Thai lady / girlfriend, is she? maybe?

[Kadilo]

1 hour ago, Xavnel said:

I was sceptical before..  but now after his last comments, I believe thd OP is a Troll or just straight a Liar.

Everything about his story keeps changing... 

He will only send her 10K a month, no more...  then maybe 20K,...  tben 30K is the maximum he could afford...  last was the ante was raised to 40K.

He said he would send the girl's info to that guy as s "challenge"... butobviously never did.  Now... his "Australian Friend" offered her 10K and she refused.. I call Bullsh... on that right there...  especially if she came from the poor Issan farms.. 10K

 

I was reading for some entertainment...  but I am done with this Troll as it is clearly a total waste of time and everything is an outright LIE. 

 

He was sussed ages ago. Stop feeding and he will find another toy. 

[Jack19290]

I don't understand why some people think i am a troll.

 

I am a 27 year old man. An accountant, do you think I have nothing better to do?

 

The troll sayers haven't read my posts carefully, obviously, or they would understand better.

 

I said I can offer her 10k-20k baht a month and 40k extra every 6 months. This amount wouldn't effect my life at home but anything more and it could effect my life in the UK.

 

However, i said she would need to go back to Isaan while we get to know each other better until I bring her to the UK.

 

She refused my money which was the 10k on offer to go back home and she doesn't want to leave Thailand. 

 

What do you want me to do? Pay her while she works at the bar? No thank you.

 

Also I know how Thailand works, I have been many times. I have paid 1,500-5,000 for girls and even got many for free from clubs and dating sites.

 

She gets a basic salary of 8,000 baht a month with or without drinks, every lady drink which costs 140 baht she gets 50 baht from it.

 

The girls at the bar, all 8 of them put 15 baht a day each and get a big meal and share it together.

 

They eat once a day, so they can drink more and still stay skinny.

 

In the club's the girls drink for free if there is 4 or more of them. They get a free bottle and 1 random drink of there choice.

 

There taxi bike rides from bangla road costs 20 baht and 2-3 girls jump on the bike. This is if they are to drunk, if not then they walk home.

 

There cost of living is very low.

 

I think they spend around 900 - 2,000 baht a month and that is the max they spend. 

 

I guess they send home 5k/6k and live off the lady drinks income, this is my guess of what she has explained to me.

 

The video chats are a little awkward, her English is a little better now, I would say like 5% also I am taking thai lessons 3 times a week and studying daily.

 

I know around 10 sentences now so we just communicate a little and laugh a lot. Like big kids.

 

Anything else you would like me to add?

Edited March 7, 2019 by Jack19290

[Razzler1973]

People think you're a troll cause this site often has the doe-eyed, innocent farang, usually young, that 'met a woman in a bar' and then proceeds to tick all the Thai 'don't' cliches and ask all the questions that trigger the old timers on here and all seemingly to produce 'content' for the site and have threads going on for pages for the appearance of being 'busy' on the site rather than dead.

 

It's usually someone with around 50 posts too. The longest threads tend to be of this nature, even knowing this happens doesn't stop the people replying cause they come to this site and it's not so busy so if there's activity they'll respond to pass the time.

 

They generally follow the same path and always include a post expressing surprise that someone think they're a troll/work for the site. As the thread dies off things generally escalate to include sending more money or bringing them to the home country cause even the disinterested people that already replied may come back and comment again for that nugget of info!

 

Ultimately, if it's genuine then just recognise you are choosing a GF that is a hooker. It's your money, do what you want with it. You can convince yourself it isn't what it is if you want but ... well, it is and how that sits with you is entirely up to you.

 

You said you'd been to Thailand 3 times and then in this post above you're some kind of whore-mongering expert with a price list and 'online freebies' knowledge who has also now been to Thailand 'many times' and also 'knows how it works'

 

It's not something I'd get involved in, certainly not paying out money but no, she's not 'different' and I look forward to the next thread that is exactly the same as this one in about a week or two from someone else without 50 posts-ish that is 'new'.

[Jack19290]

If I got paid for this than I would do this job all day on my phone, on many different forums and retire in thailand a happy man lol

 

Yes i have been thailand 3 times and my 4th will be in May, that is a good amount by my count. 9+ days each time and yes I have had over 5 freebies from online sites and I have had plenty of girls from 1,500-5,000 that's my min and max I have paid.

 

I have also had 2 African ladies which I paid 7,000 baht for, at the same time.

 

Is she a hooker tho? Sleeping with 2 men and me as the 3rd? 

 

I mean girls sleep with different  men in the UK on a daily basis some even have friends with benefits. Are they prostitutes because the man paid for her dinner and paid for the cab ride home?

 

Because I didn't pay this girl other then a 1,000 passport, food and cab rides. So is everyone that goes on a date or stays with a man on holiday a prostitute?

[BritManToo]

26 minutes ago, Jack19290 said:

I mean girls sleep with different  men in the UK on a daily basis some even have friends with benefits. Are they prostitutes because the man paid for her dinner and paid for the cab ride home?

 

Because I didn't pay this girl other then a 1,000 passport, food and cab rides. So is everyone that goes on a date or stays with a man on holiday a prostitute?

 

1. Probably, if she was just doing it for the cash.

2. Probably, you didn't pay (much) but most of the others did.

 

In the end, bang for yer buck is all that really counts.

Edited March 7, 2019 by BritManToo

[xtrnuno41]

21 hours ago, Jack19290 said:

If I got paid for this than I would do this job all day on my phone, on many different forums and retire in thailand a happy man lol

 

Yes i have been thailand 3 times and my 4th will be in May, that is a good amount by my count. 9+ days each time and yes I have had over 5 freebies from online sites and I have had plenty of girls from 1,500-5,000 that's my min and max I have paid.

 

I have also had 2 African ladies which I paid 7,000 baht for, at the same time.

 

Is she a hooker tho? Sleeping with 2 men and me as the 3rd? 

 

I mean girls sleep with different  men in the UK on a daily basis some even have friends with benefits. Are they prostitutes because the man paid for her dinner and paid for the cab ride home?

 

Because I didn't pay this girl other then a 1,000 passport, food and cab rides. So is everyone that goes on a date or stays with a man on holiday a prostitute?

Whatever word we make for it: 

If you are married, you also pay, but we call it wife 

you pay a professional working woman for sex , its called a prostitute

you pay a woman for a sexmovie, then it is a pornstar

you pay by taking her out and sleep with you, its a slut

You dont pay at all, you are lucky and she is horny and adventurous 

you and your woman have sex with another couple, then you call it swingers

And it s the same with men.

One thing we have in common, we are all humans.

We should consider that.

[kekalot]

23 hours ago, BritManToo said:

In the end, bang for yer buck is all that really counts.

literally this.

[Pravda]

Boring lying troll

[Mitkof Island]

Another sucker comes to Thailand ! When is he building the new home , buying the gold, buying the new motorbike , car ?

[A1Str8]

Go find one on thaicupid instead. Lots of educated, well off girls on there that wont try to fool you. Wont even need your money. Wont shave down there either, but that can be discussed.

This one doesnt seem to be genuine.

[Katia]

On 3/7/2019 at 3:13 AM, Jack19290 said:

I don't understand why some people think i am a troll.

 

I am a 27 year old man. An accountant, do you think I have nothing better to do?

 

The troll sayers haven't read my posts carefully, obviously, or they would understand better.

 

I said I can offer her 10k-20k baht a month and 40k extra every 6 months. This amount wouldn't effect my life at home but anything more and it could effect my life in the UK.

 

However, i said she would need to go back to Isaan while we get to know each other better until I bring her to the UK.

 

She refused my money which was the 10k on offer to go back home and she doesn't want to leave Thailand. 

 

What do you want me to do? Pay her while she works at the bar? No thank you.

 

Also I know how Thailand works, I have been many times. I have paid 1,500-5,000 for girls and even got many for free from clubs and dating sites.

 

She gets a basic salary of 8,000 baht a month with or without drinks, every lady drink which costs 140 baht she gets 50 baht from it.

 

The girls at the bar, all 8 of them put 15 baht a day each and get a big meal and share it together.

 

They eat once a day, so they can drink more and still stay skinny.

 

In the club's the girls drink for free if there is 4 or more of them. They get a free bottle and 1 random drink of there choice.

 

There taxi bike rides from bangla road costs 20 baht and 2-3 girls jump on the bike. This is if they are to drunk, if not then they walk home.

 

There cost of living is very low.

 

I think they spend around 900 - 2,000 baht a month and that is the max they spend. 

 

I guess they send home 5k/6k and live off the lady drinks income, this is my guess of what she has explained to me.

 

The video chats are a little awkward, her English is a little better now, I would say like 5% also I am taking thai lessons 3 times a week and studying daily.

 

I know around 10 sentences now so we just communicate a little and laugh a lot. Like big kids.

 

Anything else you would like me to add?

You don't trust her, to the point that you test her.  You can't communicate with her.  You can't see her except for a few weeks of the year.  For this you are going to pay her money?  Why?  What's so great about her vs. any other Thai woman you could meet the times you are there that you feel the need to keep her on the hook year-round for a few days of funtimes every year?  This is seriously baffling.

 

Then there's you.  You're extremely jealous and paranoid that there will be other men yet you openly admit and feel no guilt over cheating on her.  You want to control her to the point of always knowing where she is.  You're apparently determined to take her back to the UK with you despite the fact that she's said she doesn't want to go.  If she's lucky you'll lose her phone number.

[Pravda]

2 hours ago, Katia said:

Why?  What's so great about her vs. any other Thai woman you could meet the times you are there that you feel the need to keep her on the hook year-round for a few days of funtimes every year?  This is seriously baffling.

 

Cuz she shaves down there

[Jack19290]

6 hours ago, Katia said:

You don't trust her, to the point that you test her.  You can't communicate with her.  You can't see her except for a few weeks of the year.  For this you are going to pay her money?  Why?  What's so great about her vs. any other Thai woman you could meet the times you are there that you feel the need to keep her on the hook year-round for a few days of funtimes every year?  This is seriously baffling.

 

Then there's you.  You're extremely jealous and paranoid that there will be other men yet you openly admit and feel no guilt over cheating on her.  You want to control her to the point of always knowing where she is.  You're apparently determined to take her back to the UK with you despite the fact that she's said she doesn't want to go.  If she's lucky you'll lose her phone number.

Seems a bit harsh and true. I have no comment to be honest.

 

Also she doesn't shave down there lol does that mean anything in Thailand ???? ?

[atyclb]

On 3/5/2019 at 11:43 AM, Vacuum said:

On 3/2/2019 at 3:34 PM, Jack19290 said:

I am good looking

So why do you hang around bar prostitutes?

 

i have a friend about age 40, slim trim, athlete and lawyer and actually handsome. dates normal girls back home including hi education gals back home but likes thai bars cause variety and more affordable than the cost of dating back home.

[atyclb]

On 3/7/2019 at 5:39 PM, Razzler1973 said:

Ultimately, if it's genuine then just recognise you are choosing a GF that is a hooker.

 

yup, versus many of us posters here who had no choice other than a hooker . lol

[Mandarian]

OP: you are being dumped !  

Listen to the advice of the experienced people ....

don't go the hard way ... You will regret it ....

I can speak about my one experience . I am 26, : I have been three times to Issan ( Chaiyaphum) with the girl I met from Phuket, and 4 times to Phuket before that : don't do that mistake !!!!!  I choose the hard way too, but i decided to stop everything as soon as things started to go the wrong way ...  Believe me, listen to the experienced people and leave the girl .. 

We can chat in private if you are interested .. I can share with you my own experience.

 

It is always the same story over and over again ..

[lee b]

Sadly you will have the shock of your life when she passes the bill for the buffalo's dental work. These girls play games, so be very careful. Thats if you really care, some guys know exactly what they are getting into and in doesn't seem to bother them.

[Seth1a2a]

Always check the post dates. OP's last post/visit here was over 1 year ago...………….               

•  Jack19290Last visited

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[Danny Australia]

2 hours ago, Seth1a2a said:

Always check the post dates. OP's last post/visit here was over 1 year ago...………….               

•  Jack19290Last visited

  March 12, 2019

Just came across this old post by accident. It appears the guy disappeared suddenly. Either had enough from being attacked and abused here or had some kind of accident/event at home. Would have been nice to see how it all ended (I guess she was a text book gold digger with a plan). 

[metisdead]

As noted above, this topic was posted on March 2, 2019 and is no longer active.

 

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