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52 minutes ago, essox essox said:

these do NOT work well.....have tried many times can still hear the noise which one is trying to erradicate

Yes they don’t work.

I have expensive ear plugs and Bose noise cancelling headphones in use together.

can still hear the racket.

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9 minutes ago, guru said:


The 5 day noisy funeral party, gambling and chanting monks can happen at the family home of the deceased which may be nowhere near a temple.

But more likely at a temple. Best not to live too close.

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Get some of your favorite music in your phone, get a Bluetooth earphone/ear buds and your all sorted. ????

It's a way of life here, you won't change it, so you need to adapt, that's all there is to it.

 

Change your attitude toward it, as nothing else can be changed.

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But more likely at a temple. Best not to live too close.

I can only speak from my wife’s village where every funeral I’ve attended over the years has been held in a family home with food, music, gambling and chanting monks over a number of days with the body then being transported from the home for cremation at the local temple. Those funerals I attended in Bangkok were just one day at a temple for the cremation.
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30 minutes ago, fishtank said:

What gets me is if you are ever unfortunate enough to find yourself at one of these events they always give you a chair next to the speakers as though it is an honour to have your hearing damaged.

That's perhaps only because nobody else wants to sit there. And nobody will hear the noise that's coming out of your mouth.....????

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Five days seems a bit long.  Funerals in our neck of the fields go on for two or three, depending on who snuffed it.  They start with a day of the standard funeral tune (as in the YouTube link), which is not bass heavy, and easy to drown / filter out, while the body lies in an open coffin.  They don't want that to go on for too long in the heat.  Then the monks chant and the coffin is transferred to a refrigerated outer casing, and then there will be a night of loud music, though, again in our neck of the fields, this only goes on till around 22:00 if it's an old person who's died.  Next day is the procession to the wat, and usually more music that night.  After that, it's all over, unless the deceased was a young guy, in which case his buddies may want to continue partying for another day or two, or it was someone 'important", so they go on a bit longer to show how "important" he was.

 

Weddings are another story...

 

In my younger days, a friend and I would actually seek out parties and go along to strut our stuff on the dance floor.  I remember one night, me riding my old dirt bike, him on the back, crossing the fields because we could faintly hear some music from a distant village that neither of us had ever been to before.   The look of delight on the party goer's faces as two young farang guys crashed their party and joined in the fun was priceless, and really makes me appreciate the joy that most Thais have in life.  Now, unfortunately, as I grow older, I hide in my house.  I have speakers and a sub-woofer beside my bed, and there are some very good free white noise apps on the Google Play Store, which do a good job of drowning the music out, without actually having to be too loud.  If the party is closer to home, and shakes the house, then I'll make a tactical retreat to a local hotel or resort for a night or two, or turn it into an excuse to go a bit further on my motorbike for a few days.

 

I don't know what they used to do in the distant past, but I've been visiting the village I now live in since before it had electricity, and back then they used to have a truck with generator and speakers come in to provide the noise.  You must remember, for many people in villages and small towns, these events are the only time they can blow off some steam, much as my friend and I used to do in the good old days.

 

 

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1 hour ago, VocalNeal said:

But more likely at a temple. Best not to live too close.

BUT it's not a temple is it... read the OP again!  Also Thai funerals are more often held at family homes... and weddings always are.. same as other parties... not at a temple. 

1 hour ago, guru said:


I can only speak from my wife’s village where every funeral I’ve attended over the years has been held in a family home with food, music, gambling and chanting monks over a number of days with the body then being transported from the home for cremation at the local temple. Those funerals I attended in Bangkok were just one day at a temple for the cremation.

Same here.  Funerals are usually only at a temple if the family is too poor or did not have enough resources to hold it at their own home.

46 minutes ago, thasoss said:

In the main thais are not affected by noise like westerners,it doesn't bother them like it does us.

You just have to put up with it,or get out of dodge.

This is still a battle for me.  I have super sensitive hearing and so you can imagine that loud music (particularly base) drives me mad.  Base can also still be felt / heard through sound blocking headphones and ear plugs.  

 

For me I can put up with it if it was for a reasonable time.  But here in Thailand once the noise starts up its usually not just a one off evening party... it can go on for days, day and night, morning and evening.. and randomly going off (so I thin it all over and feel relived) and then starting back up again.  After midnight its usually quite or soon stops, but then there are the drunk people shouting and arguing, talking and knocking over things, or revving their motor bikes and cars up.  

 

Even one party is over its just as likely someone else in the street will then start their own, or the village will have a festival or something.  It really is the one thing that could make me leave here.

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