How much should I pay for my sugar baby

[CartagenaWarlock]

She missed her period yesterday. How soon can she do a pregnancy test to confirm the pregnancy and when can we do a DNA test to confirm it is my baby. Any recommended place for fetus DNA test? She is now staying with me in Q condo, Sukumvit. Also, I want her to set up with a gynecologist at Bumrungrad hospital for regular check up if she is indeed pregnant

[KC 71]

Why don’t you adopt,my Wife’s brother did

There is a higher chance that the baby might have some problems due to your age
Thats one of he reasons i chose not to have a baby - i am too old
Anyway ,no hard feelings, i hope everything works out ok [emoji106]


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[Lacessit]

On 5/29/2019 at 6:38 AM, CartagenaWarlock said:

10 million and a US citizenship will make his/her future worthwhile, I think. And my genes will be carried forward. Is not that life all about?

 

Unless you have a DNA test done, chances are someone else's genes will be inheriting US citizenship and 10 million.

It's important to some people their genes go forward. There's no guarantee their brains will go with them.

[RJRS1301]

Like the world is not already over populated?

 

[utalkin2me]

You want a baby, whip out some money and let good old biology do the rest. 

[NCC1701A]

 

[UASCB500BIKER]

Some one will kill you for that kind of $$$$$$$  Be Carefull

[Tanoshi]

Just give up sugar, it's cheaper and healthier.

[Razzler1973]

It's 'here we go again' cause these 'hurr durr I met a girl, how much money' threads, invariably started by guys with 10-35 posts are largely nonsense, seemingly to give the forum an air of 'activity'.

 

Read into that what you will.

 

As there isn't much activity the regular posters are more than happy to chip in with the usual comments when this kind of thread appears, so, mission accomplished, I guess.

 

The OP either disappears or comes back to swear he's legit.

 

These people need some new material, man!

[marko kok prong]

Is the op related to Swiss Tony,by any chance? Biggest load of nonsense i have read since whereustays sweating 45kg teacher posts.

[thaibeachlovers]

Not going to read the intervening 3 pages, but if we can assume the OP is genuine, my sympathies for one destined to join the club of expats been done out of their money and brains by some young Thai lovely. It's not a very exclusive club, and has loads of members.

I see the OP is thinking the bun is now in the oven, so game over. I suggest hiding as much money as possible, so when it's over the OP doesn't have to fly in Pattaya.

[Kasane]

Why, oh, why? You has a good thing going.

[Pravda]

Guys, do you ever wonder why your Western currencies are in the toilet?

 

Because for decades, Western old men like this guy have been cumming to Thailand and offering insane amounts of money to young women. Then they die and leave the rest - in Thailand.

 

I wish I was joking, but this is simple economy at work here.

 

 

[473geo]

On 6/12/2019 at 3:34 AM, CartagenaWarlock said:

She missed her period yesterday. How soon can she do a pregnancy test to confirm the pregnancy and when can we do a DNA test to confirm it is my baby. Any recommended place for fetus DNA test? She is now staying with me in Q condo, Sukumvit. Also, I want her to set up with a gynecologist at Bumrungrad hospital for regular check up if she is indeed pregnant

You are certainly full steam ahead, Any family/parents this young lady needs to bring into the loop?

[KC 71]

What happens if the baby has ginger hair !


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[CartagenaWarlock]

On 6/12/2019 at 2:34 AM, CartagenaWarlock said:

She missed her period yesterday. How soon can she do a pregnancy test to confirm the pregnancy and when can we do a DNA test to confirm it is my baby. Any recommended place for fetus DNA test? She is now staying with me in Q condo, Sukumvit. Also, I want her to set up with a gynecologist at Bumrungrad hospital for regular check up if she is indeed pregnant

Thanks for all your cynical comments. I'm still waiting for my some constructive comments with suggestions to my original questions that I re-quoted above. Also, I have a life,  I cannot come to the forum everyday to check it out.

 

On 6/13/2019 at 8:45 AM, 473geo said:

Any family/parents this young lady needs to bring into the loop?

She has a sister lives in Bangkok (Parents in Northern Thailand in the Sisaket province)
 

 

On 6/13/2019 at 7:55 AM, thaibeachlovers said:

I suggest hiding as much money as possible, so when it's over the OP doesn't have to fly in Pattaya.

It is pretty much hidden in half a dozen Antigua banks. She has only seen close to a million baht in one of my account. I once gave her my ATM card to withdraw 20K baht. 
 

 

On 6/12/2019 at 2:46 AM, KC 71 said:

There is a higher chance that the baby might have some problems due to your age

It is true but I'm still taking a chance. 

 

 

[KC 71]

Keep your eyes open [emoji106]


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[KC 71]

2 spoon fulls!


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[thaibeachlovers]

On ‎6‎/‎15‎/‎2019 at 11:02 AM, CartagenaWarlock said:

Thanks for all your cynical comments. I'm still waiting for my some constructive comments with suggestions to my original questions that I re-quoted above. Also, I have a life,  I cannot come to the forum everyday to check it out.

Sorry, but if you read a few of the threads about farangs getting taken to the cleaners by Thai girls you would understand why.

Of course you could be the lucky lottery winner, so good luck, and be careful out there.

[newatthis]

On 6/12/2019 at 10:02 AM, Lacessit said:

There's no guarantee their brains will go with them.

In this case, I certainly hope not.

[CartagenaWarlock]

14 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Sorry, but if you read a few of the threads about farangs getting taken to the cleaners by Thai girls you would understand why.

Of course you could be the lucky lottery winner, so good luck, and be careful out there.

Why only Thai girls? Girls throughout the World do the same thing? In the West they use the legal means of divorce and here they take it for a ride and dump you. That's OK if someone gives  advise abut how to protect from such disaster. But most of the comments are cynical which I ignored completely. My questions are still unanswered. To repeat 
a) How soon can I get a pregnancy test after the period stops.
b) Can a fetal DNA test be done to determine the father and how soon it must be done. As I have promised her that I will give her 300K BHT if she becomes pregnant. I want to honor that promise. She was almost with me three weeks prior to her period stops. So I most the baby is mine but I want to ascertain it. 
c) Any suggestions to prevent her aborting the baby after she gets the money? She promised me she would stay with me still the baby is born.
d) Any other medical advise?

 

I don't mind constructive criticism but I would ignore cynical comments

[RJRS1301]

11 hours ago, CartagenaWarlock said:

Why only Thai girls? Girls throughout the World do the same thing? In the West they use the legal means of divorce and here they take it for a ride and dump you. That's OK if someone gives  advise abut how to protect from such disaster. But most of the comments are cynical which I ignored completely. My questions are still unanswered. To repeat 
a) How soon can I get a pregnancy test after the period stops.
b) Can a fetal DNA test be done to determine the father and how soon it must be done. As I have promised her that I will give her 300K BHT if she becomes pregnant. I want to honor that promise. She was almost with me three weeks prior to her period stops. So I most the baby is mine but I want to ascertain it. 
c) Any suggestions to prevent her aborting the baby after she gets the money? She promised me she would stay with me still the baby is born.
d) Any other medical advise?

 

I don't mind constructive criticism but I would ignore cynical comments

Try speaking with Obs/Gynae qualified person about DNA testing or maybe a DNA site on Dr Google could give you some answers, or the doctor who confirms the positive result of pregnancy

Will you consulting a lawyer(child expert one) about your legal rights to any offspring, and is it in the child's best interests?

 

[CartagenaWarlock]

On 6/17/2019 at 1:00 AM, RJRS1301 said:

Will you consulting a lawyer(child expert one) about your legal rights to any offspring,

Can you please elaborate on this? What I need to do? If it is confirmed by DNA test that the baby is mine and in the birth certificate the mother says I am the father, are not these two evidences sufficient for me to register the baby as a US citizen with the embassy? If not what is the procedure. I want to register the baby, if mine confirmed by DNA test, as a foreign born to a US citizen. 

[CartagenaWarlock]

On 6/17/2019 at 1:00 AM, RJRS1301 said:

and is it in the child's best interests?

I also did not understand this sentence. What is the child's best interest? Why do I need consult a lawyer? 

[Enki]

On 5/25/2019 at 8:54 PM, KhaoYai said:

5k a pop, 10 Mill to have a kid? Got to be a wind up. Who in their right mind would want a kid at 58 years old? - the 'practice' yes, the result, no! How long do you think you're going to be around to look after that kid?

 

'and mostly interested in my money'..............not mostly, entirely! When you were 20, do you ever remember looking at 58 year old women and having 'strong sexual feelings' for them? Or for that matter, any feelings at all?

 

If this is not a wind up, and I really think it has to be, the only thing she has any feelings at all for are your wallet and bank account.

 

Please advise where I can buy whatever it is you've been smoking - I want some.

 

Wakey wakey!!!

In Asia "age is just a number" ... why do you rant if you don't even know that? I'm 52, and would not mind to get a child now. However my GF is 48 so likely not going to happen. 10Mill is ~40,000€ a normal price for a hired mother. 

Regarding being around: if I'm not getting hit by a truck I live another 40 years. My kid would then be out of university already.

[Enki]

On 6/12/2019 at 6:14 AM, RJRS1301 said:

Like the world is not already over populated?

 

Actually, she is not.

[emptypockets]

On 5/26/2019 at 7:11 AM, spidermike007 said:

The biggest part of the problem here, is the extreme emasculation that is taking place in the West. Most men, in the US, Europe, and Oz, are no longer real men, when it comes to dealing with their women. Their women have made their lives so difficult, and alot of women have gotten so far away from their innate femininity, and have become dominant, and super controlling, and men just go along with it. Most men have become so hungry for love, or emotionally desperate for some kindness, and TLC. And most are so desirous of being around a real woman, who knows how to act like a woman, and manifest the dignity, within femininity. So, it is easy for the con artists, like this worm Jariyaporn, to take advantage of emotionally wounded men, who seem to be willing to do anything to regain a semblance of normality in their lives, with a decent woman. 

 

 Always remember, if it is good, it is only going to get better. If there are problems, or The bottom line is this. Take your time getting to know a woman here, or anywhere. Time is your ally. It is rarely their ally. They are usually trying to step up the timetable. We need to push back. We need to assert control. An environment like this allows us to do so. Take advantage of that. Be a man. Step up. Pay tribute to the gender. Refuse to lay down anymore. Refuse to be a doormat. Refuse to check your cajones at the door. Start making the decisions, and stop saying "What will make you happy?" I have so many friends, who come here, and from the very start, make the same mistakes they made back in the West. Except here, they do not need to make those mistakes. The environment does not dictate that they behave like lambs. Many do not know, or realize that, or they succumb to "force of habit". Every ship needs a captain. If the man is not willing to be the captain of the ship, the woman will take over, here in Thailand. Most women here seem to want a strong man. But, if they end up with a wimp, they will take if she is a big baby, who only looks like a real woman, but in reality is a 13 year old, or if she is a con artist, if she is only in it for the money, those realizations will manifest themselves over time. Time allows clarity. Never, ever move too quickly. That is the undoing of most of these guys. Be like Bond. be a real man. Man up. Do yourself proud. 

 

Lastly, before doing anything drastic like having a child with this woman, hire a private detective, to look into her background. If she has been working girl for more than a year, forget about it. She would be wounded emotionally, and more than likely bitter toward men. You are tying yourself to her for life, by having a child with her. And she already knows you have real money. Sorry, but the ATM stunt was a huge mistake. Allowing her to see your balance was a big no no. You need to exercise some care. No need to be such an open book. 

The cut and copy king is back. What would Bond do??

[CartagenaWarlock]

It is confirmed. She is pregnant. But I have to wait for fetus DNA test. Doctors in Banglamung suggest to wait at least 10 weeks. She stays with me now in Q condo. I give her 30K/month and a credit card with 20K limit, unlimited medical check up at Banglamung. If the paternity is confirmed I told her I would immediately transfer 100K to her, after the child is born,another 200K. She will get a house, car, and an allowance of 30K/month for her entire life. I wll be the child's father in the birth certificate and the child will take my last name. 

Edited July 30, 2019 by CartagenaWarlock

[PeterNescio]

Kind of curious. What is the situation now?

[UbonThani]

On 7/31/2019 at 6:34 AM, CartagenaWarlock said:

It is confirmed. She is pregnant. But I have to wait for fetus DNA test. Doctors in Banglamung suggest to wait at least 10 weeks. She stays with me now in Q condo. I give her 30K/month and a credit card with 20K limit, unlimited medical check up at Banglamung. If the paternity is confirmed I told her I would immediately transfer 100K to her, after the child is born,another 200K. She will get a house, car, and an allowance of 30K/month for her entire life. I wll be the child's father in the birth certificate and the child will take my last name. 

Why? Give her 100,000 and move on or go live with her.