would recommend some healthy sex, big time, instead of anti-depressants.

If someone is depressiv, even sex gets boring. Havent you read the forum lately? 

 

When you have done everything, and your power goes off, viagra is. The norm, and so on. 

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

If someone is depressiv, even sex gets boring. Havent you read the forum lately? 

 

When you have done everything, and your power goes off, viagra is. The norm, and so on. 

Lately i don't have energy to waste for sex, i consider sex mildly boring.

If i was depressed, and occasionally i am, i believe there are better ways than pills to fight depression.

In the past, i have found sex to be quite beneficial in a few ways, but i get your point, that one can be sooo depressed that everything is boring.

2 hours ago, HuskerDo said:

That's an odd analogy but I'll roll with it. The anti-depressant pill can't give you an STD. The anti-depressant doesn't cost 2,300 baht. The anti-depressant pill won't ever stalk you. The anti-depressant pill in no way can ever have a jealous boyfriend or husband. Have a great day.

I've gone out with a thousand women in Pattaya and never run into a jealous husband or boyfriend.  Bar girls don't stalk you.  Only a goof would tell a hooker anything personal about himself. 

 

One in every six or 8 Americans over the age of 12 reported recent antidepressant use.  That's a problem.  Cost about 20,000 baht per month.   https://www.everydayhealth.com/news/real-monthly-cost-depression/

 

STD's ?  vs Anti depressant drug reactions and OD's suicide.    I'd say the risk was about the same

 

I don't need drugs to have a great day.  Do you?  If you don't live in Thailand there is a greater chance that you would be taking psychoactive medication than I. 

 

 

25 minutes ago, mauGR1 said:

Lately i don't have energy to waste for sex, i consider sex mildly boring.

If i was depressed, and occasionally i am, i believe there are better ways than pills to fight depression.

In the past, i have found sex to be quite beneficial in a few ways, but i get your point, that one can be sooo depressed that everything is boring.

If you need some information about how to have low energy/no energy sex it is easy to get here. 

 

In the West sex is fraught with danger and performance anxiety but in Thailand he who pays the fiddler calls the tune.????

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

If someone is depressiv, even sex gets boring. Havent you read the forum lately? 

 

When you have done everything, and your power goes off, viagra is. The norm, and so on. 

Nothing new there.  The history of mankind is the story of how to keep it up longer.  It has always been the norm of man. 

 

11 hours ago, sanemax said:

You just made that up .

I know what you are trying to say though , although the reason why some men do not try to have sex with anything that moves , isnt because they are unable to do (apart from your "freinds" situation, that is )

It's because they are poor. 

1 hour ago, marcusarelus said:

Nothing new there.  The history of mankind is the story of how to keep it up longer.  It has always been the norm of man. 

 

It is just one thing that keeps the depression away. Good sleep, eat healthy, exorsize, sun, women, good work, just little bit alchohol and drugs, and do something you fear as often you can. 

 

That one thing is called life! A good life!

Life is a bowl of cherries...when you get tired of ????... There's always prunes... ????

2 hours ago, marcusarelus said:

If you need some information about how to have low energy/no energy sex it is easy to get here. 

 

In the West sex is fraught with danger and performance anxiety but in Thailand he who pays the fiddler calls the tune.????

Thanks for your concern, but i have priorities, and sex is not top of the list

2 hours ago, marcusarelus said:

It's because they are poor. 

No, thats not the reason , although that does show your mindset that sex can only be obtained by payment , although I do agree that local ladies will usually  want something in return .

   I do get offered sex numerous times per day , whether it be from bar girls , massage girls , freelancers or freebies , yeah , most of them will charge .

  Charges range from 2000 Baht to a bottle of 130 Baht whisky , but I much prefer to spend my time and money on other things

7 hours ago, mauGR1 said:

I didn't, and you are not as bright as you think you are.

..But feel free to think that i'm lying.

Have a good day

Why post a random post in this thread then , why mention about your friend if the content has nothing to do with the discussion ? 

  There was quite clearly a connection between your post and the discussion, if there wasnt , your post needs to be removed for being a random off-topic post

5 hours ago, mauGR1 said:

I am sorry if all those bad things happened to you.

But.. Are you recommending the use of anti-depressants ? That would be quite depressing.

I heard many people make use of those pills, i wonder what the side-effects.

Anyway, if one could choose, i would recommend some healthy sex, big time, instead of anti-depressants.

I do disagree , what about 30 minutes later , when shes gone and you are 1500 Baht poorer ?

   I suggest a long term  relationship with someone you love and the sex side will be taken care of

19 minutes ago, sanemax said:

Why post a random post in this thread then , why mention about your friend if the content has nothing to do with the discussion ? 

  There was quite clearly a connection between your post and the discussion, if there wasnt , your post needs to be removed for being a random off-topic post

Ok, i'll try to explain my post..

My point was that guys who are not interested in sex, should not criticise the guys who are interested, because everyone have different levels of testosterone.

I hope it is clear enough for you.

1 minute ago, mauGR1 said:

Ok, i'll try to explain my post..

My point was that guys who are not interested in sex, should not criticise the guys who are interested, because everyone have different levels of testosterone.

I hope it is clear enough for you.

Its is quite a long thread with various posters contributing  , but its not about a lack of interest in sex completely , its about some people being promiscuous , constantly sexually aroused and who will have sex with anything that moves at every opportunity and who visit brothels and pay for sex with prostitutes .

  Just because some people have no need to visit prostitutes and pay for sex , that doesnt mean that they are impotent or cannot afford it . 

  No one has criticized people who are interested in sex .

I usually find that the people who are always talking about sex , are not actually doing it , they just talk about it , or they have sex with prostitutes are are emotionally unfilled and thus seek out more prostitutes , looking for fulfillment and satisfaction , which always evades them 

55 minutes ago, sanemax said:

No, thats not the reason , although that does show your mindset that sex can only be obtained by payment , although I do agree that local ladies will usually  want something in return .

   I do get offered sex numerous times per day , whether it be from bar girls , massage girls , freelancers or freebies , yeah , most of them will charge .

  Charges range from 2000 Baht to a bottle of 130 Baht whisky , but I much prefer to spend my time and money on other things

Where I come from girls always want something. A handyman, a toy man, or just a perfect man. That is the pretty ones, and the rest just take whatever they can have. Not so different from Thailand i feel!

4 minutes ago, sanemax said:

Just because some people have no need to visit prostitutes and pay for sex , that doesnt mean that they are impotent or cannot afford it . 

  No one has criticized people who are interested in sex .

On this, i agree with you, but, having tried many "normal" relationships with "normal" women, in my country and in Thailand, over few decades, i can't really blame those who pay for play.

As the saying goes, the more expensive women are the ones you are not supposed to pay.

On 1/12/2019 at 6:50 PM, OneMoreFarang said:

I thought this must be one of those threads started by a new user. But then I saw you are a Thai Visa member since 2013 with over 5,000 posts.

How could what you describe happen?

Or why didn't you do anything since a long time?

You say your wife is a stunner but you didn't have sex for 6 months. And you see her once a week for an hour. And you paid already a fortune and it seems you continue to pay and pay.

And now, after forever with a not functioning relationship, you start worrying because of a message and some pictures.

Was the fact that she does not want to see you and does not want to have sex with you since forever not warning sign enough?

Did you think somehow in a year or two she would see you more often again and have sex again? Or what was your idea about your life?

Whatever happened and for whatever reason it happened, the fact that you ignored the bad situation for so long says a lot about you and your state of mind. Maybe you should see a psychologist before your life is over or to be precise ASAP.

Good luck, you need it!

Yes i have some mental health issue's ptsd,anxiety and depression,i admit this has not helped but difficult here to find a shrink,have started taking Gabapentin,certainly help with the anxiety and depression,the Ptsd not sure,and don't want to talk about what caused it.

On 1/12/2019 at 7:22 PM, CharlieH said:

Oh Marko ! Cant believe we are here again !! Sorry for ya mate, your heart is just too big and head too soft for this environment. ☹

 

"If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got"

Thanks Charlie,i guess that's gotta be it for me now here,i could not trust another one, has left me gutted ,but i will get through it.

4 minutes ago, marko kok prong said:

Thanks Charlie,i guess that's gotta be it for me now here,i could not trust another one, has left me gutted ,but i will get through it.

Marko I am sure you will, you may make some poor decisions or just been unlucky ,but then havnt we all, but you always bounce back mate, you always have, next time RENT and just relax and enjoy, with renting you can always cancel and walk away. You know I dont just mean the property ! ????

On 1/14/2019 at 12:54 PM, theguyfromanotherforum said:

 

The way Marko talk he s seems to be a multi millionaire. Sounds like a nice guy too. I'll leave the part out where he comes to Thailand to hook up with a bargirl.

Okay i am wealthy,to be honest,money came from varied sources,i won't elaborate further,it's not the money that bothers me,it the deception of someone i really loved and thought loved me,

.Admit first wife was a bar girl,this one no,i met her in our local town i now realise she has a heart of stone ,like my ex,anyway that is life,troughs and peak's and i don't care about the houses,they are just thing's the betrayal is almost gangster like and blinded by her love and beauty i let it happen,one thing i can say is it will not happen again,very difficult to sell the houses,she has the land,but i have a 30 year lease on both,i cannot demolish them,that would be an act of stupidity,no i think for me my time is up.

I thank all who have replied,never thought this would run so long,been a week now since i seen her,or had contact,i have barely been able to leave the house,the new drug i am taking has worked well on my depression and anxiety,best i take it before bed as it makes you dizzy and groggy in the daytime,still have dreams of her,but i know they will fade,have moved countries 3 times before,so i can do it again,somewhat reluctantly.but have reached conclusion probably for the best.

As for all the talk of sex on this thread,yes i like it,but having a companion you can share your life with is more important to me,yes i have shagged maybe 2 bar girls,but i don't really enjoy it,more about feelings for someone than the physical act, as for the houses well she can have them,knocking them down would land me in jail,i don't care about them .fortunatly i have enough to start again ,New Zealand sounds good as i spent 16 years in Aus,i would like somewhere cooler,so maybe i will go take a look at the South island,as for women i think my best option is not to get involved again.

2 hours ago, marko kok prong said:

I thank all who have replied,never thought this would run so long,been a week now since i seen her,or had contact,i have barely been able to leave the house,the new drug i am taking has worked well on my depression and anxiety,best i take it before bed as it makes you dizzy and groggy in the daytime,still have dreams of her,but i know they will fade,have moved countries 3 times before,so i can do it again,somewhat reluctantly.but have reached conclusion probably for the best.

As for all the talk of sex on this thread,yes i like it,but having a companion you can share your life with is more important to me,yes i have shagged maybe 2 bar girls,but i don't really enjoy it,more about feelings for someone than the physical act, as for the houses well she can have them,knocking them down would land me in jail,i don't care about them .fortunatly i have enough to start again ,New Zealand sounds good as i spent 16 years in Aus,i would like somewhere cooler,so maybe i will go take a look at the South island,as for women i think my best option is not to get involved again.

Best of luck Marko.

If you have ptsd, anxiety and depression and assuming gou dont look lime a young Brad Pitt. Sounds like you used money to try and balance the deal. Big age gap too?

Gor for a woman within ten years of gour own age. Choose a 7 not a 10. Dont mention or use your wealth in the first three months. You might be surprised how happy you could be.

11 hours ago, marko kok prong said:

 

As for all the talk of sex on this thread,yes i like it,but having a companion you can share your life with is more important to me,yes i have shagged maybe 2 bar girls,but i don't really enjoy it,more about feelings for someone than the physical act, 

Sums up what nearly all men think and want, but sadly in reality all you can get is the sex, the feeling we want are always one sided.