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16 hours ago, sanemax said:

They usually have two identical bottles side by side , one with alcohol and the other with water , the "jerk" was probably right about getting ripped off

 

In the UK if you buy the barmaid a drink they often say they'll have it later and just pocket the money, no one considers themselves ripped off as their intention was to tip the barmaid not ply her with alcohol.

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9 hours ago, bwpage3 said:

Asset to the kingdom? Really?

 

If expats were assets to the Kingdom it would be pretty easy to get a long term VISA with no 90 day reporting.

 

Too many expats think they are an asset, when it actuality they are not.

 

Wishful thinking.

Still missing the place then

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1 hour ago, Spidey said:

Close but no cigar. Pretty much equal numbers actually. 2 million indigenous Moslems + 2 million immigrant Moslems.

 

Are you sure?  From I can see from the figures the population has grown ten times faster than net migration  increase, the Muslim population growth alone is faster than net migration levels, by the official figures it doesn't appear to be possible that the doubling of the Muslim population over the past two decades could be due to immigration.

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18 hours ago, marcusarelus said:

I was sitting in a bar having a beer.  An expat that I'd seen before bought the bartender a drink.  She took out a bottle and poured herself a shot and drank it and added 150 baht to the guys bill.  He went on for 30 minutes that the liquid in the bottle was not booze and he'd been ripped off. 

 

I'd had a drink from the same bottle an hour before and it was Thai whiskey.  I knew the bartender for 5 years and she was a nice lady and never ripped off anyone.  I'd only slept with her once so it wasn't an emotional attachment. 

 

The guy was a jerk who thought he knew something about Thai women but he had not a clue. 

 

I find for the most part expats are jerks and I walk to the other side of the street to avoid them. 

I have kind of a problem with a BG ordering an expensive tequila shot and gets a glass that holds a couple drops. I know to her it is the money I pay that's important to her. But I feel I should at least get a BG who is feeling good. No it doesn't make me crazy and I understand all that booze and still cola is not good for the cuties. A girl I like a lot orders a bit of beer. I offered to buy her a real beer on the way home but she said she has to return to dance so it's not a good idea. Again, I understand but...

I guess it really shouldn't matter to the guy whether it's water or whisky because it is the money she gets that counts to her (mostly, maybe) but I understand.

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Anyone who assumes expats are jerks probably puts themselves in situations where that is true. At least they know they are not jerks.

 

Maybe an expat who, for instance, joins a group which is involved with a temple's activities would meet a different sort. Just musing mind you. My personal experience in gyms is that the real gym rats are, on the whole, nice guys to talk to and are respectful and helpful and mind the social norms of being in a gym. That's just me. Your mileage may vary.

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18 hours ago, Essex Reject said:

It's because 99% of TV 'members' are houllier than thou. No-one drinks, smokes, take drugs etc, they visit temples and night markets and roadside eateries for their 'social lifes'. They read, write and eat noodles everyday, usually with chopsticks. All their visa's are intact and their wife's are trainee lawyers. They are way ott with their politeness towards Thai's (we're just guest here remember) and they wai up to a hundred times a day.

 

The average 'member' on here is so straight and dull, I thank my lucky stars they never frequent bars in their white socks, speedo shorts, bum bags and 10 year old sandles.

 

You know who you are.

Oh yes people who don't drink are akin to the devil. Cant be trusted and if you also don't use ladies of the night then your sure not to be trusted.

 

I don't visit bars I don't see the attraction (not anymore i did when i first came here). 

 

I don't have a problem with other expats, just with idiots and annoying (not normal) drunks. Other expats not a problem at all. But I only make friends with those who like similar stuff. Just like back home you look for people who match you.

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13 minutes ago, elgenon said:

Anyone who assumes expats are jerks probably puts themselves in situations where that is true. At least they know they are not jerks.

 

Maybe an expat who, for instance, joins a group which is involved with a temple's activities would meet a different sort. Just musing mind you. My personal experience in gyms is that the real gym rats are, on the whole, nice guys to talk to and are respectful and helpful and mind the social norms of being in a gym. That's just me. Your mileage may vary.

I think its just normal that you like gym rats, you like working out they do too so you connect. I know I am helpful in the gym and like it when there are like minded people.

 

I have the same experience when I go fishing with Thais and foreigners, but its often so that like minded people help each-other. I am not much of a bar person so I would not make my friends there as that is just not my way to enjoy myself. Does not mean I look down on people who love drinking.

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18 hours ago, BritManToo said:

As my gf always says, buying a woman a drink in a bar is the start of negotiations for buying the woman for the night. In this case she charged 150bht, that's lady drink price for a hooker.

How did you meet your girlfriend?

 

I don't agree with your assessment. I usually buy 10 to 30 ladydrinks per night out for different "ladies", but don't buy them for the night.

I think of it as a tip for them entertaining me dancing naked or topless. It is a good deal. I don't care if they drink orange juice or tequila, whatever they like, up to them.

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19 hours ago, Essex Reject said:

It's because 99% of TV 'members' are houllier than thou. No-one drinks, smokes, take drugs etc, they visit temples and night markets and roadside eateries for their 'social lifes'. They read, write and eat noodles everyday, usually with chopsticks. All their visa's are intact and their wife's are trainee lawyers. They are way ott with their politeness towards Thai's (we're just guest here remember) and they wai up to a hundred times a day.

 

The average 'member' on here is so straight and dull, I thank my lucky stars they never frequent bars in their white socks, speedo shorts, bum bags and 10 year old sandles.

 

You know who you are.

And not one of them dare admit to being gay, as a good number of us are and in my case not afraid of admitting it.

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6 hours ago, Enki said:

I'm not hostile to expats. But I wonder why people want to live in Pattaya or similar areas on Phuket (and then complain about prices).

 

What I don't like is expats approaching me in chopping malls or super markets insisting to be greeted as they (or I) was something special. I don't greet random strangers based on their skin colour.

 

What despises me on TV is very simple: utterly disrespect for Thai, Thai culture, Thai people, especially Thai women.

 

I loath people who write comments like this: "That's a good point, at age 50 I would have been horrified at the idea of paying a bar girl for sex, 13 years on and it's the normal thing to do after a few beers when out with my brothers-in-law, and because I'm the oldest they usually let me go first."

 

Or like this: "I know I'm undesirable, my former Brit wife told me 10 years back when she divorced me.

Told me I was so undesirable that now she was leaving I would never have sex with a woman in the room again.

I don't think she had considered the power of the pound.

I've done about 50 since then, and they were nearly all half her age and weight (or less)."

 

Somehow surprising that people measure the quality of sex by the amount of women they had ... no wonder your wife divorced you. You must be a miserable lover.

I share many of your points about Thai folks / Thai bar girls.

 

But I also keep in mind that other folks have a right (within legal & moral limits) to express their thoughts.

 

In fact reading their posts is a way to keep broadly informed about the attitudes of other people, but I'm not saying I agree with their thoughts, morals, and actions. 

 

 

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At this stage of the thread, I feel like I have walked into an old western style saloon after a gunfight, all the tables have overturned and blood is mixed with the sawdust on the floor.

Settle down and have a watered down whiskey on me!

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2 hours ago, jesimps said:

I agree with the OP, especially the last para. All you have to do is wait for the anti-farang replies from the usual suspects. Their names crop up repeatedly, especially in threads concerning the new immigration rules, slagging off their fellow foreigners and praising the Thais to high heaven. I could post several culprits on here, but I won't because it's so obvious who they are. I don't pretend to know what's wrong with these people, but they definitely have a personality disorder and are bucking the natural way of things.

I don't think that the majority are "fellow foreigners."

 

In actual fact I use them as a litmus test indicating what the Thai Amart (with or without the Military) is actually thinking.

 

Of course,that discounts a few of the duds with untreatable Stockholm Syndrome...as well as desperate real estate agents from Chiang Mai and environs.

That includes the desparado's trying to flog a product in Thailand.

They are merely mercenaries..

 

 

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1 minute ago, Odysseus123 said:

Agree...

 

An American that I knew used to kept "open house" with the booze flowing (he died of chronic alcholism) and went to meet his maker..

 

Do you know how many of his foreign fellow boozers went to his funeral?

 

None.

 

Only my wife and I attended and that was to acknowledge the passing of an Americann veteran of the wars...

 

Only the U.S Embassy,and some Thai's attended (plus me-and I am an Aussie)

Being boozers, they probably forgot which day his funeral was. Too much alcohol destroys brain cells.

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