Popular Post mokwit Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 It's like living with a Leopard - you just don't know if something is going to trigger a reversion to wild behaviour. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
overherebc Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 3 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: Let me guess, you had to apologize and promise her you will never do it again (whatever it was in her mind). And then, maybe after a nice present, she will forgive you. But obviously she will keep your bad behavior in mind and will mention it often in the future. One of the reasons so many women are good at archeology, they are so good at digging up the past. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post toofarnorth Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 Just now, BritManToo said: I don't believe I've ever had sex with a woman that didn't clearly have mental problems. Sometimes they waited until after the sex to display their mental issues, sometimes they were clear from the start. But what I did learn was never to play their game. If a woman in Thailand had behaved like the OP describes, I would have just carried on to the beach resort and found another women to put in my bed for the week. Probably not as easy to do that in the USA though. When you see the size of some of those Florida monsters as an example , a very strong bed frame would be needed. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j.a.farang001 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 3 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: Let me guess, you had to apologize and promise her you will never do it again (whatever it was in her mind). And then, maybe after a nice present, she will forgive you. But obviously she will keep your bad behavior in mind and will mention it often in the future. We got to the crux of what triggered her, which was my apparent dismissal of a request to check my spam folder for a possible email from Korean Air. My lack of timely "jumping right on it" when she asked me was interpreted as "I don't give a flat damn about her wants and needs." Nothing could be further from the truth. I was intently focused on the 15-hour drive on the wrong side of the road, not my spam folder. And then we <deleted>. For hours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clivebaxter Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 14 hours ago, Kwasaki said: I've been married to my Thai wife for 18 years now and I have no idea what your talking about. I do, mines is the same and so were all l the others I knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rumak Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) 13 hours ago, mistral53 said: My Thai wife of 25 years always remarks that we know only one side of the story if we hear of drama like this - your wife should be invited to tell her side. ACTUALLY............... that does make a lot of sense. Because I when I hear/read a post like the OPs I can hardly believe its even true. BUT, then again I see many Farang/Thai relationships where I can't see why in the world the thai girl is with the Farang guy . ( i have a pretty darn good idea though) And then , yes, many times I see the woman do , say, or act a certain way and I think " no way I would put up with that" . Rumak . No BS allowed in my relationships, sorry. And for any of you that laugh, yes.... I am on number 8 now. Sometimes you have to keep digging and trying till you hit the real gold mine. AH, why do so many settle for fools gold ? Maybe all they can dig up ? Edit: I guess I should say this is just my life. Certainly the OP or anyone else can do it their way Edited August 14, 2021 by rumak 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post overherebc Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 When they are very young and start a hissy/screaming fit to get what they want in most cases they are given it just to shut them up. It becomes a way of life. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rumak Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 1 hour ago, BritManToo said: But what I did learn was never to play their game. If a woman in Thailand had behaved like the OP describes, I would have just carried on to the beach resort and found another women I believe you. Seems like many here are either real p******s or just willing to go with " most of the time she is wonderful" . If that was the case with me.... I would only see her when she was being wonderful ???? saying "what i did learn" is the point here. I also had to "learn". Then have the gonads to choose being respected over being manipulated 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rumak Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 21 minutes ago, overherebc said: One of the reasons so many women are good at archeology, they are so good at digging up the past. they are also good at math. give them an inch and they think they're a ruler 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post roo860 Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 14 hours ago, Dale59 said: Don’t worry. Nothing is in her name. All properties are in my Trust and she always signs a disclaimer deed waiving any rights. We don’t even have joint bank accounts. do you have any firearms? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Smithson Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) My guess is it was planned. It's just to convenient, argument over tiny matter, straight out of the car and off to a friend's house and needs to stay there for a few days, because of what exactly? Certainly a successful strategy if after all of she is rewarded with a gift. I sympathize, with the US being tops for obesity, options are very limited. Not so sure she would be willing to jump out of the car if you were headed for a few days in Pattaya. How is the tantrum funded? Who pays for the couple of days away? Edited August 14, 2021 by Smithson 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Mavideol Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 only a desperate guy would put up with so much shxx ..... good luck 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) 39 minutes ago, j.a.farang001 said: "I don't give a flat damn about her wants and needs." Nothing could be further from the truth. I was intently focused on the 15-hour drive on the wrong side of the road, not my spam folder. This is of course the correct way to treat all women. Not giving a flat damn about their wants and needs is the way to go. No woman wants a man whose balls she carries in her purse. Edited August 14, 2021 by BritManToo 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 3 minutes ago, BritManToo said: This is of course the correct way to treat all women. Not giving a flat damn about their wants and needs is the way to go. No woman wants a man whose balls she carries in her purse. Treat em mean hey 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: Treat em mean hey Treat them as if they're instantly replaceable with a younger and prettier girl is more like it. I've learned to be a man going my own way. Can't say I've ever been mean to anyone, man, woman or hot ladyboy! Edited August 14, 2021 by BritManToo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 1 minute ago, BritManToo said: Treat them as if they're instantly replaceable with a younger and prettier girl is more like it. Can't say I've ever been mean to anyone, man, woman or hot ladyboy! I cant. Lose too much $$ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kinnock Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 I'm delighted to report that "mine is different". I get the silent treatment sometimes, but it doesn't bother me one jot, so she gives up. And no matter what dumb-ass thing I've done to annoy her, she still feeds me, and even if the food is served in silence, it still tastes great. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazzdog32095 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 4 hours ago, Nojohndoe said: Been there, done that with Brazilian wife ! Definition of "bat crazy " ! By comparison Thai wife just gets a bit "excited" at very rare moments. Yes, My Thai gf is ok until that 6th Leo then she goes ballistic over my Bahian gf. One would assume having two gf 17000km apart might reduce fraction. WRONG 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post SportRider Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 The basic misconception of this post is that the behavior noted is due to the subject being Thai. Wrong. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BoganInParasite Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 Man up and get rid of her. Your sound like a doormat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wmlc Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) The way you told the story is you just mentioned you had been there before looking at houses. I doubt that’s all you said. You must have brought up the fact that you lost the deposit and spoke about a lot more specifics. Just mentioning you were in that area before looking at houses would not have created that reaction from her. The fact that you changed the story and posted it here just shows me you don’t respect her and you post on a forum in a country you don’t even live in now to get moral support for something that was obviously your fault. It was water under the bridge and you should have known it would be a sensitive topic. Sorry but you are the one in the wrong with all due respect. You had forgiven her already right ? Edited August 14, 2021 by wmlc 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilly07 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 13 hours ago, it is what it is said: OP seems to imply that such behaviour is normal, or to be expected, from a thai lady. in my (extensive) experience this could not be further from the truth. i have never experienced such behavior from a thai lady, i have never seen or heard about friend having similar experience, i have many thai females as friends, and again, have never witnessed any behaviour remotely comparable to that described. personaly i wouldn't stand for it. Are you sure your female aquaintences are actually Thai? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sipi Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 My farang wife was a complete and proper nutcase. This Thai one doesn't even cast a shadow against her. 2 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Brick Top Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 Well I had one more or less the same as what you described , and you seem placid enough to handle it all better than me . I think the final straw came for me when we planned a nice slow drive from Phuket to Chiang Mai last year. The first day was fine stopping at Chumphon , the next day we arrived in Prachuap Kilikahn lovely place. Everything was great until she went into one and walked off and left me . When I got back to the hotel 3 hours after she had locked the door , when she opened it and let me in she decided to pack her things and walked out the hotel at 1 am. So I went to bed and next morning she was nowhere to be seen. So I called her at midday and she told me she was on her way to Chiang Mai on a bus. That was enough for me , 12 years together and I put these crazy outbursts down to the menopause as she was 53 st the time. She has since then sent me 18 different Line messages but I have never opened or read them. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Monday Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 Once I would when younger but I will not tolerate this type of irrational infantile behavior. Learned a hard lesson, just divorce her it will only get worse. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carbon007 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 Just to be sure that you have considered HCP - High-Conflict People disorder? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-wwXhbwfrA&list=PLl7EwPgcVSbOHUUZZmMvysDD-2PtwG22d&index=7&t=48s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post zhounan Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 Man, that's not a question of nationality, culture, religion. It's a question of being a woman. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Sparktrader Posted August 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 14, 2021 1 hour ago, Mavideol said: only a desperate guy would put up with so much shxx ..... good luck Have u seen the farangs in Thailand? 555 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 1 minute ago, zhounan said: Man, that's not a question of nationality, culture, religion. It's a question of being a woman. Mind changes every 5 minutes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clivebaxter Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 1 hour ago, BritManToo said: Treat them as if they're instantly replaceable with a younger and prettier girl is more like it. I've learned to be a man going my own way. Can't say I've ever been mean to anyone, man, woman or hot ladyboy! what about young stepdaughters? there is a mention of it on another forum ! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now